Oh they are definity out there....
But they will also be incredibly in demand so wont really need to search on forums to find a willing victim, err, submissive.
I suppose the real question would be,"what are you doing to make yourself stand out to those Dominants that you seek?"
Have you researched the subject?
Do you know what SSC or RACK means?
Have you completed a bdsm checklist in preparation?
Do you understand your own limits and boundaries?
Have you thought about attending social events, bdsm events, bi nights or crossdressing and admirer events??
All valid questions which will probably be ignored and so the fantasy will stay a fantasy....  |
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"Oh they are definity out there....
But they will also be incredibly in demand so wont really need to search on forums to find a willing victim, err, submissive.
I suppose the real question would be,"what are you doing to make yourself stand out to those Dominants that you seek?"
Have you researched the subject?
Do you know what SSC or RACK means?
Have you completed a bdsm checklist in preparation?
Do you understand your own limits and boundaries?
Have you thought about attending social events, bdsm events, bi nights or crossdressing and admirer events??
All valid questions which will probably be ignored and so the fantasy will stay a fantasy.... "
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"I love how people always assume that someone asking a question will have done no research into the subject and think it's acceptable to reply with sarcastic and rude answers"
Èxactly my thoughts...like I'm some daft wee boy  |
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"I love how people always assume that someone asking a question will have done no research into the subject and think it's acceptable to reply with sarcastic and rude answers"
It is danagerous to assume soneone's knowledge level in a subect. "I watched TOP GUN, give me a plane to fly"
Fantasies are healthy. But the reality takes work. Alot of work...
The questions are very genuine, probing and responsible.
The advice offered is correct.
The vast majority of individuals don't have a clue and know very little about bdsm, safety, boundaries, limits and trust.
There are elements of sarcasm I accept that.. Is the post honest and a true.. I belief so.
Is the post rude, I do not see it as so.. |
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"Thank you for your response. And "input sarcasm" no I'm just hoping some random domme fancies a fuck.... "
Ack I know that and I am glad you see the sarcasm (its the first rule of domme school don't you know!)
Best advice. If you really want a domme. Get out and find one...
Good ones - always busy can pick and choose.
Ones learning their trade - will still be busy. But may search for individuals to assist them.
Bed room ones - playful more sex driven but with a dominant role in the bedroom.
Pro - paid services. Call them up regardless of experience.
A forum post is like a needle in a haystack. Your the needle in a giant bleedin haystack.
FAB is huge only a small percetage of individuals look at the forums even less in the scottish forums.
You want a meet and a quicky, Advertise a meet in the meets section. You may get lucky...
You want to find out who are active in the swinging or bdsm commumity you go to socials, events, bdsm munchies socials, club nights.
You network and be seen in a good way....
Your chances go from needle sized to hammer sized with the haystack vastily reduced in size also.
Easier to find you in that haystack..
Good luck in your searching.
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