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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don’t know why she came in with attitude all I did was state a simple fact "
no attitude you asked a question I answered.
Maybe you don't like that answer but it's a fact on here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I never said about getting anyone to chat I find chat fine just not meets cause nobody wants to meet these days I never realised you were the fab police though who judges people on there profiles but thanks for the comment  |
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I learned a while back, if you don't want peoples opinions then maybe don't post on the forum 
And it always seems to be guys that can't get meets thinks fabs going downhill. Plenty of us meeting men that we find interesting.
Personally I don't mind a cock pic or two that being said |
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I do agree fab has gone downhill and it's coming across that the ONLY way to meet people is big social events or clubs, it's wrong. Having said that guys don't help themselves by not having a good profile or decent pics so a lot of women won't respond.
Good luck though |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for the feedback curious as to know what your thoughts or even what you look for in a profile or pics would help people in finding meets but I agree with you that the social events are all you ever see or read about in forums etc |
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"Thanks for the feedback curious as to know what your thoughts or even what you look for in a profile or pics would help people in finding meets but I agree with you that the social events are all you ever see or read about in forums etc "
I'm not looking so probably my reply wouldn't be accurate, the previous comments are called preferences. A lot or a good majority probably want to see body shots, not just dick..maybe a bit more on your bio.. again just my opinion.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Appreciate that not all my pictures are public anyways some of my private ones include face and body but I just prefer to be discreet due to my job but yeah probably agree with what you said with bio I just have to clue what to write haha |
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"Appreciate that not all my pictures are public anyways some of my private ones include face and body but I just prefer to be discreet due to my job but yeah probably agree with what you said with bio I just have to clue what to write haha "
No matter what you write or have pics wise, you won't please everyone. You manage your profile how you want and what you want on it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think in last few days we have dozens of winks and messages from single males and they either had no pics or just disk pics.
No effort in the profile = Block for us, shame really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The site is what you want it to be.
You put minimal effort in, you get minimal back. Males outnumber couples and ladies by a big ratio.
What makes you stand out? What gets you noticed? - for me, when I message it always has something relevant to the recipient’s profile, always personalised. Never ‘cut n paste’
Accept that on occasion you will be overlooked or deleted. It’s not personal, we each have individual taste.
I use artistic style photos, or witty (I think) tag lines to try and draw people to read my profile. Refreshing these draws the views and an occasional wink, sometimes a message.
Don’t scatter bomb, your time is as precious as the recipient. Are you mailing/winking to hit a law of average?
Anyhow that’s me climbing down from the righteous mountain via the soapbox! |
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"Almost impossible these days as a single male to arrange a meet on this site sad times miss the old fab  "
I think that's just bad loser talk. Ask any couples that like the company of single men (and there are loads and they get plenty of meets as you can see by their veris) the biggest problem is time waster guys. Most of the time they can't accommodate and expect to get hosted as though getting a strange guy off fab back to your house is no big deal. They need wise up and get to clubs and socials before pestering couples and single females. |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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I’ve met some lovely guys recently at clubs and pre drinks socials and will hopefully be meeting them sometime in the future.
Sometimes it just takes one message for me to go off a guy. Are you sure you’re talking to women and not fake profiles?
From experience even when I agree to a social many don’t finalise the arrangements or some don’t do socials. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I feel like the socials are what work best tbh to start things off cause every time I have had a social it has lead on to a next meet but when it’s just a meet people pull out I just think a lot of single females are just curious about the site have a wee chat and then nothing happens in the Glasgow area anyway but I have had a fair few in the past just recently been pretty dead |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No shit Sherlock! It went downhill a long time ago but you don't hear me complaining. I've not met anyone one to one for a long time but that's because I prefer to meet in CJ's, whenever I go x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Almost impossible these days as a single male to arrange a meet on this site sad times miss the old fab "
Old Fab? When did you first venture on here...you're only a pup! |
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Personal opinion incoming, so don't take it personally...
Your profile doesn't jump out at me for a number of reasons...
1. Too many dick pics.
2. Profile gives nothing away.
3. You're too young for me.
4. I would want to see more pictures, not necessarily face, but more than dick.
5. You're not verified.
If you've been on the site for almost two years, you would have joined in the middle of COVID, where people weren't meeting, socials weren't happening and events were unable to go ahead. As such, you've been unfortunate in not getting to socialise as freely.
But, you get what you put into it. If you aren't taking care of your profile, aren't attending events to just socialise, aren't active on the forums or chat rooms, then I'm afraid nobody can change that for you, that's a YOU problem, not a Fab problem.
Happy Fabbing x |
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"Personal opinion incoming, so don't take it personally...
Your profile doesn't jump out at me for a number of reasons...
