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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Don't we just hate it when the face matches, the profile matches but the chat is crap.... Or the chat is great but there's no attraction 
Whats more important to yous, good chat or attraction or does it 100% have to be both like us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Preferably both, but sometimes good laugh and banter can make you chnage an opion of someone.
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I was actually coming back to say this. Sometimes the initial attraction isn't there but they win you over with personality. |
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"Preferably both, but sometimes good laugh and banter can make you chnage an opion of someone.
I was actually coming back to say this. Sometimes the initial attraction isn't there but they win you over with personality. "
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"I don’t care how good your chat is, if I’m not attached to you then I’m not having sex with you … "
Sex is actually possible without being attached to someone!?
Nonsensical piss-taking aside, a (mental!) connection is important, though not vital to me. Without it, though, she's purely a glorified, self-cleaning sex toy. |
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
Edin |
"I don’t care how good your chat is, if I’m not attached to you then I’m not having sex with you …
Sex is actually possible without being attached to someone!?
Nonsensical piss-taking aside, a (mental!) connection is important, though not vital to me. Without it, though, she's purely a glorified, self-cleaning sex toy. "
I agree it is possible without being attracted to someone, I’m just not doing it, for me there has to be an attraction! |
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"Nothing worse when the chat is great then face pics are exchanged and there's no attraction.
Gotta be an attraction or nothing goes any further."
Hence why I avoid fpf, hope to catch women oan the wine, during ovulation, and just before their next appointment at Specsavers. |
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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago
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It needs to be a bit of both of us really.
Of course, looks aren't everything but there needs to be some level of physical attraction. Having said that, someone could be the best looking person ever but if they had shite chat, it's a no from us 
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"Nothing worse when the chat is great then face pics are exchanged and there's no attraction.
Gotta be an attraction or nothing goes any further.
Hence why I avoid fpf, hope to catch women oan the wine, during ovulation, and just before their next appointment at Specsavers. "
Don’t forget the benefits of earlier dark nights and misty foggy weather .  |
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"Nothing worse when the chat is great then face pics are exchanged and there's no attraction.
Gotta be an attraction or nothing goes any further.
Hence why I avoid fpf, hope to catch women oan the wine, during ovulation, and just before their next appointment at Specsavers.
Don’t forget the benefits of earlier dark nights and misty foggy weather . "
Cheers, Cupid! (Heart) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looks reel me in initially, personality keeps me engaged.
If they don't "have something about them" personality wise then even the prettiest of coupons won't swing it for me. |
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By *avie65Man
over a year ago
In the west. |
"Looks reel me in initially, personality keeps me engaged.
If they don't "have something about them" personality wise then even the prettiest of coupons won't swing it for me."
I have just booked to appointments. The first is with a plastic surgeon and the second's at the comedy college.  |
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By *avie65Man
over a year ago
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"Looks reel me in initially, personality keeps me engaged.
If they don't "have something about them" personality wise then even the prettiest of coupons won't swing it for me.
I have just booked to appointments. The first is with a plastic surgeon and the second's at the comedy college. "
Doh, two.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looks reel me in initially, personality keeps me engaged.
If they don't "have something about them" personality wise then even the prettiest of coupons won't swing it for me.
I have just booked to appointments. The first is with a plastic surgeon and the second's at the comedy college.
Doh, two. "
When is the appointment with your English tutor? |
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By *avie65Man
over a year ago
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"Looks reel me in initially, personality keeps me engaged.
If they don't "have something about them" personality wise then even the prettiest of coupons won't swing it for me.
I have just booked to appointments. The first is with a plastic surgeon and the second's at the comedy college.
Doh, two.
When is the appointment with your English tutor? "
I wish I could say it has been a long day or I didn't have my specs on, but!
When do you have space to squeeze in Miss? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looks reel me in initially, personality keeps me engaged.
If they don't "have something about them" personality wise then even the prettiest of coupons won't swing it for me.
I have just booked to appointments. The first is with a plastic surgeon and the second's at the comedy college.
