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The social side to swinging !!
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When you joined here how many of you expected to be socialing with the people of Fab at drinks nites/lunches or socials ?
This was a surprise element of swinging to me and not something i thought id be doing when i joined, but i luv it so much and have made many friends from the social side of here both platonic and plamymates .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never really have the time. I find it difficult to make long term plans, never knowing if I have to cancel at the last minute which I really hate doing. When I do manage it I find it a bit of a mixed bag to be honest. Jim |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The social side is a great way of meeting others like yourself and haveing a great night out and you meet lots of people some who have become good friends xxx |
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We have been known to attend the odd social night.  however that's about as far as it goes,to much back stabbing and bitching for my liking at socials events from a small minority, then they are nice to their faces etc. So nope not really into the social side. Rather be with real life friends, swinging is to enhance an already good sex life, not to take over it altogether. More to life than swinging. 
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"Never seen bitching or back stabbing at any socials ive attended or organised maybe a diffrent bunch of people to the ones uve attended."
Not just socials, coffee meets etc  and also on forums. XxCxX |
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"Never seen bitching or back stabbing at any socials ive attended or organised maybe a diffrent bunch of people to the ones uve attended.
Not just socials, coffee meets etc and also on forums. XxCxX"
yes totally agree im sure everyones guilty of it now and again anyone who says they dont are liars ...anyway back to the topic at hand |
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By *eefdoddusCouple
over a year ago
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It's been a while but we've attended a few social meets over the years. Sometimes just another couple or an organised one with a number of folks. It's so nice and relaxing being able to chat with others without having to watch what we're saying all the time. It's the best hobby we've ever had..!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never been to one don't know if I would be 2 shy to talk to anyone if I did go to one I bet yous are really nice people don't know if I would feel out of place because yous have all dun it before buy I supposed you have to start somewhere |
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"Never been to one don't know if I would be 2 shy to talk to anyone if I did go to one I bet yous are really nice people don't know if I would feel out of place because yous have all dun it before buy I supposed you have to start somewhere "
just take the plunge youl luv it and once uve done one youl be chomping at the bit asking whens the next |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No want to be standing there with no one to chat to when everybody know every one lol"
the organiser would probably introduce u to a few folks n let the sociabilty start from there
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"No want to be standing there with no one to chat to when everybody know every one lol"
that definatly wouldnt happen youd be introduced to a few peeps but youve got to put some effort into meeting people too xxx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Loved the social side, have been to loads and organised a few.... but due to whats gone on with the press we wont be going to anymore, which is a real shame as we love meeting new people ...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't know what happened with the papers or that didn't even see it only thing I've seen is some of the posting on the forum would someone msg me a quick bit about it well I would put the dates up on this you could make a group on FB that way you can prove who's gen am only putting ideas out there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The way things are, a lot of Scots are v suspicious of anyone that has recently joined. It's a long story and I was away for most of it, but I'm sure there will be someone fill you in. |
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We both love the social side - to us swinging is having a laugh and a great time with like minded ppl so why not the social side too - just makes it better and the sex is just the extra that sometimes happens.
We run socials anyone who is nervous or first time we tell them to join our table as we always have few oldies there as well as new ones lol. Normally you would find either Davy or myself outside having a fag anyway lol
But yes people a lot more cautious now |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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Been to a few of your socials Jacs and always had a great time as you know. I have been known to socialise with other fab friends too as it's not all just about the fun.
Made some really good friends in the year that I've been on and we've helped each other through good and bad times too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been to a fair few socials over the years, mostly when I was on another site. I've been to two from this site and got another 2 coming up. They're always a good way to meet lots of new people at once. |
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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago
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I have a lot of people I consider good friends who I've met through socials.
Mostly it has been through another site but quite a few are on here too.
Apart from the extra caution and discretion required in light of recent press activity, the tricky bit is trying to explain to friends not involved with the scene how I know folk that I'm driving a hundred miles for a night out with. |
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