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over a year ago
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I'm interested to know if anyone has went to their local swinging club and met people they know that they would rather not have as they like to keep this side of their life totally private because of their careers or whatever reason and how it turned out if they did eg meet a relative or a workmate or employee boss etc and how many people don't visit them because of this reason  |
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On our 2nd or 3rd visit to CJs we bumped into our next door neighbours of 20 years. I wouldnt say we were close to them (before or after the CJs meet lol) and over the years we ply really chatted for a couple of mins if we seen each other outside the house
We chatted for 10 mins and agreed that we would never mention CJs again and so far we have never seen them again at CJs.
We also got chatting to who we thought were a vanilla couple in Tenerife whilst on holiday. Met them 1 night in an Irish bar as they were sitting at the table next to us. At around 12 they said they were going back to their room. They left to go back to the hotel and we decided to go to Mystic. 10 mins after we arrived they rocked up in the club  |
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Not a club, but I had a similar experience.
The main thing to remember is that those people are likely there for the same reason as you, and all that is required is a little bit of mutual respect and discretion.
IE no blabbing it all around afterwards and no need for a nudge-nudge, wink-wink style situation if you bump into them in public.
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