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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why would you mind getting a compliment?? You'd have to be a real tit to not want a compliment on the grounds of gender - this is not the 70s. A compliment form a guy is not going to "turn you" or diminish your blokey credentials  if we see a great pic it gets fabbed, regardless of gender.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On my past 100 viewed by, it generally goes 90 Male, 4 couple, 3 TV, 1 Woman.
I chat regularly with a couple of lovely ladies, but every now and then a message pops up from a guy. Like Miss Muff said, a compliment is a compliment, so I'm polite and the conversation usually drops shortly afterwards. |
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"Do straight guys mind when curious/gay guys compliment on their photos? Or send messages of compliment?  "
I don't complain or get fussed when I get fabs, compliments and offers from straight married guys. Even if I wanted to they've usually got me blocked, very strange. |
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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago
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I've not got a problem at all with any kind of compliment from bi or gay men. I'm listed as bi here but I'm not attracted to men or have a desire to be with men (if anyone wants an explanation of this identity, check our bio).
At the end of the day, I think those that do complain are simply showing the signs of homonegativity and toxic masculinity that are commonplace in society.
I'm in no way saying that they are actively trying to be malicious towards the person that compliment them or to cause offence/harm but are merely acting out of what society has trained them to.
Well, that's just my opinion maaaaaan. 
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"I've not got a problem at all with any kind of compliment from bi or gay men. I'm listed as bi here but I'm not attracted to men or have a desire to be with men (if anyone wants an explanation of this identity, check our bio).
At the end of the day, I think those that do complain are simply showing the signs of homonegativity and toxic masculinity that are commonplace in society.
I'm in no way saying that they are actively trying to be malicious towards the person that compliment them or to cause offence/harm but are merely acting out of what society has trained them to.
Well, that's just my opinion maaaaaan.
C x "
Totally agree, I don't mind letting a guy know when he's handsome.
I'm not bi or gay, can just appreciate a good looking person whether man or woman when I see one.
The problem for me arises when my profile clearly says straight but I have men messaging me telling what they'd like to do to me.
Surely they can just look up bi or gay men to message? |
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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago
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"I've not got a problem at all with any kind of compliment from bi or gay men. I'm listed as bi here but I'm not attracted to men or have a desire to be with men (if anyone wants an explanation of this identity, check our bio).
At the end of the day, I think those that do complain are simply showing the signs of homonegativity and toxic masculinity that are commonplace in society.
I'm in no way saying that they are actively trying to be malicious towards the person that compliment them or to cause offence/harm but are merely acting out of what society has trained them to.
Well, that's just my opinion maaaaaan.
C x
Totally agree, I don't mind letting a guy know when he's handsome.
I'm not bi or gay, can just appreciate a good looking person whether man or woman when I see one.
The problem for me arises when my profile clearly says straight but I have men messaging me telling what they'd like to do to me.
Surely they can just look up bi or gay men to message?"
I can see why that would be frustrating.
I guess the easiest way to avoid that would just be to block messages from single guys in message filters and not pin it all on your requests in your profile. That's exactly what we did when we joined as we knew it was likely, due to the huge number of single guys messaging us within minutes of joining, we would continue to receive contact from those not reading our profile.  Sadly, it seems not all that many on the site actually check anyone's bios anyway...
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not looking to meet gay/bi guys so have them blocked.
Any guy moaning about attention from gay/bi guys who doesn't have them blocked is at it. Lol. "
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Think if you can separate a compliment from the assumption of sexual attraction you will be fine.
I think most men would have said David Beckham in his prime was an attractive men. Didnt mean they wanted to have sex with him.. |
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"Think if you can separate a compliment from the assumption of sexual attraction you will be fine.
I think most men would have said David Beckham in his prime was an attractive men. Didnt mean they wanted to have sex with him.."
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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"Think if you can separate a compliment from the assumption of sexual attraction you will be fine.
I think most men would have said David Beckham in his prime was an attractive men. Didnt mean they wanted to have sex with him.."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A compliment should be taken as intended regardless of who it's from. If you're not comfortable with compliments from the same sex and you haven't blocked them from messaging you then you may be in denial. Just my humble opinion |
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