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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Stick to basics like what your looking for and little intro about yourself and try keep it positive as can. look to other profiles for inspiration. soon as you get some meets from clubs or socials that can help. even at all that it can still be tough as theres alot of guys on here |
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"Yeah I’ve never been and wanted to go along for a while just never found it in my to go along haha , needty just bite the bullet and go one day "
There's plenty of socials beforehand that you can go to to meet other couples etc before you go into cjs, wither you play or not on the night you'll get verifications that will show your personality |
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"You're looking for "fun".
On Fab, fun can mean everything from candlelit missionary sex to taking a shite in someone's gub.
Mibbe be more specific.
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I've never seen a profile that states "here for a miserable time" but playdoughing sounds as close as it gets to it. |
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When I first looked at your public pics the first thing I thought was that they looked like magazine pics..like someone has taken a pic of the magazine image and posted it on here. Probably not the case but certainly that's what I got from it. |
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over a year ago
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First thing id say is you are verified which is a good start. A green tick opens a lot more doors.
I don't know what kind of messages you are sending but in my humble of opinion, only contacting women for fun will just get lost in the swamp of "fancy yur hole, darlin'?" type requests fems get inundated by.
Just try build up a bit of chat by messaging in response to status updates or in here and get more known etc.
There seems to be obsession locally that clubs are the ONLY way meet in Glasgow but that is certainly not the case. Plenty people are active without them or telling the world every week that they are attending.
Good luck. |
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"Need to go to a social before then and make myself a bit more confident to go to the actual club "
You're a single guy looking to meet like minded folk in an environment where people know and should understand what a swinging club involves. There's absolutely no reason to feel intimidated by anyone else or lack confidence. Go along, mingle, get your face known. Absolutely nothing to lose. |
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