"Interested in coming along, wondering if it's going to be a busy one x"
Not sure, it’s always hard to know from here’s as not everyone posts on the forums. From experience because it’s been pay week, it usually is but wether it’s busy or not it’s always a good night 
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I will be there!
So even if it is a BIT quiet, you will have to spend at least an hour trying to figure out how to avoid LA DELUXE or endure the same conversation about Babylon 5 AGAIN Muahahaha!
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The arrogant hoodie and cap chavs (who should never have been allowed in and who don't know the universal rule in clubs that No means No) spoiled it for us.
I hope the twat who was the perpetrator got lifted by the police and got put back to jail again (they arrived just as we left). |
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"The arrogant hoodie and cap chavs (who should never have been allowed in and who don't know the universal rule in clubs that No means No) spoiled it for us.
I hope the twat who was the perpetrator got lifted by the police and got put back to jail again (they arrived just as we left). "
You're kidding!!
When was this....Friday?
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"The arrogant hoodie and cap chavs (who should never have been allowed in and who don't know the universal rule in clubs that No means No) spoiled it for us.
I hope the twat who was the perpetrator got lifted by the police and got put back to jail again (they arrived just as we left). "
I’m sure he was, staff and regulars are normally pretty quick to step in if anyones being too pushy or aggressive, I hope it hasn’t put you off as incidents like this are very rare, I wasn’t there last night so don’t know what unfolded but but Cjs is by far one of the clubs I’ve felt the safest going to as a single female and I’ve been to a few here in the uk, gran can and Benidorm xx |
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" I’m sure he was, staff and regulars are normally pretty quick to step in if anyones being too pushy or aggressive, I hope it hasn’t put you off as incidents like this are very rare, I wasn’t there last night so don’t know what unfolded but but Cjs is by far one of the clubs I’ve felt the safest going to as a single female and I’ve been to a few here in the uk, gran can and Benidorm xx "
We are unlikely to be back at a Fun for All night at Cj's as the majority of singles males couldn't be bothered to follow the club. rules for dress code. Hoodies, caps and football tops is not smart casual for us. There is a time and place for these and it's not a Saturday night at a classy swingers party.
This particular twat thought he could get away with doing what he wanted to whomever he wanted as he 'knew the owner' and 'never pays to get in'. When he tried to join in play, and he was told no more than once, he became abusive and derogatory.
Yes, staff intervened and ejected him, but by that point it had gotten out of hand. Next we heard that a fight had started outside abdthe police were called. We left just after they arrived.
It does only take the behaviour of one to spoil anyones experience of anything, but at a private party where there are clear rules to be followed but these are being breached on several instances (by more than one) doesn't bode well for anyone to feel safe.
A polite reminder of club rules to any single males on entering the club wouldn't go amiss. No means No... |
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By *inkyCJWoman
over a year ago
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Thank you for your comments but would like to reply to a few points you have made without this getting out of hand.
As everyone knows if I or staff are made aware of any problems on the night then it is dealt with immediately.
There was a couple of guests on Saturday that were reminded of the dress code for future, but this is not normally a big problem for us.
There is no guest or guests that come along who are friends of the owner who therefore do not pay and can get away with anything. That is not the case.
The guests involved in this disturbance were asked to leave, removed from the premises where yes they had another go at each other outside but again this was dealt with immediately and everyone went their separate ways and left.
Various members of staff and myself waited outside until they had left and at no point were police called or even turned up at the premises.
I do apologise that you did not enjoy your experience on Saturday night and hope you can give it another try.
Cj xx
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Wasn't there this weekend so have nothing to say in regard to the incidents. However i agree that attire at a club is very important. For me dress code at any club should be fairly strict. Nothing ridiculous or extreme. Just making sure caps, football shirts, shorts at night etc are not worn. Smart casual should not include scruffy.
I do know anytime iv been the staff have been great and always acted professionally and dealt with any incident quickly that they needed to. |
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"Thank you for your comments but would like to reply to a few points you have made without this getting out of hand.
As everyone knows if I or staff are made aware of any problems on the night then it is dealt with immediately.
There was a couple of guests on Saturday that were reminded of the dress code for future, but this is not normally a big problem for us.
There is no guest or guests that come along who are friends of the owner who therefore do not pay and can get away with anything. That is not the case.
The guests involved in this disturbance were asked to leave, removed from the premises where yes they had another go at each other outside but again this was dealt with immediately and everyone went their separate ways and left.
Various members of staff and myself waited outside until they had left and at no point were police called or even turned up at the premises.
I do apologise that you did not enjoy your experience on Saturday night and hope you can give it another try.
Cj xx
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Thanks for your reply Cj, your attention is much appreciated.
We absolutely agree that you and your team acted swiftly and it was unfortunate that you were also subjected to abuse by the perpetrator.
I'd challenge the dress code reminder for the future point, as thst implies that it's happened before. I'd rather you'd have said, were told for the future, not reminded.
The perpetrator did showboat with derogatory boasts in more ways than one, so we accept that he was in no way associated with you personally, and can concur that you were decisive in your actions to evict the perpetrator and without remorse.
The scuffle outside after he was evicted did result in the Police showing up as they pulled up behind our taxi as we left. They may not have entered the carpark as most of the single males had dispersed by this time but either way they will have recorded an attendance.
You have our pm and from our suggestions hopefully some improvements can be made as we'd love to come back for another visit. Cj's is a superb venue and maybe this was an isolated case (we have our doubts.. ) but if you can eradicate the Chav element and promote some education as to what swinger club rules are for single men, then this would go a long way to making Cj's the best club for all alike.
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