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"Not sure why you are on a swingers site then. Might have better luck on a dating app?
Jigs xx"
The guys no proposing marriage .. alot of folk on here do dinner , lunch ,drinks meets .. just because he is doesnae mean he's looking for a relationship ! .. bit harsh a statement alot of folk find themselves on here for alot of different experiences, no need to dismiss his . |
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"Not sure why you are on a swingers site then. Might have better luck on a dating app?
Jigs xx
The guys no proposing marriage .. alot of folk on here do dinner , lunch ,drinks meets .. just because he is doesnae mean he's looking for a relationship ! .. bit harsh a statement alot of folk find themselves on here for alot of different experiences, no need to dismiss his . "
I don't think it was dismissive, at all. Whether we like it, or not, this is a swingers website. It is for people who want to swing. The dictionary definition of 'swinger' is the following... 'a person who takes part in group sex or exchanging sexual partners'.
It's not dismissive to suggest, if someone isn't having much luck on a site designed for multiple sexual partners, that they try a more conventional dating site. Especially since they seem to be requesting, for all intents and purposes, a date; I think it was pretty sound advice xx |
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"Not sure why you are on a swingers site then. Might have better luck on a dating app?
Jigs xx
The guys no proposing marriage .. alot of folk on here do dinner , lunch ,drinks meets .. just because he is doesnae mean he's looking for a relationship ! .. bit harsh a statement alot of folk find themselves on here for alot of different experiences, no need to dismiss his .
I don't think it was dismissive, at all. Whether we like it, or not, this is a swingers website. It is for people who want to swing. The dictionary definition of 'swinger' is the following... 'a person who takes part in group sex or exchanging sexual partners'.
It's not dismissive to suggest, if someone isn't having much luck on a site designed for multiple sexual partners, that they try a more conventional dating site. Especially since they seem to be requesting, for all intents and purposes, a date; I think it was pretty sound advice xx"
All the OP stated was he was looking for a hot lady to take out and spend passion on their body .. he doeanae say its for dating or how he wants to spend his time with that lady , he doesn't mention dating or the fact he's even looking to date .. so by my reckoning why shouldn't he be on a swinging site and confined to a dating site instead .. everyone's on here for their own reasons and looking to get some needs met or fantasies fulfilled.. the sentiment behind "not sure why your on a swinging site might have more luck on a dating app "in my opinion is dismissive , for some folk dating apps aren't for them and to suggest someone should be on them rather than on here is dismissive |
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"Not sure why you are on a swingers site then. Might have better luck on a dating app?
Jigs xx
The guys no proposing marriage .. alot of folk on here do dinner , lunch ,drinks meets .. just because he is doesnae mean he's looking for a relationship ! .. bit harsh a statement alot of folk find themselves on here for alot of different experiences, no need to dismiss his .
I don't think it was dismissive, at all. Whether we like it, or not, this is a swingers website. It is for people who want to swing. The dictionary definition of 'swinger' is the following... 'a person who takes part in group sex or exchanging sexual partners'.
It's not dismissive to suggest, if someone isn't having much luck on a site designed for multiple sexual partners, that they try a more conventional dating site. Especially since they seem to be requesting, for all intents and purposes, a date; I think it was pretty sound advice xx
All the OP stated was he was looking for a hot lady to take out and spend passion on their body .. he doeanae say its for dating or how he wants to spend his time with that lady , he doesn't mention dating or the fact he's even looking to date .. so by my reckoning why shouldn't he be on a swinging site and confined to a dating site instead .. everyone's on here for their own reasons and looking to get some needs met or fantasies fulfilled.. the sentiment behind "not sure why your on a swinging site might have more luck on a dating app "in my opinion is dismissive , for some folk dating apps aren't for them and to suggest someone should be on them rather than on here is dismissive "
Yep people are on fab for all sorts of reasons and looking for all sorts of interaction. Think the days of swinging being two couples swapping partners is gone, at least in fab terms. My motto is if they aren't harming anyone, let it be |
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"Not sure why you are on a swingers site then. Might have better luck on a dating app?
Jigs xx
The guys no proposing marriage .. alot of folk on here do dinner , lunch ,drinks meets .. just because he is doesnae mean he's looking for a relationship ! .. bit harsh a statement alot of folk find themselves on here for alot of different experiences, no need to dismiss his .
