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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I’m looking for tips on losing my anal virginity. I have messed about with small toys etc and enjoyed it thoroughly but the thought of being pegged by a woman or fucked by a tv is still quite daunting. I could obviously explain that it would need to be gentle initially but the motion of something sliding in and out makes me feel a bit queasy. Does this sensation pass? I’ve only ever used vibrating toys and not fucked myself with anything.

Very random question I know but I just hoped for some advice. Thanks in advance anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Try not having a straight profile for a start

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Try not having a straight profile for a start "

Ha ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’m looking for tips on losing my anal virginity. I have messed about with small toys etc and enjoyed it thoroughly but the thought of being pegged by a woman or fucked by a tv is still quite daunting. I could obviously explain that it would need to be gentle initially but the motion of something sliding in and out makes me feel a bit queasy. Does this sensation pass? I’ve only ever used vibrating toys and not fucked myself with anything.

Very random question I know but I just hoped for some advice. Thanks in advance anyone. "

Serious for a second...see if something made me feel queasy....I wouldn't be pursuing it.

This sounds like a case of "Sphincter Says No".

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By *melia DominaTV/TS  over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)


"I’m looking for tips on losing my anal virginity. "

Okay. Couple of house cleaning issues first.

Block guys from messaging and remove the disclaimer about guys on your profile.

That whole area it is quite aggressive in nature and by definition will put off people connection with you in a bisexual sense.

Look at it this way. You find a connection you get what you want. You turn around and lamp the person for violating you. Thats what that whole section screams.

Though the intentions are for a reason. The aggressive tone suggests red flag.

So be smart use the site, Block guys from messaging and remove the disclaimer about guys on your profile.

At minimum you are bi curious.

Add it to your profile. In setting and in your profile text.

Being bi doesn't mean you are into men! Lets get that right out there.

You are interested in other relationships outwith the normal construct of cis male / cis female.

As you have mentioned already a TV or perhaps a trans person.

Example, I am attracted to all feminity, whether they are cis female, trans or cd/tv. I love strap on play and love anal.

Am I gay. No. Not interested in men in the slightest. They are toys to humiliate and correct. Am I Bi absolutely.

So be genuine on your profile.

Now. Regarding linking up with others.

You pool is niche and is extremely limited.

Then there is attraction, location, matching times etc etc.

Not including the training element of you being an anal virgin.

So someone willing to be caring and gentle and guide you through your first full experience.

This will require effort on your behalf. It ain't gonna land straight in your lap...

Make the changes to your profile. Search the site effectively.

Find the attraction. Communicate openly and honestly.

You WILL meet someone who is willing to share this experience with you..

Gotta be clever and think smart here.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’m looking for tips on losing my anal virginity.

Okay. Couple of house cleaning issues first.

Block guys from messaging and remove the disclaimer about guys on your profile.

That whole area it is quite aggressive in nature and by definition will put off people connection with you in a bisexual sense.

Look at it this way. You find a connection you get what you want. You turn around and lamp the person for violating you. Thats what that whole section screams.

Though the intentions are for a reason. The aggressive tone suggests red flag.

So be smart use the site, Block guys from messaging and remove the disclaimer about guys on your profile.

At minimum you are bi curious.

Add it to your profile. In setting and in your profile text.

Being bi doesn't mean you are into men! Lets get that right out there.

You are interested in other relationships outwith the normal construct of cis male / cis female.

As you have mentioned already a TV or perhaps a trans person.

Example, I am attracted to all feminity, whether they are cis female, trans or cd/tv. I love strap on play and love anal.

Am I gay. No. Not interested in men in the slightest. They are toys to humiliate and correct. Am I Bi absolutely.

So be genuine on your profile.

Now. Regarding linking up with others.

You pool is niche and is extremely limited.

Then there is attraction, location, matching times etc etc.

Not including the training element of you being an anal virgin.

So someone willing to be caring and gentle and guide you through your first full experience.

This will require effort on your behalf. It ain't gonna land straight in your lap...

Make the changes to your profile. Search the site effectively.

Find the attraction. Communicate openly and honestly.

You WILL meet someone who is willing to share this experience with you..

