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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What’s everyone’s thoughts on speaking to other fabbers if you meet them in everyday life
For example if you only know a person from parties or clubs and you see them in Morrisons (other supermarkets are available) with their family, would you say hello to them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends how well I know them, if I recognised someone I wasn’t too familiar with I’d never compromise their privacy especially if they were with family or friends I don’t know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All depends on the connection you have. If you are friendly with them then I’m sure a hello wouldn’t go a miss, if you have seen them at a social or club from across the room then stopping them in Asda is a bit creepy.
Too many variables at play to answer the question directly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I would acknowledge them the same way I do when I see a client- a smile, a nod, if they say hello I'd reply, nothing more, a complete separation from family life. Unless we're friends away from Fab (i.e I know them well enough for them to know my phone number and real name) I may stop and exchange pleasantries.
I would never acknowledge recognising someone on Fab I'd never spoken to either. I'm a big believer in firm boundaries between Fab and "real" life |
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This is all hypothetical situation _ased. Every time it would be different.
Good respectful judgement is required. i.e. dinnay be a creepy greasy man & dinnay be a dick about it either...
But if they have pineapple upside doon in the shopping trolley and so do you, have a sneaky blether  |
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"What’s everyone’s thoughts on speaking to other fabbers if you meet them in everyday life
For example if you only know a person from parties or clubs and you see them in Morrisons (other supermarkets are available) with their family, would you say hello to them? "
Depending on how well I know them I think a nod would be ok |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Unless they had their family with them when you met at CJs or wherever(which would be more than a little weird) then no.
This has/does happen  "
Well, as long as your Gran had a good time, who am I to sit in judgement.
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"Unless they had their family with them when you met at CJs or wherever(which would be more than a little weird) then no.
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This did happen at Violate when it was open in Glasgow . There was a Mum, Dad & Daughter there , daughter would have been around 30 at the time . The dad was bent over a trellis table ass in the air - leather kilt lifter up over his back and hands tied to the table - Mum was smacking the fuck out his arse with a variety of paddles and crops - the daughter about 10’ was on a throne type chair scantly clad having nipples clamps and restraints attached - what is it they say a family that play together - stay together  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Unless they had their family with them when you met at CJs or wherever(which would be more than a little weird) then no.
This did happen at Violate when it was open in Glasgow . There was a Mum, Dad & Daughter there , daughter would have been around 30 at the time . The dad was bent over a trellis table ass in the air - leather kilt lifter up over his back and hands tied to the table - Mum was smacking the fuck out his arse with a variety of paddles and crops - the daughter about 10’ was on a throne type chair scantly clad having nipples clamps and restraints attached - what is it they say a family that play together - stay together "
I honestly find that extremely disturbing! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Unless they had their family with them when you met at CJs or wherever(which would be more than a little weird) then no.
This did happen at Violate when it was open in Glasgow . There was a Mum, Dad & Daughter there , daughter would have been around 30 at the time . The dad was bent over a trellis table ass in the air - leather kilt lifter up over his back and hands tied to the table - Mum was smacking the fuck out his arse with a variety of paddles and crops - the daughter about 10’ was on a throne type chair scantly clad having nipples clamps and restraints attached - what is it they say a family that play together - stay together "
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"Unless they had their family with them when you met at CJs or wherever(which would be more than a little weird) then no.
This did happen at Violate when it was open in Glasgow . There was a Mum, Dad & Daughter there , daughter would have been around 30 at the time . The dad was bent over a trellis table ass in the air - leather kilt lifter up over his back and hands tied to the table - Mum was smacking the fuck out his arse with a variety of paddles and crops - the daughter about 10’ was on a throne type chair scantly clad having nipples clamps and restraints attached - what is it they say a family that play together - stay together
I honestly find that extremely disturbing! "
It personally found it uncomfortable knowing what the family dynamics were . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I probably wouldn't say hi, if both alone may give a little smile but not in public. I think fab life should be kept separate "
Even if our eyes meet over the pineapples? lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I probably wouldn't say hi, if both alone may give a little smile but not in public. I think fab life should be kept separate
Even if our eyes meet over the pineapples? lol"
Haha if there is a pineapple its a different story lol |
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What happens in fab stays in fab, never cross your swinging life with your regular life, it maybe a little rude to ignore someone you previously met but I think it should kind of be an unspoken rule |
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Recently had someone approach in a joint kitchen shared by my work and theirs when it was just us two and they said “I believe we have mutual friends of c & m”
It took me a couple of beats but realised what they meant and I appreciated the discreet way they broached the topic as they left it in my court to acknowledge or deny (even if out of embarrassment, should I choose)
They had spotted my lanyard which has a pic and that’s how they recognised me.
But referring to OP post- if they’re Witt family definitely no. If on their own and you know them well enough, you can at least say hi.
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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I’d never approach anyone if they were with someone. I have had people message me to say they’ve seen me in Tesco. I have also bumped into good Fab friends in the street and stoped for a chat.
Discretion has to be observed and every situation is different. |
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"I’d never approach anyone if they were with someone. I have had people message me to say they’ve seen me in Tesco. I have also bumped into good Fab friends in the street and stoped for a chat.
Discretion has to be observed and every situation is different. "
Here endith the lesson.
Soz. Been watching Midnight Mass on Netflix |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’d never approach anyone if they were with someone. I have had people message me to say they’ve seen me in Tesco. I have also bumped into good Fab friends in the street and stoped for a chat.
Discretion has to be observed and every situation is different.
Here endith the lesson.
Soz. Been watching Midnight Mass on Netflix "
Amen |
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By *aseMan
over a year ago
Gourock |
I've had 2 different ladies in my cab,That are on here & they don't know i know lol,One's a right snooty git ! Aye nae bother hen,I've seen your pics! Gangbanged etc...I just smile.my lips are sealed lol |
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"If we knew them pretty well then yes we’d stop and talk. We can manage to hold a conversation in public without mentioning swinging.
If it’s someone we’d seen in passing on fab, not a chance ! "
I agree with this, it’s dependent on how well you know the person / people and the circumstances of where / when you meet them.
Discretion though about the swinging
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