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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just had the above message from someone. His opening gambit was that he'd just had a meet cancel on him, were we free.
On being told he'd need to work harder than that, that was his response.
Is that the genuine perspective of single guys, I'm free, so lucky you?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just had the above message from someone. His opening gambit was that he'd just had a meet cancel on him, were we free.
On being told he'd need to work harder than that, that was his response.
Is that the genuine perspective of single guys, I'm free, so lucky you?
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I don't think alot of guys realise when they are horny they turn full on caveman mentality.
I can't meet someone from a couple sentences, I need to chat to them and possibly meet for a coffee and catch there vibe. |
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Not a nice way to act though to be fair the user does not want to work harder. No excuse for the nasty reply though.
for a lot of guys the site can become tiresome with fems and cpls wanting others to jump through hoops and beg for their attention.
There is good and bad all across the spectrum. |
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I might come across sounding like an old out of touch fart, but I think the internet has made younger guys lazy these days. They simply don’t want to have to put any work or effort into meeting anyone. Just log on, send a quick message and bobs your uncle, fannys your auntie. It’s embarrassing and all it serves to do is fuck things up for guys who ARE actually prepared to put the effort in. |
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"I might come across sounding like an old out of touch fart, but I think the internet has made younger guys lazy these days. They simply don’t want to have to put any work or effort into meeting anyone. Just log on, send a quick message and bobs your uncle, fannys your auntie. It’s embarrassing and all it serves to do is fuck things up for guys who ARE actually prepared to put the effort in. "
I find it's actually older guys who don't want to put in the effort. (Not all)
Oh and I've said many times before the bad ones do NOT ruin it for all guys. They really help the good ones shine through. Women are quite adept at we*ding out the eejits. Maybe cause we don't have to think with a cock   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi...Well I agree there are too many idiots around, but also have to say even just trying to get a conversation going from any woman is extremely exhausting and demoralising for me (been here approx 8 months) who's already being polite, respectful and accepting of a woman's right to say no and privacy etc, but it just seems not a single woman I send a message to wants to chat or reply. I find forums a bit awkward as I never know what to write about and sometimes feel the context can go on tangents too quick at times. I tend to be better with face to face chatting. I don't want or need sympathy lol...but a wee chat even once in a while would be nice on here hehe.
I hope I've not in any way offended anyone but hope everyone can get a chance to chat on here, just wish all the ladies were not inundated with rude and derogatory messages from supposed men.
Everyone take care over the weekend especially if the weather is bad in your neck of the woods |
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"Just had the above message from someone. His opening gambit was that he'd just had a meet cancel on him, were we free.
On being told he'd need to work harder than that, that was his response.
Is that the genuine perspective of single guys, I'm free, so lucky you?
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he was stupidly honest i guess, n then opted for being out n out offensive.
once had a guy join a little meeting i had with two couples but he was constantly checking his phone,turned out he was busy trying to arrange and prioritise another meeting,made his excuses and leaft once the people he was messaging invited him.you can be busy with messages and have no luck and you can be busy with messages and create your own kind of chaos,not my idea of fun certainly,but people like that do exist on here. |
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I might come across sounding like an old out of touch fart, but I think the internet has made younger guys lazy these days. They simply don’t want to have to put any work or effort into meeting anyone. Why blame guys alone... fems over-expectations have a lot of blame to be assigned also. thats without getting into cpls crazy demands for unicorn poop sprinkled with saturnian rainbow drops. its the youths world as it was ours before they move things as they see fit.
Just log on, send a quick message and bobs your uncle, fannys your auntie. It’s embarrassing and all it serves to do is fuck things up for guys who ARE actually prepared to put the effort in.
whats embarrassing? that they log on and get a fuck but older guys lathering smarm get nothing. You make your own luck in life if a user ain't getting meets that ain't mine or others problem its that users. |
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"I might come across sounding like an old out of touch fart, but I think the internet has made younger guys lazy these days. They simply don’t want to have to put any work or effort into meeting anyone. Why blame guys alone... fems over-expectations have a lot of blame to be assigned also. thats without getting into cpls crazy demands for unicorn poop sprinkled with saturnian rainbow drops. its the youths world as it was ours before they move things as they see fit.
