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"I find it like a very up and down rollercoaster, some times its great and I love it,and other times it pisses me off,and I usually take a month off. ![]() ![]() We are exactly the same, if real life stresses are in play then we have no patience to deal with the lower end of Fab and tend to take a break until ready to come back refreshed x | |||
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"Fab is what you make of it Yes single guys on here are in the majority and have to battle for crumbs Scotland Isn’t the bedrock of horny fuckers down south is so it’s even harder up here Fab is best used as a tool to find out where the best socials, club meets etc are If your serious about hooking up then that’s where to go Fab was better back in the beginning when there weren’t so many snowflakes who treat the place like Facebook or are looking for long term relationships or marriage. There are plenty of vanilla sites for that Swinging is about sex not chatting about it Attending parties yea, even the old fashioned keys in a bowl lucky dip type of wife swap Actually easier to go to the pub and hook up the old fashioned way " We spoke to a guy who has only ever met single girls on Fab. Despite our veris he wasn’t convinced we were genuine. We reckoned he probably wasn’t really into meeting couples. There seem to be quite a number of people like him on Fab and a fair bit of play seems to be one to one rather than three or more. In our view Fab should be about things that general members of the public might think is a bit wild and out there. Single guy meets single girl for NSA sex doesn’t really strike us as needing a Fab profile to achieve. But we know saying single guy meeting single girl is not swinging is a divisive topic. ![]() | |||
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"Fab is what you make of it Yes single guys on here are in the majority and have to battle for crumbs Scotland Isn’t the bedrock of horny fuckers down south is so it’s even harder up here Spot on 100% Fab is best used as a tool to find out where the best socials, club meets etc are If your serious about hooking up then that’s where to go Fab was better back in the beginning when there weren’t so many snowflakes who treat the place like Facebook or are looking for long term relationships or marriage. There are plenty of vanilla sites for that Swinging is about sex not chatting about it Attending parties yea, even the old fashioned keys in a bowl lucky dip type of wife swap Actually easier to go to the pub and hook up the old fashioned way " | |||
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"By new show and tell does the OP mean lots of people posting pics and talking a good game but never actually meeting ? If so then yes. We’ve seen at least one profile that posts lots of pics, loves the attention but never actually meets. How empty does your life need to be to seek validation that you look good from Fab without having any verification to prove you are ever actually meeting for fun? Hope we haven’t misread the post ![]() You are so correct with that post!! Look good but never meet C | |||
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"Op use the reply and quote button no-one knows who your replying to. " I was quite enjoying trying to match the comment with the post... ![]() | |||
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"Op use the reply and quote button no-one knows who your replying to. I was quite enjoying trying to match the comment with the post... ![]() Haha that’s what I was doing ![]() | |||
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"Op use the reply and quote button no-one knows who your replying to. I was quite enjoying trying to match the comment with the post... ![]() ![]() Great minds! ![]() | |||
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"Op use the reply and quote button no-one knows who your replying to. " Apologies We’ve used this way before but others moaned saying why are we adding the quote etc lol | |||
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"Op use the reply and quote button no-one knows who your replying to. I was quite enjoying trying to match the comment with the post... ![]() How far did you get lol We replied to everyone from start to finish Lol | |||
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"Op use the reply and quote button no-one knows who your replying to. I was quite enjoying trying to match the comment with the post... ![]() ![]() Glad we amused you all so far Let normal service resume lmfao | |||
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"Op use the reply and quote button no-one knows who your replying to. I was quite enjoying trying to match the comment with the post... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Op use the reply and quote button no-one knows who your replying to. I was quite enjoying trying to match the comment with the post... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() See! You've got the hang of it now! On yersel! ![]() | |||
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"Op use the reply and quote button no-one knows who your replying to. I was quite enjoying trying to match the comment with the post... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Yea we knew that lol But loads of people moaned why we had been putting the quote and our reply up lol Some people can’t win ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Op use the reply and quote button no-one knows who your replying to. I was quite enjoying trying to match the comment with the post... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Tell them to fuck up. Always someone moaning on here! | |||
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"Op use the reply and quote button no-one knows who your replying to. I was quite enjoying trying to match the comment with the post... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Folk moan for anything on here …. you don it your way who cares what others say ….ps I liked the non quoting it passed some time in my otherwise non eventful evening ![]() | |||
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"Op use the reply and quote button no-one knows who your replying to. I was quite enjoying trying to match the comment with the post... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() You’re absolutely right lol Far too many people with opinions that shouldn’t be opinionated ![]() | |||
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"Fab is a fantastic concept, ruined by too many fakes, timewasters, shitebags etc. In saying that, it's worth wading through the crap as I've chatted with and met plenty of great people so it's a big thumbs up from me! " But wading through the shite shouldn’t be the case as some people pay to be site supporters which should really be a way of getting rid of the shite | |||
