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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Give it your best shot as to why its worth being on here?

Maybe it's just me but it seems to have lost its appeal.

You agree or disagree?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Pros - Hotwife(wives )

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman  over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"

Give it your best shot as to why its worth being on here?

Maybe it's just me but it seems to have lost its appeal.

You agree or disagree? "

once you start feeling that way it’s time for a break .

Just hide your profile and take some time out and come back in a few months

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"

Give it your best shot as to why its worth being on here?

Maybe it's just me but it seems to have lost its appeal.

You agree or disagree? once you start feeling that way it’s time for a break .

Just hide your profile and take some time out and come back in a few months "

I've had more comebacks than Status Quo

Come back fresh and eager to go but this place has a habit of kicking the crap out of you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Pros - Hotwife(wives ) "
Where?

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By *imbobaMan  over a year ago

Glasgow

Disagree. I’ve met and chatted to numerous great people and continue to do so. Un-skunnered.

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By *oShrinkingVioletWoman  over a year ago

the land of unicorns and fairytales


"Pros - Hotwife(wives ) "

Pros mrJ

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By *tirling DarkCouple  over a year ago

Stirling


"Disagree. I’ve met and chatted to numerous great people and continue to do so. Un-skunnered. "

This

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By *oShrinkingVioletWoman  over a year ago

the land of unicorns and fairytales


"Disagree. I’ve met and chatted to numerous great people and continue to do so. Un-skunnered. "

That’s cause I’m your trusty sidekick

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Unless you've deleted your bio it's blank and no pics.

Not much to go on...

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Disagree. I’ve met and chatted to numerous great people and continue to do so. Un-skunnered. "

As have I but its getting harder to do that now, so many fake profiles kicking around.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Unless you've deleted your bio it's blank and no pics.

Not much to go on..."

I know it is but in fairness when I had written my bio it still didn't make a difference, I'm not looking for any sympathy making this thread I just feel maybe it's time to leave.

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By *ide em cowgirlWoman  over a year ago

Edinburgh

We all get a bit sick from time to time. Just take a wee break I'm sure you will be back at somepoint

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By *imbobaMan  over a year ago

Glasgow


"Disagree. I’ve met and chatted to numerous great people and continue to do so. Un-skunnered.

That’s cause I’m your trusty sidekick "

Is that code for “pimp”?

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS  over a year ago

Edinburgh

One word - Friends

I look forward to my 24 minute short segments with Ross, Joey, Monica, and the rest

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Normally it's the jokes threads, but they are a bit "threadbare" at the moment. So, basically there isn't a lot keeping me here at the moment.

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By *alcon43Woman  over a year ago

Paisley

The more effort you put in, the more you get out of it.

I’m going out tomorrow with people I’ve met through hosting socials and going to club events together. It’s not just measured on hook ups.

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By *melia DominaTV/TS  over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

I agree with alot of the above.

Get out to socials, meets, greets and clubs.

FAB is a resource on swinging and the lifestyle first and foremost.

A good social network will set you up with a wider circle of active potential play partners.

And I said "active".. alot of FAB profiles are fantasy, fake or not active.

Reality is the world is changing and you have to adapt to it or be left behind "scunnered"....

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By *randmrsG123Couple  over a year ago

Port Glasgow

I suppose it depends what your looking for - i can’t imagine what a single guys profile must be like but it can’t be easy,

for us we have made close friends with 3 couples in particular and we go to things like gigs etc as well as play. The social aspect has been really surprising for us.

We also only play 1 or 2 times a month so things don’t become and expectation and keeps us wanting more

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"The more effort you put in, the more you get out of it.

I’m going out tomorrow with people I’ve met through hosting socials and going to club events together. It’s not just measured on hook ups.

"

most times I don't have time to put the effort in, I work for myself so that takes up most of my week, I don't even get much time off from doing that and if I do it's occupied with other normal day to day activities such as family and friends but I hear what you're saying, maybe I need to refine my duties abit more carefully

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It lost its appeal a long time ago but as some people say, you get out of Fab, what you put in. Me, well, don't get me started! I'm just casually sitting on the Fab fence

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"One word - Friends

I look forward to my 24 minute short segments with Ross, Joey, Monica, and the rest "

"Al be there for you"

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"It lost its appeal a long time ago but as some people say, you get out of Fab, what you put in. Me, well, don't get me started! I'm just casually sitting on the Fab fence "
Lol sitting on that fence is going to give you eventually give you skelves up your butt.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I agree with alot of the above.

Get out to socials, meets, greets and clubs.

FAB is a resource on swinging and the lifestyle first and foremost.

A good social network will set you up with a wider circle of active potential play partners.

And I said "active".. alot of FAB profiles are fantasy, fake or not active.

Reality is the world is changing and you have to adapt to it or be left behind "scunnered"....

"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The site went downhill many years ago.

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By *o scandalousWoman  over a year ago

Glasgow


"Pros - Hotwife(wives ) "

Pros - wittymrj’s profile pic

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By *vbride1963TV/TS  over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"It lost its appeal a long time ago but as some people say, you get out of Fab, what you put in. Me, well, don't get me started! I'm just casually sitting on the Fab fence "

Shhh I told you I could rid of those watches and gold stuff . Dinnae be tellin everybody I'm a " fence " I'll get nae peace .

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By *he BFG 2001Man  over a year ago

Central

"It's like a Jungle sometimes

It makes me wonder how I keep from going under"

Being King of the Jungle you should know that.

If you feel you are not getting what you want/would like from here then yeah maybe a break is needed.

Maybe your own mindset has changed also.

Plenty of great peoples on here to worry about the nots.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


""It's like a Jungle sometimes

It makes me wonder how I keep from going under"

Being King of the Jungle you should know that.

If you feel you are not getting what you want/would like from here then yeah maybe a break is needed.

Maybe your own mindset has changed also.

Plenty of great peoples on here to worry about the nots.

"

Yeah I hear ya, I have met some amazing people on here and have most if not all are friends in the "real" world but I reckon its lost its sparkle on here, I could be wrong though.

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By *ookie69Man  over a year ago

Whistle Dixie

Hey Tarzan..

Now I'm the king of the swingers

Fab jungle life, ya see

I've reached the goal and had my hole

And that's what botherin' me

I wanna join a mad shag club

And romp back into town

And be just like the other men

I'm tired of pumping' around.

Chill out relax

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I never understand why people ask things like this. Being here is a choice, why would you choose something that's making you unhappy?

Whatever others think of the site is irrelevant really, we all have different experiences here.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Give it your best shot as to why its worth being on here?

Maybe it's just me but it seems to have lost its appeal.

You agree or disagree? "

100% this I agree just seems more flat I guess . I tend to hide my profile now and again and have a break then see 8f you change your mind can always un hide it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It lost its appeal a long time ago but as some people say, you get out of Fab, what you put in. Me, well, don't get me started! I'm just casually sitting on the Fab fence Lol sitting on that fence is going to give you eventually give you skelves up your butt."

Wanna pick them out?

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By *oldswarriorMan  over a year ago

Falkirk

I'm loving it at the moment.

If your on everyday it can get menoutanus.

I'm away back to work soon so no fab for a month. Works well for me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm loving it at the moment.

If your on everyday it can get menoutanus.

I'm away back to work soon so no fab for a month. Works well for me.

"

Monotonous

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By *oldswarriorMan  over a year ago

Falkirk


"I'm loving it at the moment.

If your on everyday it can get menoutanus.

I'm away back to work soon so no fab for a month. Works well for me.

Monotonous "

Aye that to

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm loving it at the moment.

If your on everyday it can get menoutanus.

I'm away back to work soon so no fab for a month. Works well for me.

Monotonous

Aye that to "

Lol I'm just playing

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By *oldswarriorMan  over a year ago

Falkirk


"I'm loving it at the moment.

If your on everyday it can get menoutanus.

I'm away back to work soon so no fab for a month. Works well for me.

Monotonous

Aye that to

Lol I'm just playing "

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By *ookie69Man  over a year ago

Whistle Dixie


"I'm loving it at the moment.

If your on everyday it can get menoutanus.

I'm away back to work soon so no fab for a month. Works well for me.

Monotonous

Aye that to

Lol I'm just playing "

Tell us when ya get to the tickley bit

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm loving it at the moment.

If your on everyday it can get menoutanus.

I'm away back to work soon so no fab for a month. Works well for me.

Monotonous

Aye that to

Lol I'm just playing

Tell us when ya get to the tickley bit "

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I never understand why people ask things like this. Being here is a choice, why would you choose something that's making you unhappy?

Whatever others think of the site is irrelevant really, we all have different experiences here. "

Being on fb or twitter is also a choice but it doesn't stop it from being boring or laborious from time to time does it?

What others think about this site is relevant to me as why else would i want peoples views, if you don't have a valid view then why comment?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"

Give it your best shot as to why its worth being on here?

Maybe it's just me but it seems to have lost its appeal.

You agree or disagree?

100% this I agree just seems more flat I guess . I tend to hide my profile now and again and have a break then see 8f you change your mind can always un hide it "

Glad I'm not alone in what I'm thinking and feeling so thank you for that

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"It lost its appeal a long time ago but as some people say, you get out of Fab, what you put in. Me, well, don't get me started! I'm just casually sitting on the Fab fence Lol sitting on that fence is going to give you eventually give you skelves up your butt.

Wanna pick them out? "

With my teeth

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By *nferno sausageMan  over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"I'm loving it at the moment.

If your on everyday it can get menoutanus.

I'm away back to work soon so no fab for a month. Works well for me.

Monotonous

Aye that to "

Menoutanus is actually the chant of those who believe anal sex to be a sin.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I never understand why people ask things like this. Being here is a choice, why would you choose something that's making you unhappy?

Whatever others think of the site is irrelevant really, we all have different experiences here. Being on fb or twitter is also a choice but it doesn't stop it from being boring or laborious from time to time does it?

What others think about this site is relevant to me as why else would i want peoples views, if you don't have a valid view then why comment? "

That is my view. I wasn't aware I'm only allowed to comment things that you find valid.

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By *assy LassieWoman  over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"

Give it your best shot as to why its worth being on here?

Maybe it's just me but it seems to have lost its appeal.

You agree or disagree? "

It sometimes happens when you lose your forum wingman. Try detecting some parking violations to break the monotony

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By *enLucyCouple  over a year ago

Glasgow


"Hey Tarzan..

Now I'm the king of the swingers

Fab jungle life, ya see

I've reached the goal and had my hole

And that's what botherin' me

I wanna join a mad shag club

And romp back into town

And be just like the other men

I'm tired of pumping' around.

Chill out relax "

***round of applause***

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By *alcon43Woman  over a year ago

Paisley

There are still some gems on here if you look for them. That’s what makes it worthwhile.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Give it your best shot as to why its worth being on here?

Maybe it's just me but it seems to have lost its appeal.

You agree or disagree?

It sometimes happens when you lose your forum wingman. Try detecting some parking violations to break the monotony "

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By *oShrinkingVioletWoman  over a year ago

the land of unicorns and fairytales

Reminds me of a post from a couple weeks back

He left and I don’t think anyones missing him

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By *reyw01fMan  over a year ago

Hamilton

did the hidden break

did the that it not coming back (then covid and isolation came)

now back ..for now and the gaps in trust pilot verification system are too much for ppl and now prob past it in most eyes

..so i just be random in the chat rooms and chip in where appropriate to pass dead time try to give gentle advice to new chatters without pissing off the mods about room rules in non directing .. but scunnered pretty much just nothing better to do :/

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

At first I was afraid, I was petrified

Kept thinking I could never live without you by my side

But then I spent so many nights thinking how you did me wrong

And I grew strong

And I learned how to get along

And so you're back

From outer space

I just walked in to find you here with that sad look upon your face

I should have changed that stupid lock, I should have made you leave your key

If I'd known for just one second you'd be back to bother me

Go on now, go, walk out the door

Just turn around now

'Cause you're not welcome anymore

Weren't you the one who tried to hurt me with goodbye?

You think I'd crumble?

You think I'd lay down and die?

Oh no, not I, I will survive

Oh, as long as I know how to love, I know I'll stay alive

I've got all my life to live

And I've got all my love to give and I'll survive

I will survive, hey, hey

It took all the strength I had not to fall apart

Kept trying hard to mend the pieces of my broken heart

And I spent oh-so many nights just feeling sorry for myself

I used to cry

But now I hold my head up high and you see me

Somebody new

I'm not that chained-up little person still in love with you

And so you felt like dropping in and just expect me to be free

Well, now I'm saving all my lovin' for someone who's loving me

Go on now, go, walk out the door

Just turn around now

'Cause you're not welcome anymore

Weren't you the one who tried to break me with goodbye?

You think I'd crumble?

You think I'd lay down and die?

Oh no, not I, I will survive

Oh, as long as I know how to love, I know I'll stay alive

I've got all my life to live

And I've got all my love to give and I'll survive

I will survive

Oh

Go on now, go, walk out the door

Just turn around now

'Cause you're not welcome anymore

Weren't you the one who tried to break me with goodbye?

You think I'd crumble?

You think I'd lay down and die?

Oh no, not I, I will survive

Oh, as long as I know how to love, I know I'll stay alive

I've got all my life to live

And I've got all my love to give and I'll survive

I will survive

I will survive

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I never understand why people ask things like this. Being here is a choice, why would you choose something that's making you unhappy?

