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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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ive got a partner who has shown an interest in swinging but always bottles out of it. we've had a ffm with a close friend and had some same room fun with other friends, but we dont want to keep doing it with friends incase we scare them off lol
we set up a profile on here last week then she deleted it as she says she doesnt like the idea of it all being arranged, she wants it just to happen.
so im wondering do i set something up or give her time to discover wether she wants to do it or no. im just fed up with doing it with friends xx |
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"ive got a partner who has shown an interest in swinging but always bottles out of it. we've had a ffm with a close friend and had some same room fun with other friends, but we dont want to keep doing it with friends incase we scare them off lol
we set up a profile on here last week then she deleted it as she says she doesnt like the idea of it all being arranged, she wants it just to happen.
so im wondering do i set something up or give her time to discover wether she wants to do it or no. im just fed up with doing it with friends xx"
i would doubt most people would feel comfy in this senario meeting a couple where the female isnt 100% sure....
i know we would certainly run a mile....
try a club thats my advice....let her see the scene..... |
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over a year ago
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your right when she looked at profiles she thought people had to much experience lol she was looking for a young couple like ourselves
the only thing with clubs is if its full of guys it might put her off altogether |
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"your right when she looked at profiles she thought people had to much experience lol she was looking for a young couple like ourselves
the only thing with clubs is if its full of guys it might put her off altogether "
aberdeen club doesnt allow guys
and cj's has a limit on guys...
certainly the best way for her to see whats what....and she doesnt have to play |
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