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Although Gina and I have been on the site for a year we've not managed to fit a meet in. We had two socials but due to work and kids never got round to the mmf we're after. But we have one planned for next month when we are out of town without kids
So my question is this. How did people feel during their first physical meet? And are there any tips and hints people could share that would help us? |
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"Although Gina and I have been on the site for a year we've not managed to fit a meet in. We had two socials but due to work and kids never got round to the mmf we're after. But we have one planned for next month when we are out of town without kids
So my question is this. How did people feel during their first physical meet? And are there any tips and hints people could share that would help us?"
It was nerve racking haha. Fantasy and bedroom chat is one thing, when it becomes reality it’s another.
Excitement, nerves, panic, adrenaline. All at once. Haha.
Best thing to do is keep an open dialogue, always communicate feelings going in, during and after.
Don’t be afraid to say ‘no that’s not for me’
But mostly. Just relax and go at your own pace
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I always like to meet fir a sociable coffee or drink somewhere then chat away see how things are going.
I have met a few couples & became good friends with them enjoying nights out together then of course back somewhere for the good time. Mrs always liked having a guy in each arm |
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Communication between all involved...
Before, during and after.
Have had a few mfm meets and the couple that didn't work were where the dynamic wasn't clear... and one where the couple obviously hadn't discussed it enough and guy wasn't comfortable but was just going along with what gf wanted.
Talk. lots.
And have a way or code for communicating "no" to your partner |
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"Communication between all involved...
Before, during and after.
Have had a few mfm meets and the couple that didn't work were where the dynamic wasn't clear... and one where the couple obviously hadn't discussed it enough and guy wasn't comfortable but was just going along with what gf wanted.
Talk. lots.
And have a way or code for communicating "no" to your partner"
One thing about Gina, if something is a no its an instant no and we will both know about it haha
We did talk about code so I would know if we needed to abort the meet. And we set down ground rules for what we were and weren't willing to do on the first meet. We have also communicated that to the guy we have lined up so he knew up front where the boundries lay. |
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Where's the other 2 ???