Whatever others think of the site is irrelevant really, we all have different experiences here. Being on fb or twitter is also a choice but it doesn't stop it from being boring or laborious from time to time does it?

What others think about this site is relevant to me as why else would i want peoples views, if you don't have a valid view then why comment?

That is my view. I wasn't aware I'm only allowed to comment things that you find valid. "

Don't be silly ofcourse you're allowed your express your views but I was kinda hoping to get positive comments rather than negative ones.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Reminds me of a post from a couple weeks back

He left and I don’t think anyones missing him "

Trust me but I've been thinking this way longer than 2 weeks and it's got nothing to do with your nemesis leaving.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"

Give it your best shot as to why its worth being on here?

Maybe it's just me but it seems to have lost its appeal.

You agree or disagree?

It sometimes happens when you lose your forum wingman. Try detecting some parking violations to break the monotony "

pmsl cunny funt

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"did the hidden break

did the that it not coming back (then covid and isolation came)

now back ..for now and the gaps in trust pilot verification system are too much for ppl and now prob past it in most eyes

..so i just be random in the chat rooms and chip in where appropriate to pass dead time try to give gentle advice to new chatters without pissing off the mods about room rules in non directing .. but scunnered pretty much just nothing better to do :/ "

Sounds pretty much the way I'm feeling, it's like groundhog day everytime I log in.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Give it your best shot as to why its worth being on here?

Maybe it's just me but it seems to have lost its appeal.

You agree or disagree? "

Tend to agree. Keep coming on and off it. Everytime I come back it’s more of a bi/ gay/ tv cock fest pick up site rather than a swingers site.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

This is no different to the " site supporter runs out should I stay or go " updates , if you want to stay ,stay if you want to go , go , but putting it up on the forum reeks of attention seeking same way it would on a status update , and calling folks opinions invalid just because it doesn't meet your own agenda isnae cool , you don't want opinions then simple don't ask for them on a forum post.

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By *enLucyCouple  over a year ago

Glasgow


"Reminds me of a post from a couple weeks back

He left and I don’t think anyones missing him

Trust me but I've been thinking this way longer than 2 weeks and it's got nothing to do with your nemesis leaving."

Sounds to me like you know lots of people on here, and know all the gossip etc.

Maybe just too steeped in it? Need a wee project lol Start a Bridgerton-style gossip thread for me and the other newbies to get up to speed ;P

Does sound like ya need a wee break tho. That's what happens with online socialising - you need to force time off it now and then.

Lucy xxx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Tend to agree. Keep coming on and off it. Everytime I come back it’s more of a bi/ gay/ tv cock fest pick up site rather than a swingers site. "

100% this.

My current 'whos near' is entirely guys looking for guys. And I don't just think it's caused by the water here.

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By *ikerBloke...Man  over a year ago

western hemisphere , planet earth

if yer no happy,close the door walk away...maybe its not the people or the site thats the issue...

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman  over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I never understand why people ask things like this. Being here is a choice, why would you choose something that's making you unhappy?

Whatever others think of the site is irrelevant really, we all have different experiences here. "

Completely agree!

You use the site the way it works best for you. If it’s not working, have a break or look for alternatives.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"if yer no happy,close the door walk away...maybe its not the people or the site thats the issue..."

Well it has tae be one o them

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"This is no different to the " site supporter runs out should I stay or go " updates , if you want to stay ,stay if you want to go , go , but putting it up on the forum reeks of attention seeking same way it would on a status update , and calling folks opinions invalid just because it doesn't meet your own agenda isnae cool , you don't want opinions then simple don't ask for them on a forum post. "

Attention seeking?? You've known me a long time and in that time have u ever came across as someone who needs attention? Behave yourself mrs..

I asked the question as I was looking for others to express their opinion to see if they have or haven't felt the same way as myself, its not attention seeking..

If I want to leave I'd leave, I don't need persuading in doing something, I'm a big boy who can make my own decisions.

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By *tirling DarkCouple  over a year ago

Stirling


"

Give it your best shot as to why its worth being on here?

Maybe it's just me but it seems to have lost its appeal.

You agree or disagree?

Tend to agree. Keep coming on and off it. Everytime I come back it’s more of a bi/ gay/ tv cock fest pick up site rather than a swingers site. "

Yeah, the site is spoilt by all those bi people and TV. Coming onto a swinger's site to meet other bi people, TVs or TV admirers. This site is only for the straights, unless your female as I want to watch you get it on with another woman. Well, we better pack up and leave as we only want to meet bi and couples!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Give it your best shot as to why its worth being on here?

Maybe it's just me but it seems to have lost its appeal.

You agree or disagree?

Tend to agree. Keep coming on and off it. Everytime I come back it’s more of a bi/ gay/ tv cock fest pick up site rather than a swingers site.

Yeah, the site is spoilt by all those bi people and TV. Coming onto a swinger's site to meet other bi people, TVs or TV admirers. This site is only for the straights, unless your female as I want to watch you get it on with another woman. Well, we better pack up and leave as we only want to meet bi and couples! "

Never said it was only for the ‘straights’. Said it’s turning into a cheap pick up site rather than a swinging site. There’s a big difference. In my view anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This is no different to the " site supporter runs out should I stay or go " updates , if you want to stay ,stay if you want to go , go , but putting it up on the forum reeks of attention seeking same way it would on a status update , and calling folks opinions invalid just because it doesn't meet your own agenda isnae cool , you don't want opinions then simple don't ask for them on a forum post.

Attention seeking?? You've known me a long time and in that time have u ever came across as someone who needs attention? Behave yourself mrs..

I asked the question as I was looking for others to express their opinion to see if they have or haven't felt the same way as myself, its not attention seeking..

If I want to leave I'd leave, I don't need persuading in doing something, I'm a big boy who can make my own decisions.

"

It's the way it reads as attention seeking , classic do I stay or do I go , also comes across as your picking up from where Zest left off with the get rid of me post . Just my opinion , not an attack just that's the way it reads to me , when I see status updates about site supporters runs out should I stay , my honest thought is here I'll give you the fiver tae fuck off

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

From the comments I've read so far the consensus is that,

A if you're a single female this site is going to be a good place for you as this site is geared up for you. Yes you might get messages from desperate sados busting your tits about what you're missing out in by not meeting then but it's an easy fix, block him and move on..

B. If your on a singles guys account this place is like groundhog day of nothingness, you log on hoping for a message or 2 from a female or couple liking your profile and pics enough where you might get a meet with them but only on their terms. Your anticapation builds up before you enviably find out you've spent time chatting to another fake profile lol.

C. If a guy posts a thread asking a question you're deemed to be called an attention seeker and lambasted by the forum "how dare you ask a question"? brigade but if a female asks a similar question they are "no need to be nasty or rude she was only asking a question" double standards imo..

Let me add this , I am in a relationship with a beautiful lady who loves me and I come on here to get away from the basic day to day crap I go through but instead of it being an enjoyable experience I get to see the bad side of the regulars in here and to be fair it's mostly..not all but mostly the single females that are so far up their own arses that it's a wonder they can get their big heads through the door.

Bit of advice to those ladies, instead of being a bit of a tit try and understand that everyone has their reason in being on fab and have the respect that it's not just about you as in the words of the the legend that is Judge Judy...looks fade but dumb is forever.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"This is no different to the " site supporter runs out should I stay or go " updates , if you want to stay ,stay if you want to go , go , but putting it up on the forum reeks of attention seeking same way it would on a status update , and calling folks opinions invalid just because it doesn't meet your own agenda isnae cool , you don't want opinions then simple don't ask for them on a forum post.

Attention seeking?? You've known me a long time and in that time have u ever came across as someone who needs attention? Behave yourself mrs..

I asked the question as I was looking for others to express their opinion to see if they have or haven't felt the same way as myself, its not attention seeking..

If I want to leave I'd leave, I don't need persuading in doing something, I'm a big boy who can make my own decisions.

It's the way it reads as attention seeking , classic do I stay or do I go , also comes across as your picking up from where Zest left off with the get rid of me post . Just my opinion , not an attack just that's the way it reads to me , when I see status updates about site supporters runs out should I stay , my honest thought is here I'll give you the fiver tae fuck off "

If I wanted to leave I'd just leave, I don't need a poll asking who wants me to stay or go like Zest done.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"From the comments I've read so far the consensus is that,

A if you're a single female this site is going to be a good place for you as this site is geared up for you. Yes you might get messages from desperate sados busting your tits about what you're missing out in by not meeting then but it's an easy fix, block him and move on..

B. If your on a singles guys account this place is like groundhog day of nothingness, you log on hoping for a message or 2 from a female or couple liking your profile and pics enough where you might get a meet with them but only on their terms. Your anticapation builds up before you enviably find out you've spent time chatting to another fake profile lol.

C. If a guy posts a thread asking a question you're deemed to be called an attention seeker and lambasted by the forum "how dare you ask a question"? brigade but if a female asks a similar question they are "no need to be nasty or rude she was only asking a question" double standards imo..

Let me add this , I am in a relationship with a beautiful lady who loves me and I come on here to get away from the basic day to day crap I go through but instead of it being an enjoyable experience I get to see the bad side of the regulars in here and to be fair it's mostly..not all but mostly the single females that are so far up their own arses that it's a wonder they can get their big heads through the door.

Bit of advice to those ladies, instead of being a bit of a tit try and understand that everyone has their reason in being on fab and have the respect that it's not just about you as in the words of the the legend that is Judge Judy...looks fade but dumb is forever. "

I stand by my post the thread does come across as attention seeking I'd say the same male or female , as far as lambasted it means to attack verbally I didnae attack you , seems if others have an opinion that doesn't align with your own were accused of attacking you , and fake profiles isn't just of the female variety , there's plenty fake male profiles or single males posing as a couple when really they aren't there a single male , and predominantly the folk that get harrased and threatented to be outted in their vanilla lives are females so I wouldnae bother judging saying females have it easy on here . Now if only I could remember where my head was , oh that's right it's up ma ain arse

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By *ddkkk91Man  over a year ago

fife


"From the comments I've read so far the consensus is that,

A if you're a single female this site is going to be a good place for you as this site is geared up for you. Yes you might get messages from desperate sados busting your tits about what you're missing out in by not meeting then but it's an easy fix, block him and move on..

B. If your on a singles guys account this place is like groundhog day of nothingness, you log on hoping for a message or 2 from a female or couple liking your profile and pics enough where you might get a meet with them but only on their terms. Your anticapation builds up before you enviably find out you've spent time chatting to another fake profile lol.

C. If a guy posts a thread asking a question you're deemed to be called an attention seeker and lambasted by the forum "how dare you ask a question"? brigade but if a female asks a similar question they are "no need to be nasty or rude she was only asking a question" double standards imo..

Let me add this , I am in a relationship with a beautiful lady who loves me and I come on here to get away from the basic day to day crap I go through but instead of it being an enjoyable experience I get to see the bad side of the regulars in here and to be fair it's mostly..not all but mostly the single females that are so far up their own arses that it's a wonder they can get their big heads through the door.

Bit of advice to those ladies, instead of being a bit of a tit try and understand that everyone has their reason in being on fab and have the respect that it's not just about you as in the words of the the legend that is Judge Judy...looks fade but dumb is forever.

I stand by my post the thread does come across as attention seeking I'd say the same male or female , as far as lambasted it means to attack verbally I didnae attack you , seems if others have an opinion that doesn't align with your own were accused of attacking you , and fake profiles isn't just of the female variety , there's plenty fake male profiles or single males posing as a couple when really they aren't there a single male , and predominantly the folk that get harrased and threatented to be outted in their vanilla lives are females so I wouldnae bother judging saying females have it easy on here . Now if only I could remember where my head was , oh that's right it's up ma ain arse "

It is a nice ass though

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"From the comments I've read so far the consensus is that,

A if you're a single female this site is going to be a good place for you as this site is geared up for you. Yes you might get messages from desperate sados busting your tits about what you're missing out in by not meeting then but it's an easy fix, block him and move on..

B. If your on a singles guys account this place is like groundhog day of nothingness, you log on hoping for a message or 2 from a female or couple liking your profile and pics enough where you might get a meet with them but only on their terms. Your anticapation builds up before you enviably find out you've spent time chatting to another fake profile lol.

C. If a guy posts a thread asking a question you're deemed to be called an attention seeker and lambasted by the forum "how dare you ask a question"? brigade but if a female asks a similar question they are "no need to be nasty or rude she was only asking a question" double standards imo..

Let me add this , I am in a relationship with a beautiful lady who loves me and I come on here to get away from the basic day to day crap I go through but instead of it being an enjoyable experience I get to see the bad side of the regulars in here and to be fair it's mostly..not all but mostly the single females that are so far up their own arses that it's a wonder they can get their big heads through the door.

Bit of advice to those ladies, instead of being a bit of a tit try and understand that everyone has their reason in being on fab and have the respect that it's not just about you as in the words of the the legend that is Judge Judy...looks fade but dumb is forever.

