So after being on here a while I realize that there's not much action around this area compared to other parts of the country. Well established swingers seem to have their own little groups with little room for outsiders and a lot of others seem to be wasting time and fantasizing rather than living it out. What I'd like to hopefully find is just a small close knit group of around 6 - 10 people, maybe 2 - 3 females and 4 - 6 males keeping in regular touch in a group chat just having a laugh and getting to know eachother, then arranging a meet up every month or so whenever we all can for a group fun evening. Surely it can't be that difficult can it? If this interests you and you are serious about meeting others then PM me and if there's enough interest then we can try make it happen.
... Long shot I know but maybe this will work |
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"So after being on here a while I realize that there's not much action around this area compared to other parts of the country. Well established swingers seem to have their own little groups with little room for outsiders and a lot of others seem to be wasting time and fantasizing rather than living it out. What I'd like to hopefully find is just a small close knit group of around 6 - 10 people, maybe 2 - 3 females and 4 - 6 males keeping in regular touch in a group chat just having a laugh and getting to know eachother, then arranging a meet up every month or so whenever we all can for a group fun evening. Surely it can't be that difficult can it? If this interests you and you are serious about meeting others then PM me and if there's enough interest then we can try make it happen.
... Long shot I know but maybe this will work"
you clearly have never tried to organise a large group of people to meet on a regular basis lol there are memes about the difficulty |
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I dunno chaps I find there’s plenty of people up here and most are more than happy to chat away. Ive had my fair share of play meets and social chats too. There are some absolutely cracking folk in the NE.
I’d say the little groups that have been mentioned above are only expected and are long friendships built on trust.
On the idea of creating your own groups I think the one attribute to make sure is at the forefront is patience as that’s vital to having any success here. All the best chum  |
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"I dunno chaps I find there’s plenty of people up here and most are more than happy to chat away. Ive had my fair share of play meets and social chats too. There are some absolutely cracking folk in the NE.
I’d say the little groups that have been mentioned above are only expected and are long friendships built on trust.
On the idea of creating your own groups I think the one attribute to make sure is at the forefront is patience as that’s vital to having any success here. All the best chum "
Yeah this is what I'd like to put together, a small group where we all know eachother, become friends and can all trust eachother. Not just a random group of people thrown together for a one off |
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"I dunno chaps I find there’s plenty of people up here and most are more than happy to chat away. Ive had my fair share of play meets and social chats too. There are some absolutely cracking folk in the NE.
I’d say the little groups that have been mentioned above are only expected and are long friendships built on trust.
On the idea of creating your own groups I think the one attribute to make sure is at the forefront is patience as that’s vital to having any success here. All the best chum
Yeah this is what I'd like to put together, a small group where we all know eachother, become friends and can all trust eachother. Not just a random group of people thrown together for a one off"
I'm tentatively interested in the premise of this but I wondered how it would work when it came to the group sex part if there were members of the group I didn't want to have sex with? Would it a prerequisite to join in with everyone? I can imagine it being hard to find 8/9 other people who I'm attracted to and who are attracted to me. Would it be straight group fun or bi? Who decides who's in the group?
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By *ookie69Man
over a year ago
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"I dunno chaps I find there’s plenty of people up here and most are more than happy to chat away. Ive had my fair share of play meets and social chats too. There are some absolutely cracking folk in the NE.
I’d say the little groups that have been mentioned above are only expected and are long friendships built on trust.
On the idea of creating your own groups I think the one attribute to make sure is at the forefront is patience as that’s vital to having any success here. All the best chum
Yeah this is what I'd like to put together, a small group where we all know eachother, become friends and can all trust eachother. Not just a random group of people thrown together for a one off
I'm tentatively interested in the premise of this but I wondered how it would work when it came to the group sex part if there were members of the group I didn't want to have sex with? Would it a prerequisite to join in with everyone? I can imagine it being hard to find 8/9 other people who I'm attracted to and who are attracted to me. Would it be straight group fun or bi? Who decides who's in the group?
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I would presume No means No, therefore you would only participate if it was consenting...Would I be right in saying that?
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"I dunno chaps I find there’s plenty of people up here and most are more than happy to chat away. Ive had my fair share of play meets and social chats too. There are some absolutely cracking folk in the NE.
I’d say the little groups that have been mentioned above are only expected and are long friendships built on trust.
On the idea of creating your own groups I think the one attribute to make sure is at the forefront is patience as that’s vital to having any success here. All the best chum
Yeah this is what I'd like to put together, a small group where we all know eachother, become friends and can all trust eachother. Not just a random group of people thrown together for a one off
I'm tentatively interested in the premise of this but I wondered how it would work when it came to the group sex part if there were members of the group I didn't want to have sex with? Would it a prerequisite to join in with everyone? I can imagine it being hard to find 8/9 other people who I'm attracted to and who are attracted to me. Would it be straight group fun or bi? Who decides who's in the group?
I would presume No means No, therefore you would only participate if it was consenting...Would I be right in saying that?
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I would always assume that as a given anyway! But what happens with dynamics in a group setting such as this if someone isn't attracted to half the group (or half the group aren't attracted to her) |
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"I dunno chaps I find there’s plenty of people up here and most are more than happy to chat away. Ive had my fair share of play meets and social chats too. There are some absolutely cracking folk in the NE.
