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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

As a relative newb with only a cpl o meets under my belt i`m wonderin if anyone else got/has 1st meet nerves??

as anyone else i`m liable to be offered a meet with with be a 1st meet for me.

Have yours gone away or do u still get them??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

i think the nerves is the best bit lol well not nerves,,more butterflys lol.

for us we tend to chat some before meeting up with anyone so we know by the meet that we will get on but the nerves still come lol.

relax zed and enjoy lol

auds xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Definitely part of the buzz which is the highest just before you knock on the door or you hear it on yours.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Always part of the buzz - until first moves, and bits of clothes come of and bits of body becoming visible

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

yea zed un the same situation m8ty have had meet offers but my nerves tell me t decline the offer then i regret it but got a fabby meet coming up v soon cant wait but v nervose lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Recognisable pattern with my nerves, first few years, bag o nerves days before meet, then few years on, nerves the day before, now got it down to a fine art of "ohh my god, knockin on the house/hotel door and screaming in your head what am i doing,lol, then ahhh, they are'nt as judgemental, or as nerve wrackingly diffrent from me who wants sexy fun as they do too,cool"

And fun soon occurs, T xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

my humble opinion - I think v few people don't suffer from nerves on some level.

think it depends on the person as to how nervous they are, I would think mayb the more confident in ur self the less nervous u r.

I also think at end of day knowing who u r n what makes u nervous then means u can find ways to deal with the nerves that bests suits u as an individual....

don't think they ever really go away or stop for first meets u just find a way o dealing with them over time.

good luck huni xxx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Nerves.....im terrified of going to the social lol.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Socials are great, give it 5 mins you be fine.

T

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

nerves are all part of the fun !! got to love the anticapation !! tho think im getting a bit better now ??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

think thats what makes swinging ace, we always get the butterflys. the anticipation of meeting new people and wondering if we all get along.

so far so good x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

love the nerves and excitment just before a meet, if i didnt have either then i'd worry xx

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