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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So we've been chatting with a single female over the past 2-3 weeks and our conversations have been amazing, her profile appears to be 100% and her verifications are all from men (5 out of her 8 are the same guy) but here's the but part every verification is a cam verification, now I know most don't care about verifications on here but we do as it can let us see how others may see her and to see if she's what we are searching for so whilst messaging last night we asked her if she would be willing to set up a date to do a 3way video chat to reassure her that we are real but she got very defensive saying that we should just believe that she's genuine but now we are not too sure.
Surely if her fab verifications are legitimate she wouldn't have an issue with us seeing her on cam or are we thinking too much about it? We just find it all abit strange..
Be interested in your thoughts guys n dolls. |
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By *40ffCouple
over a year ago
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Huge red flag imo vid calls are rather normal now and if verified shouldn't be an issue to do a wee 2 min call u can also use snap or kik to send pics as it will tell u if person has just took the pic or it came from cam roll xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Huge red flag imo vid calls are rather normal now and if verified shouldn't be an issue to do a wee 2 min call u can also use snap or kik to send pics as it will tell u if person has just took the pic or it came from cam roll xx"
Yeah that's what we were thinking, be a shame if she's fake she's an absolute stunning lady  |
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"Huge red flag imo vid calls are rather normal now and if verified shouldn't be an issue to do a wee 2 min call u can also use snap or kik to send pics as it will tell u if person has just took the pic or it came from cam roll xx
Yeah that's what we were thinking, be a shame if she's fake she's an absolute stunning lady "
Some folk are private and dont want to be recorded by a stranger… your better arrnaging a social date in a public place… that to me is normal and just before hand call each other on the phone female to female etc and that should settle it…
Some folk only like to play on cam dont like there faces showing etc because that can be recorded and redistributed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Agree its a red flag.
Unless she thinks you're wanting some explicit cam stuff? I get people asking me to Skype after seeing me in chat and it makes me think they just want to wank 
Maybe offer to jump in chat on cam at the same time if she's more comfortable being on there?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Huge red flag imo vid calls are rather normal now and if verified shouldn't be an issue to do a wee 2 min call u can also use snap or kik to send pics as it will tell u if person has just took the pic or it came from cam roll xx
Yeah that's what we were thinking, be a shame if she's fake she's an absolute stunning lady
Some folk are private and dont want to be recorded by a stranger… your better arrnaging a social date in a public place… that to me is normal and just before hand call each other on the phone female to female etc and that should settle it…
Some folk only like to play on cam dont like there faces showing etc because that can be recorded and redistributed"
Yeah I agree with the social date but if she's fake she's not going to turn up and that's the point in the 3way cam idea as it let's us all see atleast we are who we say we are but I also agree on privacy and been recorded etc, it's a difficult one but appreciate your comment m8  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m not massively into cam verification stuff. I will however show my verifications or speak through another platform to show I am who I say I am etc. I wouldn’t meet someone off fab with just their verifications to go off. (Again) Once I actually want to meet someone I’d at least talk on the phone and swap some kind of details! It’s far to easy to fake stuff. I’ve learned that the hard way! S x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Agree its a red flag.
Unless she thinks you're wanting some explicit cam stuff? I get people asking me to Skype after seeing me in chat and it makes me think they just want to wank
Maybe offer to jump in chat on cam at the same time if she's more comfortable being on there?
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Lol we guaranteed her the videocam chat would only be around 30 secs, just so we can all be assured that we are who we say we are and not for any other reason than that  |
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Yeah, that would put me off too. It's not unreasonable to think the verifications also wouldn't be genuine. I don't know, it's a tough one to advise for someone else, but for me, I wouldn't pursue anything further xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Surely its 2 way video chat .. you two and the sexy lady  "
3way as myself and Jane may be on our own mobiles if one of us was out working for example but yeah if we're together then it's a 2 way video chat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally dont do cam veris
And I was thinking the same as in surely its a 2 way cam but as you said maybe your not together well that would put me off also as I wouldn't want just the guy on cam without his mrs if I was a single female.
