"Do other couples find it just as frustrating as us, trying to find a female for FFM FMF fun?
TIA
L xx"
better chances of winning the lottery if I am honest!!
But, Probably more chance of finding a coruptable somebody in the local super market..  |
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Well I know a single female who loves playing with couples and many a Saturday night she’s all dolled up with babysitter sorted for kiddo and then she gets let down at the last minute, it seems to be a regular occurrence so it’s more likely that meeting at a club is the preferred place to meet new couples for her or she plays with trusted ones she’s met before
And I know she’s not alone in this |
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May have better change meeting in a club? It’s not something we have ever been looking or interested in for but have spoken lots of single ladies when out in a club. Good luck |
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By *hoswho OP Couple
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"May have better change meeting in a club? It’s not something we have ever been looking or interested in for but have spoken lots of single ladies when out in a club. Good luck "
Thanks x |
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By *hoswho OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Well I know a single female who loves playing with couples and many a Saturday night she’s all dolled up with babysitter sorted for kiddo and then she gets let down at the last minute, it seems to be a regular occurrence so it’s more likely that meeting at a club is the preferred place to meet new couples for her or she plays with trusted ones she’s met before
And I know she’s not alone in this "
We have never cancelled on anyone if we plan a meet xx |
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There are alot of single women out there that play with couples.
I have talked to a hell lot of couples in past who stop speaking to me for one reason or another and then complain they can't find women lol
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From the single woman’s profile side, excluding the hellscape that is men, a lot of couples that message are clearly doing a low effort message everyone with the same text. Then if you do engage with them, it very much feels like you’re only ever talking to the male half, if there ever is a female half.
We do wonder how many couple profiles are still live when perhaps the couple aren’t anymore. |
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"From the single woman’s profile side, excluding the hellscape that is men, a lot of couples that message are clearly doing a low effort message everyone with the same text. Then if you do engage with them, it very much feels like you’re only ever talking to the male half, if there ever is a female half.
We do wonder how many couple profiles are still live when perhaps the couple aren’t anymore. "
This  |
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Just want to make two things clear…
1. Not that the couples are no longer alive having been killed in some horrendous double murder. Just that the two people in said couple are no longer together.
2. I’m not accusing OP of sending low effort copy and paste messages, but because it happens so much, some messages can be construed as such. |
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I'd meet a couple..but Don't want them.at my house and most live miles away .
Also needs to be a married couple cause find that people that are a play together ,,fwb couple don't give the same respect as ljveing together couples |
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"I'd meet a couple..but Don't want them.at my house and most live miles away .
Also needs to be a married couple cause find that people that are a play together ,,fwb couple don't give the same respect as ljveing together couples "
Absolutely agree, I played with fwb couple in the past and it was a nightmare.
Much prefer long term/married couples who know and understand each other and exactly where I'd fit into the play |
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"I'd meet a couple..but Don't want them.at my house and most live miles away .
Also needs to be a married couple cause find that people that are a play together ,,fwb couple don't give the same respect as ljveing together couples "
Just an observation - we don't live together purely because we both have kids from previous relationships and it suits have having our own space. It doesn't mean we are any less committed to each other though. But I totally understand where you are coming from
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"We have different dynamic, want to play with a couple but only me, (Mrs) would play but would have cuck in attendance so not sure this is same thing  "
"In attendance" being the important thing here...he needs to be reminded of his place haha
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"I'd meet a couple..but Don't want them.at my house and most live miles away .
Also needs to be a married couple cause find that people that are a play together ,,fwb couple don't give the same respect as ljveing together couples
Absolutely agree, I played with fwb couple in the past and it was a nightmare.
Much prefer long term/married couples who know and understand each other and exactly where I'd fit into the play"
I wish we lived closer to meet for a coffee
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"I'd meet a couple..but Don't want them.at my house and most live miles away .
Also needs to be a married couple cause find that people that are a play together ,,fwb couple don't give the same respect as ljveing together couples
Absolutely agree, I played with fwb couple in the past and it was a nightmare.
Much prefer long term/married couples who know and understand each other and exactly where I'd fit into the play
I wish we lived closer to meet for a coffee
Mrs "
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As a unicorn I can honestly say that it's not easy.
Women get jealous men get jealous. I've been asked to leave my own hotel room by a lady who got her fun then got the hump because he still wanted to play. I've turned up and only a single man there. I've been treated like absolutely scum by some couples. Couples who are trying to fix things by adding an extra.
Don't get me wrong I have met some absolutely great people out there (you know who you are  ) but its tiring. Its depressing at times. Again to be honest, I get it from the single males too boundaries being crosses and disrespected (you certainly know who you are)
We are out there but aren't always treated well. |
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"As a unicorn I can honestly say that it's not easy.
Women get jealous men get jealous. I've been asked to leave my own hotel room by a lady who got her fun then got the hump because he still wanted to play. I've turned up and only a single man there. I've been treated like absolutely scum by some couples. Couples who are trying to fix things by adding an extra.