Gotta be clever and think smart here.

Good luck.

"

Thorough advice. .

I'm betting a tenner the OP will completely disregard it and be back in 5 weeks asking how he can get his arse pumped.

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By *ookie69Man  over a year ago

Whistle Dixie


"I’m looking for tips on losing my anal virginity.

Okay. Couple of house cleaning issues first.

Block guys from messaging and remove the disclaimer about guys on your profile.

That whole area it is quite aggressive in nature and by definition will put off people connection with you in a bisexual sense.

Look at it this way. You find a connection you get what you want. You turn around and lamp the person for violating you. Thats what that whole section screams.

Though the intentions are for a reason. The aggressive tone suggests red flag.

So be smart use the site, Block guys from messaging and remove the disclaimer about guys on your profile.

At minimum you are bi curious.

Add it to your profile. In setting and in your profile text.

Being bi doesn't mean you are into men! Lets get that right out there.

You are interested in other relationships outwith the normal construct of cis male / cis female.

As you have mentioned already a TV or perhaps a trans person.

Example, I am attracted to all feminity, whether they are cis female, trans or cd/tv. I love strap on play and love anal.

Am I gay. No. Not interested in men in the slightest. They are toys to humiliate and correct. Am I Bi absolutely.

So be genuine on your profile.

Now. Regarding linking up with others.

You pool is niche and is extremely limited.

Then there is attraction, location, matching times etc etc.

Not including the training element of you being an anal virgin.

So someone willing to be caring and gentle and guide you through your first full experience.

This will require effort on your behalf. It ain't gonna land straight in your lap...

Make the changes to your profile. Search the site effectively.

Find the attraction. Communicate openly and honestly.

You WILL meet someone who is willing to share this experience with you..

Gotta be clever and think smart here.

Good luck.

"

Probably the best advice OP you are going too get on you're post.

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By *melia DominaTV/TS  over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)


" I'm betting a tenner the OP will completely disregard it and be back in 5 weeks asking how he can get his arse pumped."
oh Miss muff, such a cynic We have have faith every so often. xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Thank you that’s very helpful, I’ll look into making those changes and take it from there. Much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Agreed. I took note of all the points so will take it from there!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Noted thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’m looking for tips on losing my anal virginity.

Okay. Couple of house cleaning issues first.

Block guys from messaging and remove the disclaimer about guys on your profile.

That whole area it is quite aggressive in nature and by definition will put off people connection with you in a bisexual sense.

Look at it this way. You find a connection you get what you want. You turn around and lamp the person for violating you. Thats what that whole section screams.

Though the intentions are for a reason. The aggressive tone suggests red flag.

So be smart use the site, Block guys from messaging and remove the disclaimer about guys on your profile.

At minimum you are bi curious.

Add it to your profile. In setting and in your profile text.

Being bi doesn't mean you are into men! Lets get that right out there.

You are interested in other relationships outwith the normal construct of cis male / cis female.

As you have mentioned already a TV or perhaps a trans person.

Example, I am attracted to all feminity, whether they are cis female, trans or cd/tv. I love strap on play and love anal.

Am I gay. No. Not interested in men in the slightest. They are toys to humiliate and correct. Am I Bi absolutely.

So be genuine on your profile.

Now. Regarding linking up with others.

You pool is niche and is extremely limited.

Then there is attraction, location, matching times etc etc.

Not including the training element of you being an anal virgin.

So someone willing to be caring and gentle and guide you through your first full experience.

This will require effort on your behalf. It ain't gonna land straight in your lap...

Make the changes to your profile. Search the site effectively.

Find the attraction. Communicate openly and honestly.

You WILL meet someone who is willing to share this experience with you..

Gotta be clever and think smart here.

Good luck.

"

"This will require effort on your behalf. It ain't gonna land straight in your lap"...

He doesn't want it on his lap he wants it up his arse

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By *melia DominaTV/TS  over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)


"

"This will require effort on your behalf. It ain't gonna land straight in your lap"...

He doesn't want it on his lap he wants it up his arse "

You behave now Mr Tarzan or I'll take you over ma knee and scelp yer arse mister...

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