I don't think it was dismissive, at all. Whether we like it, or not, this is a swingers website. It is for people who want to swing. The dictionary definition of 'swinger' is the following... 'a person who takes part in group sex or exchanging sexual partners'.
It's not dismissive to suggest, if someone isn't having much luck on a site designed for multiple sexual partners, that they try a more conventional dating site. Especially since they seem to be requesting, for all intents and purposes, a date; I think it was pretty sound advice xx
All the OP stated was he was looking for a hot lady to take out and spend passion on their body .. he doeanae say its for dating or how he wants to spend his time with that lady , he doesn't mention dating or the fact he's even looking to date .. so by my reckoning why shouldn't he be on a swinging site and confined to a dating site instead .. everyone's on here for their own reasons and looking to get some needs met or fantasies fulfilled.. the sentiment behind "not sure why your on a swinging site might have more luck on a dating app "in my opinion is dismissive , for some folk dating apps aren't for them and to suggest someone should be on them rather than on here is dismissive
Yep people are on fab for all sorts of reasons and looking for all sorts of interaction. Think the days of swinging being two couples swapping partners is gone, at least in fab terms. My motto is if they aren't harming anyone, let it be"
Totally agree.. different strokes for different folks .. the site I'd say the majority is single users and alot of them are single males . It's hard enough for guys on here due to the volume of guys active on the site but to say they don't belong .. this place should be Liberal for all regardless of status  |
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"Not sure why you are on a swingers site then. Might have better luck on a dating app?
Jigs xx
The guys no proposing marriage .. alot of folk on here do dinner , lunch ,drinks meets .. just because he is doesnae mean he's looking for a relationship ! .. bit harsh a statement alot of folk find themselves on here for alot of different experiences, no need to dismiss his . "
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"Not sure why you are on a swingers site then. Might have better luck on a dating app?
Jigs xx
The guys no proposing marriage .. alot of folk on here do dinner , welllunch ,drinks meets .. just because he is doesnae mean he's looking for a relationship ! .. bit harsh a statement alot of folk find themselves on here for alot of different experiences, no need to dismiss his . "
well put some very narrow minded people on here,so far up there own arse they can't see properly |
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"Not sure why you are on a swingers site then. Might have better luck on a dating app?
Jigs xx
The guys no proposing marriage .. alot of folk on here do dinner , welllunch ,drinks meets .. just because he is doesnae mean he's looking for a relationship ! .. bit harsh a statement alot of folk find themselves on here for alot of different experiences, no need to dismiss his . well put some very narrow minded people on here,so far up there own arse they can't see properly"
Jesus, calm down! It was a suggestion! The lassie simply suggested to try a dating site. Not a single one of you know this girl, know how amazing she is or know the first thing about her. She's the last person you could accuse of being up her own arse!! |
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By *tagnMrsCouple
over a year ago
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"Not sure why you are on a swingers site then. Might have better luck on a dating app?
Jigs xx
The guys no proposing marriage .. alot of folk on here do dinner , lunch ,drinks meets .. just because he is doesnae mean he's looking for a relationship ! .. bit harsh a statement alot of folk find themselves on here for alot of different experiences, no need to dismiss his .
I don't think it was dismissive, at all. Whether we like it, or not, this is a swingers website. It is for people who want to swing. The dictionary definition of 'swinger' is the following... 'a person who takes part in group sex or exchanging sexual partners'.
It's not dismissive to suggest, if someone isn't having much luck on a site designed for multiple sexual partners, that they try a more conventional dating site. Especially since they seem to be requesting, for all intents and purposes, a date; I think it was pretty sound advice xx
All the OP stated was he was looking for a hot lady to take out and spend passion on their body .. he doeanae say its for dating or how he wants to spend his time with that lady , he doesn't mention dating or the fact he's even looking to date .. so by my reckoning why shouldn't he be on a swinging site and confined to a dating site instead .. everyone's on here for their own reasons and looking to get some needs met or fantasies fulfilled.. the sentiment behind "not sure why your on a swinging site might have more luck on a dating app "in my opinion is dismissive , for some folk dating apps aren't for them and to suggest someone should be on them rather than on here is dismissive
Yep people are on fab for all sorts of reasons and looking for all sorts of interaction. Think the days of swinging being two couples swapping partners is gone, at least in fab terms. My motto is if they aren't harming anyone, let it be
Totally agree.. different strokes for different folks .. the site I'd say the majority is single users and alot of them are single males . It's hard enough for guys on here due to the volume of guys active on the site but to say they don't belong .. this place should be Liberal for all regardless of status "
Well that would be fine if fab was just a hook-up site which is what a lot (not all) of single guys treat it like, but it isn't. It's a place for swingers (single and coupled) to meet like minded people. The site is overloaded with guys who are disrespectful of more often than not, husbands or a couples arrangements. The number of times single guys assume I'm a cuck and immediately start with their macho "bull" shit or ask Mrs to break the rules that we set out as a couple is actually ridiculous.
