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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi everyone.
Ladies.... So let's say you meet up with someone and they cum within the first 2 to 3 minutes. Do you think "Wow I'm good" or are you disappointed?
Guys... Have you had to stop yourself from cumming so quick at a meet? Or do you do the, Something about Marry, technique? 
Just curious. Asking for a friend.  |
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over a year ago
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Well, as I've said before in a previous post, your average man lasts 3-5 minutes so I think alot of woman should either lower there expectations or take it as a compliment.
To answer your question tho, it's not happened to me personally but I did meet a guy once and he came less than a minute of sucking. I was a little gutted but not disappointed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well, as I've said before in a previous post, your average man lasts 3-5 minutes so I think alot of woman should either lower there expectations or take it as a compliment.
To answer your question tho, it's not happened to me personally but I did meet a guy once and he came less than a minute of sucking. I was a little gutted but not disappointed."
this guy didn't last 30secs lol .. there's plenty guys can last way longer than 5mins |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well, as I've said before in a previous post, your average man lasts 3-5 minutes so I think alot of woman should either lower there expectations or take it as a compliment.
To answer your question tho, it's not happened to me personally but I did meet a guy once and he came less than a minute of sucking. I was a little gutted but not disappointed. this guy didn't last 30secs lol .. there's plenty guys can last way longer than 5mins "
Haha well yeah 2 pumps and your done isn't ideal  yeah there is! Me personally I'd rather someone busted a huge nut early ISH than have someone last ages and not cum at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well, as I've said before in a previous post, your average man lasts 3-5 minutes so I think alot of woman should either lower there expectations or take it as a compliment.
To answer your question tho, it's not happened to me personally but I did meet a guy once and he came less than a minute of sucking. I was a little gutted but not disappointed. this guy didn't last 30secs lol .. there's plenty guys can last way longer than 5mins
Haha well yeah 2 pumps and your done isn't ideal yeah there is! Me personally I'd rather someone busted a huge nut early ISH than have someone last ages and not cum at all. "
I can't say much I know he'll see this lol.. but we didn't get down to the pumps..  unzipped and oh oh..clean up in aisle two  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well, as I've said before in a previous post, your average man lasts 3-5 minutes so I think alot of woman should either lower there expectations or take it as a compliment.
To answer your question tho, it's not happened to me personally but I did meet a guy once and he came less than a minute of sucking. I was a little gutted but not disappointed. this guy didn't last 30secs lol .. there's plenty guys can last way longer than 5mins
Haha well yeah 2 pumps and your done isn't ideal yeah there is! Me personally I'd rather someone busted a huge nut early ISH than have someone last ages and not cum at all. I can't say much I know he'll see this lol.. but we didn't get down to the pumps.. unzipped and oh oh..clean up in aisle two "
Oh no, what a shame  at least they had a good time tho right? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends, if its that frantic gotta do it right now kinda sex it's all good, we'll take round 2 slower.
I did have a guy cum in his pants during kissing once, that was kinda disappointing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends, if its that frantic gotta do it right now kinda sex it's all good, we'll take round 2 slower.
I did have a guy cum in his pants during kissing once, that was kinda disappointing. "
That must be some kissing! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Depends, if its that frantic gotta do it right now kinda sex it's all good, we'll take round 2 slower.
I did have a guy cum in his pants during kissing once, that was kinda disappointing.
That must be some kissing! "
You betcha |
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The body is a complex thing. I think if you are meeting a stranger you just accept whatever time you do get. Nobody wants to cum in under a minute but in reality guys tend not to last a hour like in porn. It can be anti climatic but no point making anyone feel bad about it. As long as he gives you a heads up though as best he can so no unexpected fire. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Depends, if its that frantic gotta do it right now kinda sex it's all good, we'll take round 2 slower.
