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Age range does it matter
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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*Obviously legal age and all that*
Not sure how everyone feels regarding this but for me if I am attracted to someone the age gap doesn’t really bother me… is the age gap that much of a deal breaker even if your attracted to the person?  
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By (user no longer on site)
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Absolutely it matters, she has to be between 22 and 24 years old only, a virgin , fit as f..., blonde and willing to pay for all dates / meets ect.
Alright I'm not being completely honest , may stretch the age limit up to 25 .
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"Absolutely it matters, she has to be between 22 and 24 years old only, a virgin , fit as f..., blonde and willing to pay for all dates / meets ect.
Alright I'm not being completely honest , may stretch the age limit up to 25 .
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A virgin over the age of 22……that’s optimistic! |
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By *ookie69Man
over a year ago
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"Absolutely it matters, she has to be between 22 and 24 years old only, a virgin , fit as f..., blonde and willing to pay for all dates / meets ect.
Alright I'm not being completely honest , may stretch the age limit up to 25 .
A virgin over the age of 22……that’s optimistic!"
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I used to be very aware of age but as I’m getting older, I’m not prepared to accept that i am 4 years away from being 50. Younger men have become more appealing to me and although my youngest limit is set at 34 if I clicked with someone younger I would not rule them out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I personally wouldn’t meet anyone under the age of 30 although I don’t have an upper age limit. I also like to feel attractive to the person and not like someone’s mother lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It matters to me. I went out with my age range last week and got chatting to a 40 yr old guy. Couldn't get anything out of him, absolutely no conversation at all. Won't be making that mistake again lol x |
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"It matters to me. I went out with my age range last week and got chatting to a 40 yr old guy. Couldn't get anything out of him, absolutely no conversation at all. Won't be making that mistake again lol x"
I met a guy who was 55 like that. Nothing to do with age, just their personality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It matters to me. I went out with my age range last week and got chatting to a 40 yr old guy. Couldn't get anything out of him, absolutely no conversation at all. Won't be making that mistake again lol x
I met a guy who was 55 like that. Nothing to do with age, just their personality."
I agree about the personality part x |
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It matters to me, whilst I'll happily chat to & socialise with people of all ages, I have no desire to have sexual contact with people who are either young enough to be my children or old enough to be my parents.
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"It matters to me. I went out with my age range last week and got chatting to a 40 yr old guy. Couldn't get anything out of him, absolutely no conversation at all. Won't be making that mistake again lol x
I met a guy who was 55 like that. Nothing to do with age, just their personality.
I agree about the personality part x"
Some people you just click with, it's a great feeling.
But it does help to have some common ground that comes with being in roughly the same age range.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It matters to me. I went out with my age range last week and got chatting to a 40 yr old guy. Couldn't get anything out of him, absolutely no conversation at all. Won't be making that mistake again lol x
I met a guy who was 55 like that. Nothing to do with age, just their personality.
I agree about the personality part x
Some people you just click with, it's a great feeling.
But it does help to have some common ground that comes with being in roughly the same age range.
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That's why I do stick to my age filters and age group. We seem to get on better as opposed to someone younger. As Bluebell said, it's all about personality but it also helps if you can talk to each other |
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"It matters to me. I went out with my age range last week and got chatting to a 40 yr old guy. Couldn't get anything out of him, absolutely no conversation at all. Won't be making that mistake again lol x"
I think it's more a personality thing!
I've met a few like ,chatting on here np but face to face it was so awkward .
I've got a friend in their 30s and get on great with but I do prefer guys nearer my own age  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"*Obviously legal age and all that*
Not sure how everyone feels regarding this but for me if I am attracted to someone the age gap doesn’t really bother me… is the age gap that much of a deal breaker even if your attracted to the person?
Interested in people’s thoughts "
Yes, no and fifty shades of who knows … attraction is mysterious and magical. There is no formula although we set out rough guidelines. Never say never…  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It matters to me. I went out with my age range last week and got chatting to a 40 yr old guy. Couldn't get anything out of him, absolutely no conversation at all. Won't be making that mistake again lol xI think it's more a personality thing!
I've met a few like ,chatting on here np but face to face it was so awkward .
I've got a friend in their 30s and get on great with but I do prefer guys nearer my own age "
Same as me Nawty, prefer my own age group, find I get in better with men slightly older than me x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It matters to me. I went out with my age range last week and got chatting to a 40 yr old guy. Couldn't get anything out of him, absolutely no conversation at all. Won't be making that mistake again lol xI think it's more a personality thing!
