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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I perfectly understand people blocking us.
There are many reasons to block someone but why be rude about it.
I have lost count of the times we have said that we are not right for someone and they have sent expletives and derogatory comments and blocked us.
We look at it as a lucky escape.
Having said that some of the nicest people we have actually met were ones they or we said no to in the beginning. Because they showed dignity and true character in the way they or we accepted it we spoke further.
We just don't understand those who take it so personally and to be honest we are glad they block us. |
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Best to preemptively block folks you don't think you're a match with. Saves the abuse.
We've blocked many nice folks too, just that we know we're not a match with them. Helps find what were really looking for. It takes a lot of work though! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Many folk just can't handle rejection.
There's never been a instance in my life when someone has hurled abuse at me, insulted my appearance, slagged off my sexuality and called me promiscuous and I've then turned round and thought...."No whit...think I will pump you after all you silver tongue devil."
Fuck 'em....or not in this case. |
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Sadly that type of response to a polite no thanks is not uncommon on Fab.
Anyone who has been on the site for any length of time will have encountered it.
We tend to feel that we have dodged a bullet.
We also ensure that we notify all our friends on the scene are warned about the person's attitude. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Guys also get rude responses at times for no reason when a simple no or just delete the email would be fine. I guess because its because people can be rude they are at times. It's sad all to common. |
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"Best to preemptively block folks you don't think you're a match with. Saves the abuse "
Absolutely this.
Polite rejection and statement to say you will block them so there is no messages sent by you in error. Instant block straight after message is sent.
Delete and move on..
Don't even give it a second thought.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I perfectly understand people blocking us.
There are many reasons to block someone but why be rude about it.
I have lost count of the times we have said that we are not right for someone and they have sent expletives and derogatory comments and blocked us.
We look at it as a lucky escape.
Having said that some of the nicest people we have actually met were ones they or we said no to in the beginning. Because they showed dignity and true character in the way they or we accepted it we spoke further.
We just don't understand those who take it so personally and to be honest we are glad they block us."
Do you answer every polite message you receive ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I perfectly understand people blocking us.
There are many reasons to block someone but why be rude about it.
I have lost count of the times we have said that we are not right for someone and they have sent expletives and derogatory comments and blocked us.
We look at it as a lucky escape.
Having said that some of the nicest people we have actually met were ones they or we said no to in the beginning. Because they showed dignity and true character in the way they or we accepted it we spoke further.
We just don't understand those who take it so personally and to be honest we are glad they block us.
Do you answer every polite message you receive ?"
Why should they have to? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tried to reply with a polite no thanks to all messages but the abuse you get back isn’t worth it. So fuck that approach now! I just don’t reply and hope it’s taken as a gentle hint.  |
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Mmm I always write even if it’s a “no thanks” in messages…
Sorry but it takes about 5 seconds to write that and a person should get the idea…
Still continue mailing ok block them if not polite
Just my tuppence worth
C |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mmm I always write even if it’s a “no thanks” in messages…
Sorry but it takes about 5 seconds to write that and a person should get the idea…
Still continue mailing ok block them if not polite
Just my tuppence worth
C"
I simply can't be bothered a lot of the time. If that makes me rude, so be it. I can live with that. If I nip on here for a quick 5 min nosey with a cuppa, I don't want to spend those 5 mins writing "no thanks" 15 times. And yes, I know I can set my filters to block out certain folk but I haven't. Very occasionally, an unexpected message has resulted in some fun, so I keep the messages open for that. |
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"Mmm I always write even if it’s a “no thanks” in messages…
Sorry but it takes about 5 seconds to write that and a person should get the idea…
Still continue mailing ok block them if not polite
Just my tuppence worth
C
I simply can't be bothered a lot of the time. If that makes me rude, so be it. I can live with that. If I nip on here for a quick 5 min nosey with a cuppa, I don't want to spend those 5 mins writing "no thanks" 15 times. And yes, I know I can set my filters to block out certain folk but I haven't. Very occasionally, an unexpected message has resulted in some fun, so I keep the messages open for that. "
Ok I sent a wink and didn’t get a response so assumed no interest, that’s why I didn’t send a message ??