I did have a guy cum in his pants during kissing once, that was kinda disappointing. "
Yowzers. Poor guy. He must have been so wound up! At least you can brag about your kissing skills though. Did you give him a chance to recover for round 2? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Disappointed, happened a few months ago... Poor show"
Ah that's a shame.
Speaking from my own personal experience. I have had to stop and say "let's slow down a bit for a few minutes" once. But I was coming off quite a dry spell and was very excited. But once we got going again lasted the appropriate timescale. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The body is a complex thing. I think if you are meeting a stranger you just accept whatever time you do get. Nobody wants to cum in under a minute but in reality guys tend not to last a hour like in porn. It can be anti climatic but no point making anyone feel bad about it. As long as he gives you a heads up though as best he can so no unexpected fire."
no point making anyone feel bad? A huge proportion of guys on here are only on for a quick meet, some can't live up to the chat, so for me I'd absolutely let them know it was poor show
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I had a meet once and the guy came from me giving him a massage and left as he was embarrassed.
I was disappointed that he didn’t stay and at least try to make it up to me "
Yeah that's a bit off. I can see why he would be a bit embarrassed but if you were understanding and willing to try again why wouldn't he stay? Although some guys have a very long recovery period I guess.? |
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"Well, as I've said before in a previous post, your average man lasts 3-5 minutes so I think alot of woman should either lower there expectations or take it as a compliment.
To answer your question tho, it's not happened to me personally but I did meet a guy once and he came less than a minute of sucking. I was a little gutted but not disappointed."
Listen, I have to refute this. The stallion I met with at the weekend certainly did not cum in the first 3-5 minutes. Nowhere near!
If he had, he would be blocked by now! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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This happened to me about three years ago. Only foreplay, on him and out it came, if you'll pardon the pun! He pushed me away while doing so. I felt very put out as I got nothing out of it, not even any sex. He dressed and we said good bye. I was not happy and I have not seen him again, despite his attempts at contact x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Well, as I've said before in a previous post, your average man lasts 3-5 minutes so I think alot of woman should either lower there expectations or take it as a compliment.
To answer your question tho, it's not happened to me personally but I did meet a guy once and he came less than a minute of sucking. I was a little gutted but not disappointed.
Listen, I have to refute this. The stallion I met with at the weekend certainly did not cum in the first 3-5 minutes. Nowhere near!
If he had, he would be blocked by now! "
Stallion? An Italian Stallion? Did you meet Rocky? |
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"Well, as I've said before in a previous post, your average man lasts 3-5 minutes so I think alot of woman should either lower there expectations or take it as a compliment.
To answer your question tho, it's not happened to me personally but I did meet a guy once and he came less than a minute of sucking. I was a little gutted but not disappointed.
Listen, I have to refute this. The stallion I met with at the weekend certainly did not cum in the first 3-5 minutes. Nowhere near!
If he had, he would be blocked by now!
Stallion? An Italian Stallion? Did you meet Rocky? "
He was a sexy wee Scot! |
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"Well, as I've said before in a previous post, your average man lasts 3-5 minutes so I think alot of woman should either lower there expectations or take it as a compliment.
To answer your question tho, it's not happened to me personally but I did meet a guy once and he came less than a minute of sucking. I was a little gutted but not disappointed.
Listen, I have to refute this. The stallion I met with at the weekend certainly did not cum in the first 3-5 minutes. Nowhere near!
If he had, he would be blocked by now!
Stallion? An Italian Stallion? Did you meet Rocky?
