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over a year ago
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"There’s also another saying my mum used to say to me
“What do shy weans get” nothing
If you don’t ask you don’t get
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Was that her being all smug after she found her FWB. Nobody likes a show off!  |
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"There’s also another saying my mum used to say to me
“What do shy weans get” nothing
If you don’t ask you don’t get
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Personally I hate that expression, often a cover for rudeness here and used when people have read but ignored your profile. Which wastes everyone’s time. There’s a difference between being confident and rude … not saying you are OP |
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By *o72 OP Man
over a year ago
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"There’s also another saying my mum used to say to me
“What do shy weans get” nothing
If you don’t ask you don’t get
Personally I hate that expression, often a cover for rudeness here and used when people have read but ignored your profile. Which wastes everyone’s time. There’s a difference between being confident and rude … not saying you are OP "
Tbh I couldn’t think of any other terminology at the time of posting, and the more thought I give it I’m probably not looking for a “FWB” more like a partner to enjoy and experience the fun that the lifestyle provides, yes there is a big difference between the two and I can tell you I’m not a rude man,
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By *o72 OP Man
over a year ago
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"A FWB isn’t something you can really look for. In my experience it tends to develop from seeing someone once or twice then it becomes more regular without actually realising it. "
Yes I agree, it’d all I could think of at the time, I should have thought more
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"A FWB isn’t something you can really look for. In my experience it tends to develop from seeing someone once or twice then it becomes more regular without actually realising it. "
Might be true in some cases but not always. Not in my experience anyway |
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
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"A FWB isn’t something you can really look for. In my experience it tends to develop from seeing someone once or twice then it becomes more regular without actually realising it. "
^^^ this is correct. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There’s also another saying my mum used to say to me
“What do shy weans get” nothing
If you don’t ask you don’t get
Personally I hate that expression, often a cover for rudeness here and used when people have read but ignored your profile. Which wastes everyone’s time. There’s a difference between being confident and rude … not saying you are OP
Tbh I couldn’t think of any other terminology at the time of posting, and the more thought I give it I’m probably not looking for a “FWB” more like a partner to enjoy and experience the fun that the lifestyle provides, yes there is a big difference between the two and I can tell you I’m not a rude man,
Thanks Bitch. "
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"A FWB isn’t something you can really look for. In my experience it tends to develop from seeing someone once or twice then it becomes more regular without actually realising it. "
Problem is it’s hard to sort through the married ones with a family who lie through their teeth saying they are single and can meet any time. We have no interest in one offs so would prefer someone who can be free for repeat meets hopefully leading to the regular fwb stage but it’s very hard to find a genuine guy |
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By *o72 OP Man
over a year ago
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"A FWB isn’t something you can really look for. In my experience it tends to develop from seeing someone once or twice then it becomes more regular without actually realising it.
Problem is it’s hard to sort through the married ones with a family who lie through their teeth saying they are single and can meet any time. We have no interest in one offs so would prefer someone who can be free for repeat meets hopefully leading to the regular fwb stage but it’s very hard to find a genuine guy "
I’m sure it’s the same for men that are looking ( as I am) to sift through the married/attached women, kids etc, I’d prefer meeting regularly too as I feel it ( not that I’ve experienced it) would get more intense and personal as the relationship/bond got stronger and the whole experience would be altogether better, trust would be gained and it adds to the situation/relation between all parties, my ultimate would be a married gf/fwb etc and would go all in if I got the chance |
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By *o72 OP Man
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"A FWB isn’t something you can really look for. In my experience it tends to develop from seeing someone once or twice then it becomes more regular without actually realising it.
Problem is it’s hard to sort through the married ones with a family who lie through their teeth saying they are single and can meet any time. We have no interest in one offs so would prefer someone who can be free for repeat meets hopefully leading to the regular fwb stage but it’s very hard to find a genuine guy "
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By (user no longer on site)
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That's why it's sometimes best and good meeting in a, club, as you say so many fakes or maried folk or you could send a message out to a female or a couple. Then about another 20 messages from guys on top |
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