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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Was chatting with someone the other day, who mentioned in conversation, about me being loud and popular. When actually im quite a shy person. and actually take a while to open up, Has anyone ever misread you, or presumed you to be a certain character, that just wasn't you.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People also assume I'm English/Liverpudlian because of my scouse accent.
They're always surprised to find out I'm Scottish and only lived in England for 1/4 of my life |
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"Was chatting with someone the other day, who mentioned in conversation, about me being loud and popular. When actually im quite a shy person. and actually take a while to open up, Has anyone ever misread you, or presumed you to be a certain character, that just wasn't you. "
Yes.
I met my boyfriend on here. After our first meet he was told by a another lady he met that I was one of the 'undesirables' on here who basically had no standards.
To my knowledge I've never met the woman or even spoken to her.
Luckily he's the type to make up his own mind about people and didn't believe her. He knew I was nothing like she described, and we'll shortly celebrate our 4th anniversary  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’m always finding people have a preconceived idea of who I am and predominantly what you see is what you get with me lol the only thing I’d say some folk have said to me is I can come across as quite intimidating when I’m face im one of the most open and friendly people you’ll meet I just don’t mince my words or suffer fools gladly x p |
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
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"I’m always finding people have a preconceived idea of who I am and predominantly what you see is what you get with me lol the only thing I’d say some folk have said to me is I can come across as quite intimidating when I’m face im one of the most open and friendly people you’ll meet I just don’t mince my words or suffer fools gladly x p"
Concur |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m always finding people have a preconceived idea of who I am and predominantly what you see is what you get with me lol the only thing I’d say some folk have said to me is I can come across as quite intimidating when I’m face im one of the most open and friendly people you’ll meet I just don’t mince my words or suffer fools gladly x p
Concur"
And here’s me thinking you were the quiet type |
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"People are shocked how quiet and reserved I am in the flesh, just hide in a corner and dont speak 
I’m shocked… quiet and reserved pffft "
Aha... but we've never met so you wouldnt know. Ask anyone who has  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People are shocked how quiet and reserved I am in the flesh, just hide in a corner and dont speak
I’m shocked… quiet and reserved pffft
Aha... but we've never met so you wouldnt know. Ask anyone who has "
It was them that told me lolol |
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
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"I’m always finding people have a preconceived idea of who I am and predominantly what you see is what you get with me lol the only thing I’d say some folk have said to me is I can come across as quite intimidating when I’m face im one of the most open and friendly people you’ll meet I just don’t mince my words or suffer fools gladly x p
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And here’s me thinking you were the quiet type "
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"People always seem to think outgoing and confident when I’m the complete opposite. I’ve just mastered the art of bullshit and bravado so people see what I want them to see. "
Yup, that's me too. Spent so many years of mental health issues (thankfully no longer a problem) that it got to the stage I forgot which mask I was hiding behind. |
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