I stand by my post the thread does come across as attention seeking I'd say the same male or female , as far as lambasted it means to attack verbally I didnae attack you , seems if others have an opinion that doesn't align with your own were accused of attacking you , and fake profiles isn't just of the female variety , there's plenty fake male profiles or single males posing as a couple when really they aren't there a single male , and predominantly the folk that get harrased and threatented to be outted in their vanilla lives are females so I wouldnae bother judging saying females have it easy on here . Now if only I could remember where my head was , oh that's right it's up ma ain arse "

You see that's what I'm talking about and why I started this thread.

Twice now you've said i was attention seeking, twice I've said that it wasn't my intention and here you are gaining attention by going on about it..

Bit hypocrital is it not?

You also bring up that I'm judging females harshly and to an extent I probably am but for valid reasons , I know plenty of single females on here so know what they have to put up with but as far as I'm aware receiving nasty or rude messages isn't against the law, block and move on, its not rocket science.

As a guy who has had a couples and single profiles over the years on here I've seen the exact same messages you get, you dont need to tell me it's easy on here for a female but taking everything else into account your Fab journey as a female is way better than a single guys.

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By *eamworkboyMan  over a year ago

Irvine

I kinda get what you mean OP, I only moved back to Scotland 18 months ago and deleted my account here when I left London, once I settled here I found the need to rejoin but there's a difference between here and down there, obviously less people here, down south I had 29 verifications, 18 months here none, I also agree about the fakes, more and more every day, I still feel its worth staying to find the diamond in the rough

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"From the comments I've read so far the consensus is that,

A if you're a single female this site is going to be a good place for you as this site is geared up for you. Yes you might get messages from desperate sados busting your tits about what you're missing out in by not meeting then but it's an easy fix, block him and move on..

B. If your on a singles guys account this place is like groundhog day of nothingness, you log on hoping for a message or 2 from a female or couple liking your profile and pics enough where you might get a meet with them but only on their terms. Your anticapation builds up before you enviably find out you've spent time chatting to another fake profile lol.

C. If a guy posts a thread asking a question you're deemed to be called an attention seeker and lambasted by the forum "how dare you ask a question"? brigade but if a female asks a similar question they are "no need to be nasty or rude she was only asking a question" double standards imo..

Let me add this , I am in a relationship with a beautiful lady who loves me and I come on here to get away from the basic day to day crap I go through but instead of it being an enjoyable experience I get to see the bad side of the regulars in here and to be fair it's mostly..not all but mostly the single females that are so far up their own arses that it's a wonder they can get their big heads through the door.

Bit of advice to those ladies, instead of being a bit of a tit try and understand that everyone has their reason in being on fab and have the respect that it's not just about you as in the words of the the legend that is Judge Judy...looks fade but dumb is forever.

I stand by my post the thread does come across as attention seeking I'd say the same male or female , as far as lambasted it means to attack verbally I didnae attack you , seems if others have an opinion that doesn't align with your own were accused of attacking you , and fake profiles isn't just of the female variety , there's plenty fake male profiles or single males posing as a couple when really they aren't there a single male , and predominantly the folk that get harrased and threatented to be outted in their vanilla lives are females so I wouldnae bother judging saying females have it easy on here . Now if only I could remember where my head was , oh that's right it's up ma ain arse You see that's what I'm talking about and why I started this thread.

Twice now you've said i was attention seeking, twice I've said that it wasn't my intention and here you are gaining attention by going on about it..

Bit hypocrital is it not?

You also bring up that I'm judging females harshly and to an extent I probably am but for valid reasons , I know plenty of single females on here so know what they have to put up with but as far as I'm aware receiving nasty or rude messages isn't against the law, block and move on, its not rocket science.

As a guy who has had a couples and single profiles over the years on here I've seen the exact same messages you get, you dont need to tell me it's easy on here for a female but taking everything else into account your Fab journey as a female is way better than a single guys."

Last thing I am is a hypocrite . I certainly didn't start a poor me post ..

I didnae say you were harshly judging females what I did say is I wouldnae bother judging saying females have it easy on here ..

I'm not talking about nasty or rude messages what I'm talking about is vile life changing messages that threaten to out someone , aye I agree that female users can get meets easier than a male but you think females have it easy , they have their time wasted all the same , and called slags , whores , sluts etc when they don't want to meet . So your take on us having it easy is wrong , so guys struggle to get meets and messages , atleast the messages aren't vile.

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By *eamworkboyMan  over a year ago

Irvine

To Tarzan and Chaka, males and females both have it very very difficult here, I've struggled to meet anyone since I moved back to Scotland whereas in London it was easier due to being more people. I hear from females all the time how they are verbally abused by guys on here so that can't be easy, so both genders clearly have different difficulties here.

Just my tuppence worth

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By *ikerBloke...Man  over a year ago

western hemisphere , planet earth

well this is certainly passing the time on whats been a quiet day

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"To Tarzan and Chaka, males and females both have it very very difficult here, I've struggled to meet anyone since I moved back to Scotland whereas in London it was easier due to being more people. I hear from females all the time how they are verbally abused by guys on here so that can't be easy, so both genders clearly have different difficulties here.

Just my tuppence worth "

I totally get guys don't get it easy , and your right neither do women .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"well this is certainly passing the time on whats been a quiet day"

I've wasted an hour looking for ma heid

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"From the comments I've read so far the consensus is that,

A if you're a single female this site is going to be a good place for you as this site is geared up for you. Yes you might get messages from desperate sados busting your tits about what you're missing out in by not meeting then but it's an easy fix, block him and move on..

B. If your on a singles guys account this place is like groundhog day of nothingness, you log on hoping for a message or 2 from a female or couple liking your profile and pics enough where you might get a meet with them but only on their terms. Your anticapation builds up before you enviably find out you've spent time chatting to another fake profile lol.

C. If a guy posts a thread asking a question you're deemed to be called an attention seeker and lambasted by the forum "how dare you ask a question"? brigade but if a female asks a similar question they are "no need to be nasty or rude she was only asking a question" double standards imo..

Let me add this , I am in a relationship with a beautiful lady who loves me and I come on here to get away from the basic day to day crap I go through but instead of it being an enjoyable experience I get to see the bad side of the regulars in here and to be fair it's mostly..not all but mostly the single females that are so far up their own arses that it's a wonder they can get their big heads through the door.

Bit of advice to those ladies, instead of being a bit of a tit try and understand that everyone has their reason in being on fab and have the respect that it's not just about you as in the words of the the legend that is Judge Judy...looks fade but dumb is forever.

I stand by my post the thread does come across as attention seeking I'd say the same male or female , as far as lambasted it means to attack verbally I didnae attack you , seems if others have an opinion that doesn't align with your own were accused of attacking you , and fake profiles isn't just of the female variety , there's plenty fake male profiles or single males posing as a couple when really they aren't there a single male , and predominantly the folk that get harrased and threatented to be outted in their vanilla lives are females so I wouldnae bother judging saying females have it easy on here . Now if only I could remember where my head was , oh that's right it's up ma ain arse You see that's what I'm talking about and why I started this thread.

Twice now you've said i was attention seeking, twice I've said that it wasn't my intention and here you are gaining attention by going on about it..

Bit hypocrital is it not?

You also bring up that I'm judging females harshly and to an extent I probably am but for valid reasons , I know plenty of single females on here so know what they have to put up with but as far as I'm aware receiving nasty or rude messages isn't against the law, block and move on, its not rocket science.

As a guy who has had a couples and single profiles over the years on here I've seen the exact same messages you get, you dont need to tell me it's easy on here for a female but taking everything else into account your Fab journey as a female is way better than a single guys.

Last thing I am is a hypocrite . I certainly didn't start a poor me post ..

I didnae say you were harshly judging females what I did say is I wouldnae bother judging saying females have it easy on here ..

I'm not talking about nasty or rude messages what I'm talking about is vile life changing messages that threaten to out someone , aye I agree that female users can get meets easier than a male but you think females have it easy , they have their time wasted all the same , and called slags , whores , sluts etc when they don't want to meet . So your take on us having it easy is wrong , so guys struggle to get meets and messages , atleast the messages aren't vile. "

So its no longer an attention seeking thread it's also now a "poor me" post lol laughable.

That type of statement sums up what i said about some females being so far up their own arse that they enjoy the attention being put on them and that hypocrisy at the highest level.

I've said what I've wanted to say and that's my choice, I don't require you to agree with it.

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By *ookie69Man  over a year ago

Whistle Dixie

Everyone "Attention Seeks"

Once you put a photo up or create a profile, you seek attention from others.

Why can't people just not get along.

It's really that feckin simple.

Anyone like sex? ..I do.

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By *eamworkboyMan  over a year ago

Irvine

Tarzan, I'm not I'm any way creeping round Chakas ass but I don't think she is posting in a 'poor me' kinda way, if you read her profile you will see what kinda girl she is, very bloody straightforward she's only pointing out it's difficult for females albeit in a different way

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Tarzan, I'm not I'm any way creeping round Chakas ass but I don't think she is posting in a 'poor me' kinda way, if you read her profile you will see what kinda girl she is, very bloody straightforward she's only pointing out it's difficult for females albeit in a different way "

She's not pointing out something I didn't already know, contrary to what sone believe im not thick but to say I made this thread as an attention seeking and now a poor me thread is ridiculous, I'm just calling her out on that because she's wrong on why I put this thread on here.

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By *eamworkboyMan  over a year ago

Irvine


"Tarzan, I'm not I'm any way creeping round Chakas ass but I don't think she is posting in a 'poor me' kinda way, if you read her profile you will see what kinda girl she is, very bloody straightforward she's only pointing out it's difficult for females albeit in a different way

She's not pointing out something I didn't already know, contrary to what sone believe im not thick but to say I made this thread as an attention seeking and now a poor me thread is ridiculous, I'm just calling her out on that because she's wrong on why I put this thread on here."

I didn't find it attention seeking at all, we all get scunnered from time to time with the place, listen if we depended on this place to get company we would all be in the crap

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"From the comments I've read so far the consensus is that,

A if you're a single female this site is going to be a good place for you as this site is geared up for you. Yes you might get messages from desperate sados busting your tits about what you're missing out in by not meeting then but it's an easy fix, block him and move on..

B. If your on a singles guys account this place is like groundhog day of nothingness, you log on hoping for a message or 2 from a female or couple liking your profile and pics enough where you might get a meet with them but only on their terms. Your anticapation builds up before you enviably find out you've spent time chatting to another fake profile lol.

C. If a guy posts a thread asking a question you're deemed to be called an attention seeker and lambasted by the forum "how dare you ask a question"? brigade but if a female asks a similar question they are "no need to be nasty or rude she was only asking a question" double standards imo..

Let me add this , I am in a relationship with a beautiful lady who loves me and I come on here to get away from the basic day to day crap I go through but instead of it being an enjoyable experience I get to see the bad side of the regulars in here and to be fair it's mostly..not all but mostly the single females that are so far up their own arses that it's a wonder they can get their big heads through the door.

Bit of advice to those ladies, instead of being a bit of a tit try and understand that everyone has their reason in being on fab and have the respect that it's not just about you as in the words of the the legend that is Judge Judy...looks fade but dumb is forever.

I stand by my post the thread does come across as attention seeking I'd say the same male or female , as far as lambasted it means to attack verbally I didnae attack you , seems if others have an opinion that doesn't align with your own were accused of attacking you , and fake profiles isn't just of the female variety , there's plenty fake male profiles or single males posing as a couple when really they aren't there a single male , and predominantly the folk that get harrased and threatented to be outted in their vanilla lives are females so I wouldnae bother judging saying females have it easy on here . Now if only I could remember where my head was , oh that's right it's up ma ain arse You see that's what I'm talking about and why I started this thread.

Twice now you've said i was attention seeking, twice I've said that it wasn't my intention and here you are gaining attention by going on about it..

Bit hypocrital is it not?

You also bring up that I'm judging females harshly and to an extent I probably am but for valid reasons , I know plenty of single females on here so know what they have to put up with but as far as I'm aware receiving nasty or rude messages isn't against the law, block and move on, its not rocket science.

As a guy who has had a couples and single profiles over the years on here I've seen the exact same messages you get, you dont need to tell me it's easy on here for a female but taking everything else into account your Fab journey as a female is way better than a single guys.

Last thing I am is a hypocrite . I certainly didn't start a poor me post ..

I didnae say you were harshly judging females what I did say is I wouldnae bother judging saying females have it easy on here ..

I'm not talking about nasty or rude messages what I'm talking about is vile life changing messages that threaten to out someone , aye I agree that female users can get meets easier than a male but you think females have it easy , they have their time wasted all the same , and called slags , whores , sluts etc when they don't want to meet . So your take on us having it easy is wrong , so guys struggle to get meets and messages , atleast the messages aren't vile. So its no longer an attention seeking thread it's also now a "poor me" post lol laughable.

That type of statement sums up what i said about some females being so far up their own arse that they enjoy the attention being put on them and that hypocrisy at the highest level.

I've said what I've wanted to say and that's my choice, I don't require you to agree with it."

It is a poor me post and if you didnae want me or others chiming in on it then don't make a thread up or is it just OK to chime in if we all agree with you I honestly couldnae care what others , you included think of me , I will always speak my mind regardless who it's too , doesn't make me up my own arse even though it's big enough , and aye attention seeking and poor me just so we're clear .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Everyone "Attention Seeks"

Once you put a photo up or create a profile, you seek attention from others.