Best shout a social drink if she dosnt turn up least the 2 of you can still be together rather than sat there alone if you were single. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have a variety of verifications but don't do any kind of call to prove I'm real, doesn't mean to say there is red flags. I'd be disappointed if someone wanted me to prove it also "
The whole idea of the video cam was to reassure her that we are a couple but it would also ease our minds knowing that she was real and not some dude pretending to be female, wouldn't be the 1st time that's happened to us. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I personally dont do cam veris
And I was thinking the same as in surely its a 2 way cam but as you said maybe your not together well that would put me off also as I wouldn't want just the guy on cam without his mrs if I was a single female.
Best shout a social drink if she dosnt turn up least the 2 of you can still be together rather than sat there alone if you were single."
on WhatsApp you can invite ppl into the video chat, if I'm working and the 2 ladies are video chatting Jane can simply invite me into the video chat |
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"I personally dont do cam veris
And I was thinking the same as in surely its a 2 way cam but as you said maybe your not together well that would put me off also as I wouldn't want just the guy on cam without his mrs if I was a single female.
Best shout a social drink if she dosnt turn up least the 2 of you can still be together rather than sat there alone if you were single. on WhatsApp you can invite ppl into the video chat, if I'm working and the 2 ladies are video chatting Jane can simply invite me into the video chat "
I reckon most women would be suspicious if a couple wasn't together for a video call |
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"I have a variety of verifications but don't do any kind of call to prove I'm real, doesn't mean to say there is red flags. I'd be disappointed if someone wanted me to prove it also
The whole idea of the video cam was to reassure her that we are a couple but it would also ease our minds knowing that she was real and not some dude pretending to be female, wouldn't be the 1st time that's happened to us."
Ye of course, just saying that it's not always a red flag if someone doesn't want to cam  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I personally dont do cam veris
And I was thinking the same as in surely its a 2 way cam but as you said maybe your not together well that would put me off also as I wouldn't want just the guy on cam without his mrs if I was a single female.
Best shout a social drink if she dosnt turn up least the 2 of you can still be together rather than sat there alone if you were single. on WhatsApp you can invite ppl into the video chat, if I'm working and the 2 ladies are video chatting Jane can simply invite me into the video chat
I reckon most women would be suspicious if a couple wasn't together for a video call "
That was the whole point of us arranging the video chat so that she could see both myself and Jane together  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is she photo verified?
No she's not photo verified
What is your gut feelings? and whatever they are go with that "
Jane thinks she's genuine but I reckon she's fake, it doesn't make sense that if both parties want to prove they are who they are they would be quick to reassure the other by doing a quick videocam. The fact she won't leads me to believe it's a dude getting his kicks on the attention he's getting.in our chats he's always asking for further photos of Jane, obv we don't send them but it does sound sketchy |
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"Is she photo verified?
No she's not photo verified
What is your gut feelings? and whatever they are go with that
Jane thinks she's genuine but I reckon she's fake, it doesn't make sense that if both parties want to prove they are who they are they would be quick to reassure the other by doing a quick videocam. The fact she won't leads me to believe it's a dude getting his kicks on the attention he's getting.in our chats he's always asking for further photos of Jane, obv we don't send them but it does sound sketchy "
She's a he that's looking to spunk up over Jane's pics |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sounds like a fake to me. Best meeting face to face and if she still says no, forget about her and move on. It's not difficult to arrange a meet with someone who's genuine. Good luck OP x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No picture verification and a reluctance to meet would be a red flag for me. As it's been said, if she's not happy to meet for a social, then I'd move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m not photo verified! I also wouldn’t cam with people! And I’m definitely not fake! So it’s all about trying to arrange a social meet. It’s half an hour out your day.  |
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"I personally dont do cam veris
And I was thinking the same as in surely its a 2 way cam but as you said maybe your not together well that would put me off also as I wouldn't want just the guy on cam without his mrs if I was a single female.
Best shout a social drink if she dosnt turn up least the 2 of you can still be together rather than sat there alone if you were single. on WhatsApp you can invite ppl into the video chat, if I'm working and the 2 ladies are video chatting Jane can simply invite me into the video chat "
I wouldn't give my phone number out to someone I've not met before let alone only chatted for 2 weeks  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I personally dont do cam veris
And I was thinking the same as in surely its a 2 way cam but as you said maybe your not together well that would put me off also as I wouldn't want just the guy on cam without his mrs if I was a single female.
