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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Not going to rant about it but it's very frustrating! So far today alone I've had to point people to my bio. I have quite clearly put what I am and what I would like on it. Yet I'm still having people with hair everywhere and people who don't like smokers message me.
Is it just me this happens to? I'm guessing not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Welcome to a womans life on fab..99% of men look at the pictures fire a message without reading any of the profile or preferences. I used to reply to all now I only reply to those that at least sound as if they have read some of it  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Welcome to a womans life on fab..99% of men look at the pictures fire a message without reading any of the profile or preferences. I used to reply to all now I only reply to those that at least sound as if they have read some of it "
It's bloody horrendous  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yip happens all the time, they can’t read. I hate smooth men, clearly states looking for hairy and I get the Veet brigade all the time or dogging in interests when I clearly say move along. Or my favourite, I reply then they say but you haven’t looked at my profile, since day one I have been in ninja mode so you don’t see me looking at you’re profile. Best advice is message filters, most site supporters are more serious about rules and boundaries/requirements etc so filter all non members or unverified |
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"Welcome to a womans life on fab..99% of men look at the pictures fire a message without reading any of the profile or preferences. I used to reply to all now I only reply to those that at least sound as if they have read some of it "
This with bells on!
Drives me nuts!
I even have one particular thing in caps and still get messages from those that are clearly not what I’m interested in.
Some DO read the bio and then give it “I know you said no x y x or interested in a b c only and I’m not what you’re looking for but…”
1 the sheer arrogance is off putting
2 if they can’t take a no before even the 1st message like hell am I trusting them to take a no in person! |
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Yes, it happens to us all & of course, it goes both ways. It is frustrating but I try to politely educate them a little & be consoled by the fact that someone has actually contacted me. For the ladies, who are bombarded with hundreds of messages, I can understand your frustration but I suppose it separates the wheat from the chaff pretty easily. |
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I love reading the bio and seeing there links intrest sometimes I’ll comment on there pics and don’t mind it jist hate the ones that slate for or body shame them see a lot off woman going nuts on it and rightly so |
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