Point is if someone takes the trouble to mail with a polite message a polite response shouldn’t be an issue?
Anyways no need to get into an argument as I see your side as well Miss Muff ???? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mmm I always write even if it’s a “no thanks” in messages…
Sorry but it takes about 5 seconds to write that and a person should get the idea…
Still continue mailing ok block them if not polite
Just my tuppence worth
C"
if it's clear they haven't read profile, I'll delete |
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"Mmm I always write even if it’s a “no thanks” in messages…
Sorry but it takes about 5 seconds to write that and a person should get the idea…
Still continue mailing ok block them if not polite
Just my tuppence worth
C
I simply can't be bothered a lot of the time. If that makes me rude, so be it. I can live with that. If I nip on here for a quick 5 min nosey with a cuppa, I don't want to spend those 5 mins writing "no thanks" 15 times. And yes, I know I can set my filters to block out certain folk but I haven't. Very occasionally, an unexpected message has resulted in some fun, so I keep the messages open for that. "
Exactly this I'd rather use my time chatting to those I'm interested in than wasting time replying to people I'm not   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I reply with a polite no thanks. It only takes a second to reply to someone. The only time I won't reply is if a guy has sent me a crude first message, then they just get an instant block x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mmm I always write even if it’s a “no thanks” in messages…
Sorry but it takes about 5 seconds to write that and a person should get the idea…
Still continue mailing ok block them if not polite
Just my tuppence worth
C
I simply can't be bothered a lot of the time. If that makes me rude, so be it. I can live with that. If I nip on here for a quick 5 min nosey with a cuppa, I don't want to spend those 5 mins writing "no thanks" 15 times. And yes, I know I can set my filters to block out certain folk but I haven't. Very occasionally, an unexpected message has resulted in some fun, so I keep the messages open for that.
Ok I sent a wink and didn’t get a response so assumed no interest, that’s why I didn’t send a message ??
Point is if someone takes the trouble to mail with a polite message a polite response shouldn’t be an issue?
Anyways no need to get into an argument as I see your side as well Miss Muff ????"
It's not an issue. I simply can't be fucking bothered. No argument here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I perfectly understand people blocking us.
There are many reasons to block someone but why be rude about it.
I have lost count of the times we have said that we are not right for someone and they have sent expletives and derogatory comments and blocked us.
We look at it as a lucky escape.
Having said that some of the nicest people we have actually met were ones they or we said no to in the beginning. Because they showed dignity and true character in the way they or we accepted it we spoke further.
We just don't understand those who take it so personally and to be honest we are glad they block us.
Do you answer every polite message you receive ?
Why should they have to?"
Because the thread is about being rude, you yourself agree it's being rude to ignore a polite message so my point is just highlighting hypocrisy.
As said to by NMD, if you have no interest in ever meeting the messager then as already said , it takes less than 5 seconds to send a copy n paste no thx message then block the person to prevent abuse or repeat messages. Will maintain my stance , it is simply rude cnuts that ignore any polite message.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I perfectly understand people blocking us.
There are many reasons to block someone but why be rude about it.
I have lost count of the times we have said that we are not right for someone and they have sent expletives and derogatory comments and blocked us.
We look at it as a lucky escape.
Having said that some of the nicest people we have actually met were ones they or we said no to in the beginning. Because they showed dignity and true character in the way they or we accepted it we spoke further.
We just don't understand those who take it so personally and to be honest we are glad they block us.
Do you answer every polite message you receive ?
Why should they have to?
Because the thread is about being rude, you yourself agree it's being rude to ignore a polite message so my point is just highlighting hypocrisy.