Just log on, send a quick message and bobs your uncle, fannys your auntie. It’s embarrassing and all it serves to do is fuck things up for guys who ARE actually prepared to put the effort in.
whats embarrassing? that they log on and get a fuck but older guys lathering smarm get nothing. You make your own luck in life if a user ain't getting meets that ain't mine or others problem its that users."
If you bother to check my veris I think you’ll see I do just fine putting the effort in. Each to their own I guess.  |
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"I might come across sounding like an old out of touch fart, but I think the internet has made younger guys lazy these days. They simply don’t want to have to put any work or effort into meeting anyone. Why blame guys alone... fems over-expectations have a lot of blame to be assigned also. thats without getting into cpls crazy demands for unicorn poop sprinkled with saturnian rainbow drops. its the youths world as it was ours before they move things as they see fit.
Just log on, send a quick message and bobs your uncle, fannys your auntie. It’s embarrassing and all it serves to do is fuck things up for guys who ARE actually prepared to put the effort in.
whats embarrassing? that they log on and get a fuck but older guys lathering smarm get nothing. You make your own luck in life if a user ain't getting meets that ain't mine or others problem its that users.
If you bother to check my veris I think you’ll see I do just fine putting the effort in. Each to their own I guess. "
no need to check anybody's veris my post wasn't aimed at you I used your post to highlight what I perceived as "lazy" excuses as for putting in effort its a two three more way street its not the guy alone who should be putting in effort |
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"Just had the above message from someone. His opening gambit was that he'd just had a meet cancel on him, were we free.
On being told he'd need to work harder than that, that was his response.
Is that the genuine perspective of single guys, I'm free, so lucky you?
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He is an entitled imbecile with a hurt pride.
Block, delete, next.
Wouldn't even waste a second of my breath on it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is why we love the block button. Once someone is blocked for a while and the list accumulates, they never get off it (damned).
40-50% of the single guys are married + playing away, desperate to meet under tight timelines or fakes getting kicks behind a keyboard. |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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It’s people like him that spoil Fab. I’ve no idea how long my block list is with with messages similar to that.
Would a guy just walk up to someone in a pub and expect to take them home without some effort of a conversation? Just because it’s online doesn’t change how we should treat people. We should always respect others.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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He's totally wrong OP. It's guys like him with that nasty attitude who spoil Fab. Just remember they're the ones asking you for a meet so you're well within your rights to say no. Just block him and you will find someone better and who has some respect x |
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"It’s people like him that spoil Fab. I’ve no idea how long my block list is with with messages similar to that.
Would a guy just walk up to someone in a pub and expect to take them home without some effort of a conversation? Just because it’s online doesn’t change how we should treat people. We should always respect others.
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I did once walk up to a guy I thought was gorgeous we previously had worked in same place rather d*unk on way too much vodka so was a horny mess and at the end of the night I was like hmmmm not ready to call it a night just yet walked up to him with his group of mates at the bar and said it’s your lucky day come on get a taxi back to mine, he didn’t say no lol I was mortified in the morning when I realised how brazen I was lol one and only time hahaha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had a similar accusation that I shouldn't be on Fab, I'm a timewaster and it's women like me ruining it for others...because I'm not on Fab to fuck lone males.
People like that have a sense of entitlement that others are there to be used for their pleasure. Anyone not prepared to accept that shouldn't be on Fab! |
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"This is why we love the block button. Once someone is blocked for a while and the list accumulates, they never get off it (damned).
40-50% of the single guys are married + playing away, desperate to meet under tight timelines or fakes getting kicks behind a keyboard. "
"40-50% of the single guys on here are married" Lot of psychics on here. I notice this or similar posts on the forums, how do people come to this conclusion? There probably is some married guys and gals, don't forget, who have, are using the site, but up to 50%? Doubtful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think it's exclusively the attitude of single men nor is it all of them.
There are arseholes of all genders around here, the fun part is finding the ones who are worth the hassle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think it's exclusively the attitude of single men nor is it all of them.