I’d say the little groups that have been mentioned above are only expected and are long friendships built on trust.
On the idea of creating your own groups I think the one attribute to make sure is at the forefront is patience as that’s vital to having any success here. All the best chum
Yeah this is what I'd like to put together, a small group where we all know eachother, become friends and can all trust eachother. Not just a random group of people thrown together for a one off
I'm tentatively interested in the premise of this but I wondered how it would work when it came to the group sex part if there were members of the group I didn't want to have sex with? Would it a prerequisite to join in with everyone? I can imagine it being hard to find 8/9 other people who I'm attracted to and who are attracted to me. Would it be straight group fun or bi? Who decides who's in the group?
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I guess it would start small, for example you have met a couple of people already, introduce those people to eachother and see if theres something there, if all is happy then you already have like half the numbers, when any of you meets someone new who'd be keen just introduce them to the group and the group decides if their in or not... obviously this is just an idea and don't know if theres a reality of it happening but you don't get if you don't try. As for who straight / bi, who sleeps with who, I think as long as you have a fun friendly open minded group this should be no issue and would work itself out beforehand? |
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By *ookie69Man
over a year ago
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"I dunno chaps I find there’s plenty of people up here and most are more than happy to chat away. Ive had my fair share of play meets and social chats too. There are some absolutely cracking folk in the NE.
I’d say the little groups that have been mentioned above are only expected and are long friendships built on trust.
On the idea of creating your own groups I think the one attribute to make sure is at the forefront is patience as that’s vital to having any success here. All the best chum
Yeah this is what I'd like to put together, a small group where we all know eachother, become friends and can all trust eachother. Not just a random group of people thrown together for a one off
I'm tentatively interested in the premise of this but I wondered how it would work when it came to the group sex part if there were members of the group I didn't want to have sex with? Would it a prerequisite to join in with everyone? I can imagine it being hard to find 8/9 other people who I'm attracted to and who are attracted to me. Would it be straight group fun or bi? Who decides who's in the group?
I would presume No means No, therefore you would only participate if it was consenting...Would I be right in saying that?
I would always assume that as a given anyway! But what happens with dynamics in a group setting such as this if someone isn't attracted to half the group (or half the group aren't attracted to her)"
Dynamics in a group setting..aye see him...he's a big sexy dirty bassa...Am know like that...I just take the jackets in the cloakroom.
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"I dunno chaps I find there’s plenty of people up here and most are more than happy to chat away. Ive had my fair share of play meets and social chats too. There are some absolutely cracking folk in the NE.
I’d say the little groups that have been mentioned above are only expected and are long friendships built on trust.
On the idea of creating your own groups I think the one attribute to make sure is at the forefront is patience as that’s vital to having any success here. All the best chum
Yeah this is what I'd like to put together, a small group where we all know eachother, become friends and can all trust eachother. Not just a random group of people thrown together for a one off
I'm tentatively interested in the premise of this but I wondered how it would work when it came to the group sex part if there were members of the group I didn't want to have sex with? Would it a prerequisite to join in with everyone? I can imagine it being hard to find 8/9 other people who I'm attracted to and who are attracted to me. Would it be straight group fun or bi? Who decides who's in the group?
I guess it would start small, for example you have met a couple of people already, introduce those people to eachother and see if theres something there, if all is happy then you already have like half the numbers, when any of you meets someone new who'd be keen just introduce them to the group and the group decides if their in or not... obviously this is just an idea and don't know if theres a reality of it happening but you don't get if you don't try. As for who straight / bi, who sleeps with who, I think as long as you have a fun friendly open minded group this should be no issue and would work itself out beforehand? "
Aah ok so, I haven't met anyone local (sexually) for quite some time, and I don't meet single guys for mf meets so I won't hold my breath to be invited into the group lol. 
It's a really interesting concept, hope you get it off the ground xxx |
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By *YKellyMan
over a year ago
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"I dunno chaps I find there’s plenty of people up here and most are more than happy to chat away. Ive had my fair share of play meets and social chats too. There are some absolutely cracking folk in the NE.
I’d say the little groups that have been mentioned above are only expected and are long friendships built on trust.
On the idea of creating your own groups I think the one attribute to make sure is at the forefront is patience as that’s vital to having any success here. All the best chum
Yeah this is what I'd like to put together, a small group where we all know eachother, become friends and can all trust eachother. Not just a random group of people thrown together for a one off
I'm tentatively interested in the premise of this but I wondered how it would work when it came to the group sex part if there were members of the group I didn't want to have sex with? Would it a prerequisite to join in with everyone? I can imagine it being hard to find 8/9 other people who I'm attracted to and who are attracted to me. Would it be straight group fun or bi? Who decides who's in the group?
I guess it would start small, for example you have met a couple of people already, introduce those people to eachother and see if theres something there, if all is happy then you already have like half the numbers, when any of you meets someone new who'd be keen just introduce them to the group and the group decides if their in or not... obviously this is just an idea and don't know if theres a reality of it happening but you don't get if you don't try. As for who straight / bi, who sleeps with who, I think as long as you have a fun friendly open minded group this should be no issue and would work itself out beforehand? "
Fair play to anyone willing to put a bit of effort in to helping people hook up. That said what you describe in that last part does not sound like the solution to linking up small groups more like starting your own. Maybe I have the wrong end of the stick. Good luck anyway. |
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