As said to by NMD, if you have no interest in ever meeting the messager then as already said , it takes less than 5 seconds to send a copy n paste no thx message then block the person to prevent abuse or repeat messages. Will maintain my stance , it is simply rude cnuts that ignore any polite message. "
Okey doke.
Not only am I rude. But I'm also a cunt.
....await to update my bio
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I perfectly understand people blocking us.
There are many reasons to block someone but why be rude about it.
I have lost count of the times we have said that we are not right for someone and they have sent expletives and derogatory comments and blocked us.
We look at it as a lucky escape.
Having said that some of the nicest people we have actually met were ones they or we said no to in the beginning. Because they showed dignity and true character in the way they or we accepted it we spoke further.
We just don't understand those who take it so personally and to be honest we are glad they block us.
Do you answer every polite message you receive ?
Why should they have to?
Because the thread is about being rude, you yourself agree it's being rude to ignore a polite message so my point is just highlighting hypocrisy.
As said to by NMD, if you have no interest in ever meeting the messager then as already said , it takes less than 5 seconds to send a copy n paste no thx message then block the person to prevent abuse or repeat messages. Will maintain my stance , it is simply rude cnuts that ignore any polite message.
Okey doke.
Not only am I rude. But I'm also a cunt.
....await to update my bio
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Let’s start a cunt club? For I am one tiny little cunt for not replying to 75% of my messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I perfectly understand people blocking us.
There are many reasons to block someone but why be rude about it.
I have lost count of the times we have said that we are not right for someone and they have sent expletives and derogatory comments and blocked us.
We look at it as a lucky escape.
Having said that some of the nicest people we have actually met were ones they or we said no to in the beginning. Because they showed dignity and true character in the way they or we accepted it we spoke further.
We just don't understand those who take it so personally and to be honest we are glad they block us.
Do you answer every polite message you receive ?
Why should they have to?
Because the thread is about being rude, you yourself agree it's being rude to ignore a polite message so my point is just highlighting hypocrisy.
As said to by NMD, if you have no interest in ever meeting the messager then as already said , it takes less than 5 seconds to send a copy n paste no thx message then block the person to prevent abuse or repeat messages. Will maintain my stance , it is simply rude cnuts that ignore any polite message.
Okey doke.
Not only am I rude. But I'm also a cunt.
....await to update my bio
Let’s start a cunt club? For I am one tiny little cunt for not replying to 75% of my messages. "
If I get a badge I'm in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I perfectly understand people blocking us.
There are many reasons to block someone but why be rude about it.
I have lost count of the times we have said that we are not right for someone and they have sent expletives and derogatory comments and blocked us.
We look at it as a lucky escape.
Having said that some of the nicest people we have actually met were ones they or we said no to in the beginning. Because they showed dignity and true character in the way they or we accepted it we spoke further.
We just don't understand those who take it so personally and to be honest we are glad they block us.
Do you answer every polite message you receive ?
Why should they have to?
Because the thread is about being rude, you yourself agree it's being rude to ignore a polite message so my point is just highlighting hypocrisy.
As said to by NMD, if you have no interest in ever meeting the messager then as already said , it takes less than 5 seconds to send a copy n paste no thx message then block the person to prevent abuse or repeat messages. Will maintain my stance , it is simply rude cnuts that ignore any polite message.
Okey doke.
Not only am I rude. But I'm also a cunt.
....await to update my bio
Let’s start a cunt club? For I am one tiny little cunt for not replying to 75% of my messages.
If I get a badge I'm in "
I’ll make us cunt badges. Like blue Peter ones for pervs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I perfectly understand people blocking us.
There are many reasons to block someone but why be rude about it.
I have lost count of the times we have said that we are not right for someone and they have sent expletives and derogatory comments and blocked us.
We look at it as a lucky escape.
Having said that some of the nicest people we have actually met were ones they or we said no to in the beginning. Because they showed dignity and true character in the way they or we accepted it we spoke further.
We just don't understand those who take it so personally and to be honest we are glad they block us.
Do you answer every polite message you receive ?
Why should they have to?