There are arseholes of all genders around here, the fun part is finding the ones who are worth the hassle. "
Well said young lady  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is why we love the block button. Once someone is blocked for a while and the list accumulates, they never get off it (damned).
40-50% of the single guys are married + playing away, desperate to meet under tight timelines or fakes getting kicks behind a keyboard.
"40-50% of the single guys on here are married" Lot of psychics on here. I notice this or similar posts on the forums, how do people come to this conclusion? There probably is some married guys and gals, don't forget, who have, are using the site, but up to 50%? Doubtful. "
Psychics??? That’s new  |
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"This is why we love the block button. Once someone is blocked for a while and the list accumulates, they never get off it (damned).
40-50% of the single guys are married + playing away, desperate to meet under tight timelines or fakes getting kicks behind a keyboard.
"40-50% of the single guys on here are married" Lot of psychics on here. I notice this or similar posts on the forums, how do people come to this conclusion? There probably is some married guys and gals, don't forget, who have, are using the site, but up to 50%? Doubtful.
Psychics??? That’s new "
Straight after I posted I noticed it and knew it'd come back and bite me in the bum.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is why we love the block button. Once someone is blocked for a while and the list accumulates, they never get off it (damned).
40-50% of the single guys are married + playing away, desperate to meet under tight timelines or fakes getting kicks behind a keyboard.
"40-50% of the single guys on here are married" Lot of psychics on here. I notice this or similar posts on the forums, how do people come to this conclusion? There probably is some married guys and gals, don't forget, who have, are using the site, but up to 50%? Doubtful.
Psychics??? That’s new
Straight after I posted I noticed it and knew it'd come back and bite me in the bum. "
Lol sorry I couldn’t resist x |
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"This is why we love the block button. Once someone is blocked for a while and the list accumulates, they never get off it (damned).
40-50% of the single guys are married + playing away, desperate to meet under tight timelines or fakes getting kicks behind a keyboard.
"40-50% of the single guys on here are married" Lot of psychics on here. I notice this or similar posts on the forums, how do people come to this conclusion? There probably is some married guys and gals, don't forget, who have, are using the site, but up to 50%? Doubtful.
Psychics??? That’s new
Straight after I posted I noticed it and knew it'd come back and bite me in the bum.
Lol sorry I couldn’t resist x
Probably one of the safest here to bite yer bum . ( If you've had a recent tetanus jab ) . "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is why we love the block button. Once someone is blocked for a while and the list accumulates, they never get off it (damned).
40-50% of the single guys are married + playing away, desperate to meet under tight timelines or fakes getting kicks behind a keyboard.
"40-50% of the single guys on here are married" Lot of psychics on here. I notice this or similar posts on the forums, how do people come to this conclusion? There probably is some married guys and gals, don't forget, who have, are using the site, but up to 50%? Doubtful.
Psychics??? That’s new
Straight after I posted I noticed it and knew it'd come back and bite me in the bum.
Lol sorry I couldn’t resist x
Probably one of the safest here to bite yer bum . ( If you've had a recent tetanus jab ) . "
Him or me Steph |
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"This is why we love the block button. Once someone is blocked for a while and the list accumulates, they never get off it (damned).
40-50% of the single guys are married + playing away, desperate to meet under tight timelines or fakes getting kicks behind a keyboard.
"40-50% of the single guys on here are married" Lot of psychics on here. I notice this or similar posts on the forums, how do people come to this conclusion? There probably is some married guys and gals, don't forget, who have, are using the site, but up to 50%? Doubtful.
Psychics??? That’s new
Straight after I posted I noticed it and knew it'd come back and bite me in the bum.
Lol sorry I couldn’t resist x"
No apology necessary I made an arse of it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is why we love the block button. Once someone is blocked for a while and the list accumulates, they never get off it (damned).
40-50% of the single guys are married + playing away, desperate to meet under tight timelines or fakes getting kicks behind a keyboard.
"40-50% of the single guys on here are married" Lot of psychics on here. I notice this or similar posts on the forums, how do people come to this conclusion? There probably is some married guys and gals, don't forget, who have, are using the site, but up to 50%? Doubtful.
