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Why so many timewasters?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok this is a genuine question(s)....Why is there so many time wasters on here and why is it such a "crime" to be a young, good looking single guy? Where all the old fat guys are getting all the meets? :O sooo not fair! Not had a meet on here for a good few months now, starting to think thats the point! |
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What does the OP mean by timewasters? People that arrange a meet and don't turn up - if so report the profile - admin do review all reports and if a profile is a repeat offender they will act i'm sure. If on the otherhand no one is agreeing to meet with you, then may be you need to work on your profile or message wording. In certain respects its a meat market - the ladies want to know what makes you stand out from the rest - and I dont mean your rampant member either. Hope this helps. As for the young Adonis v old fat git, such comment will not endear you to the swinging community. Remember you need to earn respect before many agree to meet. So the ladies you wish to bed might well have an old fat git as their life partner but you might be offending some - might be ok for the lady to call her partner old fat git but woe betide anyone else who says it. Hope this helps. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Right, first the profile. Better than most but don't forget its real people you're trying to attract so a bit more than your stats and who you'd like to meet is needed. Also some of the pics seem to be lifted from porn, and the one of you in the bath of cold water doesn't do you any favours!
Then once again a profile that says straight yet says you'll meet occasional TV's. I assume you mean really convincing ones so as you don't have to
imagine there's anything gay about it? Anyway, that one line will tell any reasonable person that you're into bisexual play and that puts 80% of people off.
And the other poster is correct, calling peoples and their partners fat old gits will get you nowhere.
Hope this helps. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The answer is simple....the older you get the more experience you gain and your ability to pleasure your meet is enhanced.
Now i know you'll probably say that you're young but are just as good as an older guy but ask yourself this.....in 5 years time will you be a better lover?...what about in 10 years time? etc etc
Sex improves with maturity, the older and wiser you get the better you become in understanding how to please and be pleased
So maybe that's why an old fat git like me is getting more meets than you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The answer is simple....the older you get the more experience you gain and your ability to pleasure your meet is enhanced.
Now i know you'll probably say that you're young but are just as good as an older guy but ask yourself this.....in 5 years time will you be a better lover?...what about in 10 years time? etc etc
Sex improves with maturity, the older and wiser you get the better you become in understanding how to please and be pleased
So maybe that's why an old fat git like me is getting more meets than you " i couldn't agree more, i have my age limit set and will not go below it now, for the simple reason that i've tried younger and felt that i was teaching him,so not really enjoying it that much, now, an older guy knows what he's doing and i never need to tell him what i want, he instinctively knows! |
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By *ikkiBWoman
over a year ago
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"Right, first the profile. Better than most but don't forget its real people you're trying to attract so a bit more than your stats and who you'd like to meet is needed. Also some of the pics seem to be lifted from porn, and the one of you in the bath of cold water doesn't do you any favours!
Then once again a profile that says straight yet says you'll meet occasional TV's. I assume you mean really convincing ones so as you don't have to
imagine there's anything gay about it? Anyway, that one line will tell any reasonable person that you're into bisexual play and that puts 80% of people off.
And the other poster is correct, calling peoples and their partners fat old gits will get you nowhere.
Hope this helps."
Pretty much sums it up plus as someone else said posting this thread wont do any favours. Also one thing not quite covered is that you repost the same set of pics almost daily sometimes which just gives the impression of "look at me" or it gives the impression that fabs deleted your pics for being fake and you just reposted them again. Either way it isnt good lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Agree with all off above esp pics
Ie bareback pic = def no no
Bath pic = no gd
Moany thread = whinger
Repeat of pics = as above y put them on 2 or 3 timest
Plus older 9 times oot of 10 are better  |
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By *ikkiBWoman
over a year ago
Falkirk |
"What pics? He doesn't have any. Maybe they will be back soon tho, lol.
Yes he does
No, he doesn't! "
Hes probably taken them all down (or fab has) and they will all get reposted again in a couple hours for the cycle to begin again lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What pics? He doesn't have any. Maybe they will be back soon tho, lol.
Yes he does
No, he doesn't!
I'd look again if I was you!
Erm, looked twice m8!
3rd time lucky then! "
Doesn't even mention a gallery! Can you tell me where? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ah bb u on comp n we on fne dif set up lol x
Same here, doesn't mention a gallery on my phone!
your not missing much lol"
Lol, i sort of guessed that from the quality of his post! Was just curious, (not in that way though), lol.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ah bb u on comp n we on fne dif set up lol x
Same here, doesn't mention a gallery on my phone!
your not missing much lol"
that's why i keep most of my pics in my private gallery lol |
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By *ikkiBWoman
over a year ago
Falkirk |
"Now has 5 public pics, all dodgy angles or obscured. And the bit about TV's has gone!
Reckon the 18 private ones are the porn shots "
Id say its pretty much certain that the 18 are the porn shots lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile says: Single females and couples (both MF and FF) up to the age of 45, anything more and it would feel wrong!
Your age preference on your profile is 18-50???
And agree with previous posts, nobody likes moaning threads but good luck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Question back to the OP, if hes even been back on this thread, what do you think the answer to your question is going to be that hasn't already been covered hundreds of times? And whatever it is, is there anything you can do to address your own issues to take account of the answer? Probably not so why worry about it?
Just crack on and keep sending messages and bing a nice guy, assuming you are of course, and it'll happen but its not dial-a-fuck, most meets take effort and patience. Good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok this is a genuine question(s)....Why is there so many time wasters on here and why is it such a "crime" to be a young, good looking single guy? Where all the old fat guys are getting all the meets? :O sooo not fair! Not had a meet on here for a good few months now, starting to think thats the point!" Bud use old guys are out shagging to nite You watching The X Factor mate
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
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"Ok this is a genuine question(s)....Why is there so many time wasters on here and why is it such a "crime" to be a young, good looking single guy? Where all the old fat guys are getting all the meets? :O sooo not fair! Not had a meet on here for a good few months now, starting to think thats the point!
Bud use old guys are out shagging to nite You watching The X Factor mate "
I hate to break it to you but you are still on while X-Factor is on too!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok this is a genuine question(s)....Why is there so many time wasters on here and why is it such a "crime" to be a young, good looking single guy? Where all the old fat guys are getting all the meets? :O sooo not fair! Not had a meet on here for a good few months now, starting to think thats the point!
Bud use old guys are out shagging to nite You watching The X Factor mate
I hate to break it to you but you are still on while X-Factor is on too!  " pmsl lol |
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