1. Too many dick pics.
2. Profile gives nothing away.
3. You're too young for me.
4. I would want to see more pictures, not necessarily face, but more than dick.
5. You're not verified.
If you've been on the site for almost two years, you would have joined in the middle of COVID, where people weren't meeting, socials weren't happening and events were unable to go ahead. As such, you've been unfortunate in not getting to socialise as freely.
But, you get what you put into it. If you aren't taking care of your profile, aren't attending events to just socialise, aren't active on the forums or chat rooms, then I'm afraid nobody can change that for you, that's a YOU problem, not a Fab problem.
Happy Fabbing x"
My apologies, just saw you ARE verified, but only one person and it isn't displayed x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Almost impossible these days as a single male to arrange a meet on this site sad times miss the old fab "
Your profile looks the same as all the other single guys profile on here, change it up abit, add in some more info into your bio, your likes? Your wants... etc etc, explain why you can't accommodate? That could put alot of females off, do you really need that many pics of your cock or is that all you have to offer any potential meet?
You need to stand out on here to try and get someone interested let alone find a meet so get yourself along to social events or clubs.
Good luck  |
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"I must try it one time go with the one I told you about earlier... but remember, plenty of cash 
Now that sounds shady as f*ck 
it's definitely shady behaviour..not from me though "
Personal experience or hearsay? |
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"Would you recommend cjs "
Defo it’s a good night and I often organise pre drinks I drive as I don’t drink so myself and others also happy to give folk a lift up
To cjs you should defo give it a try. Always better to meet people face to face as often people you talk to on here are as fake as they can be it’s better to meet folk and judge in person
Be careful who you trust especially when it’s folk who are always creating new profiles because they keep getting banned |
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Just our opinion, we think Fab has served us very well and we don't always meet as much as we would like (work, life). We do think it is one of the better sites and those that we have met are still great friends.
Xxx |
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Sorry, off topic again Back to OP....
I don't think it's fab that's gone down hill. Possibly more keyboard warriors and phantasists have signed up over the last few years but you can usually suss them out pretty quickly x |
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Fab is the same as it’s always been it’s the people on it that make it a good or bad experience for you .
Your profile is your opportunity to stand out from the crowd your personality is what will make you shine or sink.
Good luck op |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A think we should all relax this is my first n last time posting on this forum "
.....and aw ye wanted was a pump.
As my wee Granny used to say...men and their cocks. They cause nothing but trouble |
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"Cause I ain’t trying to get involved in drama I’m just here for a good time with like minded people but the post just seems to be drama haha "
well don’t let people suck you into their drama just keep it fun & ul be fine |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Tell you what though people it’s been an entertaining Saturday with you lot so good job I’m trying to be on a night out but the drama to good to miss |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I tend to think it ebb's and flows, I've been coming on here for over 10 years now, some good,bad ,
Think it's the fact that guys aren't ( coming ) causes the despair . "
lol maybe this also |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just be respectful and have normal pics and a face pic, talk about other things than sex.. and crack a joke.. I'm nothing special but meet enough good quality people on here to make it worth while |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The forums are going downhill "
I don't know. The last 24 hours have been far more entertaining than the usual club or "who else is going to Greggs in Buchanan St?" threads. |
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"I reckon sometimes it's just luck who reads your message and if your both available at the same times.
But yes as a guy it's hard to get meets... Even hard to get a reply on a message "
Agree with this 100% |
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"I reckon sometimes it's just luck who reads your message and if your both available at the same times.
But yes as a guy it's hard to get meets... Even hard to get a reply on a message "
But you’re fit and have decent pics that goes a long way |
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Totally tongue in cheek . 
Guys require looks , personality , good availability , able to accommodate , previous good veirifications , luck And similar interests . 
Ladies require availability and common interests . ( for some only a pulse would do )  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I reckon sometimes it's just luck who reads your message and if your both available at the same times.
But yes as a guy it's hard to get meets... Even hard to get a reply on a message "
You don't come across as a dick in the forums either which goes a long way. Wee bit of cheeky banter, not a sheep but not up for a constant barney either. |
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"I reckon sometimes it's just luck who reads your message and if your both available at the same times.
But yes as a guy it's hard to get meets... Even hard to get a reply on a message "
tbh guys shouldn't be messaging anyone cold. Unless the profile asks for it or an advertised meet then don't make contact. Put a meet up with your availability and what you are looking for and leave it at that. Couples/girls will find you if they want to. It will also prevent all the prima-donna types (and there are plenty of them on here) posting on the forums how they are ssssooooooo tired of going through the hundreds of messages they didn't really want.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t find it to difficult on here, maybe because I didn’t really expect much when I signed up and if I want a meet I have friends that I can meet up with if there’s no one taking my fancy on here. |
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