Don't get me wrong I have met some absolutely great people out there (you know who you are ) but its tiring. Its depressing at times. Again to be honest, I get it from the single males too boundaries being crosses and disrespected (you certainly know who you are)
We are out there but aren't always treated well."
Thats bloody auful you’ve been treated like that! You’re a person not a play toy.
I always treat the men I meet with respect and hope they get just as much enjoyment out of as I do.
Glad it’s not put you off though. |
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"As a unicorn I can honestly say that it's not easy.
Women get jealous men get jealous. I've been asked to leave my own hotel room by a lady who got her fun then got the hump because he still wanted to play. I've turned up and only a single man there. I've been treated like absolutely scum by some couples. Couples who are trying to fix things by adding an extra.
Don't get me wrong I have met some absolutely great people out there (you know who you are ) but its tiring. Its depressing at times. Again to be honest, I get it from the single males too boundaries being crosses and disrespected (you certainly know who you are)
We are out there but aren't always treated well.
Thats bloody auful you’ve been treated like that! You’re a person not a play toy.
I always treat the men I meet with respect and hope they get just as much enjoyment out of as I do.
Glad it’s not put you off though. "
I think id rather be treated like a toy....at least toys get looked after lol. |
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"As a unicorn I can honestly say that it's not easy.
Women get jealous men get jealous. I've been asked to leave my own hotel room by a lady who got her fun then got the hump because he still wanted to play. I've turned up and only a single man there. I've been treated like absolutely scum by some couples. Couples who are trying to fix things by adding an extra.
Don't get me wrong I have met some absolutely great people out there (you know who you are ) but its tiring. Its depressing at times. Again to be honest, I get it from the single males too boundaries being crosses and disrespected (you certainly know who you are)
We are out there but aren't always treated well.
Thats bloody auful you’ve been treated like that! You’re a person not a play toy.
I always treat the men I meet with respect and hope they get just as much enjoyment out of as I do.
Glad it’s not put you off though.
I think id rather be treated like a toy....at least toys get looked after lol. "
And then hopefully they wash you after and don’t send you home dirty |
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"As a unicorn I can honestly say that it's not easy.
Women get jealous men get jealous. I've been asked to leave my own hotel room by a lady who got her fun then got the hump because he still wanted to play. I've turned up and only a single man there. I've been treated like absolutely scum by some couples. Couples who are trying to fix things by adding an extra.
Don't get me wrong I have met some absolutely great people out there (you know who you are ) but its tiring. Its depressing at times. Again to be honest, I get it from the single males too boundaries being crosses and disrespected (you certainly know who you are)
We are out there but aren't always treated well.
Thats bloody auful you’ve been treated like that! You’re a person not a play toy.
I always treat the men I meet with respect and hope they get just as much enjoyment out of as I do.
Glad it’s not put you off though.
I think id rather be treated like a toy....at least toys get looked after lol. "
And what a great toy |
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"As a unicorn I can honestly say that it's not easy.
Women get jealous men get jealous. I've been asked to leave my own hotel room by a lady who got her fun then got the hump because he still wanted to play. I've turned up and only a single man there. I've been treated like absolutely scum by some couples. Couples who are trying to fix things by adding an extra.
Don't get me wrong I have met some absolutely great people out there (you know who you are ) but its tiring. Its depressing at times. Again to be honest, I get it from the single males too boundaries being crosses and disrespected (you certainly know who you are)
We are out there but aren't always treated well.
Thats bloody auful you’ve been treated like that! You’re a person not a play toy.
I always treat the men I meet with respect and hope they get just as much enjoyment out of as I do.
Glad it’s not put you off though.
I think id rather be treated like a toy....at least toys get looked after lol. "
Haha that’s very true lol |
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By *DTDCouple
over a year ago
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"From the single woman’s profile side, excluding the hellscape that is men, a lot of couples that message are clearly doing a low effort message everyone with the same text. Then if you do engage with them, it very much feels like you’re only ever talking to the male half, if there ever is a female half.
We do wonder how many couple profiles are still live when perhaps the couple aren’t anymore. "
I am the female of our couple, and it’s only me who reply’s to people, I go mad at him Coz I feel like I’m doing all the work, his reply is “you know they are only interested in you!” |
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"As a unicorn I can honestly say that it's not easy.
Women get jealous men get jealous. I've been asked to leave my own hotel room by a lady who got her fun then got the hump because he still wanted to play. I've turned up and only a single man there. I've been treated like absolutely scum by some couples. Couples who are trying to fix things by adding an extra.
Don't get me wrong I have met some absolutely great people out there (you know who you are ) but its tiring. Its depressing at times. Again to be honest, I get it from the single males too boundaries being crosses and disrespected (you certainly know who you are)
We are out there but aren't always treated well."
This in a nutshell, have had bad past experiences in the past just been treated like a plaything and it does put you off or certainly think long and hard about who you want to play with when it comes to couples , well and single males for that matter. |
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I’ve met a couple before once and would really love to again, however I’ve found that I get really shy when talking to couples so I just kind of gave up on it  |
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