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By *apman02 OP Man
over a year ago
glasgow |
How do the guys who are having success on here get women to reply or even open their message?
I have tried everything (apart from abuse as your a cu-ut if you abuse women) and still nothing?
Any helpful tips would be welcome. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You have pics..although dark ..you have words on your profile which is more than most so must be your opening message or folk just nit into you.
Harsh but I always say if you show a picture and no reply take it as a no thanks and move on.
If someone fancies you they will meet you. |
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"How do the guys who are having success on here get women to reply or even open their message?
I have tried everything (apart from abuse as your a cu-ut if you abuse women) and still nothing?
Any helpful tips would be welcome."
to be honest, if you have been on here a year and never had a meet, you're not going to. It's nice your not a cunut though. |
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On for over a year but no veri, can’t Accom, poor pics and spelling errors in bio
I’d pass you by tbh
For me and many women on here we check the profile before even looking at the message.
If the profile is not suitable for us we won’t read the message. Many of us also view in stealth mode so you won’t know if/how many are/have viewed your profile.
Have a look at more successful male profiles or even female for pic and bio ideas (don’t copy though).
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally only reply to long, thought out, non sexual messages with face pictures attached or on a profile. I have hundreds of messages saying things like 'Hi, wanna chat' or 'How's you'or' Wanna meet'. I hate to be rude and ignore messages but I only have a small amount of free time so if the first message doesn't say much I just look for one that does. If the first message is interesting and sounds like someone I'd like to chat more to, I'll then go to their profile and see if they can accommodate and it they've written something which is compatible with what I'm looking for, then I'll respond from that. In my opinion the first message matters most. |
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"I personally only reply to long, thought out, non sexual messages with face pictures attached or on a profile. I have hundreds of messages saying things like 'Hi, wanna chat' or 'How's you'or' Wanna meet'. I hate to be rude and ignore messages but I only have a small amount of free time so if the first message doesn't say much I just look for one that does. If the first message is interesting and sounds like someone I'd like to chat more to, I'll then go to their profile and see if they can accommodate and it they've written something which is compatible with what I'm looking for, then I'll respond from that. In my opinion the first message matters most. "
In your 6 weeks experience on fab, how many men meet your requirements? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I personally only reply to long, thought out, non sexual messages with face pictures attached or on a profile. I have hundreds of messages saying things like 'Hi, wanna chat' or 'How's you'or' Wanna meet'. I hate to be rude and ignore messages but I only have a small amount of free time so if the first message doesn't say much I just look for one that does. If the first message is interesting and sounds like someone I'd like to chat more to, I'll then go to their profile and see if they can accommodate and it they've written something which is compatible with what I'm looking for, then I'll respond from that. In my opinion the first message matters most.
In your 6 weeks experience on fab, how many men meet your requirements?"
I've actually been on and off fab since 2009. I used to be here as part of a couple when I was married. Back then there was definitely a lot more people that met my requirements than there are now though.I've either gotten fussier as I've got older or too tired to do all the work it takes to get ready for meeting new people lol |
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By *at me drink meWoman
over a year ago
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Read a profile before u mail. Dont send a cock foto or u fucking another lass in ur 1st mail. Make ur 1st mail interesting. Women get hundreds of mail a day .dont just send mail saying wana fuck. |
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By *at me drink meWoman
over a year ago
lothians,scotland(wonderland.down the rabbit hole) lothian |
Most women dont want quick fucks alot of guys just want a fuck and thats it&it shows in the mail women get its not a porn site its not just a sex site.(any holes a goal)women want an attraction bit of chat.bit of fun cheeky banter |
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Your profile isn't that bad and is much better than others, but you need better pics.
When writing a message I'd ensure that firstly you match what they're looking for, and tell them what you have to offer.
The issue with the verification can be easily overcome by either going to a social or a club. |
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By *apman02 OP Man
over a year ago
glasgow |
"On for over a year but no veri, can’t Accom, poor pics and spelling errors in bio
I’d pass you by tbh
For me and many women on here we check the profile before even looking at the message.
