"erm we hope to feck none of our friends or family know.....not exactly kind of thing i would share with my workmates on a monday morning lol.
jason"
Whyever not? You'll probably find it'd be the most exciting thing in many of their lives. |
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"gav,s work mates love to hear what he's been upto at the weekend lol"
i bet they do.....i will just stick with telling my colleagues i watched the x factor lol jason
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we keep it as discrete as possible. We both have one 'vanilla' friend each who knows about it - i think we'd go mad not being able to talk about it to someone.... lol
can't spread it further than that for career reasons - some things are best just kept private
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Most of my immediate family know as do generally all of my friends. It's quite nice really cause they come to me with advice and stories of things gone wrong and I can always assure them of something that's happened to me that was worse!
I rather believe that if your ashamed of what you are doing then you shouldn't be doing it in the first place. I do however realise that no one everyone has that luxury though x |
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professionaly for me it would be hello job centre!! none of my close friends know and dont feel the need to tell them i dont think they would see me different but as far as im concerned i dont know what goes on in their bedroom they dont need to know what goes on in mine!! |
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"i keep it pretty low key as well. Dont think it would go down well if the work or even my other employer found out.
Kev"
I agree Kev - lmao we could be banged up in the cell next to each other  |
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We dont tell anyone, not because we are ashamed of what we do but because we have kids, I'm pretty sure the mothers at the kids foootie team would luv the gossip. Its a personal thing, if you tell folks thats cool but I do think if you are single then its a bit easier as u only have your self to answer too.
Have felt the urge a few times though to tell my brother but have always shat ma self 
PS Malc here btw |
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"We dont tell anyone, not because we are ashamed of what we do but because we have kids, I'm pretty sure the mothers at the kids foootie team would luv the gossip. Its a personal thing, if you tell folks thats cool but I do think if you are single then its a bit easier as u only have your self to answer too.
Have felt the urge a few times though to tell my brother but have always shat ma self
PS Malc here btw"
been tempted to tell my brother aswell but knowing him it would make its way back to scotland from oz in no time !!  |
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It's the 64 million dollar question, To Tell or Not Too Tell, in our case if we wanted to totally shock,devastate, and rearange reality for every vanilla we know, not to mention head to the next job centre then we would blab We'r not ashamed of what we do, but our relatives, kids and the rest do still have to live in the blinkered world we call reality, so with that in mind we probably wouldn't go advertising in the local press. |
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we dont tell anyone what we get up to mainly to stay diecrete - the idea that we are doing something secretive and sooo horny is such a buzz.
Being illicit or furtive is the best bit of discretion - we sometimes talk in chat about experiences, but never ever ever say who we've met, or where...
Swing World is our own wee place where we go when we can - no one lives there except those we have been lucky enough to meet! |
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