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"Kinky you need to grow up and move on. No one likes a moan bag" This is what really fucks me off with the forms… its a place for opinions… the lads been ghosted because folk now cant deal with confrontation. Happily give the lad advice but i wish folk wouldnt kick folk when there down like this… he’s obviously got no one else that he can vent this stuff too so just be nice and treat folk how you would like to me treated… Too many vipers and trolls on the forms these days | |||
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"Yep the forum is a hard place! My real point was why start chatting if you then ignore after a bit? Or worse still suddenly become rude then act all high and mighty. It’s a sex site and we are all adults ffs! We all have our turn ons and turn offs… An example here, was chatting to a lady back and forward for an hour, suddenly no response When I messaged later to ask if I’d said something wrong got told I was “clingy” when I thought I was just showing a bit of respect by apologizing for anything I’d said that maybe offended" Thats outrageous. I would say needy rather than clingy | |||
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"When you start chatting to someone and it’s going like you are building up a dialogue do they suddenly stop? We are all adults on here, nothing bad/ misinterpretation written. Then no more chat… ? Don’t get it… " A sign of the times really, nothing to do with maybe something you said or style of chat,posibly, dont know though. Look at the options, social media,various apps etc people click on alongside fabs, should be chuffed you acheived an exchange of messages generally. How often do you click on chatroom for example, see someone you like and all thats usually exchanged is,,,"hi", why because they are, hardly even looking at the chat, juggling the phone, replying to texts, clicking on various other stuff on the phone, just a theory on what contributes to the hit or miss of communicating via fab. Not a criticism, a theory on,,,,why. | |||
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"Yeah true and I’m for a first response Just don’t get the drop off later that’s all If you are “chatting” a bit then it goes cold, if you aren’t interested don’t start talking " How will you know if you're interested without talking? | |||
"Kinky you need to grow up and move on. No one likes a moan bag.” “This is what really fucks me off with the forms… its a place for opinions… the lads been ghosted because folk now cant deal with confrontation. Happily give the lad advice but i wish folk wouldnt kick folk when there down like this… he’s obviously got no one else that he can vent this stuff too so just be nice and treat folk how you would like to me treated… Too many vipers and trolls on the forms these days" This, 100 fucking percent Guys come onto the forum to ask a question/have a rant, who cares, that’s what the forums are for. If you don’t like it, scroll on by. As for constant whinging status updates… | |||
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"Hope that’s not directed at me Status updates are trying to get a party together! "If you use the reply+quote button under a post we'll know who you're replying to | |||
"Yeah true and I’m for a first response Just don’t get the drop off later that’s all If you are “chatting” a bit then it goes cold, if you aren’t interested don’t start talking How will you know if you're interested without talking? " Exactly this! You need to chat first to find out if there is interest. | |||
"I only ghost when I run of of messages, by the time midnight comes they’ve ducked off and aren’t interested anymore or deleted their profile. " Or emptied their baws | |||
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"To be honest I’ve been guilty of it. Recently I was chatting to a guy then I must have changed my profile pic or something as I had a sudden influx of mails which I wasn’t in the mood to answer straight away but before you know it weeks have went by when I noticed I had missed the original guys message mixed in amongst all the new ones - I did mail to apologize but it probably looked like an excuse. "Yeah this happens with me. I don't hold much sway with chats on here before meeting. I normally have to ask them to remind me of their name if we meet for coffee. Kinda like online chat ain't real til the coffee is on the table and it's an actual real chat | |||
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