Third time lucky...
OP their are plenty of guys just like you meeting regularly.
you are no different to any other person on the site and have the same opportunities.
So do you...
1. Have Good profile - be honest, open descriptive of wants.
2. Have Good profile pictures - be imaginative excite the viewer.
3. Socialise - online - chatrooms, forums. Get noticed get known
4. Socialise - offline and in person - attend social events, club nights. Get noticed get known.
After that it's a simple case of "dinnay be a dick"
Now the question is do you fill the criteria.... if answer no to any of the above, you ain't doing enough to be a cut above the rest....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You get out of fab what you put in chaps, effort on the profile, make sure the grammar is as close to spot on, put up decent photos (def take the teen Wolf one down op), check the age ranges and that’s you automatically a few steps ahead from where you are  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From a women's perspective these are the things that make me open/respond to a message :
A profile pic that isn't a dick (face / torso both good)
Don't send a dick pic either
Good spelling and grammar (current pet peeve is 'wondering' when they mean wandering. "My hands are wondering all over your body"... What are they wondering about, is all I can think)
A shortish intro paragraph about you... Not a page long fantasy about what you want to do to me, or just "hi"... And whatever you do please don't open with something like "so, all the women on here are massive slags aren't they"...
Demonstrate a sense of humour and intelligence
Its a hard graft on here for guys, no two ways about it. Good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Getting a good verification helps a lot. I'd suggest getting out to a social or a club and meet people that way. Once you've got a decent verification on your profile, you'll find it easier to get further meets. |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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Most of it’s been covered already.
Don’t send copy and paste messages, personalise them.
Don’t expect the women to message you.
There’s plenty of socials in the Scotland forum. Make an effort to attend them and meet people.
Not everyone wants to meet young guys. Some of us have kids your age OP.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s difficult for ‘single’ men to attend clubs and socials the wedding ring leaves a mark 
A man speaking from experience? "
Thankfully not. I was married 20 years and neither cheated. It just fizzled out.
I was using logic as to why ‘single men’ are only available 8-5 Monday to Friday! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve decided to make people work if they want to meet me.
After offering up weeks of crap photos, wishy washy bios, and getting barred every few days off the forum it’s time to realise my own worth.
If you can’t handle me at my…..
Nope, can’t do it. |
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