Just wondering if there are any swingers here in Scotland with a kinky side.
I have met a few women from Fab and had a lot of fun, however i am starting to feel my honesty in my profile is actually putting people off, but they say your vibe attracts your tribe so...
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"In what way does it put people off?
There isn't really much on your profile other than the bdsm test. It certainly doesn't stand out as being overly kinky compared to some.
Innocent  "
Ok thats two for two saying it isnt overtly kinky.
I guess you both must be correct, thanks.
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"I don’t think your profile is overtly kinky.
I am considering removing the BDSM test result, but i am trying to be clear about the kind of man i am and play a woman could get with me."
I used to see a lot of profiles with the bdsm result. I don’t pay attention to it.
I think everyone has a little element of kink and most people wants to explore. Being able to evolve and learn from new experiences is what counts for me. I would think it would be best not to pigeonhole yourself. |
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"Just wondering if there are any swingers here in Scotland with a kinky side.
I have met a few women from Fab and had a lot of fun, however i am starting to feel my honesty in my profile is actually putting people off, but they say your vibe attracts your tribe so...
If you are kinky and you know it, post below."
I would say your biog is positively tame. Certainly not off putting. The BDSM test is not something that anyone pays a blind bit of notice too - you see it and skip to the next section normally. Personally I find having women in your pics when your single is a bit wrong. Each to their own but it may put others off as well.
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"In what way does it put people off?
There isn't really much on your profile other than the bdsm test. It certainly doesn't stand out as being overly kinky compared to some.
Innocent
Ok thats two for two saying it isnt overtly kinky.
I guess you both must be correct, thanks.
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Or else Regina & I are just kinky wee f@#$=€s ........ friends!   
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"Just wondering if there are any swingers here in Scotland with a kinky side.
I have met a few women from Fab and had a lot of fun, however i am starting to feel my honesty in my profile is actually putting people off, but they say your vibe attracts your tribe so...
If you are kinky and you know it, post below.
I would say your biog is positively tame. Certainly not off putting. The BDSM test is not something that anyone pays a blind bit of notice too - you see it and skip to the next section normally. Personally I find having women in your pics when your single is a bit wrong. Each to their own but it may put others off as well.
That's my tuppence worth "
I agree. That’s the seedy part. Displaying pics of a woman. Very off putting. |
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"In what way does it put people off?
There isn't really much on your profile other than the bdsm test. It certainly doesn't stand out as being overly kinky compared to some.
Innocent
Ok thats two for two saying it isnt overtly kinky.
I guess you both must be correct, thanks.
Or else Regina & I are just kinky wee f@#$=€s ........ friends!
Innocent "
I’m as innocent as you |
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"Just wondering if there are any swingers here in Scotland with a kinky side.
I have met a few women from Fab and had a lot of fun, however i am starting to feel my honesty in my profile is actually putting people off, but they say your vibe attracts your tribe so...
If you are kinky and you know it, post below.
I would say your biog is positively tame. Certainly not off putting. The BDSM test is not something that anyone pays a blind bit of notice too - you see it and skip to the next section normally. Personally I find having women in your pics when your single is a bit wrong. Each to their own but it may put others off as well.
That's my tuppence worth
I agree. That’s the seedy part. Displaying pics of a woman. Very off putting."
The woman is my primary pmay partner, she doesnt swing, but is an exhibitionist.
I will however take it on advisement. |
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"In what way does it put people off?
There isn't really much on your profile other than the bdsm test. It certainly doesn't stand out as being overly kinky compared to some.
Innocent
Ok thats two for two saying it isnt overtly kinky.
I guess you both must be correct, thanks.
Or else Regina & I are just kinky wee f@#$=€s ........ friends!
Innocent
I’m as innocent as you "
How can that be possible 
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"In what way does it put people off?
There isn't really much on your profile other than the bdsm test. It certainly doesn't stand out as being overly kinky compared to some.
Innocent
Ok thats two for two saying it isnt overtly kinky.
I guess you both must be correct, thanks.
Or else Regina & I are just kinky wee f@#$=€s ........ friends!
Innocent "
Of course Gina's kinky - have you seen her thing for Starbars  ..
And your as bad with your strawberries ?? You don't want to know what I get up to with watermelons |
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Define kinky.
I think that many people (outwith fab & swinging) would think that swinging is kinky. Or even the fact some people take pics. For a lot on fab that is "the norm" rather than kinky. There are things I do with my partner only that some on fab might find too kinky for them? We all have a bit of kink in us, but we don't all have the same degree or definition.
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"In what way does it put people off?
There isn't really much on your profile other than the bdsm test. It certainly doesn't stand out as being overly kinky compared to some.
Innocent
Ok thats two for two saying it isnt overtly kinky.
I guess you both must be correct, thanks.
Or else Regina & I are just kinky wee f@#$=€s ........ friends!
Innocent
Of course Gina's kinky - have you seen her thing for Starbars ..
And your as bad with your strawberries ?? You don't want to know what I get up to with watermelons "
Got to get your 5 a day you know
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"Define kinky.
I think that many people (outwith fab & swinging) would think that swinging is kinky. Or even the fact some people take pics. For a lot on fab that is "the norm" rather than kinky. There are things I do with my partner only that some on fab might find too kinky for them? We all have a bit of kink in us, but we don't all have the same degree or definition.
Innocent "
This is true, i find it very difficult to express my kinky side on this site, we have so few Interests that can be shown.
also as expressed having pics of me with a woman is off putting, but not having pics is worse.
I am not strikingly handsome so feel my solo pics arent overly appealing, so i tried to show the kind of play I enjoy.
Not that im.grumbling about my looks, i tend to delve into a womans mind before i attempt to delve into her bed. I know i hold a certain appeal Silver fox, Dad bod, creative mind adventurous soul.
Any advice or a profile revamp is welcome.
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By *sm265Woman
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Agree with what others have said about your pics, 2 out of your 3 public pics predominantly feature another person, that would definitely put me off (unless she was also looking to meet, in which case I'd expect you to have a joint profile)
Your profile text says very little and doesn't really stand out from the crowd. You state you are kinky, but there's little evidence of that on your profile, 'kink' covers a vast array of likes and interests and I'd say very few people are likely to take the time to message to ask what yours are, they'll just move onto the next profile.
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One persons kinky is another’s norm
I have a profile on a more fetish site but am now finding it more like Faceache or the twittery one and just as vanilla.
Fab was meant to be my vanilla side
As stated to some folks swinging is kinky, imagine going to a club and watching your partner/wife/husband having sex with someone else. I know folks that would commit murder if that happened
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