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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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we are seeing more threads relating to timewasters, no shows etc!
do people here think that meets are a thing of the past and people are more interested in the social side of the site,,,like only here to make friends? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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in all fairness, with all the shag marry hug cuddle kiss avoid posts, you would think this site would be a constant flow of meets and sexual bedlam! lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have been meeting and had fun on and off site for past 5 yrs at least.
But due to medical reasons Im not meeting to play just now.
Just social for me .as I do love meeting likeminded open thinking people.
I dont think Im waisting anyones time. As they know before meeting its social only.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I must say I always meet for a social drink first then if I do t fancy the person and there's no physical attraction there's no pressure to do something you don't want to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is nothing wrong with enjoying the social side of swinging but there is no doubt that the amount of people on this site who dont meet has made it harder to find people. For spme its a temporary thing due to circumstances but many profiles say that they are only here for chat. I understand that folk can do what they want but personally I would say that if yr not a swinger chat on a vanilla site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I must say I always meet for a social drink first then if I do t fancy the person and there's no physical attraction there's no pressure to do something you don't want to "
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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you see the same people ranting and ranting about being let down, not getting a meet and the like...
sadly there are time wasters but when it happens again and again to the same people, they need to ask themselves 'why us/me' and I would offer up 'it may be more about you than others'....
people have had multiple profiles, same shit happens...... why? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is nothing wrong with enjoying the social side of swinging but there is no doubt that the amount of people on this site who dont meet has made it harder to find people. For spme its a temporary thing due to circumstances but many profiles say that they are only here for chat. I understand that folk can do what they want but personally I would say that if yr not a swinger chat on a vanilla site."
Does not meeting equate to not a swinger in your eyes?
I haven't had a meet all year, health work and family all conspired against me.
But I still think of myself as someone who enjoys the swingers lifestyle and continue to chat at socials and clubs and in chat-rooms on this site, to friends made over the years.
Am I misleading people? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is nothing wrong with enjoying the social side of swinging but there is no doubt that the amount of people on this site who dont meet has made it harder to find people. For spme its a temporary thing due to circumstances but many profiles say that they are only here for chat. I understand that folk can do what they want but personally I would say that if yr not a swinger chat on a vanilla site.
Does not meeting equate to not a swinger in your eyes?
I haven't had a meet all year, health work and family all conspired against me.
But I still think of myself as someone who enjoys the swingers lifestyle and continue to chat at socials and clubs and in chat-rooms on this site, to friends made over the years.
Am I misleading people?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had 1 last night been speakin to for ages and good banter . Arranged to go for meal and have a giggle maybe more . Was told they were on way at 5 then nothing
Not pissed bout that but was bloody starvin as never had t ........ Went out on empty stomach and pulled we best chat up line ever ........to d*unk to remember what it is like |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is nothing wrong with enjoying the social side of swinging but there is no doubt that the amount of people on this site who dont meet has made it harder to find people. For spme its a temporary thing due to circumstances but many profiles say that they are only here for chat. I understand that folk can do what they want but personally I would say that if yr not a swinger chat on a vanilla site.
Does not meeting equate to not a swinger in your eyes?
I haven't had a meet all year, health work and family all conspired against me.
But I still think of myself as someone who enjoys the swingers lifestyle and continue to chat at socials and clubs and in chat-rooms on this site, to friends made over the years.
Am I misleading people?"
As I said in my post some people are temporarily prevented from meeting due to circumstances. So I covered your situation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is nothing wrong with enjoying the social side of swinging but there is no doubt that the amount of people on this site who dont meet has made it harder to find people. For spme its a temporary thing due to circumstances but many profiles say that they are only here for chat. I understand that folk can do what they want but personally I would say that if yr not a swinger chat on a vanilla site.
Does not meeting equate to not a swinger in your eyes?
I haven't had a meet all year, health work and family all conspired against me.
But I still think of myself as someone who enjoys the swingers lifestyle and continue to chat at socials and clubs and in chat-rooms on this site, to friends made over the years.
Am I misleading people?
As I said in my post some people are temporarily prevented from meeting due to circumstances. So I covered your situation "
 cheers, I didn't take it all in properly ..... was at a club last night and didn't get to bed till nearly 4am. xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is nothing wrong with enjoying the social side of swinging but there is no doubt that the amount of people on this site who dont meet has made it harder to find people. For spme its a temporary thing due to circumstances but many profiles say that they are only here for chat. I understand that folk can do what they want but personally I would say that if yr not a swinger chat on a vanilla site.
Does not meeting equate to not a swinger in your eyes?
I haven't had a meet all year, health work and family all conspired against me.
But I still think of myself as someone who enjoys the swingers lifestyle and continue to chat at socials and clubs and in chat-rooms on this site, to friends made over the years.
Am I misleading people?"
And it's good to see you posting again hope you are feeling better xx big hugs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is nothing wrong with enjoying the social side of swinging but there is no doubt that the amount of people on this site who dont meet has made it harder to find people. For spme its a temporary thing due to circumstances but many profiles say that they are only here for chat. I understand that folk can do what they want but personally I would say that if yr not a swinger chat on a vanilla site.
Does not meeting equate to not a swinger in your eyes?
I haven't had a meet all year, health work and family all conspired against me.
But I still think of myself as someone who enjoys the swingers lifestyle and continue to chat at socials and clubs and in chat-rooms on this site, to friends made over the years.
Am I misleading people?
And it's good to see you posting again hope you are feeling better xx big hugs "
Feeling much better now thank you. xxx |
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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago
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"There is nothing wrong with enjoying the social side of swinging but there is no doubt that the amount of people on this site who dont meet has made it harder to find people. For spme its a temporary thing due to circumstances but many profiles say that they are only here for chat. I understand that folk can do what they want but personally I would say that if yr not a swinger chat on a vanilla site.
Does not meeting equate to not a swinger in your eyes?
I haven't had a meet all year, health work and family all conspired against me.
But I still think of myself as someone who enjoys the swingers lifestyle and continue to chat at socials and clubs and in chat-rooms on this site, to friends made over the years.
Am I misleading people?
And it's good to see you posting again hope you are feeling better xx big hugs
Feeling much better now thank you. xxx"
 
We havent met a timewaster yet   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I must say I always meet for a social drink first then if I do t fancy the person and there's no physical attraction there's no pressure to do something you don't want to "
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