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"Op use the reply and quote button no-one knows who your replying to. I was quite enjoying trying to match the comment with the post... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Yea we know exactly we’ve been on and off Fab for a long time Your exactly right people love a moan lol | |||
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"I like being able to have open and honest conversations with the people I meet on Fab. Not sure what the ‘show and tell’ relates to. " Nothing to do with open and honest conversations But thanks for playing lol | |||
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"I find it like a very up and down rollercoaster, some times its great and I love it,and other times it pisses me off,and I usually take a month off. ![]() ![]() Ooops my bad Meant This !!!! ![]() | |||
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"It's certainly not what i expected it to be and I find myself gradually losing interest. The fact that Tinder is far more successful for what i thought Fab would be for is surprising and quite damning." You meet couples on tinder? | |||
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"I like being able to have open and honest conversations with the people I meet on Fab. Not sure what the ‘show and tell’ relates to. " Think they are meaning the fact that alot of people like to talk and show pics etc instead of physically meeting people. I like the site for its diversity, alot of people are exhibitionists and get a thrill of people seeing pics and alot do like a bit of validation and why not? Everyone has their own reasons for being here, it's not as black and white as just a "sex site" | |||
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"It's certainly not what i expected it to be and I find myself gradually losing interest. The fact that Tinder is far more successful for what i thought Fab would be for is surprising and quite damning. You meet couples on tinder? Occasionally yes. Certainly singles and those that are looking for more than one to one " | |||
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"It's certainly not what i expected it to be and I find myself gradually losing interest. The fact that Tinder is far more successful for what i thought Fab would be for is surprising and quite damning." Your absolutely right it’s so cloak and dagger on Fab but why should it be so ridiculous as it is now | |||
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"I find it like a very up and down rollercoaster, some times its great and I love it,and other times it pisses me off,and I usually take a month off. ![]() ![]() ![]() Some people do find it like a rollercoaster we definitely agree | |||
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"Chick pea curry is the future, fact! " Now out of all the replies this could be the perfect answer lol | |||
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"It's certainly not what i expected it to be and I find myself gradually losing interest. The fact that Tinder is far more successful for what i thought Fab would be for is surprising and quite damning. You meet couples on tinder?" Don’t think this person meant couples but single females etc But I may stand corrected lol | |||
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"I like being able to have open and honest conversations with the people I meet on Fab. Not sure what the ‘show and tell’ relates to. Think they are meaning the fact that alot of people like to talk and show pics etc instead of physically meeting people. I like the site for its diversity, alot of people are exhibitionists and get a thrill of people seeing pics and alot do like a bit of validation and why not? Everyone has their own reasons for being here, it's not as black and white as just a "sex site" " You can still be an exhibitionist but meet people Think there is far too many social climbers on this and want to be number one on the most fabbed pics lol | |||
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"I like being able to have open and honest conversations with the people I meet on Fab. Not sure what the ‘show and tell’ relates to. Think they are meaning the fact that alot of people like to talk and show pics etc instead of physically meeting people. I like the site for its diversity, alot of people are exhibitionists and get a thrill of people seeing pics and alot do like a bit of validation and why not? Everyone has their own reasons for being here, it's not as black and white as just a "sex site" You can still be an exhibitionist but meet people Think there is far too many social climbers on this and want to be number one on the most fabbed pics lol" Have any of your pics been fabbed? If so then surely you must be included in the do called show and tell? | |||
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"I like being able to have open and honest conversations with the people I meet on Fab. Not sure what the ‘show and tell’ relates to. Think they are meaning the fact that alot of people like to talk and show pics etc instead of physically meeting people. I like the site for its diversity, alot of people are exhibitionists and get a thrill of people seeing pics and alot do like a bit of validation and why not? Everyone has their own reasons for being here, it's not as black and white as just a "sex site" You can still be an exhibitionist but meet people Think there is far too many social climbers on this and want to be number one on the most fabbed pics lol Have any of your pics been fabbed? If so then surely you must be included in the do called show and tell? " Thing is we ain’t looking for praise on our pictures But thanks for the attempt to try call us out or slanging match ![]() | |||
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"I like being able to have open and honest conversations with the people I meet on Fab. Not sure what the ‘show and tell’ relates to. Think they are meaning the fact that alot of people like to talk and show pics etc instead of physically meeting people. I like the site for its diversity, alot of people are exhibitionists and get a thrill of people seeing pics and alot do like a bit of validation and why not? Everyone has their own reasons for being here, it's not as black and white as just a "sex site" You can still be an exhibitionist but meet people Think there is far too many social climbers on this and want to be number one on the most fabbed pics lol Have any of your pics been fabbed? If so then surely you must be included in the do called show and tell? Thing is we ain’t looking for praise on our pictures But thanks for the attempt to try call us out or slanging match ![]() Its merely an observation of the hypocrisy on fab is all. Not a slanging match at all, if you post on a public forum you will get people's response. | |||