Best shout a social drink if she dosnt turn up least the 2 of you can still be together rather than sat there alone if you were single. on WhatsApp you can invite ppl into the video chat, if I'm working and the 2 ladies are video chatting Jane can simply invite me into the video chat
I wouldn't give my phone number out to someone I've not met before let alone only chatted for 2 weeks "
I get that and totally understand your reason but as I said before it was only a suggestion to videocam as it gives a 100% guarantee that all parties are real, if she's a he and he's messing us around then I don't see how doing a 30 seconds video with us would be a problem |
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"I personally dont do cam veris
And I was thinking the same as in surely its a 2 way cam but as you said maybe your not together well that would put me off also as I wouldn't want just the guy on cam without his mrs if I was a single female.
Best shout a social drink if she dosnt turn up least the 2 of you can still be together rather than sat there alone if you were single. on WhatsApp you can invite ppl into the video chat, if I'm working and the 2 ladies are video chatting Jane can simply invite me into the video chat
I wouldn't give my phone number out to someone I've not met before let alone only chatted for 2 weeks
I get that and totally understand your reason but as I said before it was only a suggestion to videocam as it gives a 100% guarantee that all parties are real, if she's a he and he's messing us around then I don't see how doing a 30 seconds video with us would be a problem "
Move on to someone else that will then. I wouldn't |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's fine to say people don't want to cam or give out number, but if the profile has cam veris then you'd think the user wouldn't have an issue with it?
I'm just being nosy now OP but have you heard anything since? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think it's fine to say people don't want to cam or give out number, but if the profile has cam veris then you'd think the user wouldn't have an issue with it?
I'm just being nosy now OP but have you heard anything since? "
No nothing yet but we are not going to push it with her, I'm sure over time she might be more comfortable with our idea but if not then that's her choice and we will respect her decision. |
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By *Booboo-Man
over a year ago
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Ask them to send you a picture with a piece of paper with your username on it if they don't want to video chat.
If someone doesn't want to confirm who they are without a decent reason then I wouldn't trust it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ask them to send you a picture with a piece of paper with your username on it if they don't want to video chat.
If someone doesn't want to confirm who they are without a decent reason then I wouldn't trust it."
I think a self-portrait with today’s date would be better.
At least then they get a nice picture. |
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"Ask them to send you a picture with a piece of paper with your username on it if they don't want to video chat.
If someone doesn't want to confirm who they are without a decent reason then I wouldn't trust it."
If someone has that level of paranoia, I'd be cautious of them |
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Sounds like a fake to us. As all her verifications are from cam you have to wonder why she refuses to cam with you. The fact she keeps asking for more photos of Jane is another red flag. As has been previously mentioned arrange a social and if she/he is a no show you can have a night together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ask them to send you a picture with a piece of paper with your username on it if they don't want to video chat.
If someone doesn't want to confirm who they are without a decent reason then I wouldn't trust it."
I've done this so easy + rids u of the fakes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sounds like you’re so excited of the idea of this person that you’ve kept this going in hope rather than getting them to fuck when deep down you know it’s some cunt at it. |
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By *iittaaTV/TS
over a year ago
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Sounds fake tbh.
If I can take a slight tangent, I had two apparently real couples contact or wink me today (without me messaging first), but before I’ve even answered, when I’ve gone to look at their profiles.. I’m blocked. I understand people block for lots of reasons but it seems odd for it to happen twice in a row. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sounds like you’re so excited of the idea of this person that you’ve kept this going in hope rather than getting them to fuck when deep down you know it’s some cunt at it."