Why can't people just not get along.

It's really that feckin simple.

Anyone like sex? ..I do. "

Thats true

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Tarzan, I'm not I'm any way creeping round Chakas ass but I don't think she is posting in a 'poor me' kinda way, if you read her profile you will see what kinda girl she is, very bloody straightforward she's only pointing out it's difficult for females albeit in a different way

She's not pointing out something I didn't already know, contrary to what sone believe im not thick but to say I made this thread as an attention seeking and now a poor me thread is ridiculous, I'm just calling her out on that because she's wrong on why I put this thread on here.

I didn't find it attention seeking at all, we all get scunnered from time to time with the place, listen if we depended on this place to get company we would all be in the crap "

Yeah true but for me it's not just about meets its about peoples attitudes especially in these forums, you're called this and that because of not agreeing with someone's opinion or views, it's ridiculous sometimes when someone writes out a new thread or adds a comment to an existing thread you have to think twice before posting it in fear of being called a twat, self centred, attention seeker, racist, transphobic and a female hater, trust me I am none of them above with the way some act is they think it's puts a huge downer on this site.

Someone can comment something nice and positive but some smart ass will always say something negative about it and try to turn the thread to make it about them and imo the person who usually do that are the females.

Disclaimer: These are only my views and do not mean they have to be taken seriously, this sites meant to be fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"From the comments I've read so far the consensus is that,

A if you're a single female this site is going to be a good place for you as this site is geared up for you. Yes you might get messages from desperate sados busting your tits about what you're missing out in by not meeting then but it's an easy fix, block him and move on..

B. If your on a singles guys account this place is like groundhog day of nothingness, you log on hoping for a message or 2 from a female or couple liking your profile and pics enough where you might get a meet with them but only on their terms. Your anticapation builds up before you enviably find out you've spent time chatting to another fake profile lol.

C. If a guy posts a thread asking a question you're deemed to be called an attention seeker and lambasted by the forum "how dare you ask a question"? brigade but if a female asks a similar question they are "no need to be nasty or rude she was only asking a question" double standards imo..

Let me add this , I am in a relationship with a beautiful lady who loves me and I come on here to get away from the basic day to day crap I go through but instead of it being an enjoyable experience I get to see the bad side of the regulars in here and to be fair it's mostly..not all but mostly the single females that are so far up their own arses that it's a wonder they can get their big heads through the door.

Bit of advice to those ladies, instead of being a bit of a tit try and understand that everyone has their reason in being on fab and have the respect that it's not just about you as in the words of the the legend that is Judge Judy...looks fade but dumb is forever.

I stand by my post the thread does come across as attention seeking I'd say the same male or female , as far as lambasted it means to attack verbally I didnae attack you , seems if others have an opinion that doesn't align with your own were accused of attacking you , and fake profiles isn't just of the female variety , there's plenty fake male profiles or single males posing as a couple when really they aren't there a single male , and predominantly the folk that get harrased and threatented to be outted in their vanilla lives are females so I wouldnae bother judging saying females have it easy on here . Now if only I could remember where my head was , oh that's right it's up ma ain arse You see that's what I'm talking about and why I started this thread.

Twice now you've said i was attention seeking, twice I've said that it wasn't my intention and here you are gaining attention by going on about it..

Bit hypocrital is it not?

You also bring up that I'm judging females harshly and to an extent I probably am but for valid reasons , I know plenty of single females on here so know what they have to put up with but as far as I'm aware receiving nasty or rude messages isn't against the law, block and move on, its not rocket science.

As a guy who has had a couples and single profiles over the years on here I've seen the exact same messages you get, you dont need to tell me it's easy on here for a female but taking everything else into account your Fab journey as a female is way better than a single guys.

Last thing I am is a hypocrite . I certainly didn't start a poor me post ..

I didnae say you were harshly judging females what I did say is I wouldnae bother judging saying females have it easy on here ..

I'm not talking about nasty or rude messages what I'm talking about is vile life changing messages that threaten to out someone , aye I agree that female users can get meets easier than a male but you think females have it easy , they have their time wasted all the same , and called slags , whores , sluts etc when they don't want to meet . So your take on us having it easy is wrong , so guys struggle to get meets and messages , atleast the messages aren't vile. So its no longer an attention seeking thread it's also now a "poor me" post lol laughable.

That type of statement sums up what i said about some females being so far up their own arse that they enjoy the attention being put on them and that hypocrisy at the highest level.

I've said what I've wanted to say and that's my choice, I don't require you to agree with it.

It is a poor me post and if you didnae want me or others chiming in on it then don't make a thread up or is it just OK to chime in if we all agree with you I honestly couldnae care what others , you included think of me , I will always speak my mind regardless who it's too , doesn't make me up my own arse even though it's big enough , and aye attention seeking and poor me just so we're clear .

"

Atleast you're now admiring you where attention seeking so you've just proved my point. Shame you couldn't have done that 4 comments ago.

Can I also add it's still not a poor me thread, I asked a question, people answered it, I might not like their answer but I didn't try and make my thread about someone else you did.

Just because someone asks a question in the forum doesn't mean you have to answer it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"From the comments I've read so far the consensus is that,

A if you're a single female this site is going to be a good place for you as this site is geared up for you. Yes you might get messages from desperate sados busting your tits about what you're missing out in by not meeting then but it's an easy fix, block him and move on..

B. If your on a singles guys account this place is like groundhog day of nothingness, you log on hoping for a message or 2 from a female or couple liking your profile and pics enough where you might get a meet with them but only on their terms. Your anticapation builds up before you enviably find out you've spent time chatting to another fake profile lol.

C. If a guy posts a thread asking a question you're deemed to be called an attention seeker and lambasted by the forum "how dare you ask a question"? brigade but if a female asks a similar question they are "no need to be nasty or rude she was only asking a question" double standards imo..

Let me add this , I am in a relationship with a beautiful lady who loves me and I come on here to get away from the basic day to day crap I go through but instead of it being an enjoyable experience I get to see the bad side of the regulars in here and to be fair it's mostly..not all but mostly the single females that are so far up their own arses that it's a wonder they can get their big heads through the door.

Bit of advice to those ladies, instead of being a bit of a tit try and understand that everyone has their reason in being on fab and have the respect that it's not just about you as in the words of the the legend that is Judge Judy...looks fade but dumb is forever.

I stand by my post the thread does come across as attention seeking I'd say the same male or female , as far as lambasted it means to attack verbally I didnae attack you , seems if others have an opinion that doesn't align with your own were accused of attacking you , and fake profiles isn't just of the female variety , there's plenty fake male profiles or single males posing as a couple when really they aren't there a single male , and predominantly the folk that get harrased and threatented to be outted in their vanilla lives are females so I wouldnae bother judging saying females have it easy on here . Now if only I could remember where my head was , oh that's right it's up ma ain arse You see that's what I'm talking about and why I started this thread.

Twice now you've said i was attention seeking, twice I've said that it wasn't my intention and here you are gaining attention by going on about it..

Bit hypocrital is it not?

You also bring up that I'm judging females harshly and to an extent I probably am but for valid reasons , I know plenty of single females on here so know what they have to put up with but as far as I'm aware receiving nasty or rude messages isn't against the law, block and move on, its not rocket science.

As a guy who has had a couples and single profiles over the years on here I've seen the exact same messages you get, you dont need to tell me it's easy on here for a female but taking everything else into account your Fab journey as a female is way better than a single guys.

Last thing I am is a hypocrite . I certainly didn't start a poor me post ..

I didnae say you were harshly judging females what I did say is I wouldnae bother judging saying females have it easy on here ..

I'm not talking about nasty or rude messages what I'm talking about is vile life changing messages that threaten to out someone , aye I agree that female users can get meets easier than a male but you think females have it easy , they have their time wasted all the same , and called slags , whores , sluts etc when they don't want to meet . So your take on us having it easy is wrong , so guys struggle to get meets and messages , atleast the messages aren't vile. So its no longer an attention seeking thread it's also now a "poor me" post lol laughable.

That type of statement sums up what i said about some females being so far up their own arse that they enjoy the attention being put on them and that hypocrisy at the highest level.

I've said what I've wanted to say and that's my choice, I don't require you to agree with it.

It is a poor me post and if you didnae want me or others chiming in on it then don't make a thread up or is it just OK to chime in if we all agree with you I honestly couldnae care what others , you included think of me , I will always speak my mind regardless who it's too , doesn't make me up my own arse even though it's big enough , and aye attention seeking and poor me just so we're clear .

Atleast you're now admiring you where attention seeking so you've just proved my point. Shame you couldn't have done that 4 comments ago.

Can I also add it's still not a poor me thread, I asked a question, people answered it, I might not like their answer but I didn't try and make my thread about someone else you did.

Just because someone asks a question in the forum doesn't mean you have to answer it. "

I've admitted (yes admitted ) nothing , and where have I tried to make this thread about someone else (I'm guessing you mean me ) , not once have I tried to . Only time I've said anything about me about what I think when I've seen the site supporter end status update , I have no intention taking over your thread I was just stating the way it reads you on the other hand didnae like what I had to say and in turn kept it going wae me , so no I've no sought any attention from this thread but I will always have my say especially when your quoting and aiming posts about me . But their you go you've proved my point look at the attention you've gotten from the thread .. Well done

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By *oShrinkingVioletWoman  over a year ago

the land of unicorns and fairytales

Been on and off 14years, when the site isn’t doing it for me I leave quite simply no announcement no forum posts about how or why it isn’t doing it because these posts don’t serve to change anything, has the site changed yea it has, have the time wasters increased well yes because the total number of site users has increased. Has the bitching and moaning in the scotland forums gotten worse no it’s always been the same cause we do love a good moan and a bitch fest in Scotland, we also love a bit of banter that’s not really understood by anyone else in the world ! The word c*nt is a prime example

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"From the comments I've read so far the consensus is that,

A if you're a single female this site is going to be a good place for you as this site is geared up for you. Yes you might get messages from desperate sados busting your tits about what you're missing out in by not meeting then but it's an easy fix, block him and move on..

B. If your on a singles guys account this place is like groundhog day of nothingness, you log on hoping for a message or 2 from a female or couple liking your profile and pics enough where you might get a meet with them but only on their terms. Your anticapation builds up before you enviably find out you've spent time chatting to another fake profile lol.

C. If a guy posts a thread asking a question you're deemed to be called an attention seeker and lambasted by the forum "how dare you ask a question"? brigade but if a female asks a similar question they are "no need to be nasty or rude she was only asking a question" double standards imo..

Let me add this , I am in a relationship with a beautiful lady who loves me and I come on here to get away from the basic day to day crap I go through but instead of it being an enjoyable experience I get to see the bad side of the regulars in here and to be fair it's mostly..not all but mostly the single females that are so far up their own arses that it's a wonder they can get their big heads through the door.

Bit of advice to those ladies, instead of being a bit of a tit try and understand that everyone has their reason in being on fab and have the respect that it's not just about you as in the words of the the legend that is Judge Judy...looks fade but dumb is forever.

I stand by my post the thread does come across as attention seeking I'd say the same male or female , as far as lambasted it means to attack verbally I didnae attack you , seems if others have an opinion that doesn't align with your own were accused of attacking you , and fake profiles isn't just of the female variety , there's plenty fake male profiles or single males posing as a couple when really they aren't there a single male , and predominantly the folk that get harrased and threatented to be outted in their vanilla lives are females so I wouldnae bother judging saying females have it easy on here . Now if only I could remember where my head was , oh that's right it's up ma ain arse You see that's what I'm talking about and why I started this thread.

Twice now you've said i was attention seeking, twice I've said that it wasn't my intention and here you are gaining attention by going on about it..

Bit hypocrital is it not?

You also bring up that I'm judging females harshly and to an extent I probably am but for valid reasons , I know plenty of single females on here so know what they have to put up with but as far as I'm aware receiving nasty or rude messages isn't against the law, block and move on, its not rocket science.

As a guy who has had a couples and single profiles over the years on here I've seen the exact same messages you get, you dont need to tell me it's easy on here for a female but taking everything else into account your Fab journey as a female is way better than a single guys.

Last thing I am is a hypocrite . I certainly didn't start a poor me post ..

I didnae say you were harshly judging females what I did say is I wouldnae bother judging saying females have it easy on here ..

I'm not talking about nasty or rude messages what I'm talking about is vile life changing messages that threaten to out someone , aye I agree that female users can get meets easier than a male but you think females have it easy , they have their time wasted all the same , and called slags , whores , sluts etc when they don't want to meet . So your take on us having it easy is wrong , so guys struggle to get meets and messages , atleast the messages aren't vile. So its no longer an attention seeking thread it's also now a "poor me" post lol laughable.

That type of statement sums up what i said about some females being so far up their own arse that they enjoy the attention being put on them and that hypocrisy at the highest level.

I've said what I've wanted to say and that's my choice, I don't require you to agree with it.

It is a poor me post and if you didnae want me or others chiming in on it then don't make a thread up or is it just OK to chime in if we all agree with you I honestly couldnae care what others , you included think of me , I will always speak my mind regardless who it's too , doesn't make me up my own arse even though it's big enough , and aye attention seeking and poor me just so we're clear .

