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over a year ago
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prep for a meet?
Meets can be really nerve wracking for people and you wana look your best for the other person(s).
What do you do to get ready? How do you deal with your nerves?
For instance, when i'm getting ready, i put some sexy tunes on whatever my mood is, rock, acoustic, etc, choose what i'm wearing..if anything ..jump in shower and take my time, make sure my hair (and me lol) smells nice and i'm defuzzed lol, then dry my hair and start getting dressed making sure i look as good as i can.
Nerves wise i guess its just takin my time makin sure i look as good as can lol i dont drink before a meet though.
What about everyone else? Do you still get nervous even when you have been swinging for years?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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panic 1st......................
then panic..................
attack of nerves.................
bath.........
shave.......
panic.........
brush teeth...
mouthwash
after shave,,,deodorant......
self doubt......
fresh undies etc.....
try and decide if person i`m meeting likes blue jeans,black jeans,combats etc....
combats usually lol
finish dressing.... tunes on.....
breathe deeply.....
jump in car.....
panic...
check for phone, keys etc etc etc
drive to meet...
panic....
Can u see a pattern forming here???
yeah i know.. self doubt etc`s not exactly a strong point on a site like this...............
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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normally, i arrive at the hotel early (it's usually the agreed choice of place to meet) so i can sit around and relax, watch a bit of TV, listen to music, then i go for a long shower, get ready and then await their arrival.
Still get the nerves and doubt they will ever go away, if i'm meeting up with someone i've met before though i find that the nerves diminish over time.
I do get a bit paranoid whether or not i look my best but I know i'm meeting with the right people if i feel totally at ease when they arrive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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shower shave (all over) do make up do it again dress change put on something else panic sniff poppers get all horny then undress shtake off make up shower because so many time wasters |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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for us its the 3 's' es - shit, shower, shave lol! Then i try on about 4 or 5 outfits. Make up on for me, then get unides on - prolly try 4 or 5 sets of undies, then back to the clothes and try on more! |
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