No not at all, as stated we've only been chatting for a few weeks, we are also chatting with other single females, it be great if she was real but unless we get some sort of verification then we can't see it going any further. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Will stay consistent with the same advice I'd give to a single guy in this sort of situation. Let your head on your shoulders make the decisions and not your desires. Op you look like a lovely couple so if the person your talking to is really a female then she should be happy to make it work and if that means a quick chat then she should do it or move on, if not then you guys should move on . If its a guy then he most certainly can't do what you ask anyway . I wouldn't even advise a social meet as the chances are your going to end up disappointed if you bypass your own request. Don't sell yourselves short , your in charge of how this goes forward from here and ultimately if it all ends badly then you can only look at yourselves and not blame the fake profile. I hope she's genuine and it all goes well for you guys anyway.  |
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By *alkdirty2meCouple
over a year ago
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"Surely its 2 way video chat .. you two and the sexy lady
3way as myself and Jane may be on our own mobiles if one of us was out working for example but yeah if we're together then it's a 2 way video chat "
There is your issue, we insist on a video hello or we don't meet but if you said to us that you both were separately going to chat via video and not be in the same room it would be an instant block from us because sadly that is just another version of the "mrs couldn't make it" line
Even if you're fully genuine, that how it comes across |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Surely its 2 way video chat .. you two and the sexy lady
3way as myself and Jane may be on our own mobiles if one of us was out working for example but yeah if we're together then it's a 2 way video chat
There is your issue, we insist on a video hello or we don't meet but if you said to us that you both were separately going to chat via video and not be in the same room it would be an instant block from us because sadly that is just another version of the "mrs couldn't make it" line
Even if you're fully genuine, that how it comes across "
Think you misread that.
They were saying everyone would be on the call but the two of them might have to join as individuals rather than a couple due to not being in the same room.
You and Jane need to work out the old Cerebral Cortex more than your Quads. |
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By *alkdirty2meCouple
over a year ago
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"Surely its 2 way video chat .. you two and the sexy lady
3way as myself and Jane may be on our own mobiles if one of us was out working for example but yeah if we're together then it's a 2 way video chat
There is your issue, we insist on a video hello or we don't meet but if you said to us that you both were separately going to chat via video and not be in the same room it would be an instant block from us because sadly that is just another version of the "mrs couldn't make it" line
Even if you're fully genuine, that how it comes across
Think you misread that.
They were saying everyone would be on the call but the two of them might have to join as individuals rather than a couple due to not being in the same room.
You and Jane need to work out the old Cerebral Cortex more than your Quads."
We didn't miss read or misunderstand anything, we made a valid point based on the fact that the couple wanting a video call would not be together in the same room, thus giving the opportunity for just a bloke to join a chat with another lady and pretend that his mrs will be joining the call presently. As stated "mrs couldn't make it" excuse
Tbh that is a huge red flag in itself and it's no wonder someone would be suspicious of it
Even if the couple are well verified
On another thought, are the lady's cam verifications from her on cam in the chat rooms where anyone who has viewed can leave a verification or are they from 1on1 chats? |
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"Sounds like you’re so excited of the idea of this person that you’ve kept this going in hope rather than getting them to fuck when deep down you know it’s some cunt at it.
No not at all, as stated we've only been chatting for a few weeks, we are also chatting with other single females, it be great if she was real but unless we get some sort of verification then we can't see it going any further."
Just BAIL. You’re wasting so much energy over - hold on - drama - that will manifest down the line. Don’t get played. Don’t get stressed. There are other wonderful women on here that would probably enjoy your company.
I know a few profiles that are deffo men being women. But they do no harm or look for meets so I don’t interfere. As soon as one starts messing around with wasting energy or time then they will get reported. |
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That would be a red flag for us and we we just leave it there wish "her" well and move on.
To be honest when we look at verifications we look for in person we pay no attention to cam verifications. We don't do cam verifications ourselves its just not for us we are more than happy just to meet up and see where the night goes.
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
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"That would be a red flag for us and we we just leave it there wish "her" well and move on.
To be honest when we look at verifications we look for in person we pay no attention to cam verifications. We don't do cam verifications ourselves its just not for us we are more than happy just to meet up and see where the night goes.
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Fair enough. Not like you guys are going to put out of your way to verify personally. But when distance is involved for that first social then cams or phones are useful. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Surely its 2 way video chat .. you two and the sexy lady
3way as myself and Jane may be on our own mobiles if one of us was out working for example but yeah if we're together then it's a 2 way video chat
There is your issue, we insist on a video hello or we don't meet but if you said to us that you both were separately going to chat via video and not be in the same room it would be an instant block from us because sadly that is just another version of the "mrs couldn't make it" line
Even if you're fully genuine, that how it comes across
Think you misread that.