Mrs has also had a number of single "swingers" getting jealous and pissed off when she has a meet with another guy that isn't them. Which goes to show that this isn't the site they should be on. So for someone to assume that the OP could be looking for a date, which is what it sounded like, isn't exactly a stretch. This isn't a dating site and treating it like it is just encourages more guys (mostly) from actual dating sites to come and basically harass actual swingers because they figure it's an easy way to get their end away because we're more open about sex. |
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"Not sure why you are on a swingers site then. Might have better luck on a dating app?
Jigs xx
The guys no proposing marriage .. alot of folk on here do dinner , lunch ,drinks meets .. just because he is doesnae mean he's looking for a relationship ! .. bit harsh a statement alot of folk find themselves on here for alot of different experiences, no need to dismiss his . "
Well said |
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"Not sure why you are on a swingers site then. Might have better luck on a dating app?
Jigs xx
The guys no proposing marriage .. alot of folk on here do dinner , lunch ,drinks meets .. just because he is doesnae mean he's looking for a relationship ! .. bit harsh a statement alot of folk find themselves on here for alot of different experiences, no need to dismiss his .
I don't think it was dismissive, at all. Whether we like it, or not, this is a swingers website. It is for people who want to swing. The dictionary definition of 'swinger' is the following... 'a person who takes part in group sex or exchanging sexual partners'.
It's not dismissive to suggest, if someone isn't having much luck on a site designed for multiple sexual partners, that they try a more conventional dating site. Especially since they seem to be requesting, for all intents and purposes, a date; I think it was pretty sound advice xx
All the OP stated was he was looking for a hot lady to take out and spend passion on their body .. he doeanae say its for dating or how he wants to spend his time with that lady , he doesn't mention dating or the fact he's even looking to date .. so by my reckoning why shouldn't he be on a swinging site and confined to a dating site instead .. everyone's on here for their own reasons and looking to get some needs met or fantasies fulfilled.. the sentiment behind "not sure why your on a swinging site might have more luck on a dating app "in my opinion is dismissive , for some folk dating apps aren't for them and to suggest someone should be on them rather than on here is dismissive
Yep people are on fab for all sorts of reasons and looking for all sorts of interaction. Think the days of swinging being two couples swapping partners is gone, at least in fab terms. My motto is if they aren't harming anyone, let it be
Totally agree.. different strokes for different folks .. the site I'd say the majority is single users and alot of them are single males . It's hard enough for guys on here due to the volume of guys active on the site but to say they don't belong .. this place should be Liberal for all regardless of status
Well that would be fine if fab was just a hook-up site which is what a lot (not all) of single guys treat it like, but it isn't. It's a place for swingers (single and coupled) to meet like minded people. The site is overloaded with guys who are disrespectful of more often than not, husbands or a couples arrangements. The number of times single guys assume I'm a cuck and immediately start with their macho "bull" shit or ask Mrs to break the rules that we set out as a couple is actually ridiculous.
Mrs has also had a number of single "swingers" getting jealous and pissed off when she has a meet with another guy that isn't them. Which goes to show that this isn't the site they should be on. So for someone to assume that the OP could be looking for a date, which is what it sounded like, isn't exactly a stretch. This isn't a dating site and treating it like it is just encourages more guys (mostly) from actual dating sites to come and basically harass actual swingers because they figure it's an easy way to get their end away because we're more open about sex."