Atleast you're now admiring you where attention seeking so you've just proved my point. Shame you couldn't have done that 4 comments ago.

Can I also add it's still not a poor me thread, I asked a question, people answered it, I might not like their answer but I didn't try and make my thread about someone else you did.

Just because someone asks a question in the forum doesn't mean you have to answer it.

I've admitted (yes admitted ) nothing , and where have I tried to make this thread about someone else (I'm guessing you mean me ) , not once have I tried to . Only time I've said anything about me about what I think when I've seen the site supporter end status update , I have no intention taking over your thread I was just stating the way it reads you on the other hand didnae like what I had to say and in turn kept it going wae me , so no I've no sought any attention from this thread but I will always have my say especially when your quoting and aiming posts about me . But their you go you've proved my point look at the attention you've gotten from the thread .. Well done "

I didn't like what you said because I wanted my thread NOT to come across as an "attention seeker or a poor me" type of thread, you where the one that said that and instead of accepting you said it you still continue to bring attention to yourself, maybe you should refrain from commenting on my threads if you don't like what I say back to you or are you just wanting to have the last word ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"From the comments I've read so far the consensus is that,

A if you're a single female this site is going to be a good place for you as this site is geared up for you. Yes you might get messages from desperate sados busting your tits about what you're missing out in by not meeting then but it's an easy fix, block him and move on..

B. If your on a singles guys account this place is like groundhog day of nothingness, you log on hoping for a message or 2 from a female or couple liking your profile and pics enough where you might get a meet with them but only on their terms. Your anticapation builds up before you enviably find out you've spent time chatting to another fake profile lol.

C. If a guy posts a thread asking a question you're deemed to be called an attention seeker and lambasted by the forum "how dare you ask a question"? brigade but if a female asks a similar question they are "no need to be nasty or rude she was only asking a question" double standards imo..

Let me add this , I am in a relationship with a beautiful lady who loves me and I come on here to get away from the basic day to day crap I go through but instead of it being an enjoyable experience I get to see the bad side of the regulars in here and to be fair it's mostly..not all but mostly the single females that are so far up their own arses that it's a wonder they can get their big heads through the door.

Bit of advice to those ladies, instead of being a bit of a tit try and understand that everyone has their reason in being on fab and have the respect that it's not just about you as in the words of the the legend that is Judge Judy...looks fade but dumb is forever.

I stand by my post the thread does come across as attention seeking I'd say the same male or female , as far as lambasted it means to attack verbally I didnae attack you , seems if others have an opinion that doesn't align with your own were accused of attacking you , and fake profiles isn't just of the female variety , there's plenty fake male profiles or single males posing as a couple when really they aren't there a single male , and predominantly the folk that get harrased and threatented to be outted in their vanilla lives are females so I wouldnae bother judging saying females have it easy on here . Now if only I could remember where my head was , oh that's right it's up ma ain arse You see that's what I'm talking about and why I started this thread.

Twice now you've said i was attention seeking, twice I've said that it wasn't my intention and here you are gaining attention by going on about it..

Bit hypocrital is it not?

You also bring up that I'm judging females harshly and to an extent I probably am but for valid reasons , I know plenty of single females on here so know what they have to put up with but as far as I'm aware receiving nasty or rude messages isn't against the law, block and move on, its not rocket science.

As a guy who has had a couples and single profiles over the years on here I've seen the exact same messages you get, you dont need to tell me it's easy on here for a female but taking everything else into account your Fab journey as a female is way better than a single guys.

Last thing I am is a hypocrite . I certainly didn't start a poor me post ..

I didnae say you were harshly judging females what I did say is I wouldnae bother judging saying females have it easy on here ..

I'm not talking about nasty or rude messages what I'm talking about is vile life changing messages that threaten to out someone , aye I agree that female users can get meets easier than a male but you think females have it easy , they have their time wasted all the same , and called slags , whores , sluts etc when they don't want to meet . So your take on us having it easy is wrong , so guys struggle to get meets and messages , atleast the messages aren't vile. So its no longer an attention seeking thread it's also now a "poor me" post lol laughable.

That type of statement sums up what i said about some females being so far up their own arse that they enjoy the attention being put on them and that hypocrisy at the highest level.

I've said what I've wanted to say and that's my choice, I don't require you to agree with it.

It is a poor me post and if you didnae want me or others chiming in on it then don't make a thread up or is it just OK to chime in if we all agree with you I honestly couldnae care what others , you included think of me , I will always speak my mind regardless who it's too , doesn't make me up my own arse even though it's big enough , and aye attention seeking and poor me just so we're clear .

Atleast you're now admiring you where attention seeking so you've just proved my point. Shame you couldn't have done that 4 comments ago.

Can I also add it's still not a poor me thread, I asked a question, people answered it, I might not like their answer but I didn't try and make my thread about someone else you did.

Just because someone asks a question in the forum doesn't mean you have to answer it.

I've admitted (yes admitted ) nothing , and where have I tried to make this thread about someone else (I'm guessing you mean me ) , not once have I tried to . Only time I've said anything about me about what I think when I've seen the site supporter end status update , I have no intention taking over your thread I was just stating the way it reads you on the other hand didnae like what I had to say and in turn kept it going wae me , so no I've no sought any attention from this thread but I will always have my say especially when your quoting and aiming posts about me . But their you go you've proved my point look at the attention you've gotten from the thread .. Well done

I didn't like what you said because I wanted my thread NOT to come across as an "attention seeker or a poor me" type of thread, you where the one that said that and instead of accepting you said it you still continue to bring attention to yourself, maybe you should refrain from commenting on my threads if you don't like what I say back to you or are you just wanting to have the last word ? "

Well it came across that way too me .. I accept I said it because that's what I saw and I meant it as I haven't denied saying it .. as in bringing attention to myself i simply commented on a thread in a public forum that if you hadn't started the thread I wouldn't have been able to comment on . It is a public forum and I'll comment on them as such .

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"From the comments I've read so far the consensus is that,

A if you're a single female this site is going to be a good place for you as this site is geared up for you. Yes you might get messages from desperate sados busting your tits about what you're missing out in by not meeting then but it's an easy fix, block him and move on..

B. If your on a singles guys account this place is like groundhog day of nothingness, you log on hoping for a message or 2 from a female or couple liking your profile and pics enough where you might get a meet with them but only on their terms. Your anticapation builds up before you enviably find out you've spent time chatting to another fake profile lol.

C. If a guy posts a thread asking a question you're deemed to be called an attention seeker and lambasted by the forum "how dare you ask a question"? brigade but if a female asks a similar question they are "no need to be nasty or rude she was only asking a question" double standards imo..

Let me add this , I am in a relationship with a beautiful lady who loves me and I come on here to get away from the basic day to day crap I go through but instead of it being an enjoyable experience I get to see the bad side of the regulars in here and to be fair it's mostly..not all but mostly the single females that are so far up their own arses that it's a wonder they can get their big heads through the door.

Bit of advice to those ladies, instead of being a bit of a tit try and understand that everyone has their reason in being on fab and have the respect that it's not just about you as in the words of the the legend that is Judge Judy...looks fade but dumb is forever.

I stand by my post the thread does come across as attention seeking I'd say the same male or female , as far as lambasted it means to attack verbally I didnae attack you , seems if others have an opinion that doesn't align with your own were accused of attacking you , and fake profiles isn't just of the female variety , there's plenty fake male profiles or single males posing as a couple when really they aren't there a single male , and predominantly the folk that get harrased and threatented to be outted in their vanilla lives are females so I wouldnae bother judging saying females have it easy on here . Now if only I could remember where my head was , oh that's right it's up ma ain arse You see that's what I'm talking about and why I started this thread.

Twice now you've said i was attention seeking, twice I've said that it wasn't my intention and here you are gaining attention by going on about it..

Bit hypocrital is it not?

You also bring up that I'm judging females harshly and to an extent I probably am but for valid reasons , I know plenty of single females on here so know what they have to put up with but as far as I'm aware receiving nasty or rude messages isn't against the law, block and move on, its not rocket science.

As a guy who has had a couples and single profiles over the years on here I've seen the exact same messages you get, you dont need to tell me it's easy on here for a female but taking everything else into account your Fab journey as a female is way better than a single guys.

Last thing I am is a hypocrite . I certainly didn't start a poor me post ..

I didnae say you were harshly judging females what I did say is I wouldnae bother judging saying females have it easy on here ..

I'm not talking about nasty or rude messages what I'm talking about is vile life changing messages that threaten to out someone , aye I agree that female users can get meets easier than a male but you think females have it easy , they have their time wasted all the same , and called slags , whores , sluts etc when they don't want to meet . So your take on us having it easy is wrong , so guys struggle to get meets and messages , atleast the messages aren't vile. So its no longer an attention seeking thread it's also now a "poor me" post lol laughable.

That type of statement sums up what i said about some females being so far up their own arse that they enjoy the attention being put on them and that hypocrisy at the highest level.

I've said what I've wanted to say and that's my choice, I don't require you to agree with it.

It is a poor me post and if you didnae want me or others chiming in on it then don't make a thread up or is it just OK to chime in if we all agree with you I honestly couldnae care what others , you included think of me , I will always speak my mind regardless who it's too , doesn't make me up my own arse even though it's big enough , and aye attention seeking and poor me just so we're clear .

Atleast you're now admiring you where attention seeking so you've just proved my point. Shame you couldn't have done that 4 comments ago.

Can I also add it's still not a poor me thread, I asked a question, people answered it, I might not like their answer but I didn't try and make my thread about someone else you did.

Just because someone asks a question in the forum doesn't mean you have to answer it.

I've admitted (yes admitted ) nothing , and where have I tried to make this thread about someone else (I'm guessing you mean me ) , not once have I tried to . Only time I've said anything about me about what I think when I've seen the site supporter end status update , I have no intention taking over your thread I was just stating the way it reads you on the other hand didnae like what I had to say and in turn kept it going wae me , so no I've no sought any attention from this thread but I will always have my say especially when your quoting and aiming posts about me . But their you go you've proved my point look at the attention you've gotten from the thread .. Well done

I didn't like what you said because I wanted my thread NOT to come across as an "attention seeker or a poor me" type of thread, you where the one that said that and instead of accepting you said it you still continue to bring attention to yourself, maybe you should refrain from commenting on my threads if you don't like what I say back to you or are you just wanting to have the last word ?

Well it came across that way too me .. I accept I said it because that's what I saw and I meant it as I haven't denied saying it .. as in bringing attention to myself i simply commented on a thread in a public forum that if you hadn't started the thread I wouldn't have been able to comment on . It is a public forum and I'll comment on them as such ."

So now you're admiting it was you that said it where's my apology? Lol just kidding.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Can't be arsed reading the whole thread.

I have a love/hate relationship with Fab.

Been lucky enough to come across a few total gems and folk who are absolutely sound. They're worth staying for.

Some genuinely very funny people who, though I may never meet, make me regularly lol.

The arseholes, negativity and fakeness can get to me to me though.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm loving it at the moment.

If your on everyday it can get menoutanus.

I'm away back to work soon so no fab for a month. Works well for me.

Monotonous

Aye that to

Menoutanus is actually the chant of those who believe anal sex to be a sin. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

So now you're admiting it was you that said it where's my apology? Lol just kidding. "

I never denied saying it .. read it back .

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"

So now you're admiting it was you that said it where's my apology? Lol just kidding.

I never denied saying it .. read it back . "

Nah its cool and anyways I'm too scunnered to read it all over again.

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By *ola cubesMan  over a year ago

coatbridge

Not the first time this has been posted and won't be the last im betting

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Can't be arsed reading the whole thread.

I have a love/hate relationship with Fab.

Been lucky enough to come across a few total gems and folk who are absolutely sound. They're worth staying for.

Some genuinely very funny people who, though I may never meet, make me regularly lol.

The arseholes, negativity and fakeness can get to me to me though. "

I wouldn't recommend you read it all as its as long as 'War and Peace' but atleast you took the time to answer my initial question so cheers for that

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Not the first time this has been posted and won't be the last im betting"
True, but you get different comments depending on if its a guy asking that question compared to a female.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Tarzan, I'm not I'm any way creeping round Chakas ass but I don't think she is posting in a 'poor me' kinda way, if you read her profile you will see what kinda girl she is, very bloody straightforward she's only pointing out it's difficult for females albeit in a different way

She's not pointing out something I didn't already know, contrary to what sone believe im not thick but to say I made this thread as an attention seeking and now a poor me thread is ridiculous, I'm just calling her out on that because she's wrong on why I put this thread on here.

I didn't find it attention seeking at all, we all get scunnered from time to time with the place, listen if we depended on this place to get company we would all be in the crap

Yeah true but for me it's not just about meets its about peoples attitudes especially in these forums, you're called this and that because of not agreeing with someone's opinion or views, it's ridiculous sometimes when someone writes out a new thread or adds a comment to an existing thread you have to think twice before posting it in fear of being called a twat, self centred, attention seeker, racist, transphobic and a female hater, trust me I am none of them above with the way some act is they think it's puts a huge downer on this site.

Someone can comment something nice and positive but some smart ass will always say something negative about it and try to turn the thread to make it about them and imo the person who usually do that are the females.

Disclaimer: These are only my views and do not mean they have to be taken seriously, this sites meant to be fun."

