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"Before or after meet has happened? " It'd be quite savage if it happened during the meet  | |||
"Before or after meet has happened? It'd be quite savage if it happened during the meet "Haha not unheard of though unfortunately. I’ve heard a couple examples. | |||
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"So twice within a few days, I've been blocked within minutes of a meet. No explanation given either time. I understand the logic of blocking someone that you're not interested in so as not to accidentally message again. But, come on, at least send a quick "Sorry, not interested" instead of Bored at work. Anyone chatting? someone hang about like an idiot. " What is your criteria for ensuring the profile you're talking to is genuine before organising a meet? | |||
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"So twice within a few days, I've been blocked within minutes of a meet. No explanation given either time. I understand the logic of blocking someone that you're not interested in so as not to accidentally message again. But, come on, at least send a quick "Sorry, not interested" instead of Bored at work. Anyone chatting? someone hang about like an idiot. What is your criteria for ensuring the profile you're talking to is genuine before organising a meet?" Honestly, I don't really have a criteria other than checking for verifications. However, not everyone posts those so it's hard to make a judgement. I don't think I've actually met someone from this site as yet but I have from Fabguys, I've verified a couple from there who haven't uploaded them but a couple have. I've posted any I get. Anyway, for context, the first guy gave me his postcode, I got there and asked his house number, he said he'd give it when I was in the street, told him I was, he asked if I was cleaned out (I presume he meant douched), said I wasn't as it hadn't been an issue with any of my other meets, sat for a few minutes refreshing, went to ask for more clarification and was told he blocked me. Admittedly, I was probably too eager but hey-ho. The second time, I was going to sneak a dude into my work, which I've done a few times now, he said he was outside and the folks nearby section agreed, told him to just come on in, again I waited a few minutes, went to ask if he was coming in and blocked. It's not the fact they blocked me that's bothersome, it's that they didn't just tell me they weren't interested. Just say, ffs. | |||
"I had something regarding blocking happen to me this week. Never met. We chatted for a fee days. Exchanged face pics and seemed to like each other. They were meet verified. Exchanged Snapchat usernames. Added them and said hi its be blah blah blah then next minute I know I've been blocked on here! Wtf. Aw well. What can you do. Just bizarre." That is bizarre | |||
"No shows can be reported - unless they block you. Personally I think that shouldn’t be allowed. You could contact a mod maybe " Seems like a lot of work just cos I got blueballed, lol. Also don't actually remember their usernames anyway. | |||
"So twice within a few days, I've been blocked within minutes of a meet. No explanation given either time. I understand the logic of blocking someone that you're not interested in so as not to accidentally message again. But, come on, at least send a quick "Sorry, not interested" instead of Bored at work. Anyone chatting? someone hang about like an idiot. What is your criteria for ensuring the profile you're talking to is genuine before organising a meet?" Love the name by the way. My Princess, my General. | |||
"So twice within a few days, I've been blocked within minutes of a meet. No explanation given either time. I understand the logic of blocking someone that you're not interested in so as not to accidentally message again. But, come on, at least send a quick "Sorry, not interested" instead of Bored at work. Anyone chatting? someone hang about like an idiot. What is your criteria for ensuring the profile you're talking to is genuine before organising a meet? Honestly, I don't really have a criteria other than checking for verifications. However, not everyone posts those so it's hard to make a judgement. I don't think I've actually met someone from this site as yet but I have from Fabguys, I've verified a couple from there who haven't uploaded them but a couple have. I've posted any I get. Anyway, for context, the first guy gave me his postcode, I got there and asked his house number, he said he'd give it when I was in the street, told him I was, he asked if I was cleaned out (I presume he meant douched), said I wasn't as it hadn't been an issue with any of my other meets, sat for a few minutes refreshing, went to ask for more clarification and was told he blocked me. Admittedly, I was probably too eager but hey-ho. The second time, I was going to sneak a dude into my work, which I've done a few times now, he said he was outside and the folks nearby section agreed, told him to just come on in, again I waited a few minutes, went to ask if he was coming in and blocked. It's not the fact they blocked me that's bothersome, it's that they didn't just tell me they weren't interested. Just say, ffs. " If someone told me they'd give me a house number when I got to their street, I wouldn't have even left the house. Massive red flag right there. I'm sorry but if you've done nothing to confirm whether they're genuine other than look at veris, which can sometimes be faked, are you really that surprised? Personally, I chat to someone on here for a little while first and swap pics to gauge interest, then swap contact details and arrange a social to check we actually get on in person. Not saying that my system is infallible, of course it's not, but I've not been stood up in a very long time. But then I don't do fuck and go meets. | |||