If the profile is not suitable for us we won’t read the message. Many of us also view in stealth mode so you won’t know if/how many are/have viewed your profile.
Have a look at more successful male profiles or even female for pic and bio ideas (don’t copy though).
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Jesus vamp, even spelling errors!
Yes I can’t accom, I have no veris as I haven’t met anyone to verify yet and trying to get on cjs list for a single guy is tough as the slots go fast but thanks for the advice |
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By *apman02 OP Man
over a year ago
glasgow |
"Your profile isn't that bad and is much better than others, but you need better pics.
When writing a message I'd ensure that firstly you match what they're looking for, and tell them what you have to offer.
The issue with the verification can be easily overcome by either going to a social or a club."
Great advice thank you x |
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By *apman02 OP Man
over a year ago
glasgow |
"How do the guys who are having success on here get women to reply or even open their message?
I have tried everything (apart from abuse as your a cu-ut if you abuse women) and still nothing?
Any helpful tips would be welcome.
to be honest, if you have been on here a year and never had a meet, you're not going to. It's nice your not a cunut though. "
Thanks for the advice mate, membership runs out soon so might just give it up. |
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By *apman02 OP Man
over a year ago
glasgow |
"Read a profile before u mail. Dont send a cock foto or u fucking another lass in ur 1st mail. Make ur 1st mail interesting. Women get hundreds of mail a day .dont just send mail saying wana fuck."
I do read profiles and if something sparks that interests me then I will mail,
I don’t send dick pics on here as I know 99% of women don’t want to see the ugly wee fuckers haha,
Yes I understand women will get hundreds of messages but out of like 20 messages I’ve sent I’m lucky if 3 even open them. |
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Yes spelling mistakes irritate, not major but in combo with everything else it would put me off tbh. You’re not going to be everyone’s type anyway.
You could easily do better pics with better lighting that wouldn’t take you much effort to sort and would benefit you a fair bit I think. |
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By *apman02 OP Man
over a year ago
glasgow |
"Yes spelling mistakes irritate, not major but in combo with everything else it would put me off tbh. You’re not going to be everyone’s type anyway.
You could easily do better pics with better lighting that wouldn’t take you much effort to sort and would benefit you a fair bit I think. "
Your a tough girl to please vamp lol,
I will change my pic over the weekend,
Thanks for the helpful advice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us is it is about an instant impression.
A Black head, a dick pic and even a name such as "Massive King Kong" can put us off.
We want real people so a good photo, and a imaginative profile help.
Then don't spoil it by messaging "How are you", "Having fun on here" and "I would like to fuck your mrs".
Be yourself like you are talking in a pub.. |
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"Most women dont want quick fucks alot of guys just want a fuck and thats it&it shows in the mail women get its not a porn site its not just a sex site.(any holes a goal)women want an attraction bit of chat.bit of fun cheeky banter"
Not sure about that. There are plenty of guys that are looking for more than a quick shag and plenty of girls looking for a quicky and not fussy. All this looking for attraction is not for everyone. I think people that post on forums (especially girls and couples) don't like to admit that all they are looking for a shag and any cock or hole will do as the silly judgemental brigade love to to think their version of swinging is the right one. |
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"Yes spelling mistakes irritate, not major but in combo with everything else it would put me off tbh. You’re not going to be everyone’s type anyway.
You could easily do better pics with better lighting that wouldn’t take you much effort to sort and would benefit you a fair bit I think.
Your a tough girl to please vamp lol,
I will change my pic over the weekend,
Thanks for the helpful advice."
My response is genuinely meant to help. I know it’s a tough go for guys on here. But yea I am fairly fussy I know what I like and don’t like at this point and won’t compromise. I don’t think that helps anyone in the long run if you try and force a connection that isn’t there.
I’m not for everyone either being a bigger woman and older too, that’s fine you can’t be everyone’s cuppa or you’d be a mug.
But presenting your best self will help, there will be ladies on here that are attracted to you if you give them the real opportunity to see you. |
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