Hey what does a guy need to do just to get some chat nevermind a meet lol. Don't get me wrong I'm pretty hopeless with the initial chat yes I'm one of the hey how are you type of people lol but can't help it
But when it comes to meets I've even offerd to buy the coffees from starbucks aswell lol xx |
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Imagine you're a shop. Your initial message is your shop window. If it's not eye-catching or appealing, the person won't want to venture inside to have a look at your goods (profile)
Plus I always find an initial dick pic does wonders.  |
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From the woman’s point of view, if their messages are open to men almost every single one will have a full stop as a title and then start with some variation of hello/hi/hey. Maybe a totally of five works. A x at the end.
I’m not sure how offering to buy their time with Starbucks comes across either. |
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"From the woman’s point of view, if their messages are open to men almost every single one will have a full stop as a title and then start with some variation of hello/hi/hey. Maybe a totally of five works. A x at the end.
I’m not sure how offering to buy their time with Starbucks comes across either. "
The coffee is just being a kind gesture that's all it's the same as if i was to go out for a alcoholic drink with them I'd also buy it nothing about buying time |
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A lot of people are fed up with the online chat. I am anyway. Feels like groundhog day, going over similar conversations over and over again.
Have you considered going to a social event or swingers club? Meeting people in real life is way better x
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"A lot of people are fed up with the online chat. I am anyway. Feels like groundhog day, going over similar conversations over and over again.
Have you considered going to a social event or swingers club? Meeting people in real life is way better x
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Yes to this. I've got a few unreads in my inbox, and the reason is I'd rather just meet at a club and get to know you F2F... If someone said to me "Hi Michaela, just to let you know I'll be at After Dark/CJs on Saturday. Are you heading down?" I'd be like OMG so refreshing! 9/10 messages just say "hi how's you?". |
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"A lot of people are fed up with the online chat. I am anyway. Feels like groundhog day, going over similar conversations over and over again.
Have you considered going to a social event or swingers club? Meeting people in real life is way better x
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I have never seen the attraction of online chat. A tidal wave of inanity.
Socials are the way ahead, although some can be too big and too busy so that interesting people like you are swamped. |
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"Hey what does a guy need to do just to get some chat nevermind a meet lol. Don't get me wrong I'm pretty hopeless with the initial chat yes I'm one of the hey how are you type of people lol but can't help it
But when it comes to meets I've even offerd to buy the coffees from starbucks aswell lol xx"
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Upgrade the Starbucks™ to a quaint vintage tea room and you will find your utopia soon enough. |
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Hahahaha thanks everyone some good ideas there was me thinking everyone liked a starbucks lol.
All honesty thanks I'm going to try attend a club afternoon or night work depending which will probably be on my own which is fine although I did read another person's post about being bit scared of goin on they're own and someone suggested of goin for the pre drinks 1st which is a great idea but i will definitely do.
But if any of you lot would like to sample some of my chat or even fancy a wee afternoon social meet give me a shout.
Can go for the bob standard cafe to anywhere lol  .
Thanks again everyone xx |
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