He was a sexy wee Scot! "
Guys going to be flooded with messages, winks and friend requests lol |
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"The body is a complex thing. I think if you are meeting a stranger you just accept whatever time you do get. Nobody wants to cum in under a minute but in reality guys tend not to last a hour like in porn. It can be anti climatic but no point making anyone feel bad about it. As long as he gives you a heads up though as best he can so no unexpected fire. no point making anyone feel bad? A huge proportion of guys on here are only on for a quick meet, some can't live up to the chat, so for me I'd absolutely let them know it was poor show"
Each to their own. I don't really like being a nasty person or leaving a negative impression if something like this happens because life is too short and why kick someone when they are down, but others agendas are different. I guess a site based on meeting strangers isn't for people who can't deal with the unexpected. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The body is a complex thing. I think if you are meeting a stranger you just accept whatever time you do get. Nobody wants to cum in under a minute but in reality guys tend not to last a hour like in porn. It can be anti climatic but no point making anyone feel bad about it. As long as he gives you a heads up though as best he can so no unexpected fire. no point making anyone feel bad? A huge proportion of guys on here are only on for a quick meet, some can't live up to the chat, so for me I'd absolutely let them know it was poor show
Each to their own. I don't really like being a nasty person or leaving a negative impression if something like this happens because life is too short and why kick someone when they are down, but others agendas are different. I guess a site based on meeting strangers isn't for people who can't deal with the unexpected."
thankfully I'm not nasty or negative either but "the unexpected" as you put it is a very selfish way of guys looking out for themselves.. it's only arseholes that do that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This happened to me about three years ago. Only foreplay, on him and out it came, if you'll pardon the pun! He pushed me away while doing so. I felt very put out as I got nothing out of it, not even any sex. He dressed and we said good bye. I was not happy and I have not seen him again, despite his attempts at contact x"
lol poor you, maybe same person
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I wouldn’t make someone feel bad, but I would be annoyed and disappointed. It’s not easy for me to meet, so when I do, I am expecting to enjoy myself.
I felt he was very selfish leaving and even if he takes a long time to recover, there are other ways we could have still had fun and I could have had some enjoyment. Hence why when he asked to meet again, I declined and I wouldn’t verify him |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This happened to me about three years ago. Only foreplay, on him and out it came, if you'll pardon the pun! He pushed me away while doing so. I felt very put out as I got nothing out of it, not even any sex. He dressed and we said good bye. I was not happy and I have not seen him again, despite his attempts at contact x lol poor you, maybe same person"
It is but he's been on my block list for some time now. Shame really, he was a good friend at the time lol x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This happened to me about three years ago. Only foreplay, on him and out it came, if you'll pardon the pun! He pushed me away while doing so. I felt very put out as I got nothing out of it, not even any sex. He dressed and we said good bye. I was not happy and I have not seen him again, despite his attempts at contact x lol poor you, maybe same person"
Sounds like you two have had a crappy of all crappy meets. I can't imagine being that selfish that I wouldn't spend time afterwards and try and make up for cumming too quick. But everyone is different and want what they want off the site.
Shame though. Gives us guys a bad name. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This happened to me about three years ago. Only foreplay, on him and out it came, if you'll pardon the pun! He pushed me away while doing so. I felt very put out as I got nothing out of it, not even any sex. He dressed and we said good bye. I was not happy and I have not seen him again, despite his attempts at contact x lol poor you, maybe same person
Sounds like you two have had a crappy of all crappy meets. I can't imagine being that selfish that I wouldn't spend time afterwards and try and make up for cumming too quick. But everyone is different and want what they want off the site.
Shame though. Gives us guys a bad name. "
The previous meets with him were really good. It was just this one particular time that this happened. I moved on quickly enough |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Naturally the male body wants to cum as quickly as possible when having sex with a new partner. Links to the primate drive to impregnate I’m sure.
I know it happens to guys and I’m also more than aware of how many fail to get hard during meets too which must be soul destroying.
If either happened to me, I’d delete my profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This happened to me about three years ago. Only foreplay, on him and out it came, if you'll pardon the pun! He pushed me away while doing so. I felt very put out as I got nothing out of it, not even any sex. He dressed and we said good bye. I was not happy and I have not seen him again, despite his attempts at contact x lol poor you, maybe same person
Sounds like you two have had a crappy of all crappy meets. I can't imagine being that selfish that I wouldn't spend time afterwards and try and make up for cumming too quick. But everyone is different and want what they want off the site.
