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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is this the place for feelings ?
Can u just turn it off?! do u have that niggling feeling ?
Risk of making a complete arse of yourself is high. Im curious to hear opinions x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I put fab in completely different mental box to the real world. And never the twain shall meet.
Without sounding harsh or cold - it's just sex.
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yeah ..agree,,, find as I'm getting older I am getting more involved |
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In what seems a lifetime ago I was in a committed relationship with a woman in the fetish scene in London she mentioned a few times she wanted to watch me fuck other women in particular bukkake she didn't want to go with other blokes I wasn't interested. As far as I was conserned I would feel to guilty even with consent. Strange perhaps i know. But I couldn't help but think it would create problems later
Unfortunately we still split up a few years later :/
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"Is this the place for feelings ?
Can u just turn it off?! do u have that niggling feeling ?
Risk of making a complete arse of yourself is high. Im curious to hear opinions x "
it’s what you want it to be! only natural to develop feelings, we are human after all not mindless sex robots. i don’t personally think it’s a huge taboo. and having feelings for someone doesn’t mean trapping them in a box - it just means you feel warmly for them, and we all accept there are many kinds of love in our lives. i wish this world of swinging & fun was a lot less cold and cruel to those feelings. human nature just punches through, no matter how ‘NSA’ someone claims to be haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is this the place for feelings ?
Can u just turn it off?! do u have that niggling feeling ?
Risk of making a complete arse of yourself is high. Im curious to hear opinions x
it’s what you want it to be! only natural to develop feelings, we are human after all not mindless sex robots. i don’t personally think it’s a huge taboo. and having feelings for someone doesn’t mean trapping them in a box - it just means you feel warmly for them, and we all accept there are many kinds of love in our lives. i wish this world of swinging & fun was a lot less cold and cruel to those feelings. human nature just punches through, no matter how ‘NSA’ someone claims to be haha "
True |
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"Is this the place for feelings ?
Can u just turn it off?! do u have that niggling feeling ?
Risk of making a complete arse of yourself is high. Im curious to hear opinions x
it’s what you want it to be! only natural to develop feelings, we are human after all not mindless sex robots. i don’t personally think it’s a huge taboo. and having feelings for someone doesn’t mean trapping them in a box - it just means you feel warmly for them, and we all accept there are many kinds of love in our lives. i wish this world of swinging & fun was a lot less cold and cruel to those feelings. human nature just punches through, no matter how ‘NSA’ someone claims to be haha "
Indeed we are not machines male or female. yes in many cases this is NSA.. But for me if you can be friends and have some sort of feeling. Starting with compassion and empithy ect (but having clear lines of boundaries) it makes for a better dynamic both in and out the bedroom I mean if you don't like sombody what's the point |
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By *eth DMan
over a year ago
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End of the day it’s natural and majority of the time it can’t be helped if you’ve been regularly meeting. Don’t let it get to you, use that emotion and make the sex even better. Hope that makes sense. |
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By *avie65Man
over a year ago
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If there isn't a connection you can't have feelings. If you don't have either then what is the point of having sex with someone, it would then just be a transaction.
A connection can come in many forms, pure lust, emotional, something deeper etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is this the place for feelings ?
Can u just turn it off?! do u have that niggling feeling ?
Risk of making a complete arse of yourself is high. Im curious to hear opinions x
it’s what you want it to be! only natural to develop feelings, we are human after all not mindless sex robots. i don’t personally think it’s a huge taboo. and having feelings for someone doesn’t mean trapping them in a box - it just means you feel warmly for them, and we all accept there are many kinds of love in our lives. i wish this world of swinging & fun was a lot less cold and cruel to those feelings. human nature just punches through, no matter how ‘NSA’ someone claims to be haha "
This is spot on. |
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