Stop moaning like fuck then!

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By *ola cubesMan  over a year ago

coatbridge


"Not the first time this has been posted and won't be the last im betting True, but you get different comments depending on if its a guy asking that question compared to a female."
not from me you dont

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Tarzan, I'm not I'm any way creeping round Chakas ass but I don't think she is posting in a 'poor me' kinda way, if you read her profile you will see what kinda girl she is, very bloody straightforward she's only pointing out it's difficult for females albeit in a different way

She's not pointing out something I didn't already know, contrary to what sone believe im not thick but to say I made this thread as an attention seeking and now a poor me thread is ridiculous, I'm just calling her out on that because she's wrong on why I put this thread on here.

I didn't find it attention seeking at all, we all get scunnered from time to time with the place, listen if we depended on this place to get company we would all be in the crap

Yeah true but for me it's not just about meets its about peoples attitudes especially in these forums, you're called this and that because of not agreeing with someone's opinion or views, it's ridiculous sometimes when someone writes out a new thread or adds a comment to an existing thread you have to think twice before posting it in fear of being called a twat, self centred, attention seeker, racist, transphobic and a female hater, trust me I am none of them above with the way some act is they think it's puts a huge downer on this site.

Someone can comment something nice and positive but some smart ass will always say something negative about it and try to turn the thread to make it about them and imo the person who usually do that are the females.

Disclaimer: These are only my views and do not mean they have to be taken seriously, this sites meant to be fun.

Stop moaning like fuck then!"

shurrup you it's the only fun I get on here.

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By *esparate danMan  over a year ago

glasgow

Do you not have any work to do

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do you not have any work to do "

Summer holidays...lot of folk are off just now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Do you not have any work to do "
can you state who your question is aimed at? Might help that person to answer it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do you not have any work to do

Summer holidays...lot of folk are off just now."

My friend from on here is a teacher and he never stops working even when it's school holidays as he works from home too. So no rest for him but he's sensible in that he doesn't do the forum. Very wise lol

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By *uffolkJohnMan  over a year ago

Newmarket

Dear God Tarzan, after all this attention seeking don't accusing me of looking for pity shags again. You have excelled yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Dear God Tarzan, after all this attention seeking don't accusing me of looking for pity shags again. You have excelled yourself."
difference between you and me is I don't go looking for pity shags, incase you've forgotten I have a partner who's more than enough for me.

I do have to admit though your comment did make me chuckle a little.

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By *uffolkJohnMan  over a year ago

Newmarket


"Dear God Tarzan, after all this attention seeking don't accusing me of looking for pity shags again. You have excelled yourself. difference between you and me is I don't go looking for pity shags, incase you've forgotten I have a partner who's more than enough for me.

I do have to admit though your comment did make me chuckle a little. "

Well I think the attention seeking is increasing to a desperate level. Why don't you try talking to that partner of yours? Is she the one you wouldn't photo verify? What happened to the thread that kepy on giving yesterday?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I suppose it depends what your looking for - i can’t imagine what a single guys profile must be like but it can’t be easy,

for us we have made close friends with 3 couples in particular and we go to things like gigs etc as well as play. The social aspect has been really surprising for us.

We also only play 1 or 2 times a month so things don’t become and expectation and keeps us wanting more "

Never easy for us

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Dear God Tarzan, after all this attention seeking don't accusing me of looking for pity shags again. You have excelled yourself. difference between you and me is I don't go looking for pity shags, incase you've forgotten I have a partner who's more than enough for me.

I do have to admit though your comment did make me chuckle a little.

Well I think the attention seeking is increasing to a desperate level. Why don't you try talking to that partner of yours? Is she the one you wouldn't photo verify? What happened to the thread that kepy on giving yesterday?"

once again you're wrong, I wasn't the one who didn't want to photo verify her, that was her decision, I also am not photo verified on my single guy account or previous couples account so what? I'm fake?

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By *uffolkJohnMan  over a year ago

Newmarket


"Dear God Tarzan, after all this attention seeking don't accusing me of looking for pity shags again. You have excelled yourself. difference between you and me is I don't go looking for pity shags, incase you've forgotten I have a partner who's more than enough for me.

I do have to admit though your comment did make me chuckle a little.

Well I think the attention seeking is increasing to a desperate level. Why don't you try talking to that partner of yours? Is she the one you wouldn't photo verify? What happened to the thread that kepy on giving yesterday? once again you're wrong, I wasn't the one who didn't want to photo verify her, that was her decision, I also am not photo verified on my single guy account or previous couples account so what? I'm fake? "

You can't be fake Tarzan. No one in their right mind would make up your profile. Any chance of a pic of the mrs? No face needed tits and pussy would be fine.

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By *ellinever70Woman  over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Dear God Tarzan, after all this attention seeking don't accusing me of looking for pity shags again. You have excelled yourself. difference between you and me is I don't go looking for pity shags, incase you've forgotten I have a partner who's more than enough for me.

I do have to admit though your comment did make me chuckle a little.

Well I think the attention seeking is increasing to a desperate level. Why don't you try talking to that partner of yours? Is she the one you wouldn't photo verify? What happened to the thread that kepy on giving yesterday? once again you're wrong, I wasn't the one who didn't want to photo verify her, that was her decision, I also am not photo verified on my single guy account or previous couples account so what? I'm fake?

You can't be fake Tarzan. No one in their right mind would make up your profile. Any chance of a pic of the mrs? No face needed tits and pussy would be fine. "

He's on a single guys profile, so shouldn't be sending anyone pics of any woman from it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Dear God Tarzan, after all this attention seeking don't accusing me of looking for pity shags again. You have excelled yourself. difference between you and me is I don't go looking for pity shags, incase you've forgotten I have a partner who's more than enough for me.

I do have to admit though your comment did make me chuckle a little.

Well I think the attention seeking is increasing to a desperate level. Why don't you try talking to that partner of yours? Is she the one you wouldn't photo verify? What happened to the thread that kepy on giving yesterday? once again you're wrong, I wasn't the one who didn't want to photo verify her, that was her decision, I also am not photo verified on my single guy account or previous couples account so what? I'm fake?

You can't be fake Tarzan. No one in their right mind would make up your profile. Any chance of a pic of the mrs? No face needed tits and pussy would be fine. "

...I'm gonnae need a bigger bag of popcorn!

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By *uffolkJohnMan  over a year ago

Newmarket


"Dear God Tarzan, after all this attention seeking don't accusing me of looking for pity shags again. You have excelled yourself. difference between you and me is I don't go looking for pity shags, incase you've forgotten I have a partner who's more than enough for me.

I do have to admit though your comment did make me chuckle a little.

Well I think the attention seeking is increasing to a desperate level. Why don't you try talking to that partner of yours? Is she the one you wouldn't photo verify? What happened to the thread that kepy on giving yesterday? once again you're wrong, I wasn't the one who didn't want to photo verify her, that was her decision, I also am not photo verified on my single guy account or previous couples account so what? I'm fake?

You can't be fake Tarzan. No one in their right mind would make up your profile. Any chance of a pic of the mrs? No face needed tits and pussy would be fine.

...I'm gonnae need a bigger bag of popcorn!"

Notice I didn't ask for a bum pic Muffy?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Dear God Tarzan, after all this attention seeking don't accusing me of looking for pity shags again. You have excelled yourself. difference between you and me is I don't go looking for pity shags, incase you've forgotten I have a partner who's more than enough for me.

I do have to admit though your comment did make me chuckle a little.

Well I think the attention seeking is increasing to a desperate level. Why don't you try talking to that partner of yours? Is she the one you wouldn't photo verify? What happened to the thread that kepy on giving yesterday? once again you're wrong, I wasn't the one who didn't want to photo verify her, that was her decision, I also am not photo verified on my single guy account or previous couples account so what? I'm fake?

You can't be fake Tarzan. No one in their right mind would make up your profile. Any chance of a pic of the mrs? No face needed tits and pussy would be fine.

...I'm gonnae need a bigger bag of popcorn!

Notice I didn't ask for a bum pic Muffy?"

Cause you're no desperate....innit

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Dear God Tarzan, after all this attention seeking don't accusing me of looking for pity shags again. You have excelled yourself. difference between you and me is I don't go looking for pity shags, incase you've forgotten I have a partner who's more than enough for me.

I do have to admit though your comment did make me chuckle a little.

Well I think the attention seeking is increasing to a desperate level. Why don't you try talking to that partner of yours? Is she the one you wouldn't photo verify? What happened to the thread that kepy on giving yesterday? once again you're wrong, I wasn't the one who didn't want to photo verify her, that was her decision, I also am not photo verified on my single guy account or previous couples account so what? I'm fake?

You can't be fake Tarzan. No one in their right mind would make up your profile. Any chance of a pic of the mrs? No face needed tits and pussy would be fine. "

I'm not fake and neither is she, contrary to what you or anyone else believes I don't give a rats arse about your thoughts on this whole photo verification nonsense that you keep try to bring into any threads or comments I have in here, you're an insufficient nobody to me.

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By *othardandfreeMan  over a year ago

dd


"Dear God Tarzan, after all this attention seeking don't accusing me of looking for pity shags again. You have excelled yourself. difference between you and me is I don't go looking for pity shags, incase you've forgotten I have a partner who's more than enough for me.

I do have to admit though your comment did make me chuckle a little.

Well I think the attention seeking is increasing to a desperate level. Why don't you try talking to that partner of yours? Is she the one you wouldn't photo verify? What happened to the thread that kepy on giving yesterday? once again you're wrong, I wasn't the one who didn't want to photo verify her, that was her decision, I also am not photo verified on my single guy account or previous couples account so what? I'm fake?

You can't be fake Tarzan. No one in their right mind would make up your profile. Any chance of a pic of the mrs? No face needed tits and pussy would be fine.

...I'm gonnae need a bigger bag of popcorn!"

Ill just wait and see it on the catch up service. Im a busy man fighting them all off with my sh1tty stick.

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By *uffolkJohnMan  over a year ago

Newmarket


"Dear God Tarzan, after all this attention seeking don't accusing me of looking for pity shags again. You have excelled yourself. difference between you and me is I don't go looking for pity shags, incase you've forgotten I have a partner who's more than enough for me.

I do have to admit though your comment did make me chuckle a little.

Well I think the attention seeking is increasing to a desperate level. Why don't you try talking to that partner of yours? Is she the one you wouldn't photo verify? What happened to the thread that kepy on giving yesterday? once again you're wrong, I wasn't the one who didn't want to photo verify her, that was her decision, I also am not photo verified on my single guy account or previous couples account so what? I'm fake?

You can't be fake Tarzan. No one in their right mind would make up your profile. Any chance of a pic of the mrs? No face needed tits and pussy would be fine. I'm not fake and neither is she, contrary to what you or anyone else believes I don't give a rats arse about your thoughts on this whole photo verification nonsense that you keep try to bring into any threads or comments I have in here, you're an insufficient nobody to me. "

And I thought we were bonding.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Dear God Tarzan, after all this attention seeking don't accusing me of looking for pity shags again. You have excelled yourself. difference between you and me is I don't go looking for pity shags, incase you've forgotten I have a partner who's more than enough for me.

I do have to admit though your comment did make me chuckle a little.

Well I think the attention seeking is increasing to a desperate level. Why don't you try talking to that partner of yours? Is she the one you wouldn't photo verify? What happened to the thread that kepy on giving yesterday? once again you're wrong, I wasn't the one who didn't want to photo verify her, that was her decision, I also am not photo verified on my single guy account or previous couples account so what? I'm fake?

You can't be fake Tarzan. No one in their right mind would make up your profile. Any chance of a pic of the mrs? No face needed tits and pussy would be fine.

...I'm gonnae need a bigger bag of popcorn!

Ill just wait and see it on the catch up service. Im a busy man fighting them all off with my sh1tty stick.

"

Notice how all the guys are now commenting on this threads but not about the question I asked but to brown nose Miss Muff in the hope she'll give them a sympathy shag, pathetic!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Dear God Tarzan, after all this attention seeking don't accusing me of looking for pity shags again. You have excelled yourself. difference between you and me is I don't go looking for pity shags, incase you've forgotten I have a partner who's more than enough for me.

I do have to admit though your comment did make me chuckle a little.

Well I think the attention seeking is increasing to a desperate level. Why don't you try talking to that partner of yours? Is she the one you wouldn't photo verify? What happened to the thread that kepy on giving yesterday? once again you're wrong, I wasn't the one who didn't want to photo verify her, that was her decision, I also am not photo verified on my single guy account or previous couples account so what? I'm fake?

You can't be fake Tarzan. No one in their right mind would make up your profile. Any chance of a pic of the mrs? No face needed tits and pussy would be fine.

...I'm gonnae need a bigger bag of popcorn!

Ill just wait and see it on the catch up service. Im a busy man fighting them all off with my sh1tty stick.

"

Shitty stick? You been partaking in the brown love again?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Dear God Tarzan, after all this attention seeking don't accusing me of looking for pity shags again. You have excelled yourself. difference between you and me is I don't go looking for pity shags, incase you've forgotten I have a partner who's more than enough for me.

I do have to admit though your comment did make me chuckle a little.

