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Afterdark Saturday 10th December
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"Okay so do we arrive in clothes then strip down lol I’m now panicking haha …. What do the guys wear? Haha G. Strings  "
u Nb can arrive in ur clothes then go down to undies at 11 or can arrive in ur undies, what ever u feel comfortable with, guys tend to wear boxers and if u have flips flops bring them saves the guys wondering about in their socks |
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"See thats not our cup of tea. So will prob give it a miss which is a pity as we cant make christmas party"
Nor mine. Wont set foot in a club on a night where this is forced. But many do enjoy it. |
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"Don't wanna seem polemic, but in our opinion isn't "forced" , it is just a kind of night."
It is if you there and need to strip down to stay beyond 11. But it's advertised as a this type of night so those attending would know and therefore comfortable to do this. Some clubs in England this is their policy at all times and I won't go to them either. I personally always choose nights and clubs where this doesn't happen. Not everyone is body confident and comes down to personal choice. |
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"Don't you think that if you ren't body confident maybe this game wouldn't fit you? Just think about."
What gives anyone the right to say that about about anyone else when they know nothing of others situation. Ridiculous comment. Lots of people in this game as you put it have confidence issues be it body or something else. Some may only go to socialise, some might not play in clubs, some might not like stripped down out of a private room. Everyone is here for their own reasons and not everybody is the same as you. To suggest otherwise is extremely arrogant. We all do what is right for us
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By *reedyKWoman
over a year ago
Fife |
"Don't you think that if you ren't body confident maybe this game wouldn't fit you? Just think about."
I personally am all for these different types of nights, lingerie, bbw, couples only, etc. They will always eliminate some people but that's ok and others have a choice if they attend or not.
I don't however agree that you should only be in this "Game" if your body confident. Yes confidence helps but people have confidence issues for a whole range of reasons but that doesn't mean they shouldn't enjoy socialising with people or having sex. Very ignorant and niave comment in my opinion. |
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By *esLibertinesCouple
over a year ago
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"Don't you think that if you ren't body confident maybe this game wouldn't fit you? Just think about.
I personally am all for these different types of nights, lingerie, bbw, couples only, etc. They will always eliminate some people but that's ok and others have a choice if they attend or not.
I don't however agree that you should only be in this "Game" if your body confident. Yes confidence helps but people have confidence issues for a whole range of reasons but that doesn't mean they shouldn't enjoy socialising with people or having sex. Very ignorant and niave comment in my opinion. "
Well talking about ignorance you should answer after understanding. But honestly will just leave you in your place, not my aim. |
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By *esLibertinesCouple
over a year ago
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"Don't you think that if you ren't body confident maybe this game wouldn't fit you? Just think about.
What gives anyone the right to say that about about anyone else when they know nothing of others situation. Ridiculous comment. Lots of people in this game as you put it have confidence issues be it body or something else. Some may only go to socialise, some might not play in clubs, some might not like stripped down out of a private room. Everyone is here for their own reasons and not everybody is the same as you. To suggest otherwise is extremely arrogant. We all do what is right for us
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Sure but after all of that you were the one felt forced, so writing something but actually acting in the other way around. |
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"Is it mandatory because haven't seen anything on the website about it being this type of night."
yeah it's the second Saturday of every month and it's the only night of the month it's compulsory to strip down at 11pm
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Kinda want to stir up the beef a bit more but it’s Christmas.
I’m in agreement with Winter.
Kudos on the word “polemic” earlier Lib…. Had to check my Word of the day toilet paper for that one.
…..and for what it’s worth, I think it’s a tremendous rule.
There’s different nights for different people |
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By *reedyKWoman
over a year ago
Fife |
"Can't make this one but will be there for the Christmas party. Have fun this weekend! 
Won't be the same without you xx
Aww you going to miss me or you dancing with joy! Haha!
Bit of both lol"
Hahaha!! Don't worry I'll be back to annoy you next week! |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
"Don't you think that if you ren't body confident maybe this game wouldn't fit you? Just think about."
Actually, being on Fab has improved my body confidence but doesn’t mean I feel comfortable sitting around in my underwear at a club. Not everyone is aware of the type of night it is if they’ve just taken the decision to attend.
We are all entitled to our opinions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't you think that if you ren't body confident maybe this game wouldn't fit you? Just think about.
Actually, being on Fab has improved my body confidence but doesn’t mean I feel comfortable sitting around in my underwear at a club. Not everyone is aware of the type of night it is if they’ve just taken the decision to attend.
We are all entitled to our opinions. "
Just imagine you're on a beach in your swimming costume or at the public swimming pool.
Pretty much the same deal.
But as you say everyone is entitled to their own opinion.
I hope it's got good central heating inside otherwise it's going to be chilly for those attending.
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I went to a lingerie night when it was after 8 and I wasn’t aware till I arrived felt awfully self conscious all night but ended up taking a towel and wrapping it around me after I saw one of the regulars with a kimono robe |
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By *ilkand2Couple
over a year ago
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I'm a very big woman and when I first started the swinging scene i used to feel more confident putting a really nice swimsuit on as this is what I'd wear on holiday at pool, then gradually when I became more confident I used to wear nice underwear amd a see through cover up, now I'm confident I want to wear as little as I can before my anxiety and confidence start to be edgy, everyone is different but everyone is here for similar things, please be nice to each other we're all ment to be adults and we should by now just accept what other people do or think it's their choice and no judgements, hope tonight is a good night for you all, unsure whether to go or not.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd imagine most people at a lingerie night are so focused on themselves or worried about how they look they're not even thinking about others.
Who among us has the perfect physique?
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"I'm a very big woman and when I first started the swinging scene i used to feel more confident putting a really nice swimsuit on as this is what I'd wear on holiday at pool, then gradually when I became more confident I used to wear nice underwear amd a see through cover up, now I'm confident I want to wear as little as I can before my anxiety and confidence start to be edgy, everyone is different but everyone is here for similar things, please be nice to each other we're all ment to be adults and we should by now just accept what other people do or think it's their choice and no judgements, hope tonight is a good night for you all, unsure whether to go or not...."
After last week, I was hoping you would be going x
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By *esLibertinesCouple
over a year ago
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"I'd imagine most people at a lingerie night are so focused on themselves or worried about how they look they're not even thinking about others.
Who among us has the perfect physique?
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No one and no one has the magic mirror at home. But accept itself will make the life more enjoyable. |
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"Looking forward to another great evening at Afterdark.
How's the Guestlist looking?  Was it yourself that was admiring my wrist beads & navy trousers with brown boots look last night?
Yes xx"
We’ll hello there, it was a pleasure to make your acquaintance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The cinema room was amazing on Saturday 
As an observer it was damn hot "
It was my 1st time experiencing same room fun and it definitely won't be my last  |
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"The cinema room was amazing on Saturday
As an observer it was damn hot
It was my 1st time experiencing same room fun and it definitely won't be my last "
Sometimes being a single sucks in all the wrong ways  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The cinema room was amazing on Saturday
As an observer it was damn hot
It was my 1st time experiencing same room fun and it definitely won't be my last
Sometimes being a single sucks in all the wrong ways "
I'm single as well & always arrive alone but on Saturday I got chatting to a lovely guy, we continued our convo in the cinema room then ended it in a private room. It was a very good chat |
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