"So twice within a few days, I've been blocked within minutes of a meet. No explanation given either time. I understand the logic of blocking someone that you're not interested in so as not to accidentally message again. But, come on, at least send a quick "Sorry, not interested" instead of Bored at work. Anyone chatting? someone hang about like an idiot. What is your criteria for ensuring the profile you're talking to is genuine before organising a meet? Honestly, I don't really have a criteria other than checking for verifications. However, not everyone posts those so it's hard to make a judgement. I don't think I've actually met someone from this site as yet but I have from Fabguys, I've verified a couple from there who haven't uploaded them but a couple have. I've posted any I get. Anyway, for context, the first guy gave me his postcode, I got there and asked his house number, he said he'd give it when I was in the street, told him I was, he asked if I was cleaned out (I presume he meant douched), said I wasn't as it hadn't been an issue with any of my other meets, sat for a few minutes refreshing, went to ask for more clarification and was told he blocked me. Admittedly, I was probably too eager but hey-ho. The second time, I was going to sneak a dude into my work, which I've done a few times now, he said he was outside and the folks nearby section agreed, told him to just come on in, again I waited a few minutes, went to ask if he was coming in and blocked. It's not the fact they blocked me that's bothersome, it's that they didn't just tell me they weren't interested. Just say, ffs. If someone told me they'd give me a house number when I got to their street, I wouldn't have even left the house. Massive red flag right there. I'm sorry but if you've done nothing to confirm whether they're genuine other than look at veris, which can sometimes be faked, are you really that surprised? Personally, I chat to someone on here for a little while first and swap pics to gauge interest, then swap contact details and arrange a social to check we actually get on in person. Not saying that my system is infallible, of course it's not, but I've not been stood up in a very long time. But then I don't do fuck and go meets. " Goes down as a learning experience, I guess | |||
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"So twice within a few days, I've been blocked within minutes of a meet. No explanation given either time. I understand the logic of blocking someone that you're not interested in so as not to accidentally message again. But, come on, at least send a quick "Sorry, not interested" instead of Bored at work. Anyone chatting? someone hang about like an idiot. What is your criteria for ensuring the profile you're talking to is genuine before organising a meet? Honestly, I don't really have a criteria other than checking for verifications. However, not everyone posts those so it's hard to make a judgement. I don't think I've actually met someone from this site as yet but I have from Fabguys, I've verified a couple from there who haven't uploaded them but a couple have. I've posted any I get. Anyway, for context, the first guy gave me his postcode, I got there and asked his house number, he said he'd give it when I was in the street, told him I was, he asked if I was cleaned out (I presume he meant douched), said I wasn't as it hadn't been an issue with any of my other meets, sat for a few minutes refreshing, went to ask for more clarification and was told he blocked me. Admittedly, I was probably too eager but hey-ho. The second time, I was going to sneak a dude into my work, which I've done a few times now, he said he was outside and the folks nearby section agreed, told him to just come on in, again I waited a few minutes, went to ask if he was coming in and blocked. It's not the fact they blocked me that's bothersome, it's that they didn't just tell me they weren't interested. Just say, ffs. " Had something similar. Met a girl with a partner. It was actually a fffm. Night went really well, and the girl in question was messaging back and forth afterwards. Asked to meet me 121, so I agreed. Travelled a considerable distance to her house, which was a flat. Parked outside. She said the entry button was broken and she'd come down. Sat like a mug waiting and got blocked. No idea why. Odd behaviour. | |||
