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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How often do we read them on Forums, my fellow single guy, searching,asking the how n why he is having no success on site?
Im having a real fun,hot one soon,couples,hot fem etc, but guess who are the big obstacle, the last bit in the jigsaw to make the party complete?
Single guys!! No replys, "maybes", " i might" when your trying to have the whole thing established prior to it happening, Does'nt get the host or people attending exactly in best frame of mind if the "maybe's" just might attend.
Rant over, but it might wake some lazy swingers up,,i hope.
T xx
Trrrrying to keep it fun.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Perhaps the way forward to avoid lots of time wasted and create interest is simply form an established gang bang team and i might just have found my team.
Im sure various couples and women who really do want that swinging box ticked,when they set out to invite a few guys to join them soon realise getting 2 can be a messaging headache,never mind 5 or 6.
Or have you had the eye-opener of really believing you have your 6 guys and come the evening of this night you took ages to create, one turns up?
Does this sound familiar to anyone?
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Establishing a team is exactly the way I've gone about it. Some were pals beforehand, some are guys we've met in the carparks or at parties.
Expanding that team is best done by suggesting to one or two of the team that they invite a trusted friend to join the team. You need to make it clear that their continued participation in the team depends entirely on their friend turning up and joining in. It's their responsibility.
If the guest of honour has a particular male in mind to join in I make it clear it's HER responsibility to invite him
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we have been let down by a few too, but only on this site as it was only recently we decided to take the single guy plunge lol.
But we have been let down by single girls too. Think being a couple in the world of swinging makes it a little easier, when one of you get the 5 mins of cold feet the other is there to reassure, but i guess when singles get the 5 mins, theres no-one else and they end up bottling it.
would get really frustrating for those planning events or people who may have been let down a few times in a row but mabye thats what makes the actual meets all worth it? |
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