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By *pank-me-harder OP   Woman  over a year ago

close to leven

I've been reading the thread on the clubs. I dont get why people need to be negative. Just go to whichever one or both you like and have lots of fun . That's what we're all hear for. Just have a good time .let's stop the negativity. we all have different views, just like we do, when we meet people .not everyone likes the same ..

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By *ellinever70Woman  over a year ago

Ayrshire

I guess when a preference is asked about, then it's inevitable that not everything said will be positive.

How boring would a discussion be if it was all one sided

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By *pank-me-harder OP   Woman  over a year ago

close to leven


"I guess when a preference is asked about, then it's inevitable that not everything said will be positive.

How boring would a discussion be if it was all one sided "

Excatly, we are all different .

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By *ellinever70Woman  over a year ago

Ayrshire


"I guess when a preference is asked about, then it's inevitable that not everything said will be positive.

How boring would a discussion be if it was all one sided

Excatly, we are all different ."

So you do understand after all

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By *pank-me-harder OP   Woman  over a year ago

close to leven

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By *hogun300Man  over a year ago

Dundee

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By *elsbells2011Couple  over a year ago

fife

Opinions were asked and opinions were given. My opinion may not be shared by many or it may be shared by lots. Don’t really care but my opinion is my opinion and your opinion is your opinion and no opinion should be regarded higher than anyone else’s and no opinions should ever be silenced and nobody should ever feel like they can’t express their opinion by fear of ridicule. The world is a big place and would be very boring if everyone liked the same. It’s just about having tolerance and respect for other peoples views.

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By *oung3sumCouple  over a year ago

tipperary

Pity the comments were turned off because threads like that are handy for people who are flying in for a weekend and only have time to try one club

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By *orl1971Couple  over a year ago

Glasgow

If you don’t have friends who can answer a question then it’s good to ask in the forums. That will solicit different opinions but all feedback can be useful and you as the reader have to filter and analyse what is said to form your own opinion.

The problem is sometimes discussions go south pretty quickly on occasions. We started a club thread which was closed and, whilst hoping we didn’t cause trouble, we found the replies informative.

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By *40ffCouple  over a year ago

Anstruther

I think ppl like gathering as much information from others before spending money it can be costly for some to go to clubs with travel and hotels ect it's like buying a car u wouldn't buy a car based on looks alone u would research it

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By *orl1971Couple  over a year ago

Glasgow


"I think ppl like gathering as much information from others before spending money it can be costly for some to go to clubs with travel and hotels ect it's like buying a car u wouldn't buy a car based on looks alone u would research it "

Mental note - don’t ask forum to compare Ford with Nissan

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By *avie65Man  over a year ago

In the west.


"I think ppl like gathering as much information from others before spending money it can be costly for some to go to clubs with travel and hotels ect it's like buying a car u wouldn't buy a car based on looks alone u would research it

Mental note - don’t ask forum to compare Ford with Nissan "

Surely it's a Vauxhall!

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By *inkycarolineTV/TS  over a year ago

Kilwinning

VW

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By *avie65Man  over a year ago

In the west.


"VW "

No no no, they are just Audi and BMW drivers in training.

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By *pank-me-harder OP   Woman  over a year ago

close to leven


"VW

No no no, they are just Audi and BMW drivers in training. "

Lol

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By *esLibertinesCouple  over a year ago

Glasgow Edinburgh Leeds Manchester


"Opinions were asked and opinions were given. My opinion may not be shared by many or it may be shared by lots. Don’t really care but my opinion is my opinion and your opinion is your opinion and no opinion should be regarded higher than anyone else’s and no opinions should ever be silenced and nobody should ever feel like they can’t express their opinion by fear of ridicule. The world is a big place and would be very boring if everyone liked the same. It’s just about having tolerance and respect for other peoples views. "

Absolutely right.

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By *aughty_Jack_ABZMan  over a year ago

Aberdeen

Hehe. We get your point. I'm guessing you were in a very positive mood when the forum conversation dragged you down a little.

However, the world is both positive and negative. You have to take the rough with the smooth and as others have pointed out EVERYONE is entitled to their opinion. It's a discussion FORUM afterall. They have every right to express negative views and you have every right to your positive thinking.

I'm a great believer in the F.Scott Fitzgerald quote (though many said it before):

“The test of a first-rate intelligence is the ability to hold two opposing ideas in mind at the same time and still retain the ability to function."

Keep being you, be good, do good and play DIRTY!

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By *melia DominaTV/TS  over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)


"I've been reading the thread on the clubs. I dont get why people need to be negative. Just go to whichever one or both you like and have lots of fun . That's what we're all hear for. Just have a good time .let's stop the negativity. we all have different views, just like we do, when we meet people .not everyone likes the same .. "

I call it the Football/Religion/maw dad's better than you dad syndrome.

"Eh, my clubs better than yours", Eh, no it's naw", " aye it is", "not","is to" fight fight fight.

If we all banded together we would have an amazing swinging and bdsm scene in Scotland.. and everybody would better of and we'd all shag for fecking Scotland....

But naw! Because humans are all about one up on the neighbours pish!!

Boring....

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By *pank-me-harder OP   Woman  over a year ago

close to leven


"Hehe. We get your point. I'm guessing you were in a very positive mood when the forum conversation dragged you down a little.

However, the world is both positive and negative. You have to take the rough with the smooth and as others have pointed out EVERYONE is entitled to their opinion. It's a discussion FORUM afterall. They have every right to express negative views and you have every right to your positive thinking.

I'm a great believer in the F.Scott Fitzgerald quote (though many said it before):

“The test of a first-rate intelligence is the ability to hold two opposing ideas in mind at the same time and still retain the ability to function."

Keep being you, be good, do good and play DIRTY! "

Lol always my point was just enjoy it .. everyone likes different things

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By *pank-me-harder OP   Woman  over a year ago

close to leven


"Opinions were asked and opinions were given. My opinion may not be shared by many or it may be shared by lots. Don’t really care but my opinion is my opinion and your opinion is your opinion and no opinion should be regarded higher than anyone else’s and no opinions should ever be silenced and nobody should ever feel like they can’t express their opinion by fear of ridicule. The world is a big place and would be very boring if everyone liked the same. It’s just about having tolerance and respect for other peoples views. "

This was my point. Everyone is different.and were all gonna have negative and positives about place we visit just people need to chill just cause 1 person loves something not all do

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By *imbobaMan  over a year ago

Glasgow


"I've been reading the thread on the clubs. I dont get why people need to be negative. Just go to whichever one or both you like and have lots of fun . That's what we're all hear for. Just have a good time .let's stop the negativity. we all have different views, just like we do, when we meet people .not everyone likes the same ..

I call it the Football/Religion/maw dad's better than you dad syndrome.

"Eh, my clubs better than yours", Eh, no it's naw", " aye it is", "not","is to" fight fight fight.

If we all banded together we would have an amazing swinging and bdsm scene in Scotland.. and everybody would better of and we'd all shag for fecking Scotland....

But naw! Because humans are all about one up on the neighbours pish!!

Boring....

"

Aye. Fab anthem should be “We Can Swing Together” Song by Lindisfarne

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