Totally agree with this |
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I have met people for nights out and drinks. I actually prefer nights like that. They sometimes end with more and sometimes they don’t. I also have guys on fab who are purely my mates who I’d also do this with. Yes fab isn’t a dating site but fab is whatever you want it to be. Am I a swinger? Yes, sometimes. I enjoy clubs and meeting couples. Am I into dating? Yes and no. Every “meet” can differ. Good luck op!  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"and just give so much passion to her body"
This has been an interesting thread to read with the various levels of opinion. We all see things differently and it’s a good thing, debate and discussion is how we can learn from each other.
However, it’s the use of the word ‘body’ that concerns me, sounds a wee bit Fred West that does 
In all seriousness OP, I’m just poking fun. I’ve met women on fab who just want an old fashioned seeing to but then again I’ve met ones who don’t have time for a partner so seek the affectionate and passionate sex from their fab meets. So with that, I’d say you’re on the right site, just with a more focused goal. Happy searching chum |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not sure why you are on a swingers site then. Might have better luck on a dating app?
Jigs xx
The guys no proposing marriage .. alot of folk on here do dinner , lunch ,drinks meets .. just because he is doesnae mean he's looking for a relationship ! .. bit harsh a statement alot of folk find themselves on here for alot of different experiences, no need to dismiss his .
I don't think it was dismissive, at all. Whether we like it, or not, this is a swingers website. It is for people who want to swing. The dictionary definition of 'swinger' is the following... 'a person who takes part in group sex or exchanging sexual partners'.
It's not dismissive to suggest, if someone isn't having much luck on a site designed for multiple sexual partners, that they try a more conventional dating site. Especially since they seem to be requesting, for all intents and purposes, a date; I think it was pretty sound advice xx
All the OP stated was he was looking for a hot lady to take out and spend passion on their body .. he doeanae say its for dating or how he wants to spend his time with that lady , he doesn't mention dating or the fact he's even looking to date .. so by my reckoning why shouldn't he be on a swinging site and confined to a dating site instead .. everyone's on here for their own reasons and looking to get some needs met or fantasies fulfilled.. the sentiment behind "not sure why your on a swinging site might have more luck on a dating app "in my opinion is dismissive , for some folk dating apps aren't for them and to suggest someone should be on them rather than on here is dismissive
Yep people are on fab for all sorts of reasons and looking for all sorts of interaction. Think the days of swinging being two couples swapping partners is gone, at least in fab terms. My motto is if they aren't harming anyone, let it be
Totally agree.. different strokes for different folks .. the site I'd say the majority is single users and alot of them are single males . It's hard enough for guys on here due to the volume of guys active on the site but to say they don't belong .. this place should be Liberal for all regardless of status
Well that would be fine if fab was just a hook-up site which is what a lot (not all) of single guys treat it like, but it isn't. It's a place for swingers (single and coupled) to meet like minded people. The site is overloaded with guys who are disrespectful of more often than not, husbands or a couples arrangements. The number of times single guys assume I'm a cuck and immediately start with their macho "bull" shit or ask Mrs to break the rules that we set out as a couple is actually ridiculous.
Mrs has also had a number of single "swingers" getting jealous and pissed off when she has a meet with another guy that isn't them. Which goes to show that this isn't the site they should be on. So for someone to assume that the OP could be looking for a date, which is what it sounded like, isn't exactly a stretch. This isn't a dating site and treating it like it is just encourages more guys (mostly) from actual dating sites to come and basically harass actual swingers because they figure it's an easy way to get their end away because we're more open about sex."
Bit of a sweeping generalisation towards single men . Suggest to me its more to do with who you are interacting with .. I know of plenty of single men on here who do well and are nothing but respectful towards any individual and couple they meet .. single guys get such a raw end of the deal on here .. what about single females as I've know some pretty pyschotic ones in my 11 years being on the site.. even had one send guy to my home for a 3sum that was never to take place basically trying to give me fear.. all because I bowed out of a 3sum with her and a guy because she sat under a table crying because I the other female got attention .. have also known a female who actively went out her way to split a couple up .. the list is endless .. but nothing much gets said about them .. but woe be tide a guy was to do that .. the scales seems unfairly balanced when it comes to single men on here and always have been in the 11 years being on this site .. I find it shocking the way single guys are treated and spoken to on here .. they aren't the enemy .. they're just looking for fun in which ever form that may be . .. the OP didn't state anywhere on that one sentence he posted he was looking for a date .. he was looking to take someone out .. and going by that theory what about coffee meets , social meets , lunch and dinner meets surely that would fall under the same umbrella. |
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"Not sure why you are on a swingers site then. Might have better luck on a dating app?