Shame though. Gives us guys a bad name. "
absolutely, there's other ways to rectify things |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This happened to me about three years ago. Only foreplay, on him and out it came, if you'll pardon the pun! He pushed me away while doing so. I felt very put out as I got nothing out of it, not even any sex. He dressed and we said good bye. I was not happy and I have not seen him again, despite his attempts at contact x lol poor you, maybe same person
It is but he's been on my block list for some time now. Shame really, he was a good friend at the time lol x"
haha good mine is too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have the opposite problem with even the most beautiful women thinking they can't satisfy me and feeling bad that after a few hours of foreplay and sex I'm getting knackered and still not cum.
Trying to say "it's not you, it's me" doesn't really make them feel better.
I like a 2nd chance the morning or day after as it'll usually happen then.
I think it's a relaxation issue and I feel more comfortable with them then.
Maybe the quick guys get nervous and they need a 2nd chance too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have the opposite problem with even the most beautiful women thinking they can't satisfy me and feeling bad that after a few hours of foreplay and sex I'm getting knackered and still not cum.
Trying to say "it's not you, it's me" doesn't really make them feel better.
I like a 2nd chance the morning or day after as it'll usually happen then.
I think it's a relaxation issue and I feel more comfortable with them then.
Maybe the quick guys get nervous and they need a 2nd chance too. "
nerves is understandable, being selfish isn't |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"it's not the best as you expect a meet to last longer - especially if you dont get alot of time out to have a meet x"
Exactly. Time can be against you bit I still like a meet to last long enough that both parties (or more) have an enjoyable time and leave pleased. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Selfish or embarrassed? Who's to know the mind of men after they cum. I still don't I'm usually in a fucking trance."
selfish by getting up and leaving and not trying to please the woman, it's crappy behaviour
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Selfish or embarrassed? Who's to know the mind of men after they cum. I still don't I'm usually in a fucking trance. selfish by getting up and leaving and not trying to please the woman, it's crappy behaviour"
Could be too embarrassed to try but if that's not the case then it is selfish. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Selfish or embarrassed? Who's to know the mind of men after they cum. I still don't I'm usually in a fucking trance. selfish by getting up and leaving and not trying to please the woman, it's crappy behaviour
Could be too embarrassed to try but if that's not the case then it is selfish. "
we'll need to agree to disagree |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well, as I've said before in a previous post, your average man lasts 3-5 minutes so I think alot of woman should either lower there expectations or take it as a compliment.
To answer your question tho, it's not happened to me personally but I did meet a guy once and he came less than a minute of sucking. I was a little gutted but not disappointed.
Listen, I have to refute this. The stallion I met with at the weekend certainly did not cum in the first 3-5 minutes. Nowhere near!
If he had, he would be blocked by now! "
Refute all you want, you're stallion is not the average man it seems. Glad you had a great time tho  |
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"Well, as I've said before in a previous post, your average man lasts 3-5 minutes so I think alot of woman should either lower there expectations or take it as a compliment.
To answer your question tho, it's not happened to me personally but I did meet a guy once and he came less than a minute of sucking. I was a little gutted but not disappointed."
3 - 5 mins is the average a guy lasts??? I feel good about myself now |
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"Well, as I've said before in a previous post, your average man lasts 3-5 minutes so I think alot of woman should either lower there expectations or take it as a compliment.
To answer your question tho, it's not happened to me personally but I did meet a guy once and he came less than a minute of sucking. I was a little gutted but not disappointed.
3 - 5 mins is the average a guy lasts??? I feel good about myself now "
5 minutes in and I'm still faffing about with the bra strap.  |
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"Well, as I've said before in a previous post, your average man lasts 3-5 minutes so I think alot of woman should either lower there expectations or take it as a compliment.
