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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is it against the rules on here to show non-fab members someone's pics? I've been messaging a guy for a few days & we swapped face pics. Today I got a text from a male friend, he was in a pub & a guy was bragging about 'a bird he's meeting off a sex site' & showed him my pics. I'm really angry I like to keep my private life private but is this just a chance you take when swapping face pics or can I do anything about the dickhead who has all but ruined fab for me?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All you can really do is take solice in the fact you found out before you met. Your only option is, if you are a paid member, you can make your pics dissappear once they _iew them. "
Not if they screenshot the pic before its deleted |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That really is a dickish thing to do and a complete breach of trust!! Sorry that has happened to you OP… I wonder if you can report him for that??
Fab is best when it’s two (or more) consenting adults having good times together without judgement. When that circle is broken it can be extremely damaging so I hope you are ok? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Report him to Admin anyway and you can also name and shame him on your profile page so others who see it can avoid him.
Other than that I dont thjink theres much you can do about it. I'm not sure how you can go about filtering out the dickheads. |
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By *ewisbi76Man
over a year ago
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"Is it against the rules on here to show non-fab members someone's pics? I've been messaging a guy for a few days & we swapped face pics. "
Its illegal. it would come under the law covering "revenge porn". i'd certainly report his profile to the mods. Though its hard to stop him opening another profile and it may tip him off his friend told someone if that was the only person he showed.
Imho if you've openly posted pictures where you can be identified openly here then you would struggle to argue you were protected by this law - but if you've shared them with this person directly by email,whatsapp,private message or simply by unlocking your private images for that specific user then i believe you're covered.
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It may not be against the rules but I would certainly report him to admin and then block him.
Definitely do not name and shame in your statuses or profile, it reflects badly on you as people will only have your word for it. I would be letting fab friends know about him though, so that they can also be wary. |
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"It may not be against the rules but I would certainly report him to admin and then block him.
Definitely do not name and shame in your statuses or profile, it reflects badly on you as people will only have your word for it. I would be letting fab friends know about him though, so that they can also be wary. "
I don't think admin would be able to do anything about stuff that gets shared away from here |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"Report him to Admin anyway and you can also name and shame him on your profile page so others who see it can avoid him.
Other than that I dont thjink theres much you can do about it. I'm not sure how you can go about filtering out the dickheads."
Please report to Admin and they will re_iew. Do not name and shame as suggested as that is against the rules.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would also report to admin but I'm doubtful much will be done I'm afraid. I reported a man who was arrested and is pending a court case and nothing was done.  "
Same |
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By *avie65Man
over a year ago
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It sounds like you have dodged a bullet, although he has outted you to a friend by telling him you met on a sex site.
There probably isn't much you can do if it was just a face pic but had it been more explicit then you would have had some recourse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is exactly why I try to search for people that were bit away from me in the next town or Glasgow. It just puts that wee bit of distance from home and much lessens the chance of randomly coming across folk you know.
All pictures on the net are copied and shared whether you like it, or its illegal or not .. it happens. |
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"I would also report to admin but I'm doubtful much will be done I'm afraid. I reported a man who was arrested and is pending a court case and nothing was done.
Same
Hope it's not the same man. "
I hope it is so that there isn't more than one on here. |
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"It may not be against the rules but I would certainly report him to admin and then block him.
Definitely do not name and shame in your statuses or profile, it reflects badly on you as people will only have your word for it. I would be letting fab friends know about him though, so that they can also be wary.
I don't think admin would be able to do anything about stuff that gets shared away from here "
No but at least they're aware there's someone who does this |
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By *reedyKWoman
over a year ago
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"I would also report to admin but I'm doubtful much will be done I'm afraid. I reported a man who was arrested and is pending a court case and nothing was done.
Same
Hope it's not the same man.
I hope it is so that there isn't more than one on here."
It's not the same man. It's pretty scary to think there's people on here who are known to the police for sexual crimes and even after being reported to admin they remain on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unfortunately life can't always be fair. We do get idiots on every platform. I had a similar experience with a woman. When I called her out about it. It was all denied and the next thing I was the one getting text and threats made to me. Worst was taking my pictures and settling up on around ten sites by a male friend of there's. Two years of hell. That's why my face picture is not on my profile here. Its not worth the hassle of someone that's just a dick. No matter there gender. But look on the bright side. You found out before you got in deeper. Good luck and try not to let it get you down. We are not all like that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Really shitty thing to do. Just trying to be boastful and playing with other peoples privacy. That’s why we’re so weary of face pics but we have swapped them with a few. Who have turned out nice people thankfully |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This happened to me, met a girl out at a bar, next week went to hers and we got to know each other better shall we say. Liked her. Then met a guy at sex party and he was bragging about folk he was fucking from here and she was in every picture on his phone. Goes both ways I suppose. Shity feeling. This should be a discrete environment. X |
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"This happened to me, met a girl out at a bar, next week went to hers and we got to know each other better shall we say. Liked her. Then met a guy at sex party and he was bragging about folk he was fucking from here and she was in every picture on his phone. Goes both ways I suppose. Shity feeling. This should be a discrete environment. X"
That sounds like exactly the same thing. |
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That is such a shitty and pathetic thing to do, I know we live in a snowflake society now, but I'm old school (my age will tell you that) but when you cross the line, you deserve a slap , not go down well here, but we'll it's never done me any harm |
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By *avie65Man
over a year ago
In the west. |
"This happened to me, met a girl out at a bar, next week went to hers and we got to know each other better shall we say. Liked her. Then met a guy at sex party and he was bragging about folk he was fucking from here and she was in every picture on his phone. Goes both ways I suppose. Shity feeling. This should be a discrete environment. X
That sounds like exactly the same thing."
That's what I thought. I also think this guy was committing a crime. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Happens a lot sadly, why I am always so guarded on here. Women shouldn’t have face pics public on this site either I believe for safety
So many f@*k boys on here just to show friends, luckily usually easy to spot
The journalist is back too wearing a “press” vest in his photos. Block and report him! |
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"Is it against the rules on here to show non-fab members someone's pics? I've been messaging a guy for a few days & we swapped face pics.
Its illegal. it would come under the law covering "revenge porn". i'd certainly report his profile to the mods. Though its hard to stop him opening another profile and it may tip him off his friend told someone if that was the only person he showed.
Imho if you've openly posted pictures where you can be identified openly here then you would struggle to argue you were protected by this law - but if you've shared them with this person directly by email,whatsapp,private message or simply by unlocking your private images for that specific user then i believe you're covered.
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it is allso illegal to distrubute porn in the ul so adding photos on here is against the law |
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"This happened to me, met a girl out at a bar, next week went to hers and we got to know each other better shall we say. Liked her. Then met a guy at sex party and he was bragging about folk he was fucking from here and she was in every picture on his phone. Goes both ways I suppose. Shity feeling. This should be a discrete environment. X
That sounds like exactly the same thing.
That's what I thought. I also think this guy was committing a crime. "
Great minds davey...  |
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By *avie65Man
over a year ago
In the west. |
"This happened to me, met a girl out at a bar, next week went to hers and we got to know each other better shall we say. Liked her. Then met a guy at sex party and he was bragging about folk he was fucking from here and she was in every picture on his phone. Goes both ways I suppose. Shity feeling. This should be a discrete environment. X
That sounds like exactly the same thing.
That's what I thought. I also think this guy was committing a crime.
Great minds davey... "
What can I say. Lol |
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