Because the thread is about being rude, you yourself agree it's being rude to ignore a polite message so my point is just highlighting hypocrisy.
As said to by NMD, if you have no interest in ever meeting the messager then as already said , it takes less than 5 seconds to send a copy n paste no thx message then block the person to prevent abuse or repeat messages. Will maintain my stance , it is simply rude cnuts that ignore any polite message.
Okey doke.
Not only am I rude. But I'm also a cunt.
....await to update my bio
Let’s start a cunt club? For I am one tiny little cunt for not replying to 75% of my messages.
If I get a badge I'm in "
You want a second badge ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Prob a blessing in disguise getting blocked by a percentage of accounts lol . Couldn’t care less anyway
That's cause you're a happy go lucky cunt "
haha guilty as charged muffer lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I perfectly understand people blocking us.
There are many reasons to block someone but why be rude about it.
I have lost count of the times we have said that we are not right for someone and they have sent expletives and derogatory comments and blocked us.
We look at it as a lucky escape.
Having said that some of the nicest people we have actually met were ones they or we said no to in the beginning. Because they showed dignity and true character in the way they or we accepted it we spoke further.
We just don't understand those who take it so personally and to be honest we are glad they block us.
Do you answer every polite message you receive ?
Why should they have to?
Because the thread is about being rude, you yourself agree it's being rude to ignore a polite message so my point is just highlighting hypocrisy.
As said to by NMD, if you have no interest in ever meeting the messager then as already said , it takes less than 5 seconds to send a copy n paste no thx message then block the person to prevent abuse or repeat messages. Will maintain my stance , it is simply rude cnuts that ignore any polite message.
Okey doke.
Not only am I rude. But I'm also a cunt.
....await to update my bio
Let’s start a cunt club? For I am one tiny little cunt for not replying to 75% of my messages.
If I get a badge I'm in
You want a second badge ? "
I want a gold one...if you're asking....I'll even say please. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I perfectly understand people blocking us.
There are many reasons to block someone but why be rude about it.
I have lost count of the times we have said that we are not right for someone and they have sent expletives and derogatory comments and blocked us.
We look at it as a lucky escape.
Having said that some of the nicest people we have actually met were ones they or we said no to in the beginning. Because they showed dignity and true character in the way they or we accepted it we spoke further.
We just don't understand those who take it so personally and to be honest we are glad they block us."
Unfortunately it's human nature. These sites attract an assorted bunch and Unfortunately they're here for the wrong reason judging by what most and my wife have experienced they're here to stay. But thankfully most cab spot them or they give themselves away. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I perfectly understand people blocking us.
There are many reasons to block someone but why be rude about it.
I have lost count of the times we have said that we are not right for someone and they have sent expletives and derogatory comments and blocked us.
We look at it as a lucky escape.
Having said that some of the nicest people we have actually met were ones they or we said no to in the beginning. Because they showed dignity and true character in the way they or we accepted it we spoke further.
We just don't understand those who take it so personally and to be honest we are glad they block us.
Do you answer every polite message you receive ?"
We don't get that many messages so yes, we do answer everyone. If people take the time to send us a message then it is only polite to reply.
To us, the written word says far more than photos |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I perfectly understand people blocking us.
There are many reasons to block someone but why be rude about it.
I have lost count of the times we have said that we are not right for someone and they have sent expletives and derogatory comments and blocked us.
We look at it as a lucky escape.
Having said that some of the nicest people we have actually met were ones they or we said no to in the beginning. Because they showed dignity and true character in the way they or we accepted it we spoke further.
We just don't understand those who take it so personally and to be honest we are glad they block us.
Do you answer every polite message you receive ?
We don't get that many messages so yes, we do answer everyone. If people take the time to send us a message then it is only polite to reply.
To us, the written word says far more than photos"
Good to hear , not like some of the riff raff lot above you ^^^^^.
In that case just block the fuds that can't take a knock back and be happy knowing what fuds they are. |
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