To answer your question tho, it's not happened to me personally but I did meet a guy once and he came less than a minute of sucking. I was a little gutted but not disappointed. this guy didn't last 30secs lol .. there's plenty guys can last way longer than 5mins "
Poor guy, what a compliment though, he could have a least made an effort to pleasure you before zipping up and going |
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"Well, as I've said before in a previous post, your average man lasts 3-5 minutes so I think alot of woman should either lower there expectations or take it as a compliment.
To answer your question tho, it's not happened to me personally but I did meet a guy once and he came less than a minute of sucking. I was a little gutted but not disappointed.
3 - 5 mins is the average a guy lasts??? I feel good about myself now
5 minutes in and I'm still faffing about with the bra strap. "
I haven’t even unzipped my parka hood |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well, as I've said before in a previous post, your average man lasts 3-5 minutes so I think alot of woman should either lower there expectations or take it as a compliment.
To answer your question tho, it's not happened to me personally but I did meet a guy once and he came less than a minute of sucking. I was a little gutted but not disappointed.
3 - 5 mins is the average a guy lasts??? I feel good about myself now
5 minutes in and I'm still faffing about with the bra strap.
I haven’t even unzipped my parka hood "
 you. Just wait |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Actually, a question for the females that I’ve never asked before.
Thoughts on when the guy doesn’t cum during a play/ meet?
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I've had great meets with a guy who was like this went on for ages no complaints from me  we had a great fun. |
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
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"Actually, a question for the females that I’ve never asked before.
Thoughts on when the guy doesn’t cum during a play/ meet?
I've had great meets with a guy who was like this went on for ages no complaints from me we had a great fun. "
I agree with you, also had a great night in this scenario x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I can understand why a guy would be embarrassed if he came within 3-5 mins.
But to get up and leave isn't on in my book.
I enjoy meets with 2/3 and sometimes 4 rounds....
Do the woman clock watch or do they use an egg timer
What if it was like a game of chess where you start and stop the timer when it's your turn.
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Even though I stay hard and can keep going a few times... Until recently iv always hated and found it embarrassing when cum early, however current fb loves it when I cum.. no matter how quick it happens, turns her on!!
So I'm guessing more times than not it's something, that's more in the guys head |
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"Well, as I've said before in a previous post, your average man lasts 3-5 minutes so I think alot of woman should either lower there expectations or take it as a compliment.
To answer your question tho, it's not happened to me personally but I did meet a guy once and he came less than a minute of sucking. I was a little gutted but not disappointed.
3 - 5 mins is the average a guy lasts??? I feel good about myself now "
Yaaaaaaaaas 7min man ftw!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OK. I think this post had run it's course now.
No need to flex gents.
Some can go 2 3 4 rounds and others can't. "
I have to apologize, it was I who started it I think |
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"OK. I think this post had run it's course now.
No need to flex gents.
Some can go 2 3 4 rounds and others can't.
I have to apologize, it was I who started it I think "
haha getting slated for being a stud |
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"OK. I think this post had run it's course now.
No need to flex gents.
Some can go 2 3 4 rounds and others can't.
I have to apologize, it was I who started it I think "
No need to apologise. But could see it becoming a "anything you can do I can do better" kind of post. Which it wasn't intended to be. Anyone can post on here they can recover quick and go 3 or 4 times.
Anyway.... |
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"OK. I think this post had run it's course now.
No need to flex gents.
Some can go 2 3 4 rounds and others can't.
I have to apologize, it was I who started it I think haha getting slated for being a stud "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OK. I think this post had run it's course now.
No need to flex gents.
Some can go 2 3 4 rounds and others can't.
I have to apologize, it was I who started it I think
No need to apologise. But could see it becoming a "anything you can do I can do better" kind of post. Which it wasn't intended to be. Anyone can post on here they can recover quick and go 3 or 4 times.
Anyway...."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OK. I think this post had run it's course now.
No need to flex gents.
Some can go 2 3 4 rounds and others can't.
I have to apologize, it was I who started it I think haha getting slated for being a stud
My head is hung in Shame "
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