They were saying everyone would be on the call but the two of them might have to join as individuals rather than a couple due to not being in the same room.
You and Jane need to work out the old Cerebral Cortex more than your Quads.
We didn't miss read or misunderstand anything, we made a valid point based on the fact that the couple wanting a video call would not be together in the same room, thus giving the opportunity for just a bloke to join a chat with another lady and pretend that his mrs will be joining the call presently. As stated "mrs couldn't make it" excuse
Tbh that is a huge red flag in itself and it's no wonder someone would be suspicious of it
Even if the couple are well verified
On another thought, are the lady's cam verifications from her on cam in the chat rooms where anyone who has viewed can leave a verification or are they from 1on1 chats?"
1st up we didn't insist on her video camming, we asked politely and she said she didn't want to and that we should believe she's genuine, 2nd you assume that me and Jane would not be together on the call to her?? Ofcourse we would we are a couple after all, the only way it would be a 3way call if the other female could only call at a certain time that didn't match up with with mine or Jane's work pattern and finally if she's genuine then a simple 30 second video chat would clarify that. |
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By *alkdirty2meCouple
over a year ago
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"Surely its 2 way video chat .. you two and the sexy lady
3way as myself and Jane may be on our own mobiles if one of us was out working for example but yeah if we're together then it's a 2 way video chat
There is your issue, we insist on a video hello or we don't meet but if you said to us that you both were separately going to chat via video and not be in the same room it would be an instant block from us because sadly that is just another version of the "mrs couldn't make it" line
Even if you're fully genuine, that how it comes across
Think you misread that.
They were saying everyone would be on the call but the two of them might have to join as individuals rather than a couple due to not being in the same room.
You and Jane need to work out the old Cerebral Cortex more than your Quads.
We didn't miss read or misunderstand anything, we made a valid point based on the fact that the couple wanting a video call would not be together in the same room, thus giving the opportunity for just a bloke to join a chat with another lady and pretend that his mrs will be joining the call presently. As stated "mrs couldn't make it" excuse
Tbh that is a huge red flag in itself and it's no wonder someone would be suspicious of it
Even if the couple are well verified
On another thought, are the lady's cam verifications from her on cam in the chat rooms where anyone who has viewed can leave a verification or are they from 1on1 chats?
1st up we didn't insist on her video camming, we asked politely and she said she didn't want to and that we should believe she's genuine, 2nd you assume that me and Jane would not be together on the call to her?? Ofcourse we would we are a couple after all, the only way it would be a 3way call if the other female could only call at a certain time that didn't match up with with mine or Jane's work pattern and finally if she's genuine then a simple 30 second video chat would clarify that."
No assumptions made from this end,
We didn't say you insisted on a video call, we do.
We didn't assume you guys wouldn't be together, we read your own words which state a three way call, which would mean, you're not together, we are highlighting what could be seen as a reason someone may suspect your profile of being fake in the same vein that you suspect someone else's is because they don't want to have a video call with in essence two separate people |
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"I have a variety of verifications but don't do any kind of call to prove I'm real, doesn't mean to say there is red flags. I'd be disappointed if someone wanted me to prove it also "
^this. 100% of time I'm on here I'm sitting in granny jammies. No make up. Looking like I've been dragged thru a hedge backwards. No video or phonecalls for me. Would rather take the chance on grabbing a quick coffee to meet in person.
If its a no show then a wee stoat round the shops. No harm done but never had a No show so far. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Starting to see more and more fake profiles popping up. Worryingly, a number are being photo verified, verified immediately by a guy and then start banging out the pms asking for face pics and sending friend requests.
