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Newbies looking for tips

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hey!

Hubby and I are new to the scene, had one meet so far (on holiday). Wasn’t the best the bull we picked.

We are starting off with just introducing a male. We then want to introduce a couple. Then eventually males, females and couples.

We feel like we are fussy, can we maintain our fussiness?

We want to go to CJs but feel we will stick out like sore thumbs

like what do you wear etc?

I’m just rabbling on a bit now, any couples able to speak from experience?

Thanks

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By *ane DTV/TS over a year ago

Glasgow ish

"Hey!

Hubby and I are new to the scene, had one meet so far (on holiday). Wasn’t the best the bull we picked.

We are starting off with just introducing a male. We then want to introduce a couple. Then eventually males, females and couples.

We feel like we are fussy, can we maintain our fussiness?

We want to go to CJs but feel we will stick out like sore thumbs

like what do you wear etc?

I’m just rabbling on a bit now, any couples able to speak from experience?

Thanks

Bx"

I can heartily reccomend the pre drinks socials. Good way to break the ice and not have the collywobbles walking in.

As for attire - turn up as if your were going for a nice night out - you can change into what ever you feel like when you are there.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Keep posting on the forum too. If your messages are open to males I find that generally you're never waiting too long to be offered some "tips".

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By *herriesandcreamCouple over a year ago

Dundee

We were the same got advice and did the pre drinks. Once you are in there though you will be fine, it's all very relaxed. I just wear something that's nice looking with easy access/removal

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m going to CJ’s for the first time next Saturday. Intend to go to the drinks beforehand, seems the wise thing to do to avoid feeling as welcome as a fart in a spacesuit.

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By *irky_coupleCouple over a year ago

kirky

"Hey!

Hubby and I are new to the scene, had one meet so far (on holiday). Wasn’t the best the bull we picked.

We are starting off with just introducing a male. We then want to introduce a couple. Then eventually males, females and couples.

We feel like we are fussy, can we maintain our fussiness?

We want to go to CJs but feel we will stick out like sore thumbs

like what do you wear etc?

I’m just rabbling on a bit now, any couples able to speak from experience?

Thanks

Bx"
can be as fussy as you want,just depends on the context.

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