Hey everyone, we're looking at giving cjs a try on 12th May. Is anybody planning on going that wouldn't mind chatting beforehand? I (female) am pretty shy and find it difficult to approach people in the club.
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"Hey everyone, we're looking at giving cjs a try on 12th May. Is anybody planning on going that wouldn't mind chatting beforehand? I (female) am pretty shy and find it difficult to approach people in the club.
Thanks all x"
Hey, we're booked in for the 12th  |
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"Hey everyone, we're looking at giving cjs a try on 12th May. Is anybody planning on going that wouldn't mind chatting beforehand? I (female) am pretty shy and find it difficult to approach people in the club.
Thanks all x"
We are hoping to be there. Feel free to message us. We are both quite shy too, but we have been a few times now. |
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We know what you mean, we can never make the pre-drinks and we're both very shy and find it difficult too, and we've been to the couples nights a few times. |
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"Looking go go with a female friend. However have my doubts about whether we would fit in. I'm in my early 60s.
Any advice would be welcome."
You'll have no problems, we've noticed all shapes, sizes and ages there, which is good as we're not that young either! |
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I won't be there but nerves are perfectly natural but vast majority of new attendees find they settle quickly.
Your mind can paint a much more daunting picture than reality is. Guests for vast part are friendly and approachable so shouldn't be difficult to mingle with people, just need be open to it.
Shyness is understandable but same time night will be what you make off it so don't let it dictate, say hi to some people or very least have open body language so someone comes says hi to you and I'm share all you new goers will have a great night |
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"Hi! We're booked in for that night & are quite happy to chat.
Will be our first time attending, so eager to get any tips & maybw chat to folks or do pre-drinks first to ease nerves!
Dahlia x"
We were regulars pre Covid, thinking of making our return on the 12th so feel free to get in touch and we’ll share our experiences, maybe even over a pre drink… |
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"Hey everyone, we're looking at giving cjs a try on 12th May. Is anybody planning on going that wouldn't mind chatting beforehand? I (female) am pretty shy and find it difficult to approach people in the club.
Thanks all x"
We might be there. Been wanting to try couples night. Ps. Just be how u were with us at AD. Very sociable and were lovely to speak to x |
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We're really looking forward to Friday.
Thank you to the couples we've met in this thread that we're chatting to and have given us advice, you know who you are
You've really helped make our first time less stressful and we can't wait to meet you face to face  |
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Getting super excited to see all you lovely folks there!
We've been mobbed with messages (trying to arrange something for a different night too), but if anyone wants to say hello & chat before Friday feel free! 
Dahlia Xx |
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"Hubby and I looking to go tonight for the first time in very long time x
Feeling a little nervous x
Dee x"
I am sure you will be fine, and fall right back into the groove ( or bed )
I am going with a friend and its her 1st visit to a club, she wanted to see what its like in person.
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"We’re planning to attend the 12th too. With a single female friend  "
Childcare has fallen through for us, but male half will still be attending with our friend |
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