Well I think the attention seeking is increasing to a desperate level. Why don't you try talking to that partner of yours? Is she the one you wouldn't photo verify? What happened to the thread that kepy on giving yesterday? once again you're wrong, I wasn't the one who didn't want to photo verify her, that was her decision, I also am not photo verified on my single guy account or previous couples account so what? I'm fake?

You can't be fake Tarzan. No one in their right mind would make up your profile. Any chance of a pic of the mrs? No face needed tits and pussy would be fine. I'm not fake and neither is she, contrary to what you or anyone else believes I don't give a rats arse about your thoughts on this whole photo verification nonsense that you keep try to bring into any threads or comments I have in here, you're an insufficient nobody to me.

And I thought we were bonding. "

You sure you're not The Real Destroyer in disguise? You 2 could be twins.

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By *melia DominaTV/TS  over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)


" Tend to agree. Keep coming on and off it. Everytime I come back it’s more of a bi/ gay/ tv cock fest pick up site rather than a swingers site. "

And here is me thinking swinging was inclusive to all genders.

Damn those lgbtq+ individuals who enjoy their swinging sexual adventures but spoiling it for others. Tsk tsk!!

Taste the rainbow.....

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By *uffolkJohnMan  over a year ago

Newmarket


"Dear God Tarzan, after all this attention seeking don't accusing me of looking for pity shags again. You have excelled yourself. difference between you and me is I don't go looking for pity shags, incase you've forgotten I have a partner who's more than enough for me.

I do have to admit though your comment did make me chuckle a little.

Well I think the attention seeking is increasing to a desperate level. Why don't you try talking to that partner of yours? Is she the one you wouldn't photo verify? What happened to the thread that kepy on giving yesterday? once again you're wrong, I wasn't the one who didn't want to photo verify her, that was her decision, I also am not photo verified on my single guy account or previous couples account so what? I'm fake?

You can't be fake Tarzan. No one in their right mind would make up your profile. Any chance of a pic of the mrs? No face needed tits and pussy would be fine. I'm not fake and neither is she, contrary to what you or anyone else believes I don't give a rats arse about your thoughts on this whole photo verification nonsense that you keep try to bring into any threads or comments I have in here, you're an insufficient nobody to me.

And I thought we were bonding. You sure you're not The Real Destroyer in disguise? You 2 could be twins."

If he's a good looking lad with a big cock and rapier wit, could be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Dear God Tarzan, after all this attention seeking don't accusing me of looking for pity shags again. You have excelled yourself. difference between you and me is I don't go looking for pity shags, incase you've forgotten I have a partner who's more than enough for me.

I do have to admit though your comment did make me chuckle a little.

Well I think the attention seeking is increasing to a desperate level. Why don't you try talking to that partner of yours? Is she the one you wouldn't photo verify? What happened to the thread that kepy on giving yesterday? once again you're wrong, I wasn't the one who didn't want to photo verify her, that was her decision, I also am not photo verified on my single guy account or previous couples account so what? I'm fake?

You can't be fake Tarzan. No one in their right mind would make up your profile. Any chance of a pic of the mrs? No face needed tits and pussy would be fine. I'm not fake and neither is she, contrary to what you or anyone else believes I don't give a rats arse about your thoughts on this whole photo verification nonsense that you keep try to bring into any threads or comments I have in here, you're an insufficient nobody to me.

And I thought we were bonding. You sure you're not The Real Destroyer in disguise? You 2 could be twins.

If he's a good looking lad with a big cock and rapier wit, could be. "

Nah he's the exact opposite of them.

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By *assy LassieWoman  over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"

Give it your best shot as to why its worth being on here?

Maybe it's just me but it seems to have lost its appeal.

You agree or disagree?

It sometimes happens when you lose your forum wingman. Try detecting some parking violations to break the monotony pmsl cunny funt "

I try my best. Saves getting scunnered

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Interesting thread! Just sat down with some popcorn too

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By *oreverplayfulCouple  over a year ago

motherwell

Interesting thread, from a couples point of view we are over run with males massaging but we do try replying unless you simply arent what we are looking for. Then we won't reply. Simply because we are here for fun and don't have the time to reply to every single person who doesn't interest us in the slightest.. where is the fun in that? Single males are here for fun? Well so is everyone else and we certainly do not plan on wasting it with guys who cannot send a message without "fancy a shag" "come to my place"... aye cause your first message has me dripping wanting to ravish you.. or people who we aren't attracted to. There has to be some physical attraction aswell to having something in common.

Don't even get me started on people we have messaged for months then arranged a meet and they have spunked in there pants before even leaving there own house then not turning up to the meet. Plenty of single guy timewasters aswell who talk the talk but are scared to go through with it when it comes down to it.

As others have said. If you feel the need to post this on the forum then maybe time to leave the site behind and move onto something else.

The sites inclusive. Just because you aren't getting any i don't see why anyone else can't have there fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Interesting thread, from a couples point of view we are over run with males massaging but we do try replying unless you simply arent what we are looking for. Then we won't reply. Simply because we are here for fun and don't have the time to reply to every single person who doesn't interest us in the slightest.. where is the fun in that? Single males are here for fun? Well so is everyone else and we certainly do not plan on wasting it with guys who cannot send a message without "fancy a shag" "come to my place"... aye cause your first message has me dripping wanting to ravish you.. or people who we aren't attracted to. There has to be some physical attraction aswell to having something in common.

Don't even get me started on people we have messaged for months then arranged a meet and they have spunked in there pants before even leaving there own house then not turning up to the meet. Plenty of single guy timewasters aswell who talk the talk but are scared to go through with it when it comes down to it.

As others have said. If you feel the need to post this on the forum then maybe time to leave the site behind and move onto something else.

The sites inclusive. Just because you aren't getting any i don't see why anyone else can't have there fun "

interesting comment and probably too much for me to go into but one thing I will say is I have a partner so I get plenty thanks.

Just because guys use a single guys profile DOESN'T mean they are single. Try remember that people..

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By *I TwoCouple  over a year ago

PDI 12-26th Nov 24


"

Give it your best shot as to why its worth being on here?

Maybe it's just me but it seems to have lost its appeal.

You agree or disagree? "

No photos, no veris,no interests... I wonder why you have no luck lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"

Give it your best shot as to why its worth being on here?

Maybe it's just me but it seems to have lost its appeal.

You agree or disagree?

No photos, no veris,no interests... I wonder why you have no luck lol"

I do have veris I just dint show them.

I have/had photos but took them down and I do have interests but decided to not click and show them so that means I have no luck? What a silly comment to make but thanks for putting lol at the end of it that really makes a difference.

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By *ola cubesMan  over a year ago

coatbridge

I remember your return on the profile you are on now.

my oh my your forum posts and views seem to be ever changing or perhaps your true self shining through its your choice stay leave return in everybody else's view it will make little impact

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The community on cams are class. I've had some good interactions and some less good ones but it's much the same as life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I remember your return on the profile you are on now.

my oh my your forum posts and views seem to be ever changing or perhaps your true self shining through its your choice stay leave return in everybody else's view it will make little impact "

not once have I said that if I left, stayed or took a break from fab would make any impact on anyone., if you're going to comment on this thread make it about what I have said not on something I haven't said.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm actually genuinely interested to know why you've started so many threads recently Tarzan. I know you can do what you wish but you never used to start a whole lot of threads in the past. Just wondering, what's changed? x

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By *ikerBloke...Man  over a year ago

western hemisphere , planet earth


"I'm actually genuinely interested to know why you've started so many threads recently Tarzan. I know you can do what you wish but you never used to start a whole lot of threads in the past. Just wondering, what's changed? x"

Love islands finished

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm actually genuinely interested to know why you've started so many threads recently Tarzan. I know you can do what you wish but you never used to start a whole lot of threads in the past. Just wondering, what's changed? x

Love islands finished "

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By *ola cubesMan  over a year ago

coatbridge


"I remember your return on the profile you are on now.

my oh my your forum posts and views seem to be ever changing or perhaps your true self shining through its your choice stay leave return in everybody else's view it will make little impact not once have I said that if I left, stayed or took a break from fab would make any impact on anyone., if you're going to comment on this thread make it about what I have said not on something I haven't said."

I am commenting on things you have said. I never claimed you said it would. I made a statement not an accusation.

You don't get to decide how when or what I say on an open forum

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'm actually genuinely interested to know why you've started so many threads recently Tarzan. I know you can do what you wish but you never used to start a whole lot of threads in the past. Just wondering, what's changed? x"

Nothings changed, just scunnered by the double standards that goes on in this forum but I'm beginning to see some people's true colours coming out and in a way glad that others can see it aswell.

I'm a man of principles and believe in freedom of speech whether or not you agree or disagree with my opinions I'm still entitled to voice them and not as on numerous occasions be shoot down because someone thinks different to what I've said.

I honestly don't care that I offend someone if I think they deserve it but I won't just accept that I'm wrong just because a comolete stranger I will never meet on a swingers site says so.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I remember your return on the profile you are on now.

my oh my your forum posts and views seem to be ever changing or perhaps your true self shining through its your choice stay leave return in everybody else's view it will make little impact not once have I said that if I left, stayed or took a break from fab would make any impact on anyone., if you're going to comment on this thread make it about what I have said not on something I haven't said.I am commenting on things you have said. I never claimed you said it would. I made a statement not an accusation.

You don't get to decide how when or what I say on an open forum"

aye ok mr cola cubes, do you want to give me the same rights?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm actually genuinely interested to know why you've started so many threads recently Tarzan. I know you can do what you wish but you never used to start a whole lot of threads in the past. Just wondering, what's changed? x

Nothings changed, just scunnered by the double standards that goes on in this forum but I'm beginning to see some people's true colours coming out and in a way glad that others can see it aswell.

I'm a man of principles and believe in freedom of speech whether or not you agree or disagree with my opinions I'm still entitled to voice them and not as on numerous occasions be shoot down because someone thinks different to what I've said.

I honestly don't care that I offend someone if I think they deserve it but I won't just accept that I'm wrong just because a comolete stranger I will never meet on a swingers site says so."

If you're not happy then maybe you should take a little break. I'm certainly not offended by anything you've said because I've not needed to give an opinion. I was just wondering and hoping you're ok x

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By *ola cubesMan  over a year ago

coatbridge


"I remember your return on the profile you are on now.

my oh my your forum posts and views seem to be ever changing or perhaps your true self shining through its your choice stay leave return in everybody else's view it will make little impact not once have I said that if I left, stayed or took a break from fab would make any impact on anyone., if you're going to comment on this thread make it about what I have said not on something I haven't said.I am commenting on things you have said. I never claimed you said it would. I made a statement not an accusation.

You don't get to decide how when or what I say on an open forum aye ok mr cola cubes, do you want to give me the same rights? "

ain't attempted to remove any from you ain't mine to give

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'm actually genuinely interested to know why you've started so many threads recently Tarzan. I know you can do what you wish but you never used to start a whole lot of threads in the past. Just wondering, what's changed? x

Nothings changed, just scunnered by the double standards that goes on in this forum but I'm beginning to see some people's true colours coming out and in a way glad that others can see it aswell.

I'm a man of principles and believe in freedom of speech whether or not you agree or disagree with my opinions I'm still entitled to voice them and not as on numerous occasions be shoot down because someone thinks different to what I've said.

I honestly don't care that I offend someone if I think they deserve it but I won't just accept that I'm wrong just because a comolete stranger I will never meet on a swingers site says so.

If you're not happy then maybe you should take a little break. I'm certainly not offended by anything you've said because I've not needed to give an opinion. I was just wondering and hoping you're ok x"

I'm fine thanks x

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By *ookie69Man  over a year ago

Whistle Dixie


"Dear God Tarzan, after all this attention seeking don't accusing me of looking for pity shags again. You have excelled yourself. difference between you and me is I don't go looking for pity shags, incase you've forgotten I have a partner who's more than enough for me.

I do have to admit though your comment did make me chuckle a little.

Well I think the attention seeking is increasing to a desperate level. Why don't you try talking to that partner of yours? Is she the one you wouldn't photo verify? What happened to the thread that kepy on giving yesterday? once again you're wrong, I wasn't the one who didn't want to photo verify her, that was her decision, I also am not photo verified on my single guy account or previous couples account so what? I'm fake?

You can't be fake Tarzan. No one in their right mind would make up your profile. Any chance of a pic of the mrs? No face needed tits and pussy would be fine.

He's on a single guys profile, so shouldn't be sending anyone pics of any woman from it"

I just looked at you're avatar pic while reading that.

This forum thread needs deleted

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Dear God Tarzan, after all this attention seeking don't accusing me of looking for pity shags again. You have excelled yourself. difference between you and me is I don't go looking for pity shags, incase you've forgotten I have a partner who's more than enough for me.

I do have to admit though your comment did make me chuckle a little.

Well I think the attention seeking is increasing to a desperate level. Why don't you try talking to that partner of yours? Is she the one you wouldn't photo verify? What happened to the thread that kepy on giving yesterday? once again you're wrong, I wasn't the one who didn't want to photo verify her, that was her decision, I also am not photo verified on my single guy account or previous couples account so what? I'm fake?

You can't be fake Tarzan. No one in their right mind would make up your profile. Any chance of a pic of the mrs? No face needed tits and pussy would be fine.