I've met a few like ,chatting on here np but face to face it was so awkward .
I've got a friend in their 30s and get on great with but I do prefer guys nearer my own age
Same as me Nawty, prefer my own age group, find I get in better with men slightly older than me x"
On! X |
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"It matters to me. I went out with my age range last week and got chatting to a 40 yr old guy. Couldn't get anything out of him, absolutely no conversation at all. Won't be making that mistake again lol xI think it's more a personality thing!
I've met a few like ,chatting on here np but face to face it was so awkward .
I've got a friend in their 30s and get on great with but I do prefer guys nearer my own age
Same as me Nawty, prefer my own age group, find I get in better with men slightly older than me x"
Yeah same |
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"It matters to me. I went out with my age range last week and got chatting to a 40 yr old guy. Couldn't get anything out of him, absolutely no conversation at all. Won't be making that mistake again lol xI think it's more a personality thing!
I've met a few like ,chatting on here np but face to face it was so awkward .
I've got a friend in their 30s and get on great with but I do prefer guys nearer my own age
Same as me Nawty, prefer my own age group, find I get in better with men slightly older than me x
On! X"
Haha, we knew what you meant 
Friends, though, can come in all ages if they're good communicators.
The right words are worth so much but cost nothing.
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"It matters to me. I went out with my age range last week and got chatting to a 40 yr old guy. Couldn't get anything out of him, absolutely no conversation at all. Won't be making that mistake again lol xI think it's more a personality thing!
I've met a few like ,chatting on here np but face to face it was so awkward .
I've got a friend in their 30s and get on great with but I do prefer guys nearer my own age
Same as me Nawty, prefer my own age group, find I get in better with men slightly older than me x
On! X
Haha, we knew what you meant
Friends, though, can come in all ages if they're good communicators.
The right words are worth so much but cost nothing.
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So true ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yep I have the filters set for a reason but that’s not to say if I met the right person I was physically and mentally attracted to I wouldn’t sway a little |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's flexibility of a year or two over or under but that would be all.
Sex with someone the same age as my stepson or father isn't something that excites me. |
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I tend to find that i have much more in common with a younger man than i do with men my own age. That's not to say that i wouldn't meet someone my own age or older but the meets i had on my pre covid profile on here were predominantly around the 10 years younger range x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The age gap doesn't bother me either.
It will bother a few women though as they have the mentality of not meeting guys same age as their kids.
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I don't think it's just that tbh, last thing I'm thinking about on here is my family but if it's too big a gap you gotta wonder about communication compatibility... Fine if its a quick knee trembler you're after but I'd look for someone I can socialise with too so would want someone on similar wavelength re interests etc. |
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"The age gap doesn't bother me either.
It will bother a few women though as they have the mentality of not meeting guys same age as their kids.
I don't think it's just that tbh, last thing I'm thinking about on here is my family but if it's too big a gap you gotta wonder about communication compatibility... Fine if its a quick knee trembler you're after but I'd look for someone I can socialise with too so would want someone on similar wavelength re interests etc. "
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Age to me doesn't matter as much these days as it did when I was in my late teens or early 20's. I have met (not always in a sexual way) people Ladies and men who are in their 30's 40' and older who have the maturity and communication skills of a primary school kid. Likewise I have met teenagers and early 20's men and women who are very mature and possess great communication skills. Any relationship weather it will last a few hours or a lifetime is always better if both sides can communicate openly and honestly with each other. That skill is not always learned irrespective of age, Sometimes It is never learned at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've set a lower age range as I don't expect to have any connection with those younger. I'm not too worried about the upper limit as I'm 56! I have found it frustrating that many of the women who appear in my Local Updates feed have set 55 as their upper limit. I can guess with the number of men on here that every year added it increases the number in their searches by hundreds, so I do understand despite my frustration. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Age to me doesn't matter as much these days as it did when I was in my late teens or early 20's. I have met (not always in a sexual way) people Ladies and men who are in their 30's 40' and older who have the maturity and communication skills of a primary school kid. Likewise I have met teenagers and early 20's men and women who are very mature and possess great communication skills. Any relationship weather it will last a few hours or a lifetime is always better if both sides can communicate openly and honestly with each other. That skill is not always learned irrespective of age, Sometimes It is never learned at all."
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