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By *jm1990 OP Man
over a year ago
Coatbridge |
Hey folks. You know I've only just realised there's a forum on here?
Anyway, I just want to see if there's a general rule of thumb for approaching people with your first message?
I wouldn't normally ask something like this but with the way things are going, any help is welcome lol. It seems the first message is always a gamble; some girls like polite messages, some like them a bit more dirty and there's usually no hint in the profile about how to start.
Then there's the whole thing about messages being deleted without being read, but I understand the reason for that so I can't complain too much. I'd go a bit spare too if I was getting 100+ messages a day lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi hun,
Polite and curious always works with me!and usually something to make me laugh, and I'll reply, even if it's just to say no thanks. But as you say everyone is different!
Good luck
Kit xx  |
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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago
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I dont think there is a general rule of thumb tbh.... Most important i'd think is be yourself and dont try be something your not ... Some people will respond some wont thats just the nature of the game...if you can accept that your halfway there  |
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There is no general rule of thumb as such but prove you've read the profile fully rather than slipped to photos and though il have a bit of that lol
Only mail those whos criteria you think you fit fully,pick out something on the profile and make referance to it to prove you have read the profile and if its a couple peofile include the male hale as way to many guys mail like they are speaking to a single female.
Keep it light hearted and fun without asking 1 million and one questions(pet hate of mine lol) and if you click things will happen
Good luck hun and have fun
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