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By *r3mrs OP Couple
over a year ago
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So a bit of a moan here...we're on so I can meet single guys (or guys with permission from their partner) for fun (with the odd exception, building up to a couple meet) We met a great single guy on here years ago and had some fun sessions since then, then the surprise when I get a message from his significant other unsurprisingly she was not happy!
Totally get and sympathise with the poor girl but we didn't need that hassle! Folk need to be honest on here! It has definately put us off or at least made us far more suspicious.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Re honesty in general…as Jack said in “A Few Good Men”… “You Can’t Handle the Truth” … not meaning you OP. People in general say they want the truth but they often don’t handle it well. Not saying that excuses lies just an observation |
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"Re honesty in general…as Jack said in “A Few Good Men”… “You Can’t Handle the Truth” … not meaning you OP. People in general say they want the truth but they often don’t handle it well. Not saying that excuses lies just an observation "
I forgot I'd said that
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Re honesty in general…as Jack said in “A Few Good Men”… “You Can’t Handle the Truth” … not meaning you OP. People in general say they want the truth but they often don’t handle it well. Not saying that excuses lies just an observation
I forgot I'd said that
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He could had been honest upfront but then would you meet him?
He had taken his chance and it sadly it backfired.
In my opinion if everyone is upfront at the start, it saves hassle later on..
But each to their own and have their on reasons |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As others have said it didn't benefit him to be honest, he got what he wanted and yeah it might be selfish but it worked.
It sucks you got dragged into it but he obviously thought the lie was worth the risk. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So a bit of a moan here...we're on so I can meet single guys (or guys with permission from their partner) for fun (with the odd exception, building up to a couple meet) We met a great single guy on here years ago and had some fun sessions since then, then the surprise when I get a message from his significant other unsurprisingly she was not happy!
Totally get and sympathise with the poor girl but we didn't need that hassle! Folk need to be honest on here! It has definately put us off or at least made us far more suspicious.
Anyone else had this? "
I’ve had that but other way round  women was married but said she was single and mr messaged me |
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I have always been upfront that am married and is the first thing I say on my profile and to be honest don't think it does me any favours as seems to be turn off to most.
But just hanging in there that some happy to meet a married guy |
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By *andi_CDTV/TS
over a year ago
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I am upfront when chatting early on and 95% of the time it kills off any possible meets but the 5% of time folk are happy with it have led to fun times.
Folk are entitled to their view and if its a no then just wish them well and move on |
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"I have always been upfront that am married and is the first thing I say on my profile and to be honest don't think it does me any favours as seems to be turn off to most.
But just hanging in there that some happy to meet a married guy "
Ditto mate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It shouldn't really come as a surprise to anyone about a guy lying to get sex, it's only been happening since man first spoke. If he didn't lie he wouldn't have had sex.
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That’s a refreshing viewpoint  |
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