If you’re half decent with photoshop you will manage to get past an admin check, they can only do so much afterall, so all we have is our own judgement and gut feeling. If it feels fishy, probably is. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So we've been chatting with a single female over the past 2-3 weeks and our conversations have been amazing, her profile appears to be 100% and her verifications are all from men (5 out of her 8 are the same guy) but here's the but part every verification is a cam verification, now I know most don't care about verifications on here but we do as it can let us see how others may see her and to see if she's what we are searching for so whilst messaging last night we asked her if she would be willing to set up a date to do a 3way video chat to reassure her that we are real but she got very defensive saying that we should just believe that she's genuine but now we are not too sure.
Surely if her fab verifications are legitimate she wouldn't have an issue with us seeing her on cam or are we thinking too much about it? We just find it all abit strange..
Be interested in your thoughts guys n dolls."
Update on what happened next for anyone that cared:
So after reading the comments and advice that you guys left we decided to not to push our idea of her verifying herself by doing a short 30 sec videocall with myself and jane, we sent her a message saying this and apologies if it made her feel uneasy or we didn't believed age was real, a few hours later was surprised to get a message back from her saying that once she though over our idea it made perfect sense, there was other issues that she mentioned but I'm not going to go into them as it wouldn't be right but it's now safe to say she is who she says she is so just wanted to say thanks to all who commented and gave their opinions |
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"So we've been chatting with a single female over the past 2-3 weeks and our conversations have been amazing, her profile appears to be 100% and her verifications are all from men (5 out of her 8 are the same guy) but here's the but part every verification is a cam verification, now I know most don't care about verifications on here but we do as it can let us see how others may see her and to see if she's what we are searching for so whilst messaging last night we asked her if she would be willing to set up a date to do a 3way video chat to reassure her that we are real but she got very defensive saying that we should just believe that she's genuine but now we are not too sure.
Surely if her fab verifications are legitimate she wouldn't have an issue with us seeing her on cam or are we thinking too much about it? We just find it all abit strange..
Be interested in your thoughts guys n dolls.
Update on what happened next for anyone that cared:
So after reading the comments and advice that you guys left we decided to not to push our idea of her verifying herself by doing a short 30 sec videocall with myself and jane, we sent her a message saying this and apologies if it made her feel uneasy or we didn't believed age was real, a few hours later was surprised to get a message back from her saying that once she though over our idea it made perfect sense, there was other issues that she mentioned but I'm not going to go into them as it wouldn't be right but it's now safe to say she is who she says she is so just wanted to say thanks to all who commented and gave their opinions "
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"So we've been chatting with a single female over the past 2-3 weeks and our conversations have been amazing, her profile appears to be 100% and her verifications are all from men (5 out of her 8 are the same guy) but here's the but part every verification is a cam verification, now I know most don't care about verifications on here but we do as it can let us see how others may see her and to see if she's what we are searching for so whilst messaging last night we asked her if she would be willing to set up a date to do a 3way video chat to reassure her that we are real but she got very defensive saying that we should just believe that she's genuine but now we are not too sure.
Surely if her fab verifications are legitimate she wouldn't have an issue with us seeing her on cam or are we thinking too much about it? We just find it all abit strange..
Be interested in your thoughts guys n dolls.
Update on what happened next for anyone that cared:
So after reading the comments and advice that you guys left we decided to not to push our idea of her verifying herself by doing a short 30 sec videocall with myself and jane, we sent her a message saying this and apologies if it made her feel uneasy or we didn't believed age was real, a few hours later was surprised to get a message back from her saying that once she though over our idea it made perfect sense, there was other issues that she mentioned but I'm not going to go into them as it wouldn't be right but it's now safe to say she is who she says she is so just wanted to say thanks to all who commented and gave their opinions
Good stuff.
Hope things continue on a positive trend."
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By *INTONIC300Couple
over a year ago
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Hey I (Mrs T) always does a video call with people we are potentially going to meet as then we know they are real and if there's a sexual attraction. If they are nit willing to so a video call with myself we won't meet as we prefer not to send face pics |
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The fact they have multiple cam veris and none by meeting is a red flag...
Im sceptical that profiles like this would go through with a meet, id be suspecting they're one of fabs fantasists.
And thats before them getting arsey with you asking for some proof of who you chatting with. |
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As a single woman who doesn’t have pics and doesn’t do video or cam chat for me a few days chatting and then meet for coffee I wouldn’t be spending weeks chatting sorry to me it sounds too good to be true |
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"The fact they have multiple cam veris and none by meeting is a red flag...
