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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just looking for a general chat on ENM. I’m in one and have been for two years. Been married for 11 years and my husband chooses not to play (just not that bothered about it) but supports me to do whatever I want. I don’t find it difficult to meet people thankfully but I do find it difficult to juggle married/family life with meets, how much time I spend online finding people I like, spending time getting to know someone before meeting them etc. I’m finding that I can get carried away with flirty chat, sexting etc as it is a thrill and rush. When I meet someone and it goes further than a social, I like to evaluate how I feel about things and this time I have taken a step back because I’m finding myself slip close towards it becoming too much of a focus in my life. I was just wondering how people in similar situations work things? Many thanks x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We're currently new to ENM but enjoying it so far.
A big take away we find is that typically mrs has no issues finding guys ( good quality guys is a different story).
However Mr hits a lot of barriers of woman who want a fwb but not from a guy in a relationship already. The attitude across the sexes makes it difficult. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We're currently new to ENM but enjoying it so far.
A big take away we find is that typically mrs has no issues finding guys ( good quality guys is a different story).
However Mr hits a lot of barriers of woman who want a fwb but not from a guy in a relationship already. The attitude across the sexes makes it difficult."
Absolutely - finding good quality guys is hard. I find I spend a lot of time deleting messages, or having a few chats go then find out the guy isn’t what I’m looking for. It becomes like a part time job which is why I’ve hidden my profile for a bit.
One of the reasons why my husband doesn’t meet anyone is because of the lack of women compared to men online. And he can’t be bothered putting in the effort to find someone lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One of the reasons why my husband doesn’t meet anyone is because of the lack of women compared to men online. And he can’t be bothered putting in the effort to find someone lol. "
From a male perspective I suspect Fab just isn't the best place to look. Guess we'll see how it goes x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"One of the reasons why my husband doesn’t meet anyone is because of the lack of women compared to men online. And he can’t be bothered putting in the effort to find someone lol.
From a male perspective I suspect Fab just isn't the best place to look. Guess we'll see how it goes x"
Have you tried CJs? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP is it ultimately leaving you feeling unfulfilled
Wee bit. "
Ouch, although it has been said it can be difficult for one person to be everything for another. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Apologies from an old duffer, but isn't enm just an open relationship?"
Pretty much aye. I’ve done a bit of research and apparently I’m a “hotwife” ??? Lol |
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