Psychics??? That’s new
Straight after I posted I noticed it and knew it'd come back and bite me in the bum.
Lol sorry I couldn’t resist x
No apology necessary I made an arse of it "
It’s a very nice arse too  |
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"This is why we love the block button. Once someone is blocked for a while and the list accumulates, they never get off it (damned).
40-50% of the single guys are married + playing away, desperate to meet under tight timelines or fakes getting kicks behind a keyboard.
"40-50% of the single guys on here are married" Lot of psychics on here. I notice this or similar posts on the forums, how do people come to this conclusion? There probably is some married guys and gals, don't forget, who have, are using the site, but up to 50%? Doubtful.
Psychics??? That’s new
Straight after I posted I noticed it and knew it'd come back and bite me in the bum.
Lol sorry I couldn’t resist x
No apology necessary I made an arse of it
It’s a very nice arse too "
Aw thanks, not used to compliments, usually have to turn the other cheek.
I'll get my coat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is why we love the block button. Once someone is blocked for a while and the list accumulates, they never get off it (damned).
40-50% of the single guys are married + playing away, desperate to meet under tight timelines or fakes getting kicks behind a keyboard.
"40-50% of the single guys on here are married" Lot of psychics on here. I notice this or similar posts on the forums, how do people come to this conclusion? There probably is some married guys and gals, don't forget, who have, are using the site, but up to 50%? Doubtful.
Psychics??? That’s new
Straight after I posted I noticed it and knew it'd come back and bite me in the bum.
Lol sorry I couldn’t resist x
No apology necessary I made an arse of it
It’s a very nice arse too
Aw thanks, not used to compliments, usually have to turn the other cheek.
I'll get my coat. "
 I like a wee pun |
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"This is why we love the block button. Once someone is blocked for a while and the list accumulates, they never get off it (damned).
40-50% of the single guys are married + playing away, desperate to meet under tight timelines or fakes getting kicks behind a keyboard.
"40-50% of the single guys on here are married" Lot of psychics on here. I notice this or similar posts on the forums, how do people come to this conclusion? There probably is some married guys and gals, don't forget, who have, are using the site, but up to 50%? Doubtful.
Psychics??? That’s new
Straight after I posted I noticed it and knew it'd come back and bite me in the bum.
Lol sorry I couldn’t resist x
No apology necessary I made an arse of it
It’s a very nice arse too
Aw thanks, not used to compliments, usually have to turn the other cheek.
I'll get my coat.
I like a wee pun "
Wish I could come up with more but I need to be set up.  |
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I don't think there is anything rude with their response at all.
Every single person deserves politeness and manners.
My profile clearly states what kind of messages I will not tolerate. However I still get tons of bland 'Nice tits' or 'Hows yous?' messages from guys who haven't bothered reading my profile- or can't.......
If my profile said I was a local bicycle park I would get it.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s people like him that spoil Fab. I’ve no idea how long my block list is with with messages similar to that.
Would a guy just walk up to someone in a pub and expect to take them home without some effort of a conversation? Just because it’s online doesn’t change how we should treat people. We should always respect others.
I did once walk up to a guy I thought was gorgeous we previously had worked in same place rather d*unk on way too much vodka so was a horny mess and at the end of the night I was like hmmmm not ready to call it a night just yet walked up to him with his group of mates at the bar and said it’s your lucky day come on get a taxi back to mine, he didn’t say no lol I was mortified in the morning when I realised how brazen I was lol one and only time hahaha "
Fantastic,I bet he remembers it like it was yesterday |
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I wonder what would have happened if you had said,"Aye, come on then , let do it"...
I feel they may shit their breeks and fumbled a response sayin,"eh, oh, can't now, or something similar"
Most can't hand a strong women with purpose...... |
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"I might come across sounding like an old out of touch fart, but I think the internet has made younger guys lazy these days. They simply don’t want to have to put any work or effort into meeting anyone. Just log on, send a quick message and bobs your uncle, fannys your auntie. It’s embarrassing and all it serves to do is fuck things up for guys who ARE actually prepared to put the effort in. "
Amen to this, speak up for those at the back that might not hear lol |
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