Jigs xx
The guys no proposing marriage .. alot of folk on here do dinner , welllunch ,drinks meets .. just because he is doesnae mean he's looking for a relationship ! .. bit harsh a statement alot of folk find themselves on here for alot of different experiences, no need to dismiss his . well put some very narrow minded people on here,so far up there own arse they can't see properly
Jesus, calm down! It was a suggestion! The lassie simply suggested to try a dating site. Not a single one of you know this girl, know how amazing she is or know the first thing about her. She's the last person you could accuse of being up her own arse!!"
And does anyone know the OP.. but its ok for him to be judged .. kinda proves my point .. just to clarify I wasn't have a dig at her personally just at the sweeping statement that he didn't belong on a swingers site . |
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"I have met people for nights out and drinks. I actually prefer nights like that. They sometimes end with more and sometimes they don’t. I also have guys on fab who are purely my mates who I’d also do this with. Yes fab isn’t a dating site but fab is whatever you want it to be. Am I a swinger? Yes, sometimes. I enjoy clubs and meeting couples. Am I into dating? Yes and no. Every “meet” can differ. Good luck op! x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What a hilarious reaction to a guy making a perfectly normal request. Is there some swingers "rule book" I'm unaware of that says if you're a "real" swinger you can't go out (whatever that entails) for the evening before the shenanigans begin? It seems to be a very regular event these days that if a normal social activity is sought by a member the "date site" card is dealt.
I thought we could have it all or not, as we wished. I'm definitely getting too old.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What a hilarious reaction to a guy making a perfectly normal request. Is there some swingers "rule book" I'm unaware of that says if you're a "real" swinger you can't go out (whatever that entails) for the evening before the shenanigans begin? It seems to be a very regular event these days that if a normal social activity is sought by a member the "date site" card is dealt.
I thought we could have it all or not, as we wished. I'm definitely getting too old. "
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"I have met people for nights out and drinks. I actually prefer nights like that. They sometimes end with more and sometimes they don’t. I also have guys on fab who are purely my mates who I’d also do this with. Yes fab isn’t a dating site but fab is whatever you want it to be. Am I a swinger? Yes, sometimes. I enjoy clubs and meeting couples. Am I into dating? Yes and no. Every “meet” can differ. Good luck op! x"
I think the moral of this thread is, Fab can be and should be whatever you want it to be. You should never feel like you need to justify your reasons for being here.
Hope you find your very own "hot" lady to spoil soon OP. |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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If anyone’s ever tried Pof or any other site the guy has as much chance on here of finding someone. Half of fab seems to be on Pof anyway.
Good luck with your quest. I hope you both have a great time. |
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"Not sure why you are on a swingers site then. Might have better luck on a dating app?
Jigs xx
The guys no proposing marriage .. alot of folk on here do dinner , welllunch ,drinks meets .. just because he is doesnae mean he's looking for a relationship ! .. bit harsh a statement alot of folk find themselves on here for alot of different experiences, no need to dismiss his . well put some very narrow minded people on here,so far up there own arse they can't see properly
Jesus, calm down! It was a suggestion! The lassie simply suggested to try a dating site. Not a single one of you know this girl, know how amazing she is or know the first thing about her. She's the last person you could accuse of being up her own arse!!
And does anyone know the OP.. but its ok for him to be judged .. kinda proves my point .. just to clarify I wasn't have a dig at her personally just at the sweeping statement that he didn't belong on a swingers site . "
The difference is nobody suggested he was up his own arse, simply for making a suggestion.
Let's look at this... ONE female made a SUGGESTION about trying a more conventional dating site... how many people have jumped on here and attacked her for doing so?!
She made a suggestion, that's it. That's all she done. There was no malice behind it. There was no ill intention behind it. She made a suggestion and a ridiculous amount of people have commented underneath, personally ATTACKING her for doing so. She showed respect, and answered a question. Was it the answer you would have given? No. And that's fine, because everyone is different. It's not the answer I would have given, but I think it's ridiculous that from one tiny suggestion that people haven't agreed with, she's been personally attacked.