Doh, two.
When is the appointment with your English tutor?
I wish I could say it has been a long day or I didn't have my specs on, but!
When do you have space to squeeze in Miss? "
7.15pm on the 42nd of Julember suit you? |
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By *avie65Man
over a year ago
In the west. |
"Looks reel me in initially, personality keeps me engaged.
If they don't "have something about them" personality wise then even the prettiest of coupons won't swing it for me.
I have just booked to appointments. The first is with a plastic surgeon and the second's at the comedy college.
Doh, two.
When is the appointment with your English tutor?
I wish I could say it has been a long day or I didn't have my specs on, but!
When do you have space to squeeze in Miss?
7.15pm on the 42nd of Julember suit you? "
Yeah. I will mark off the days on my abacus. |
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"Don't we just hate it when the face matches, the profile matches but the chat is crap.... Or the chat is great but there's no attraction
Whats more important to yous, good chat or attraction or does it 100% have to be both like us "
Attraction is what will always make me want to get to know a person .
If they have both then perfect but il always chat to those who are happy to chat if we get along but il always let them know if I’m not interested in meeting them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Chat is absolutely vital in my opinion. If you've got nothing about you and you struggle to get any sort of conversation going, realistically you're probably not going to enjoy yourself as much as you would if you clicked with someone and had a good bit of patter between you and can make each other laugh.
On the flip side though as someone said further up, you can be the soundest person in the world but if there's no attraction there, get yourself on the train to Friendsville.
Personally speaking that's how I see it. There's folk on here that would shag the hole in a dolphins head so I doubt they'll be too bothered about what Munro's you've climbed or how many friendship bracelets you've made! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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100% got to be both for me. The chat has got to be there though regardless of how they look. Attraction is what gets my attention but it's good chat that keeps it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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....having said what I did previously, would also like to point out that you could have top drawer patter but if you've got a coupon like a crash test dummy, we're no pumping. |
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By *humper.Man
over a year ago
northumberland/scotland |
"....having said what I did previously, would also like to point out that you could have top drawer patter but if you've got a coupon like a crash test dummy, we're no pumping."
Spoilsport. |
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By *avie65Man
over a year ago
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"Don't we just hate it when the face matches, the profile matches but the chat is crap.... Or the chat is great but there's no attraction
Whats more important to yous, good chat or attraction or does it 100% have to be both like us Attraction is what will always make me want to get to know a person .
If they have both then perfect but il always chat to those who are happy to chat if we get along but il always let them know if I’m not interested in meeting them "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I honestly struggle to tell who I'm attracted to or not on here. I need good conversation. Some really hot people with no chat won't do it for me. Thank god some men think the same or id not get any lol |
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"Don't we just hate it when the face matches, the profile matches but the chat is crap.... Or the chat is great but there's no attraction
Whats more important to yous, good chat or attraction or does it 100% have to be both like us "
Both. You have to be attractive but the energy in chat had to be matched. I've found a few profiles that have a lot of text in it are then monosyllabic in messaging and you have nowhere to go with what they give you, you can't sustain a conversation off of how they reply. I consider replies like that "technical ghosting" |
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By *ulutvTV/TS
over a year ago
ayrshire |
"Don't we just hate it when the face matches, the profile matches but the chat is crap.... Or the chat is great but there's no attraction
Whats more important to yous, good chat or attraction or does it 100% have to be both like us "
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By *ulutvTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Don't we just hate it when the face matches, the profile matches but the chat is crap.... Or the chat is great but there's no attraction
Whats more important to yous, good chat or attraction or does it 100% have to be both like us "
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By *assNGuyCouple
over a year ago
Glasgow |
It varies with us as we have a variety of interests where sometimes both matter, sometimes neither matters overly like our event next month is based on skills but beyond the main event then other 2 come into play again.
Overall though would say personality tends to be marginally more important to us.
Looks are a way to catch attention but won't be enough on own to commit us to play with you. |
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