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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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After being on the site for a while and meeting some amazing people.
I arrived to a point where I am asking myself what exactly we are looking here? Is it something unfulfilled inside us which we are looking outside in the world? Why only one or two is not enough? Is there a destination to arrive or it’s a loop again and again?
Just thinking! do you have similar thoughts or answers? |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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Many of us are happy with our lives but still have needs to be fulfilled that Fab allows us to do. Whether it’s for friendship, companionship, cuddles, intimacy, fulfilling fantasies, exploring new things, exploring your sexuality, etc then Fab gives people the opportunity to do these things.
For some it’s a lifestyle, for others a hobby that they dip in to.
For some it’s a lifeline that has allowed them to explore who they really are and gives them the opportunity to chat with likeminded people.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think I use it as a form of escapism from all the shit in my life. Think that's why I am always on here."
I certainly think there is an element of truth in that. For me its about striking some balance between the things I have to do and the things I want to do. Certainly helps with stress levels too.  |
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"Many of us are happy with our lives but still have needs to be fulfilled that Fab allows us to do. Whether it’s for friendship, companionship, cuddles, intimacy, fulfilling fantasies, exploring new things, exploring your sexuality, etc then Fab gives people the opportunity to do these things.
For some it’s a lifestyle, for others a hobby that they dip in to.
For some it’s a lifeline that has allowed them to explore who they really are and gives them the opportunity to chat with likeminded people.
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Exactly. I am very happy being single and living solo but I do have needs and fab allows me to meet these. I also have met some amazing friends through the lifestyle that I wouldn’t have met otherwise. The community is so open and welcoming. |
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"I think in our every action we are looking for fulfilment. There is something incomplete and lacks something inside and we are trying to fulfill with different things, objects, relations, money and sex.
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For some people that will almost certainly be true.
However I don't think that seeking fulfilment automatically means that something is lacking, missing or incomplete. There are plenty of things - sexual or otherwise - that people engage in for pleasure and enjoyment than out of some kind of compensatory need.
(Insert filling a hole joke here) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Interesting I never thought about it this way that seeking fulfilment does not mean missing or incomplete automatically. For me it is truly enlightening to see things in a different light.
But then there are times when for a very short time we don’t care about all these things (sex, money and objects) and we feel complete or happy.
That made me think and question.
"I think in our every action we are looking for fulfilment. There is something incomplete and lacks something inside and we are trying to fulfill with different things, objects, relations, money and sex.
For some people that will almost certainly be true.
However I don't think that seeking fulfilment automatically means that something is lacking, missing or incomplete. There are plenty of things - sexual or otherwise - that people engage in for pleasure and enjoyment than out of some kind of compensatory need.
(Insert filling a hole joke here)"
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