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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Anyone else have an issue with being ghosted? I've been ghosted 3 times on here... worst thing ever, if you dont want to meet just say haha. Last one few months ago, I drove for an hour and half sorted a hotel and reserved a table and drinks and was there on my tod.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah man it happens, I know the driving one was a bastard but just use it as the learning experience. You learn to spot the fakes and such like a mile off. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yeah man it happens, I know the driving one was a bastard but just use it as the learning experience. You learn to spot the fakes and such like a mile off."
Yeah definitely, we had been talking for weeks etc everything was going great got the old I'm on my way won't be long etc then boom I'm blocked haha. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Happens all the time, one of the reasons I can rarely be bothered with chit chat, meet for coffee straight away or cheerio "
Didn't think of that haha
You game? xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah man it happens, I know the driving one was a bastard but just use it as the learning experience. You learn to spot the fakes and such like a mile off.
Yeah definitely, we had been talking for weeks etc everything was going great got the old I'm on my way won't be long etc then boom I'm blocked haha. "
Just set yourself some new boundaries then. Only meet folk with half hour distance, nae fannying aboot talking for weeks.
Brief chat
Coffee/Skype to see if there's chemistry.
Introduce your genitals.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yeah man it happens, I know the driving one was a bastard but just use it as the learning experience. You learn to spot the fakes and such like a mile off.
Yeah definitely, we had been talking for weeks etc everything was going great got the old I'm on my way won't be long etc then boom I'm blocked haha.
Just set yourself some new boundaries then. Only meet folk with half hour distance, nae fannying aboot talking for weeks.
Brief chat
Coffee/Skype to see if there's chemistry.
Introduce your genitals.
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Aye thats what I'm doing from now on! Xx |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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"Anyone else have an issue with being ghosted? I've been ghosted 3 times on here... worst thing ever, if you dont want to meet just say haha. Last one few months ago, I drove for an hour and half sorted a hotel and reserved a table and drinks and was there on my tod.
It's a shit thing to happen but when you say talk , do you mean text or phone calls. ? Did you have her number .? "
People can still use a pay as you go phone for Fab, etc. No guarantees that it’s their main phone. |
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"Yeah man it happens, I know the driving one was a bastard but just use it as the learning experience. You learn to spot the fakes and such like a mile off.
Yeah definitely, we had been talking for weeks etc everything was going great got the old I'm on my way won't be long etc then boom I'm blocked haha. "
Oh it happens to us too. Even when you have their number, have spoken on the phone. Thankfully I’ve never left the house for a social … I’ve always had the spidey sense and check before I leave. It must have happened to me at least half a dozen times and people wonder why single men get a bad name. I honestly think half of them weren’t single though and they bottled it at the thought of actually meeting |
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"If they are verified more likely to be genuine.
Unverified beware "
I know that's the general rule but it's not what we have found. We've met 2 unverified guys, both turned up and were great meets.
The 1 guy with a heap of very good veris never showed up and just blanked us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's nothing.
I've been seeing someone on and off for the last 3 years.
A few weeks ago I drove all the way down to Derby, paid for a hotel and drinks. He didn't even stay all night and I've not heard from him since
That hurts
This is just strangers on the Internet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's nothing.
I've been seeing someone on and off for the last 3 years.
A few weeks ago I drove all the way down to Derby, paid for a hotel and drinks. He didn't even stay all night and I've not heard from him since
That hurts
This is just strangers on the Internet "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We always try and do a fem to fem phone call within a week and if no happy with that we just move on to thers who are happy to do so . Shit for the OP but a learning Curve people need to be more ( pellucid )  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My last 3 coffee socials on here have ghosted me. I guess the real me was a horror in reality. Has knocked my confidence and I am not even doing coffees anymore let alone the plunge on a meet |
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"That's nothing.
I've been seeing someone on and off for the last 3 years.
A few weeks ago I drove all the way down to Derby, paid for a hotel and drinks. He didn't even stay all night and I've not heard from him since
That hurts
This is just strangers on the Internet "
That’s shit x
I hear you … it’s the long term ones that hurt the most |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's nothing.
I've been seeing someone on and off for the last 3 years.
A few weeks ago I drove all the way down to Derby, paid for a hotel and drinks. He didn't even stay all night and I've not heard from him since
That hurts
This is just strangers on the Internet "
What a dick.
That is bad. |
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"That's nothing.
I've been seeing someone on and off for the last 3 years.
A few weeks ago I drove all the way down to Derby, paid for a hotel and drinks. He didn't even stay all night and I've not heard from him since
That hurts
This is just strangers on the Internet
What a dick.
That is bad."
Onwards and upwards. You deserve so much more!!  |
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