You don't want varying opinions, on Fab? Don't ask for them. Simple. |
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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago
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Hmmm weird how we are on a swinging site where people regularly arrange socials for the sole purpose of making friends, but a guy wants to take a girl out for a date before having sex with her yet people are needing to have a conversation about it?
I just don't get why the mentality on this website has shifted to being almost accusatory to anyone on the forums who aren't the usual suspects. It feels cliquey and petty, we are all adults here for the same reason, I personally feel like there's no need.
Op could have ended up with a really nice thread but all too often they are being shut down with unhelpful suggestions |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't necessarily agree that the OP was complaining of a lack of success on the site. I think he was just expressing a scenario he might enjoy participating in. I still don't see why that mitigates the suggestion of trying a date site in preference to fab or indeed that this isn't the place for him. I've never thought in all my years here incidentally that anyone has more suitability than another to be a member.
You've vociferously defended your friend however, who I'm sure is indeed a lovely individual but everyone is entitled to interpret posts for themselves. |
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"I don't necessarily agree that the OP was complaining of a lack of success on the site. I think he was just expressing a scenario he might enjoy participating in. I still don't see why that mitigates the suggestion of trying a date site in preference to fab or indeed that this isn't the place for him. I've never thought in all my years here incidentally that anyone has more suitability than another to be a member.
You've vociferously defended your friend however, who I'm sure is indeed a lovely individual but everyone is entitled to interpret posts for themselves. "
Exactly! It's all down to interpretation! Rather than take the lady-person out on a date, I thought the op was possibly a sniper. |
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"Hmmm weird how we are on a swinging site where people regularly arrange socials for the sole purpose of making friends, but a guy wants to take a girl out for a date before having sex with her yet people are needing to have a conversation about it?
I just don't get why the mentality on this website has shifted to being almost accusatory to anyone on the forums who aren't the usual suspects. It feels cliquey and petty, we are all adults here for the same reason, I personally feel like there's no need.
Op could have ended up with a really nice thread but all too often they are being shut down with unhelpful suggestions"
Cliques and the forums. Surely not. Haha! |
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"Not sure why you are on a swingers site then. Might have better luck on a dating app?
Jigs xx
The guys no proposing marriage .. alot of folk on here do dinner , welllunch ,drinks meets .. just because he is doesnae mean he's looking for a relationship ! .. bit harsh a statement alot of folk find themselves on here for alot of different experiences, no need to dismiss his . well put some very narrow minded people on here,so far up there own arse they can't see properly
Jesus, calm down! It was a suggestion! The lassie simply suggested to try a dating site. Not a single one of you know this girl, know how amazing she is or know the first thing about her. She's the last person you could accuse of being up her own arse!!
And does anyone know the OP.. but its ok for him to be judged .. kinda proves my point .. just to clarify I wasn't have a dig at her personally just at the sweeping statement that he didn't belong on a swingers site .
The difference is nobody suggested he was up his own arse, simply for making a suggestion.
Let's look at this... ONE female made a SUGGESTION about trying a more conventional dating site... how many people have jumped on here and attacked her for doing so?!
She made a suggestion, that's it. That's all she done. There was no malice behind it. There was no ill intention behind it. She made a suggestion and a ridiculous amount of people have commented underneath, personally ATTACKING her for doing so. She showed respect, and answered a question. Was it the answer you would have given? No. And that's fine, because everyone is different. It's not the answer I would have given, but I think it's ridiculous that from one tiny suggestion that people haven't agreed with, she's been personally attacked.
You don't want varying opinions, on Fab? Don't ask for them. Simple."
Where did I attack her personally ... I didn't.. I never said she was up her own arse .. that comment came under one I had made .. I believe what I said was that the comment was harsh and dismissive .. I never once attacked her .. seems like because I and many have had a difference of opinion it's seen as an attack when it hasn't been and was never the intention from me .. the way my quote was lumped together with another seems like it was me that said she was up her own arse those words never came from me .. the way I see it the OP stated what he was looking for and it got jumped on .. and I stated single guys get the raw end of the deal on here and that usual meets social,drinks,coffee,dinner meets could be seen as the same thing as dates .. which in my opinion is valid but that's what it is, is my opinion .. I'm no accountable for anyone else's opinions but I do stand by mine . Its a public forum everyone's entitled to their opinion just as everyone's entitled to agree or disagree that doesn't constitute as an attack on someone because there a difference in opinion . |
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