Im sceptical that profiles like this would go through with a meet, id be suspecting they're one of fabs fantasists.
And thats before them getting arsey with you asking for some proof of who you chatting with."
Yeah totally agree, we are not the only ppl who've been messed around by fake accounts so I order to rule it out we now make sure all parties are on a videocall prior to any future meet , if they decline or make excuses then we lose interest, plenty more fish in the sea |
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"Hey I (Mrs T) always does a video call with people we are potentially going to meet as then we know they are real and if there's a sexual attraction. If they are nit willing to so a video call with myself we won't meet as we prefer not to send face pics "
Hey, We are now adopting that way from here on in, normally it was never a problem but so many fake profiles in here makes sense to guarantee ?? that all parties are real before any plans are made. X |
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"Huge red flag imo vid calls are rather normal now and if verified shouldn't be an issue to do a wee 2 min call u can also use snap or kik to send pics as it will tell u if person has just took the pic or it came from cam roll xx"
Yeah I would ask for their Snapchat to prove everyone has Snapchat theses day |
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"Huge red flag imo vid calls are rather normal now and if verified shouldn't be an issue to do a wee 2 min call u can also use snap or kik to send pics as it will tell u if person has just took the pic or it came from cam roll xx
Yeah I would ask for their Snapchat to prove everyone has Snapchat theses day "
They don't |
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"Huge red flag imo vid calls are rather normal now and if verified shouldn't be an issue to do a wee 2 min call u can also use snap or kik to send pics as it will tell u if person has just took the pic or it came from cam roll xx
Yeah I would ask for their Snapchat to prove everyone has Snapchat theses day "
Nope not me
I’m all about chatting on fab and keeping it on fab till we’ve met in person for a coffee first then happy to share WhatsApp etc
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over a year ago
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"Huge red flag imo vid calls are rather normal now and if verified shouldn't be an issue to do a wee 2 min call u can also use snap or kik to send pics as it will tell u if person has just took the pic or it came from cam roll xx
Yeah I would ask for their Snapchat to prove everyone has Snapchat theses day "
We don't |
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"Huge red flag imo vid calls are rather normal now and if verified shouldn't be an issue to do a wee 2 min call u can also use snap or kik to send pics as it will tell u if person has just took the pic or it came from cam roll xx
Yeah I would ask for their Snapchat to prove everyone has Snapchat theses day "
Snapchat?! Can't say I've ever had Snapchat. |
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"The fact they have multiple cam veris and none by meeting is a red flag...
Im sceptical that profiles like this would go through with a meet, id be suspecting they're one of fabs fantasists.
And thats before them getting arsey with you asking for some proof of who you chatting with.
Yeah totally agree, we are not the only ppl who've been messed around by fake accounts so I order to rule it out we now make sure all parties are on a videocall prior to any future meet , if they decline or make excuses then we lose interest, plenty more fish in the sea "
All sorted as in you gave her the pole? |
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"Huge red flag imo vid calls are rather normal now and if verified shouldn't be an issue to do a wee 2 min call u can also use snap or kik to send pics as it will tell u if person has just took the pic or it came from cam roll xx
Yeah I would ask for their Snapchat to prove everyone has Snapchat theses day "
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"The fact they have multiple cam veris and none by meeting is a red flag...
Im sceptical that profiles like this would go through with a meet, id be suspecting they're one of fabs fantasists.
And thats before them getting arsey with you asking for some proof of who you chatting with.
Yeah totally agree, we are not the only ppl who've been messed around by fake accounts so I order to rule it out we now make sure all parties are on a videocall prior to any future meet , if they decline or make excuses then we lose interest, plenty more fish in the sea
All sorted as in you gave her the pole? "
All sorted as in seeing she was real on a videocall with us and not fake, happy to say she's 100% genuine. |
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"The fact they have multiple cam veris and none by meeting is a red flag...
Im sceptical that profiles like this would go through with a meet, id be suspecting they're one of fabs fantasists.
And thats before them getting arsey with you asking for some proof of who you chatting with.