He's on a single guys profile, so shouldn't be sending anyone pics of any woman from it

I just looked at you're avatar pic while reading that.

This forum thread needs deleted "

And why should it be deleted? Enlighten me please wise man of Fabswingers.

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By *ookie69Man  over a year ago

Whistle Dixie


"Dear God Tarzan, after all this attention seeking don't accusing me of looking for pity shags again. You have excelled yourself. difference between you and me is I don't go looking for pity shags, incase you've forgotten I have a partner who's more than enough for me.

I do have to admit though your comment did make me chuckle a little.

Well I think the attention seeking is increasing to a desperate level. Why don't you try talking to that partner of yours? Is she the one you wouldn't photo verify? What happened to the thread that kepy on giving yesterday? once again you're wrong, I wasn't the one who didn't want to photo verify her, that was her decision, I also am not photo verified on my single guy account or previous couples account so what? I'm fake?

You can't be fake Tarzan. No one in their right mind would make up your profile. Any chance of a pic of the mrs? No face needed tits and pussy would be fine.

He's on a single guys profile, so shouldn't be sending anyone pics of any woman from it

I just looked at you're avatar pic while reading that.

This forum thread needs deleted And why should it be deleted? Enlighten me please wise man of Fabswingers."

I'm not a wise man but perhaps I have some experience that I gained from joining when the site began.

In that time, I've realised that others really couldn't give feck what you think of Fab.

In you're initial post, you are using the forum platform to slate it, while asking others do you agree/disagree that it's changed yadda yadda yadda.

The site HAS changed and as someone stated, you either adapt or you can type I UNDERSTAND and leave. No one is keeping you here.

If you create a forum thread not everyone is going to have the same views and opinions as you therefore it's worth acknowledging their comments.

You went from one female to another as you didn't accept their views ..then it transpired into a 5 set thriller at Wimbledon.

Y

You seem a decent bloke...relax take a break or chill out a bit.

The reason for the deletion IMHO is due to negativity will increase negativity and some people on the forum gloat on that

If I joined several weeks ago and seen this thread I would be thinking WTF.

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By *ikerBloke...Man  over a year ago

western hemisphere , planet earth


"Dear God Tarzan, after all this attention seeking don't accusing me of looking for pity shags again. You have excelled yourself. difference between you and me is I don't go looking for pity shags, incase you've forgotten I have a partner who's more than enough for me.

I do have to admit though your comment did make me chuckle a little.

Well I think the attention seeking is increasing to a desperate level. Why don't you try talking to that partner of yours? Is she the one you wouldn't photo verify? What happened to the thread that kepy on giving yesterday? once again you're wrong, I wasn't the one who didn't want to photo verify her, that was her decision, I also am not photo verified on my single guy account or previous couples account so what? I'm fake?

You can't be fake Tarzan. No one in their right mind would make up your profile. Any chance of a pic of the mrs? No face needed tits and pussy would be fine.

He's on a single guys profile, so shouldn't be sending anyone pics of any woman from it

I just looked at you're avatar pic while reading that.

This forum thread needs deleted And why should it be deleted? Enlighten me please wise man of Fabswingers.

I'm not a wise man but perhaps I have some experience that I gained from joining when the site began.

In that time, I've realised that others really couldn't give feck what you think of Fab.

In you're initial post, you are using the forum platform to slate it, while asking others do you agree/disagree that it's changed yadda yadda yadda.

The site HAS changed and as someone stated, you either adapt or you can type I UNDERSTAND and leave. No one is keeping you here.

If you create a forum thread not everyone is going to have the same views and opinions as you therefore it's worth acknowledging their comments.

You went from one female to another as you didn't accept their views ..then it transpired into a 5 set thriller at Wimbledon.

Y

You seem a decent bloke...relax take a break or chill out a bit.

The reason for the deletion IMHO is due to negativity will increase negativity and some people on the forum gloat on that

If I joined several weeks ago and seen this thread I would be thinking WTF.

"

new balls please!!!

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By *ookie69Man  over a year ago

Whistle Dixie


"Dear God Tarzan, after all this attention seeking don't accusing me of looking for pity shags again. You have excelled yourself. difference between you and me is I don't go looking for pity shags, incase you've forgotten I have a partner who's more than enough for me.

I do have to admit though your comment did make me chuckle a little.

Well I think the attention seeking is increasing to a desperate level. Why don't you try talking to that partner of yours? Is she the one you wouldn't photo verify? What happened to the thread that kepy on giving yesterday? once again you're wrong, I wasn't the one who didn't want to photo verify her, that was her decision, I also am not photo verified on my single guy account or previous couples account so what? I'm fake?

You can't be fake Tarzan. No one in their right mind would make up your profile. Any chance of a pic of the mrs? No face needed tits and pussy would be fine.

He's on a single guys profile, so shouldn't be sending anyone pics of any woman from it

I just looked at you're avatar pic while reading that.

This forum thread needs deleted And why should it be deleted? Enlighten me please wise man of Fabswingers.

I'm not a wise man but perhaps I have some experience that I gained from joining when the site began.

In that time, I've realised that others really couldn't give feck what you think of Fab.

In you're initial post, you are using the forum platform to slate it, while asking others do you agree/disagree that it's changed yadda yadda yadda.

The site HAS changed and as someone stated, you either adapt or you can type I UNDERSTAND and leave. No one is keeping you here.

If you create a forum thread not everyone is going to have the same views and opinions as you therefore it's worth acknowledging their comments.

You went from one female to another as you didn't accept their views ..then it transpired into a 5 set thriller at Wimbledon.

Y

You seem a decent bloke...relax take a break or chill out a bit.

The reason for the deletion IMHO is due to negativity will increase negativity and some people on the forum gloat on that

If I joined several weeks ago and seen this thread I would be thinking WTF.

new balls please!!!

"

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By *itty Jack SparrowMan  over a year ago

Glasgow

It's not an airport lounge. No need to announce your departure.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"It's not an airport lounge. No need to announce your departure. "
Who's leaving?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Dear God Tarzan, after all this attention seeking don't accusing me of looking for pity shags again. You have excelled yourself. difference between you and me is I don't go looking for pity shags, incase you've forgotten I have a partner who's more than enough for me.

I do have to admit though your comment did make me chuckle a little.

Well I think the attention seeking is increasing to a desperate level. Why don't you try talking to that partner of yours? Is she the one you wouldn't photo verify? What happened to the thread that kepy on giving yesterday? once again you're wrong, I wasn't the one who didn't want to photo verify her, that was her decision, I also am not photo verified on my single guy account or previous couples account so what? I'm fake?

You can't be fake Tarzan. No one in their right mind would make up your profile. Any chance of a pic of the mrs? No face needed tits and pussy would be fine.

He's on a single guys profile, so shouldn't be sending anyone pics of any woman from it

I just looked at you're avatar pic while reading that.

This forum thread needs deleted And why should it be deleted? Enlighten me please wise man of Fabswingers.

I'm not a wise man but perhaps I have some experience that I gained from joining when the site began.

In that time, I've realised that others really couldn't give feck what you think of Fab.

In you're initial post, you are using the forum platform to slate it, while asking others do you agree/disagree that it's changed yadda yadda yadda.

The site HAS changed and as someone stated, you either adapt or you can type I UNDERSTAND and leave. No one is keeping you here.

If you create a forum thread not everyone is going to have the same views and opinions as you therefore it's worth acknowledging their comments.

You went from one female to another as you didn't accept their views ..then it transpired into a 5 set thriller at Wimbledon.

Y

You seem a decent bloke...relax take a break or chill out a bit.

The reason for the deletion IMHO is due to negativity will increase negativity and some people on the forum gloat on that

If I joined several weeks ago and seen this thread I would be thinking WTF.

"

So let me get this straight my thread should be deleted because I asked a question? Here was me thinking It's a public forum and that's what it's here for.

Every single point you raise I already know about and do agree with them but how I manage those points is down to me.

As I've said I'm not on here to get criticism from complete strangers who professes to know me or know what's best for me and that doesn't just apply to this thread, every thread I hav

e written is scrutinised to the point that the gloaters you mention take their opportunity to try and belittle any rational view that I or someone else has but I'm done with it. You know maybe you're right and this thread should get deleted and all threads from here on in should only be about "who's going to cjs on this date"? Or "who has the best tits in here"? Or "who wants fisted in the back of their car"? You know, the really important issues in here.

Any road today's a different day and hopefully the sun will come out so atleast that's something to smile about.

Have a good one

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Please send all unwanted pity shags my way. No reasonable offer refused, though you will have to pay travel expenses, and have tea and cake available.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Been here many times,as some have said,a wee break always does the trick.pros to being here.

My lovely friends i have made in here

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Please send all unwanted pity shags my way. No reasonable offer refused, though you will have to pay travel expenses, and have tea and cake available. "
Getting your hole on here is like getting Boris Johnson to quit as prime minister it ain't going to happen willingly that now includes pity shags

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By *I TwoCouple  over a year ago

PDI 12-26th Nov 24


"

Give it your best shot as to why its worth being on here?

Maybe it's just me but it seems to have lost its appeal.

You agree or disagree?

No photos, no veris,no interests... I wonder why you have no luck lol I do have veris I just dint show them.

I have/had photos but took them down and I do have interests but decided to not click and show them so that means I have no luck? What a silly comment to make but thanks for putting lol at the end of it that really makes a difference. "

Attitude to humour makes a big difference too

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"

Give it your best shot as to why its worth being on here?

Maybe it's just me but it seems to have lost its appeal.

You agree or disagree?

No photos, no veris,no interests... I wonder why you have no luck lol I do have veris I just dint show them.

I have/had photos but took them down and I do have interests but decided to not click and show them so that means I have no luck? What a silly comment to make but thanks for putting lol at the end of it that really makes a difference.

Attitude to humour makes a big difference too "

As does assuming things without knowing the full facts.

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By *oShrinkingVioletWoman  over a year ago

the land of unicorns and fairytales

Who needs soaps

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Who needs soaps "
Be dull and boring if I wasn't around

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Please send all unwanted pity shags my way. No reasonable offer refused, though you will have to pay travel expenses, and have tea and cake available. Getting your hole on here is like getting Boris Johnson to quit as prime minister it ain't going to happen willingly that now includes pity shags "

I will just continue to rely on being nice to others, "funny", respectful, and accepting my lot in life, and on Fab.

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By *othardandfreeMan  over a year ago

dd


"Dear God Tarzan, after all this attention seeking don't accusing me of looking for pity shags again. You have excelled yourself. difference between you and me is I don't go looking for pity shags, incase you've forgotten I have a partner who's more than enough for me.

I do have to admit though your comment did make me chuckle a little.

Well I think the attention seeking is increasing to a desperate level. Why don't you try talking to that partner of yours? Is she the one you wouldn't photo verify? What happened to the thread that kepy on giving yesterday? once again you're wrong, I wasn't the one who didn't want to photo verify her, that was her decision, I also am not photo verified on my single guy account or previous couples account so what? I'm fake?

You can't be fake Tarzan. No one in their right mind would make up your profile. Any chance of a pic of the mrs? No face needed tits and pussy would be fine.

...I'm gonnae need a bigger bag of popcorn!

Ill just wait and see it on the catch up service. Im a busy man fighting them all off with my sh1tty stick.

Notice how all the guys are now commenting on this threads but not about the question I asked but to brown nose Miss Muff in the hope she'll give them a sympathy shag, pathetic! "

And here it was me thinking that was why you opened this thread in the first place too.

Bit of the pot and kettle there. Oh and as for the brown nosing...yours must have dripped into your mouth again as your talking pure shite.

Umsalted popcorn for me please

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Dear God Tarzan, after all this attention seeking don't accusing me of looking for pity shags again. You have excelled yourself. difference between you and me is I don't go looking for pity shags, incase you've forgotten I have a partner who's more than enough for me.

I do have to admit though your comment did make me chuckle a little.

Well I think the attention seeking is increasing to a desperate level. Why don't you try talking to that partner of yours? Is she the one you wouldn't photo verify? What happened to the thread that kepy on giving yesterday? once again you're wrong, I wasn't the one who didn't want to photo verify her, that was her decision, I also am not photo verified on my single guy account or previous couples account so what? I'm fake?

You can't be fake Tarzan. No one in their right mind would make up your profile. Any chance of a pic of the mrs? No face needed tits and pussy would be fine.

...I'm gonnae need a bigger bag of popcorn!

Ill just wait and see it on the catch up service. Im a busy man fighting them all off with my sh1tty stick.

Notice how all the guys are now commenting on this threads but not about the question I asked but to brown nose Miss Muff in the hope she'll give them a sympathy shag, pathetic!

And here it was me thinking that was why you opened this thread in the first place too.

Bit of the pot and kettle there. Oh and as for the brown nosing...yours must have dripped into your mouth again as your talking pure shite.

Umsalted popcorn for me please

"

Wtf, 3 days later and you decide to add your comment, where the heck you been? Where you put on the naughty step by a mod?

Seeing as you've made a comment let me answer it for you.

So 1st off all you are wrong about why I opened this thread, read through all the comments and I'm sure you'll see that.

Secondly why would I need to brown nose any female to get a sympathy shag, have you seen pics of my partner? She is more than enough for me.

And finally what the heck is umsalted popcorn?

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