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"I think by the nature of the site show and tell is a good description but only because it is a swingers site. People post photos so others can see what they look like and have veris (tell), which lets others know they are actually real people. If someone only wants to post photos and get likes that's upto them as it could be what turns them on. " Exactly this ![]() | |||
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"I like being able to have open and honest conversations with the people I meet on Fab. Not sure what the ‘show and tell’ relates to. Think they are meaning the fact that alot of people like to talk and show pics etc instead of physically meeting people. I like the site for its diversity, alot of people are exhibitionists and get a thrill of people seeing pics and alot do like a bit of validation and why not? Everyone has their own reasons for being here, it's not as black and white as just a "sex site" You can still be an exhibitionist but meet people Think there is far too many social climbers on this and want to be number one on the most fabbed pics lol Have any of your pics been fabbed? If so then surely you must be included in the do called show and tell? Thing is we ain’t looking for praise on our pictures But thanks for the attempt to try call us out or slanging match ![]() We think you’ve lost what this post is actually aimed around! We’re not entering a slanging match You’ve been reported !! | |||
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"I always find it funny that people(us included) will happily post their nakedness but not faces! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() No doubt about that but it’s the alluring part which is nice But this is an exception But to post a good handful of images to be at the top of the fabbed pictures is seriously sad efforts in life surely? In today’s society we’ve bred these sort of people to become glory hunters and social climbers feeling the need to be desired and wanted Pathetic in our eyes | |||
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"I like being able to have open and honest conversations with the people I meet on Fab. Not sure what the ‘show and tell’ relates to. Think they are meaning the fact that alot of people like to talk and show pics etc instead of physically meeting people. I like the site for its diversity, alot of people are exhibitionists and get a thrill of people seeing pics and alot do like a bit of validation and why not? Everyone has their own reasons for being here, it's not as black and white as just a "sex site" You can still be an exhibitionist but meet people Think there is far too many social climbers on this and want to be number one on the most fabbed pics lol Have any of your pics been fabbed? If so then surely you must be included in the do called show and tell? Thing is we ain’t looking for praise on our pictures But thanks for the attempt to try call us out or slanging match ![]() I haven't been abusive or anything on the post as everyone can see, so thanks for that. | |||
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"I always find it funny that people(us included) will happily post their nakedness but not faces! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I suppose there was a time when posting on a swingers forum would about naked pictures would seem a bit of a sad way to live your life. Maybe even those that bred you may have thought this way. | |||
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"I always find it funny that people(us included) will happily post their nakedness but not faces! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() There's an option to remove the fabbing of your photos in the account section, I'm assuming this is turned off on yours if you don't like the fabbing etc? That's not me giving an attack/slagging, just a genuine question. | |||
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"I wish I had fab 30 years ago along with other sites . Hopefully it will help people find each other that need certain things . " Perfectly put ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I always find it funny that people(us included) will happily post their nakedness but not faces! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Think people have lost track of what we we’re getting at One person that commented we had previous altercations with ! We feel that certain profiles only like to be like show and tell That’s all we merely wanted people’s opinion Ourselves we ain’t being hypocritical but we certainly ain’t looking to be at the top on the most fabbed pics But people do advertise this on their status saying fab my pics etc Wow has this gotten blown out of proportion and some personal attacks Nasty people right enough!! | |||
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"I always find it funny that people(us included) will happily post their nakedness but not faces! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I do hope you aren't talking about me as having previous altercations? As the only contact I have had with you previously is when I said I wasn't interested and you didn't like the reason and so we both blocked. That's all I'm going to say as the only person who blew this out of proportion was yourself. Perhaps if you didn't want people getting off track then perhaps you could have explained it more clearly in the first instance. Enjoy the rest of your day. | |||
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"I always find it funny that people(us included) will happily post their nakedness but not faces! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Geniunly wasn't trying to be nasty in anyway at all ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I always find it funny that people(us included) will happily post their nakedness but not faces! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Wow ! Actually no But thanks for the call out !! Have a nice life | |||
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"I always find it funny that people(us included) will happily post their nakedness but not faces! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() No wasn’t saying your nasty apologies Was basically stating there are some nasty people on here ![]() | |||
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"I always find it funny that people(us included) will happily post their nakedness but not faces! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Yes you're right, as well as some stupendously judgemental types that think people are pathetic for wanting their photo's fabbed!!! Still it takes all sorts. | |||
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"It's certainly not what i expected it to be and I find myself gradually losing interest. The fact that Tinder is far more successful for what i thought Fab would be for is surprising and quite damning." Have you tried b*mble, where the women have to make the first move? I've found that site and even p.*.f. more successful in spending a nice time with someone. | |||
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