Yeah totally agree, we are not the only ppl who've been messed around by fake accounts so I order to rule it out we now make sure all parties are on a videocall prior to any future meet , if they decline or make excuses then we lose interest, plenty more fish in the sea
All sorted as in you gave her the pole?
All sorted as in seeing she was real on a videocall with us and not fake, happy to say she's 100% genuine."
Just need now to see if She'll actually meet and isnt just a cam fantasist
Halfway there! |
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"The fact they have multiple cam veris and none by meeting is a red flag...
Im sceptical that profiles like this would go through with a meet, id be suspecting they're one of fabs fantasists.
And thats before them getting arsey with you asking for some proof of who you chatting with.
Yeah totally agree, we are not the only ppl who've been messed around by fake accounts so I order to rule it out we now make sure all parties are on a videocall prior to any future meet , if they decline or make excuses then we lose interest, plenty more fish in the sea
All sorted as in you gave her the pole?
All sorted as in seeing she was real on a videocall with us and not fake, happy to say she's 100% genuine.
Just need now to see if She'll actually meet and isnt just a cam fantasist
Halfway there!"
Already have a date marked in for 4 of us meeting for drinks |
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"The fact they have multiple cam veris and none by meeting is a red flag...
Im sceptical that profiles like this would go through with a meet, id be suspecting they're one of fabs fantasists.
And thats before them getting arsey with you asking for some proof of who you chatting with.
Yeah totally agree, we are not the only ppl who've been messed around by fake accounts so I order to rule it out we now make sure all parties are on a videocall prior to any future meet , if they decline or make excuses then we lose interest, plenty more fish in the sea
All sorted as in you gave her the pole?
All sorted as in seeing she was real on a videocall with us and not fake, happy to say she's 100% genuine.
Just need now to see if She'll actually meet and isnt just a cam fantasist
Halfway there!
Already have a date marked in for 4 of us meeting for drinks "
Is she a twin? |
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"The fact they have multiple cam veris and none by meeting is a red flag...
Im sceptical that profiles like this would go through with a meet, id be suspecting they're one of fabs fantasists.
And thats before them getting arsey with you asking for some proof of who you chatting with.
Yeah totally agree, we are not the only ppl who've been messed around by fake accounts so I order to rule it out we now make sure all parties are on a videocall prior to any future meet , if they decline or make excuses then we lose interest, plenty more fish in the sea
All sorted as in you gave her the pole?
All sorted as in seeing she was real on a videocall with us and not fake, happy to say she's 100% genuine.
Just need now to see if She'll actually meet and isnt just a cam fantasist
Halfway there!
Already have a date marked in for 4 of us meeting for drinks
Is she a twin?"
How would we know that? |
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"She starred out as a single female
Somebody is multiplying "
She still is a single female, there's her, me and Jane and 1 of our unicorns , that makes 4 |
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"She starred out as a single female
Somebody is multiplying
She still is a single female, there's her, me and Jane and 1 of our unicorns , that makes 4 "
And how did you prove to her that your unicorn is real, given they're such a rare find on fab |
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"She starred out as a single female
Somebody is multiplying
She still is a single female, there's her, me and Jane and 1 of our unicorns , that makes 4
And how did you prove to her that your unicorn is real, given they're such a rare find on fab "
our unicorn has her own profile so not hard for her to check her out, not rocket science wellinever, unicorns are not that rare to some |
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"She starred out as a single female
Somebody is multiplying
She still is a single female, there's her, me and Jane and 1 of our unicorns , that makes 4
And how did you prove to her that your unicorn is real, given they're such a rare find on fab our unicorn has her own profile so not hard for her to check her out, not rocket science wellinever, unicorns are not that rare to some "
You're a fab legend |
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"She starred out as a single female
Somebody is multiplying
She still is a single female, there's her, me and Jane and 1 of our unicorns , that makes 4
And how did you prove to her that your unicorn is real, given they're such a rare find on fab our unicorn has her own profile so not hard for her to check her out, not rocket science wellinever, unicorns are not that rare to some
You're a fab legend "
Just a normal guy who's punching above his weight nothing more than that. |
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