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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just came across my best friend's wife on here clearly he has no idea she cheating on him as she has a few verification on her profile I won't name her or tell any one her profile name thou you think I should mention it to her or should aye say to my friend ??? As aye know he dots on her . |
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"Just came across my best friend's wife on here clearly he has no idea she cheating on him as she has a few verification on her profile I won't name her or tell any one her profile name thou you think I should mention it to her or should aye say to my friend ??? As aye know he dots on her ."
How do you know she is cheating on him. Plenty of guys like their wives getting fucked by other guys. I think you should keep your nose out of it. |
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"Oh I know the facts and aye know that he doesn't know she on here playing away as for getting attention not me cheers for your answers so far "
Yeah I'm sure he is going to tell you about his sex life with his wife. You sound like the type of guy everyone knows not to tell anything to. I think there is a little wife envy going on here, go and get your own mate. |
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Get him telt bro code. But genuinely how do you know your friends not aware of this ? And also how do you know it is his wife I'd imagine if she was cheating she won't be to forthcoming with face pics |
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If he's your best friend then I think you should tell him. As other posters have said, doesn't necessarily mean she's cheating but I'm sure there's a way you could inform him you're aware she's on here without causing offence. What he decides to do with that information is up to him.
Goes without saying... You should not approach her to try and fuck her!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks everyone for your messages iv decided not to cause am sure it will send him over the edge it's not the first time this has happened all the best everyone have a great Christmas |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just came across my best friend's wife on here clearly he has no idea she cheating on him as she has a few verification on her profile I won't name her or tell any one her profile name thou you think I should mention it to her or should aye say to my friend ??? As aye know he dots on her ."
I don't know how I would feel if I seen a best friends wife in here. Even if you find her attractive, would you ever try to fuck her as she's your best mates wife.
Sounds like your in a difficult situation. Maybe best to speak directly to her and see what her response is and if your not happy with the response then say to your mate |
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"Just came across my best friend's wife on here clearly he has no idea she cheating on him as she has a few verification on her profile I won't name her or tell any one her profile name thou you think I should mention it to her or should aye say to my friend ??? As aye know he dots on her .
I don't know how I would feel if I seen a best friends wife in here. Even if you find her attractive, would you ever try to fuck her as she's your best mates wife.
Sounds like your in a difficult situation. Maybe best to speak directly to her and see what her response is and if your not happy with the response then say to your mate"
Definitely think it's worth checking (from her perspective) whether the husband (your best friend) knows. If so... Then I suggest you respect the privacy and discretion. If made obvious it's behind his back then I think as friend (and best friend of that) you should tell him. Will hurt as hell, but will hurt not or in 1,3,6,12 months from now when he's bound to find out at some point. Do the right thing! |
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"Thanks everyone for your messages iv decided not to cause am sure it will send him over the edge it's not the first time this has happened all the best everyone have a great Christmas "
Good decision. A lot better than the one to ask for advice on this forum. Happy Christmas........and go on, ask her for a meet. You know you want to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you came across your best friend wife doing it would you keep out of it ??
I wouldn't post on a forum for advice just to get some attention. I'm glad I haven't got a best friend like you. " |
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If you’re single and on here with no issues to hide or be worried about, I’d message her and tell her who you are. Arrange to chat on phone or in person, find out the details and see if she’s prepared to tell him or not.
My only concern if you tell him without her knowing is how he will deal with it and what might happen to her. You know them both, so basically, you know the potential outcomes so only you know what’s best.
Sometimes things are better not told if the circumstances aren’t good. |
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Fully agree everyone has there reasons for being on here even if you don't agree it's the individual choice and not for others to judge too many people want to be the moral police.
I'm on here without wife being aware and have my reasons and happy to tell anyone who asks but don't vilify me before knowing the reasons. |
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By *ack-FMan
over a year ago
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"As above, how do you know she is cheating?
If you want to fuck her, go and ask her.
Posting with the intent of gaining approval from random stranger's is pointless. " …. I agree…. We are all meant to be grown up and well adjusted individuals…. Not 15 year olds seeking approval for our intentions.., |
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By *uboCouple
over a year ago
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Here is another option.
Tell HIM that YOU are on here and looking for women to fuck.
If he knows his wife is on here then likely her profile will vanish or find yours and block,thinking you have not found her yet. Give it a week or so then say you seen someone that is like her |
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"Just came across my best friend's wife on here clearly he has no idea she cheating on him as she has a few verification on her profile I won't name her or tell any one her profile name thou you think I should mention it to her or should aye say to my friend ??? As aye know he dots on her ." i was going to reply privately but can't
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Definitely stay out of it for many reasons,
most people are on here for discretion and if you have anything to hide how can you tell him you’ve seen her, let other people figure their own shit out and you just figure yours out, also you have prob thought about fucking her anyway haha |
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"Just came across my best friend's wife on here clearly he has no idea she cheating on him as she has a few verification on her profile I won't name her or tell any one her profile name thou you think I should mention it to her or should aye say to my friend ??? As aye know he dots on her ."
How do you know she’s cheating does she say on her profile here without permission ? you don’t necessarily know the dynamics of their relationship, your friend may well also have his own profile !
More often if you get involved you’ll end up being the bad one, shoot the messenger so to speak
You could always confront her and ask her to explain and if she is then tell her that she should perhaps speak to her husband about why she feels the need to cheat just because he’s your friend and perhaps a very good friend doesn’t necessarily mean he’s a good husband as well
As always tread carefully
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd probably stay away from it as life is difficult enough and you don't want to drag other shit into your own life. However if you wanted to feel better about it knowing a bit more you could make up a second / fake profile and try befriend her to find out more about her / their situation without giving yourself away. Don't know how you'd get photo verified right enough, but I'm pretty sure many hundreds of profiles on here are of that ilk. |
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Tell him there's a woman on here who looks just like his Mrs... Or maybe that someone is using his Mrs photos for a fake account on here... So therefore you're not directly accusing... What he decides to do with that information is up to him! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe he does know. I know hundreds of folk would be mortified if they knew who was behind our profile so it’s not something even our closest friends know about. maybe he likes his mrs playing away and telling him all the stories of the guys she’s been with and you could ruin that for them |
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"Just came across my best friend's wife on here clearly he has no idea she cheating on him as she has a few verification on her profile I won't name her or tell any one her profile name thou you think I should mention it to her or should aye say to my friend ??? As aye know he dots on her .
Since when did you take the moral high ground as a previous post says block the personand say SFA"
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