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Why always about sex

By *igbwolf2356 OP Man over a year ago

Inverurie

I know this sound counterproductive but I joined this site to meet like minded people and explore myself sexually but every time someone messages me they don’t care about talking all they want to know if have I got a pulse and would I have sex with them I get this must be 10x worse for women but am I the only one here to try and explore themselves as well as other people

but jokes aside I discovered that I might be interested in men as well as women and am trying to explore that through Bi MFM so just wondering if there are any others on this site like me and would love to hear other peoples thoughts on my predicament x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some use fab as a hook up site, for lots it's a swinger site. Both different things it sounds like you might prefer the swinger lifestyle. Maybe try clubs, socials and even here on the forums can be valuable. Good luck OP and patience is a virtue

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By *igbwolf2356 OP Man over a year ago

Inverurie

Thanks for the advice

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By *enie90Woman over a year ago

a bottle

Exactly the reason why I joined initially too. I’ll second what the lovely lady wrote. Clubs and socials (announced in the forums here) are great for having proper conversations with likeminded individuals and sometimes in the chatrooms on here too, if you are lucky!

Best of luck!!

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By *igbwolf2356 OP Man over a year ago

Inverurie

Thanks so much glad that there are like minded people on here x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The chat rooms are fun we go on cam.and chat in there some times when we feel in the mood also we have been on cam when out in the car

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because at the end of they day ultimately it is a sex site.

People use it in all different ways but the majority it's a sex site.

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By *ookie69Man over a year ago

Whistle Dixie

"Because at the end of they day ultimately it is a sex site.

People use it in all different ways but the majority it's a sex site."

This x

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By *andsCouple over a year ago

Edin

"Because at the end of they day ultimately it is a sex site.

People use it in all different ways but the majority it's a sex site."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know this sound counterproductive but I joined this site to meet like minded people and explore myself sexually but every time someone messages me they don’t care about talking all they want to know if have I got a pulse and would I have sex with them I get this must be 10x worse for women but am I the only one here to try and explore themselves as well as other people

Mate I feel your pain , its exactly the same for me, I'm sick to the back teeth of women constantly messaging me for sex. It's so bad that I'm thankfully of all the ones that now have me blocked ( there's many ) because they can't handle the thought of more rejection. Anyway mate we can both live in hope that there is 1 or 2 women out there that would be willing to at least chat a little before doing the deed.